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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sooo Just had a msg from a guy who’s outright said he’d pay me for sex and I’m that taken aback it has me wondering what makes him think it’s acceptable?? |
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"Sooo Just had a msg from a guy who’s outright said he’d pay me for sex and I’m that taken aback it has me wondering what makes him think it’s acceptable?? "
The fact is this site is not about prostitution / paid sex, the way it should be. However having lived with an escort for several years, worked with them, had a couple of relationships I have no problem with them. Nice intelligent women mostly, not perfect but who is? I would take it as a compliment, I have deliberately not looked at your profile / photos etc. but I am sure that there is something very attractive about you,(there certainly is to him as he would not be offering you what is probably hard earned money). e probably thinks 'I have no chance with her as a single bloke but I do fancy her.' There are lots of reputable websites out there for paid sex with lovely attractive women,' he should have gone there. Having been paid for sex some 5 or 6 times, I have always felt quite complimented, normally I quite happily do it for free  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They seem to be on the increase. I just block and report. It's totally offensive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They seem to be on the increase. I just block and report. It's totally offensive.
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This! Although had a similar message a day or two ago and saved it before reporting and blocking, he is still on site...will keep checking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sooo Just had a msg from a guy who’s outright said he’d pay me for sex and I’m that taken aback it has me wondering what makes him think it’s acceptable?? "
How much was he offering x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find this a strange one... We offer ourselves up for an encounter with a stranger. yet we can get indignant when someone offers money. Why is this? Does it prostitute ourselves? What does that say about offering ourselves with nothing in return? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The women who do accept payment for sex makes men think it's acceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The women who do accept payment for sex makes men think it's acceptable. "
Shhhh... please leave the truth and common sense out of this conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find this a strange one... We offer ourselves up for an encounter with a stranger. yet we can get indignant when someone offers money. Why is this? Does it prostitute ourselves? What does that say about offering ourselves with nothing in return?"
I've not paid for sex but i imagine the dynamic of the sex might change? expecting the woman to please given hes paid instead of it being equal?
Prostitution is legal in many countries, we seem to be very disgusted by the idea in this country it seems.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm offended no one has offered to pay me for sex!!! Does this mean I look cheap?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed a few couples asking for gifts for the wife lately |
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Wouldn’t be offended just decline politely, so couples have this as a fantasy and some guys too but don’t actually want to go with a prostitute but find the idea a turn on!
If you are one of those couples and find a single guy with same kink you could always role play it out take his money and donate to charity |
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Offering or asking for money is against site rules. Report please.
Admin have said that all reports are acted on either in the form of a warning or partial or full suspension from the site. So profiles you've reported might still show as active |
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