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Why haven't they suspended the user.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was approached by a man who said he liked taboo and would I play a part in it and when I said what kind of taboo he said under age. I felt sick as someone who has been through this. So I reported user, his profile is still up, was suspended for a bit but he is online now. What if he succeeds and he finds someone to meet on fab that has children surely his profile shouldn't be allowed to remain

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By *VxrMan over a year ago

Newton le Willows

Report again maybe or contact admim direct.....not really sure how it works but must be worth a try

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Can't report him again babes I tried that and he has blocked me now. Just sickens me.

It's not just if he poses a risk, people like that messaging us girls and say absolutely anything they like no matter how sick and it makes it an unpleasant place to be sometimes. It's sad.

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By *VxrMan over a year ago

Newton le Willows

Ah of course, should've thought about him blocking you.

It's sad & scary too that they think they can get away with it, sick f*cks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who is this sicko

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi lovely. You can still report user if they have blocked. Just tap on their profile. The menu button will still be available. The report user part is on there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi lovely. You can still report user if they have blocked. Just tap on their profile. The menu button will still be available. The report user part is on there

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I don't want to report you though and you're not blocked anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi lovely. You can still report user if they have blocked. Just tap on their profile. The menu button will still be available. The report user part is on there

I don't want to report you though and you're not blocked anyway "

Phew! Sigh of relief there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi lovely. You can still report user if they have blocked. Just tap on their profile. The menu button will still be available. The report user part is on there

I don't want to report you though and you're not blocked anyway

Phew! Sigh of relief there

"
Noooo that's wind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi lovely. You can still report user if they have blocked. Just tap on their profile. The menu button will still be available. The report user part is on there

I don't want to report you though and you're not blocked anyway

Phew! Sigh of relief there

Noooo that's wind "

Excuse me??? I don't fart

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi lovely. You can still report user if they have blocked. Just tap on their profile. The menu button will still be available. The report user part is on there

I don't want to report you though and you're not blocked anyway

Phew! Sigh of relief there

Noooo that's wind

Excuse me??? I don't fart

"
omg silent but violent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi lovely. You can still report user if they have blocked. Just tap on their profile. The menu button will still be available. The report user part is on there

I don't want to report you though and you're not blocked anyway

Phew! Sigh of relief there

Noooo that's wind

Excuse me??? I don't fart

omg silent but violent "

They never hear it coming

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"I was approached by a man who said he liked taboo and would I play a part in it and when I said what kind of taboo he said under age. I felt sick as someone who has been through this. So I reported user, his profile is still up, was suspended for a bit but he is online now. What if he succeeds and he finds someone to meet on fab that has children surely his profile shouldn't be allowed to remain "

If you reported it admin will have suspended the profile while they investigated the allegations. They would look at any messages in your inboxes as part of that investigation. If you deleted messages then there will be no proof. If admin feel that there is sufficient evidence then they can and do remove people from the site.

Any questions about it would be best directed straight to admin rather than posted on forums. Mods will probably come along and close this soon, after they have shared some advice on what happens when you report.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi lovely. You can still report user if they have blocked. Just tap on their profile. The menu button will still be available. The report user part is on there

I don't want to report you though and you're not blocked anyway

Phew! Sigh of relief there

Noooo that's wind

Excuse me??? I don't fart

omg silent but violent

They never hear it coming

"
it wafts

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By *opman1111Man over a year ago

belfast

My experience is admin don’t get back to you ‘ever’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he's blocked you, how do you know he's online?

If you've reported him and blocked him yourself, why are you stalKing his profile to see if he's still on the site?

I'm interested to know if he "targeted" you because you have children? Did he ask if you'd help him to recruit children?

Or maybe he approached a grown woman and asked if she would be interested in consensual role play? DD/LG is a kink that has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with paedophilia!!! It might not be everyone's cup of tea but doesn't mean anyone is partaking in illegal activity.

There's lots of things that go on on this site that make me feel unwell but I don't get arsey, report the profiles and then whine about it on the forums!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just make a call to 111 and let professionals have a look. It’s to important to let amateur Internet sleuths poke around with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he's blocked you, how do you know he's online?

If you've reported him and blocked him yourself, why are you stalKing his profile to see if he's still on the site?

I'm interested to know if he "targeted" you because you have children? Did he ask if you'd help him to recruit children?

There's lots of things that go on on this site that make me feel unwell but I don't get arsey, report the profiles and then whine about it on the forums! "

I can't imagine anyone being interested in DD/LG wording it in a way that would mention underage. In fact, it's an offence to those who engage In that type of lifestyle/role play. I think the OP has a pretty good idea of the type of question he had. You didn't have the message, so can't make out that what he said was misconstrued. Because that's how it comes across. You've just made an assumption and slated the OP for it. I've had a message like this in the past of someone. It was pretty clear what he was asking. The OP is right to report the profile, if she felt that the content of the message was inappropriate. That's what the report button is for. I think admin would prefer to investigate and be wrong, than have someone with a dangerous taboo as one of their users and potentially have someone put in harm.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"If he's blocked you, how do you know he's online?

If you've reported him and blocked him yourself, why are you stalKing his profile to see if he's still on the site?

I'm interested to know if he "targeted" you because you have children? Did he ask if you'd help him to recruit children?

There's lots of things that go on on this site that make me feel unwell but I don't get arsey, report the profiles and then whine about it on the forums!

Agreed.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

"If he's blocked you, how do you know he's online?

If you've reported him and blocked him yourself, why are you stalKing his profile to see if he's still on the site?

I'm interested to know if he "targeted" you because you have children? Did he ask if you'd help him to recruit children?

There's lots of things that go on on this site that make me feel unwell but I don't get arsey, report the profiles and then whine about it on the forums!

Totally agree. You were right to report OP. Pleaee dont feel bad for reporting and you certainly were not arsey or whiney in your post. If something doesnt feel right then its always best to report rather than just ignore. There are some sick sick individuals out there.

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By *he fab twoCouple over a year ago

brentwood

Underage is not right by any means but what if he asked you dress up as a school girl? That seems exceptsble on here and is a big kink for lots male and female!

So I think it’s his wording that made it seem so bad! But at least he’s contacting adults asking for role play rather than kids and if you close that line of play down then where will he look next?

Before anyone jumps on me not saying the fella is right in the head just thinking logically!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Underage is not right by any means but what if he asked you dress up as a school girl? That seems exceptsble on here and is a big kink for lots male and female!

Before anyone jumps on me not saying the fella is right in the head just thinking logically!

The OP dressing up as an extra from Grange Hill isn’t going to stop someone searching out kids.

Also, that’s quite insulting when you think about it. What next? Women should sleep with men so as they don’t go on to have non consensual sex with other women?

I’m a little bemused why some posters are trying to minimise this.

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By *ara JTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol East

I think you have done all you can reasonably do.

You perceived this user to be a danger, protected yourself from him and reported him.

You cannot be responsible for his actions nor those of any other he contacts.

By posting this, you are alerting others to the danger. All you can do is hope others respond in a similar way to you.

On a site like this, it's inevitable there will be a proportion whose sexual appetite goes beyond the boundaries of others.

Where that causes harm to others, we all have a responsibility to root it out.

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By *uckslut and MCouple over a year ago

Poole

"Just make a call to 111 and let professionals have a look. It’s to important to let amateur Internet sleuths poke around with."

My thoughts exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a big difference between content and intent. The content of this guys message could be read as disagreeable, certainly.

The intent is more difficult to gauge.

Also, without any other context it's very difficult to take a balanced view on.

One person's allegation to the braying mob isn't a fair basis for anything, regardless of its truth value.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try putting a kik addy up ,they'll ban you straight away

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

It is creepy OP when you get a message from someone about something that makes you feel uncomfortable. ..

But unless police search his laptop etc for evidence and actually find something .... illegal ... theres nothing you can do .

Just block and move on... it wont be the last unhinged message you will get unfortunately. .. there are many and varied on here ....use your block button , that's what its there for .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Underage is not right by any means but what if he asked you dress up as a school girl? That seems exceptsble on here and is a big kink for lots male and female!

Before anyone jumps on me not saying the fella is right in the head just thinking logically!

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Might be acceptable to those who have fantasies in that direction ,if a man asks his partner to dress has a school girl ,he s almost certainly turned on by underage girls ,and getting his wife or gf to live out his fantasy,that isn't healthy ,it's having peado thoughts without actually committing the crime

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By *ain n MableWoman over a year ago

Milton Keynes

When you cannot see someone's profile it doesn't necessarily mean they have blocked you, it can also mean their profile has been suspended by Admin.

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Just make a call to 111 and let professionals have a look. It’s to important to let amateur Internet sleuths poke around with.

My thoughts exactly! "

Or 101, which is the police non emergency number. 111 is if you need medical advice...

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

"Ah of course, should've thought about him blocking you.

It's sad & scary too that they think they can get away with it, sick f*cks"

You can still report even if they blocked you. Just click on the menu lines when in their profile. The option to report is still there

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By *opman1111Man over a year ago

belfast

"Try putting a kik addy up ,they'll ban you straight away"

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't report him again babes I tried that and he has blocked me now. Just sickens me.

It's not just if he poses a risk, people like that messaging us girls and say absolutely anything they like no matter how sick and it makes it an unpleasant place to be sometimes. It's sad. "

You can still report him even though he's blocked you

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By *raditionalManMan over a year ago

Manchester

Block him, report him, move on.

There’s lots of strange people on here and we could sit and be offended at many messages, kinks, fetishes etc. I could start a book at some requests I get ha!

Wish people would just use this site for what it’s meant for, swinging and having some fun.

God forbid this individual is some kind of pervert but it likely he’s just another nuisance and wanted a reaction and guess what he’s got it because everyone’s talking about him!

Too many get outraged or offended too easily and then want he world to join them and I question whether this is actually the site for them too.

Anyway, hopefully the pest is blocked, reported or whatever and poses no risk to no one and is sat here reading this laughing his tiny cock off!

I’m off out..... I’m not crossing the road though in case I fall off kerb!

Happy Saturday Fabbers have a naughty weekend.... I am x

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

It can take up to 48 hours for reports to be looked at. I will paste onto the next post what Admin do with reports

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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