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First time you shared your wife/girlfriend
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"I guess there is a primitive instinct built into males that is different in women. It shows up often in threads in the guise of 'not meeting single blokes' etc... A male wants to breed and spread his DNA so happy not to be so fussy as to where he puts his DNA. He is not happy if someone did it to his partner and he ends up having to look after someone else's, hence the term cuckold (cuckoo explains it). A woman basic instinct is to make sure the man stays around after to look after the offspring, so she likes to be a bit more fussy with who she plays with, hence the harder to get meets. It is also why a woman is more likely to forgive the man than he is to forgive her in any infidelity... Of course the risk of getting pregnant is practically zero now, allowing people to enjoy sex with multiple partners. Only issue now is, are they enjoying sex more with the playmate than with their partner. Interesting film, indecent proposal, cover the above point nicely... Love to all "Actually this is completely the wrong way round,and is based on social convention, not evolutionary biology. The male is "programmed" not the ideal word ,but im getting this in when kids are busy to protect his right to mate with a female from all others...females conceive better with competing sperm,and will choose to mate with as many males as possible.The male shows his strength,intelligence and abilities by fighting off other males, imposing monogamy on the female
Think silver back gorillas, our closest relatives.... | |||
"I guess there is a primitive instinct built into males that is different in women. It shows up often in threads in the guise of 'not meeting single blokes' etc... A male wants to breed and spread his DNA so happy not to be so fussy as to where he puts his DNA. He is not happy if someone did it to his partner and he ends up having to look after someone else's, hence the term cuckold (cuckoo explains it). A woman basic instinct is to make sure the man stays around after to look after the offspring, so she likes to be a bit more fussy with who she plays with, hence the harder to get meets. It is also why a woman is more likely to forgive the man than he is to forgive her in any infidelity... Of course the risk of getting pregnant is practically zero now, allowing people to enjoy sex with multiple partners. Only issue now is, are they enjoying sex more with the playmate than with their partner. Interesting film, indecent proposal, cover the above point nicely... Love to all
Actually this is completely the wrong way round,and is based on social convention, not evolutionary biology.
The male is "programmed" not the ideal word ,but im getting this in when kids are busy to protect his right to mate with a female from all others...females conceive better with competing sperm,and will choose to mate with as many males as possible.The male shows his strength,intelligence and abilities by fighting off other males, imposing monogamy on the female
Think silver back gorillas, our closest relatives...."I'm happy to stay with what I wrote x | |||
"I guess there is a primitive instinct built into males that is different in women. It shows up often in threads in the guise of 'not meeting single blokes' etc... A male wants to breed and spread his DNA so happy not to be so fussy as to where he puts his DNA. He is not happy if someone did it to his partner and he ends up having to look after someone else's, hence the term cuckold (cuckoo explains it). A woman basic instinct is to make sure the man stays around after to look after the offspring, so she likes to be a bit more fussy with who she plays with, hence the harder to get meets. It is also why a woman is more likely to forgive the man than he is to forgive her in any infidelity... Of course the risk of getting pregnant is practically zero now, allowing people to enjoy sex with multiple partners. Only issue now is, are they enjoying sex more with the playmate than with their partner. Interesting film, indecent proposal, cover the above point nicely... Love to all
Actually this is completely the wrong way round,and is based on social convention, not evolutionary biology.
The male is "programmed" not the ideal word ,but im getting this in when kids are busy to protect his right to mate with a female from all others...females conceive better with competing sperm,and will choose to mate with as many males as possible.The male shows his strength,intelligence and abilities by fighting off other males, imposing monogamy on the female
Think silver back gorillas, our closest relatives....
I'm happy to stay with what I wrote x"ok...but its wrong | |||
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" I'm happy to stay with what I wrote x ok...but its wrong "Spot the difference, your trying to correct me, but i'm ok with you having your view x | |||
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"Our first time was awesome, we love watching each getting fucked. A real turn on. "I have to agree with this... Infact so hot think we're going to re-live the experience tonight.... And again tomorrow night... Love it | |||
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"I am glad someone has agreed, because it all seems to be about the women on here. When we meet up with anyone, it is about everyone's pleasure, not just the lady. "Totally - we only ever play when all involved and make this clear before any meets...after all this is swinging, as you say it's not just for the girls to have fun!! | |||
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Jill went to pick him up in reception and they wasted no time once they were back in the room, I was really turned on watching them kissing and playing with each other. When she asked me to pass her a condom I knew she was going to be fucked. Watching her face as she was pleasured by another man was amazing,she asked me to pass her high heels so he could get deeper into her as he fucked her standing up in front of the mirror. So horny just thinking about this, glad we recorded it | |||
"I was absolutely thrilled and elated to start with, then fascinated by seeing Devil's reactions to each thrust - her impassioned expressions from an angle I don't always get to see from. I got to stroke and kiss her hair and help her through each shudder while she looked deep into my eyes and connected with a loving smile - how wonderful is that? Wolf
I was touched by this comment - wonderful indeed
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One of those life experiences I'll happily take the grave! | |||
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"It's a really weird feeling to watch the woman you love being shagged by someone else. I had, and still have every time, a mixed number of feelings. These are excitement, pleasure, pride and jealousy all wound up into one. I think this is all part of swinging, and if you didn't have these feelings, then there would be something wrong. " In my case there was neither pride (I don't understand why pride should come into it at all) nor jealousy, just excitement. | |||
"It was fantastic and extremely horny watching a very well hung guy rolling a condom onto his very stiff cock knowing he was preparing to fuck Helen. Then when he pushed it inside Helen's juicy pussy she orgasmed as soon as he stretched her open!" very very similaar!!!! we had played with a couple of guys at a club and she had handled another guy's cock, but we then met a lovely man and as we all played I told her that I'd was OK if she wanted him to fuck her - will never forget her saying "do you want to fuck me?" - and the moments as he put on a condom and she opened her legs knowing another man was going inside her. I asked him to go slowly at first as he was her first ever swinger fuck and he was very considerate. She too came almost instantly and when he asked her to bend over and started to fuck her hard she loved it!!!!!!!! | |||
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"I genuinely froze and wanted to put a stop to it and didn't... and eventually was the end of my relationship " Sorry to hear that. I have a feeling you're not alone in feeling like that and having that outcome. I've read quite a few posts on the forums where people say 'when my ex and I used to swing together' and I often wonder if swinging was the cause of the break up or whether the relationship was pretty much over so they indulged in swinging to try and fix things. I''m not prying into your situation, just sending my condolences. Mrs X | |||
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After long thoughts we decided to ho for it snd meet a guy for a 3 sum. After a few drinks went upstairs an that was when we were all led on his bed. I led back an watched them 2 get it on Kissing an touching an before I knew it his cock was in her mouth. Then mine was. Takin it turns suckin us both. He then got wrapped up an started fuckin her from behind. My cock instantly got harder, she knew I was liking it as she smiled at me.. an it went from there | |||
"For all the guys out there with a wife/girlfriend who has slept with other men. How did you feel the first time you saw her penetrated by another guy? " Enormously turned on | |||
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"For all the guys out there with a wife/girlfriend who has slept with other men. How did you feel the first time you saw her penetrated by another guy? " I've yet to, but I can't wait, I badly want to see (or hear about) my girlfriend being pleasured by another man (or men). And going on her dirty talk in bed, she can't wait too. | |||
he was an old friend of mine ..so full trust..
the first time he entered her ..she and i were kissing, after we had just finished making waves..
and i felt her body start to quiver | |||
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"she wernt to sure even after he fucked her as she wernt sure how i was feeling ,,,,,till i stuck me rock hard cock in her then she knew " | |||
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"For all the guys out there with a wife/girlfriend who has slept with other men. How did you feel the first time you saw her penetrated by another guy? " Absolutely beautiful ! So erotic and a massive turn on. Hopefully many many more to come. | |||
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"husband was next to me all the way ... we were in a trio (a very capable and skillful man) ... loved watching him watch me eye to eye " Same for us. It's the only way to do it. Even now, I'm always there holding her hand | |||
Not through jealousy, I was in awe of Mrs N. Still a favourite horny memory. | |||
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"husband was next to me all the way ... we were in a trio (a very capable and skillful man) ... loved watching him watch me eye to eye Same for us. It's the only way to do it. Even now, I'm always there holding her hand " | |||
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"I shared my mates wife we had a drink in there's then he put porn on for a laugh he dared us to kiss he opened her legs n put my hand up her nighty then it began lol" Sounds hot, love to hear more ; | |||
"I shared my mates wife we had a drink in there's then he put porn on for a laugh he dared us to kiss he opened her legs n put my hand up her nighty then it began lol Sounds hot, love to hear more ;" I was kissing he took her knickers off I soon had my fingers on her pussy she was soaking both sucking her tits I started tasting her pussy as he watched | |||
"I shared my mates wife we had a drink in there's then he put porn on for a laugh he dared us to kiss he opened her legs n put my hand up her nighty then it began lol Sounds hot, love to hear more ;" what you both doing now x | |||
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"Personally I love watching my OH getting turned on by another guy. For some reason I don’t feel jealous, just excited by the sight of her having fun. The first time was beautiful - I sat watching in our hotel room as she kissed our meet. He undid her shirt, touched her tits, and then she sat on the bed and took his thick cock in her hands, looked over at me to see if I was ok with it, then took him in her mouth. I went over to the bed and watched her suck him and then they kissed and undressed, then she lay back and he put on a condom and slid inside her very wet and willing pussy. The expression on her pretty face, excited, gasping, above all VERY turned on was amazing. It was even more fun when I joined in..." This sounds like a perfect meet. An couple, very much in love, and a lucky guy, enjoying themselves. Well done ???? | |||
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"We had sort of built up to it in a way by soft swapping, However I was nervous and turned on at the sametime, Tbh he didn't last very long "Haha I probably would last long too because you look amazing! A few minutes later however..... | |||
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"Personally I love watching my OH getting turned on by another guy. For some reason I don’t feel jealous, just excited by the sight of her having fun. The first time was beautiful - I sat watching in our hotel room as she kissed our meet. He undid her shirt, touched her tits, and then she sat on the bed and took his thick cock in her hands, looked over at me to see if I was ok with it, then took him in her mouth. I went over to the bed and watched her suck him and then they kissed and undressed, then she lay back and he put on a condom and slid inside her very wet and willing pussy. The expression on her pretty face, excited, gasping, above all VERY turned on was amazing. It was even more fun when I joined in... This sounds like a perfect meet. An couple, very much in love, and a lucky guy, enjoying themselves. Well done ???? " Thank you! Yes, I think we all felt lucky and if anything it brought her and me closer. It was amazing... | |||
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"We had our first threesome mfm while d*unk on a night away. She fucked us both and tbh I was more weirded out by the fact I was not as bothered as I thought I should be. We did not wake up and be upset, we woke up and were horny for each other. It started us on the road to becoming swingers." That sounds like an amazing experience! Great stuff! I have to admit, I wish I was the lucky guy joining you for that wild night! 🔥 | |||
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"Thought she enjoyed it a bit too much." How could she enjoy it to much? | |||
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"It was after a d*unken night. It wasn't planned at all but a guy ended up coming home with us. Seeing him in her for the first time was the hottest thing ice ever seen." That sounds like an unforgettable night! It's crazy how spontaneous moments can turn into such intense experiences. Watching someone else with your partner can definitely be a huge rush. I can see why you'd want that kind of pub vibe close to home! Did you guys talk about it afterward? | |||
"First time I shared my partner was amazing a proper mixed bag of feelings but was so horny watching her I love watching her enjoy herself and I’m more than happy to share and just watch her " I would love to have some fun with you both x | |||
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"For all the guys out there with a wife/girlfriend who has slept with other men. How did you feel the first time you saw her penetrated by another guy? " Our first club visit was in abfab. It was great to see mrs exploring and enjoying this world. Our second visit was to a private gb party in London. We both really enjoyed it.😈 | |||
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