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Does being rich, make you more attractive to women.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
Yeah but an average looking guy would struggle to meet an average looking lady on here. I think it would help to a degree especially if he was generous.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it counts on fab? Well not for me anyway.
I'm attracted to successful people because they have an air about them but that doesn't always mean they're rich |
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over a year ago
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
Only shallow ladies would find a person attractive because they are rich!! I know extremely rich people and apart from one I know that has a bag, they all shit the same and moan and laugh!! |
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Only shallow ladies would find a person attractive because they are rich!! I know extremely rich people and apart from one I know that has a bag, they all shit the same and moan and laugh!! "
Is it a designer bag?  |
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Not to me. I have no idea about people's financial status here. And to be honest, if they start hinting about being generous, solvent, or any of the other words they use to hint at finances/ gifts, I run a mile. No thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone's bank balance does not alter their attractiveness to me "
Even if openly stating you’re rich was to make someone more successful on here, it would most likely be down to the women being attracted to the money not necessarily the man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only shallow ladies would find a person attractive because they are rich!! I know extremely rich people and apart from one I know that has a bag, they all shit the same and moan and laugh!!
Is it a designer bag? "
Defo a Louis Vuitton |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, what a guy has does not impress me tbh, I don't go for flashy types, and someone talking about himself and what he has is off putting.
My previous fwb owned his own company, had offices across Europe..... My current fwb is a builder
Status and money matter not to me, I look at the person, and not his wallet.
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Generally I think so.
I don’t think Melania is with “the Donald” for his good looks and scintillating wit...
On here maybe not so much as it’s (supposedly) a swingers’ site rather than one to meet partners on. Then again quite a few female profiles on here state they want to be “wined and dined” by meets so it’s still a factor.
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I think being rich out in the real world, offers kudos, power and lifestyle, which can influence people. Wealthy folk often have a confidence as well which is attractive to certain women. Where I live there are lots of wealthy middle aged men with absolute worldies for wives who are much younger and higher scoring in aesthetics department, which would substantiate any claim that being rich makes you more attractive. However, on here, the lifestyle people are looking for has already been chosen, and it's non monetary. It's about getting your rocks off. The personality and draw that one develops from having wealth, doesn't really get the opportunity to come to the fore as we look at pictures of people and judge them on their looks, not bank balance. If that was the case peoples avatars would be of material assets and bank statements. |
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
No, once a woman, most women, find out you have a Large Bank account, they wont care about how you look, but, what you can give them. I've seen it time and again. I live my life simply and if I meet a lady, she has no idea what I might have and wont until I deem she deserves to know. I'm not RICH, but, I am very well off. It would be very easy to find a Gold digger. They are everywhere! |
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I let people buy me drinks because it's not worth the argument, but choose something inexpensive and nurse it. Very rarely that might extend to a modest meal together. As long as all parties are clean and we have somewhere clean to do the dirty, I don't care. |
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all "
I've got car blindness so nope that wouldn't make any odds to me.
I'm not motivated by other people's possessions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Until you either mention the fact you are rich or put pics of your "motah" as your profile pic, you could be a Prince or a Pauper on Fab and no-one will know.
However, class will always shine through.
Unless you are a label junkie, no one will know whether the torn jeans you are wearing are £200 designer rips or £4 Primark specials that had a hard life.
However a sharp suit that is clearly tailored, cufflinks because you want to wear them, and making an effort at a meet will surely pay dividends.
Granted, you have to sell yourself well to get that initial meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views
No, once a woman, most women, find out you have a Large Bank account, they wont care about how you look, but, what you can give them. I've seen it time and again. I live my life simply and if I meet a lady, she has no idea what I might have and wont until I deem she deserves to know. I'm not RICH, but, I am very well off. It would be very easy to find a Gold digger. They are everywhere!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it counts on fab? Well not for me anyway.
I'm attracted to successful people because they have an air about them but that doesn't always mean they're rich "
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all
I've got car blindness so nope that wouldn't make any odds to me.
I'm not motivated by other people's possessions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all "
They dont have a roof do they. Would blow all your hair about. A car with a roof please and one that you can get in and out of easily. |
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"And let’s face the facts if someone has a huge bank balance they won’t need to be on fab "
I’m sure about that, especially given the older demographic of the site.
Quite a few middle class couples and singles in their 40s and 50s, living in smart areas of the south east, are on here by the looks of things. |
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all
They dont have a roof do they. Would blow all your hair about. A car with a roof please and one that you can get in and out of easily. "
True that.
Reliant Robin all the way for me. |
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"Maybe not on fab but there’s a huge wealth of evidence of rich appallingly ugly men with absolute stunners so it must work well enough in a proportion!"
well there are bound to be gold diggers but to the normal female i would say not it doesnt  |
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
I either fancy you or I don't.
I'd never change my opinion of someone due to their bank balance.
And if someone is a knob they're still going to be a knob regardless of the money in the bank.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not motivated by how rich someone is more interested if we find each other attractive and that we have a good time.
Have had offers from ‘generous’ men and have turned all of them down. |
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By *mp411Man
over a year ago
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all
They dont have a roof do they. Would blow all your hair about. A car with a roof please and one that you can get in and out of easily.
True that.
Reliant Robin all the way for me."
Ferrari’s have a roof lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all
They dont have a roof do they. Would blow all your hair about. A car with a roof please and one that you can get in and out of easily.
True that.
Reliant Robin all the way for me."
Ah yes. Try and get it to tip on the corners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all
They dont have a roof do they. Would blow all your hair about. A car with a roof please and one that you can get in and out of easily.
True that.
Reliant Robin all the way for me.
Ferrari’s have a roof lol "
You sure |
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By *mp411Man
over a year ago
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all
They dont have a roof do they. Would blow all your hair about. A car with a roof please and one that you can get in and out of easily.
True that.
Reliant Robin all the way for me.
Ferrari’s have a roof lol
You sure "
Pretty sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never felt the need to ask how wealthy someone is, it's not at all relevant to how we will get on or how good the sex would be.
I do however find it a turn off if guys try to boast or use wealth as a way of selling themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never felt the need to ask how wealthy someone is, it's not at all relevant to how we will get on or how good the sex would be.
I do however find it a turn off if guys try to boast or use wealth as a way of selling themselves. "
Agreed.
It happens quite a bit in messgaes here, I’ve politely rejected someone and have had several responses such as “I’m well off, would’ve treated you like a princess” “No money for you then” or “I live in a X bedroom house and drive an X car, your loss”
It’s quite laughable really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never felt the need to ask how wealthy someone is, it's not at all relevant to how we will get on or how good the sex would be.
I do however find it a turn off if guys try to boast or use wealth as a way of selling themselves.
Agreed.
It happens quite a bit in messgaes here, I’ve politely rejected someone and have had several responses such as “I’m well off, would’ve treated you like a princess” “No money for you then” or “I live in a X bedroom house and drive an X car, your loss”
It’s quite laughable really. "
You get messages from Wolverine???? |
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"My mum always told me that money doesn't buy happiness.
I like a man to dress smart, be able to hold a conversation and smell good. I don't give a damn what his bank balance is... "
well said! exactly! |
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"I've never felt the need to ask how wealthy someone is, it's not at all relevant to how we will get on or how good the sex would be.
I do however find it a turn off if guys try to boast or use wealth as a way of selling themselves.
Agreed.
It happens quite a bit in messgaes here, I’ve politely rejected someone and have had several responses such as “I’m well off, would’ve treated you like a princess” “No money for you then” or “I live in a X bedroom house and drive an X car, your loss”
It’s quite laughable really. "
Had that too in past
If they are not attractive to me,telling me they have money will not suddenly make me change my mind.
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Tbh if I was looking for a relationship a man with money and average looks would be slightly more appealing than someone that couldn't afford to treat me occasionally, even if he was drop dead gorgeous. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Tbh if I was looking for a relationship a man with money and average looks would be slightly more appealing than someone that couldn't afford to treat me occasionally, even if he was drop dead gorgeous. "
 and they say you can't buy love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No! I am attracted to someone or I am not. Infact, money has put me off some men. I really dislike people that talk about all the money they have or bang on about the massive price tags of their possessions, it is a huge turn off for me  |
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At this stage in my life solvency is a requirement for me in any possible romantic relationship but not necessarily wealth.
I don't have the time or joints to freeze romantically in a garret with a struggling artist.
On fab I don't care about their financial status, they don't haveto go halves on the heating bill. |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
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Lol like this thread.....I did try a little experiment and DID find some were swayed by trappings....
Turned up first meet in very nice car, nice venue...., smart casual attire .... all went well...
Turned up to 2nd meet in what I call normal car..., good venue, smart casual attire...only 1 of the meets wasn't phased....2 asked why the change and remained just socials.. , last 1 just upped and left as had pick of the ocean....and seeking more (whatever that meant) but funny thing was she was the keenest at 1St meet... |
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"And let’s face the facts if someone has a huge bank balance they won’t need to be on fab "
Not true, I've met some very well off guys and couples on the scene. You will find all types of people swinging. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Tbh if I was looking for a relationship a man with money and average looks would be slightly more appealing than someone that couldn't afford to treat me occasionally, even if he was drop dead gorgeous. and they say you can't buy love "
I'm not looking for love, therefore I don't give a hoot what someone I might meet for nsa sex financial status is!! |
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Yes, being rich means you have more time, you can provide a certain type of entertainment and enjoyment.
Being rich in any walk of life helps, but of course, your attitude how you see your richness and attitude is what will make you a happy or a sad person.
Men are hunters, money or sign of wealth is the bait. you will catch/attract more women than the average joe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, being rich means you have more time, you can provide a certain type of entertainment and enjoyment.
Being rich in any walk of life helps, but of course, your attitude how you see your richness and attitude is what will make you a happy or a sad person.
Men are hunters, money or sign of wealth is the bait. you will catch/attract more women than the average joe."
Being unemployed and poor means you have way more free time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is money important when seeking casual sex?
Some women may be tempted with being wined and dined in the finest restaurant, whereas others will feel special because you have sacrifices a significant amount on what you have on a Bargain Bucket for two (with corn on the cob).
Sometimes the rich know the price of everything and the value of nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
Ask Donald trump and Paul Daniels |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all
They dont have a roof do they. Would blow all your hair about. A car with a roof please and one that you can get in and out of easily.
True that.
Reliant Robin all the way for me."
Who was it who said no Del boy jokes to me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always pay half towards any meet, hotel and or dinner/drinks etc in some cases I’ve paid way more than half so a potential meet being wealthy doesn’t make any difference to me |
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I can only answer for myself, but I’ve never asked what someone earns. I’ve also had experiences where I have met guys I haven’t wanted to date and they’ve told me how much they earn... I still didn’t date them. |
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What about the other way around? When you walk the lady back to her car and your jaw drops ? When you notice the very expensive designer handbag , her diamonds glistening or the red sole if her heels  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"What about the other way around? When you walk the lady back to her car and your jaw drops ? When you notice the very expensive designer handbag , her diamonds glistening or the red sole if her heels "
You just think her husband must be well off then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My mum always told me that money doesn't buy happiness.
I like a man to dress smart, be able to hold a conversation and smell good. I don't give a damn what his bank balance is...
well said! exactly! "
May dress smart hold a conversation and smell good...but his bank balance is shit so how did he afford the smart dress and the expensive aftershave?? Maybe he is a gigolo and got his women to pay for it all...they exist |
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If you search the internet, there is a guy who secretly films himself asking women out on the street.... they turn him down.
He then goes over to a top of the range supercar, and gets in..... funnily enough some women suddenly want to know more about him lol!
One woman even tries to chat him up (after initially turning him down) despite her boyfriend being a few feet away.  |
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
How would anyone know you were rich and successful unless you told them ?
And how crass would it be to have to rely on that or even tell people ? |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
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I think sometimes that's why I enjoy going along to a club and just chatting to the people in there.
As you are enjoying the company of the person / people you are with and are 'making judgement' as such on how you get along with them.
Not about what they do or how much money they have.
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I remember being in a club with a friend, and the couple we were talking too made a big deal about how much money he had spent on her shoes and bag etc.
I'm not here to judge you on materialistic things, and with them constantly going on about it.
They become more and more unattractive and not someone we wanted to spend any more time with.
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I personally view this as a lot of fun with different people I click and connect with.
I'm not going to start adding to my profile how much I earn or don't earn.
And if someone during messages or conversation asked me how much I earned? then I would leave it and not continue the conversations.
I appreciate that different people take different things from here and what they are look for.
But for me, it's connections not material wealth that will drive my desire to know more about someone.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all "
..but to get to that stage you would have found them attractive in the first place.
If I received a random message along those lines and I found him attractive physically I would not be interested as I would think the guy was full of himself which is unattractive.
I have had fwb's in the past who turned up in expensive cars. The one a Masarati (spelt wrong I know) and the other a Austin Martin. I did not know in advance in either case.
I will be honest and say at the time I found it enjoyable but I don't think either became more physically attractive to me......
The Austin Martin was hopeless for nooky in the back but I loved the Masarati.....you pressed a button and screens came up all around the back seat.
It was great....if only the car had some solution to the interupting sheep that decided to sit outside going "bah bah" every bloody few minutes....
Happy memories which I will admit are probably fonder to me than other meets due in part to the cars....it all adds to a great experience but I would not have wanted to marry either man because of his wealth....
I don't think it makes me shallow because I enjoyed their cars...I never wanted anything financially from them and I never knew about the cars when deciding to meet either man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My mum always told me that money doesn't buy happiness.
I like a man to dress smart, be able to hold a conversation and smell good. I don't give a damn what his bank balance is...
well said! exactly!
May dress smart hold a conversation and smell good...but his bank balance is shit so how did he afford the smart dress and the expensive aftershave?? Maybe he is a gigolo and got his women to pay for it all...they exist"
Oh come on....you can dress smart and smell good without it costing a lot.
No one said an Armani suit....nor expensive aftershave...
Personally I find most Lynx deodorant's to be be the most devine smell....
We sell them at work for a quid!!!!! |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
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"So if a potential meet agreed to pick you up in a Ferrari it wouldn’t sway you at all
..but to get to that stage you would have found them attractive in the first place.
If I received a random message along those lines and I found him attractive physically I would not be interested as I would think the guy was full of himself which is unattractive.
I have had fwb's in the past who turned up in expensive cars. The one a Masarati (spelt wrong I know) and the other a Austin Martin. I did not know in advance in either case.
I will be honest and say at the time I found it enjoyable but I don't think either became more physically attractive to me......
The Austin Martin was hopeless for nooky in the back but I loved the Masarati.....you pressed a button and screens came up all around the back seat.
It was great....if only the car had some solution to the interupting sheep that decided to sit outside going "bah bah" every bloody few minutes....
Happy memories which I will admit are probably fonder to me than other meets due in part to the cars....it all adds to a great experience but I would not have wanted to marry either man because of his wealth....
I don't think it makes me shallow because I enjoyed their cars...I never wanted anything financially from them and I never knew about the cars when deciding to meet either man."
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Great response.
And I agree, it doesn't make you shallow because you enjoyed the benefits of something they had that you didn't know about.
That just makes it an added bonus, especially if you got the chance to experience something different with these specific cars to remember as the memory to look back on and smile to yourself.
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"My mum always told me that money doesn't buy happiness.
I like a man to dress smart, be able to hold a conversation and smell good. I don't give a damn what his bank balance is...
well said! exactly!
May dress smart hold a conversation and smell good...but his bank balance is shit so how did he afford the smart dress and the expensive aftershave?? Maybe he is a gigolo and got his women to pay for it all...they exist"
Who said it had to be expensive after shave??
There are also other ways of purchasing clothes without spending a fortune... |
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"My mum always told me that money doesn't buy happiness.
I like a man to dress smart, be able to hold a conversation and smell good. I don't give a damn what his bank balance is...
well said! exactly!
May dress smart hold a conversation and smell good...but his bank balance is shit so how did he afford the smart dress and the expensive aftershave?? Maybe he is a gigolo and got his women to pay for it all...they exist
Oh come on....you can dress smart and smell good without it costing a lot.
No one said an Armani suit....nor expensive aftershave...
Personally I find most Lynx deodorant's to be be the most devine smell....
We sell them at work for a quid!!!!!"
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
as hes on fab i would think he wouldn't be looking for a wife, so no, hes not more attractive having money..doesn't make any difference to his sexual preferences right? but then i'm not materialistic anyway
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally I think so.
I don’t think Melania is with “the Donald” for his good looks and scintillating wit...
On here maybe not so much as it’s (supposedly) a swingers’ site rather than one to meet partners on. Then again quite a few female profiles on here state they want to be “wined and dined” by meets so it’s still a factor.
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When looking for a partner the stats say that wealth/power does influence women (much as they might decry it) in the same way that young, symmetrical women statically appeal to men. There has to be some basis for hardwired attraction or sexual reproduction wouldn't work.
On here though women aren't looking for a good father (um, you know what I mean!) so wealth probably plays a smaller role than characteristics more immediately relating to sexual gratification such as hight, looks, size, and to some extent personality. So get a good profile photo! Obviously I don't follow my own advise but I'm a grumpy old git :p
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Nope.
You could be a billionaire but if you don't have a personality then there's no hope.
You cant buy happiness and success does not have a monetary value."
Totally agree with this
But that’s me and there will be some people that are money driven but works both ways I suppose, there must be rich older ladies out there with young hot guys you enjoy a lavish lifestyle so to speak |
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
Honestly no.....
If you put you are a professional in your profile... it turns people off...
So being a rich surgeon, banker , business man , or lawyer has no value on Fab....
Because most wealthy people are professional people.... |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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So long as you handle yourself appropriately I think it can only make you more attractive rather than less attractive if you have money.
It just depends what your attitude is with it, I think.
So to clarify if you have two identical twins with identical personalities, and one had money and one didn't, the one that had money may be more attractive, as he might dress better and keep himself groomed, and be able to afford experiences that the one may not. |
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Just to clear up some myths about the difference between wealthy and poor...
There is no difference except the fact Wealthy people have more material possessions...
Honest to God , I truly believe middle class people are much happier than wealthy people...
My mother always said “ There is a lot of love in a small home “ |
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We like to meet down to earth folk that are good fun and laid back, fuck what there financial standing is!
Someone feeling the need to mention they are professional, have a flash car or whatever is an instant no for us.
And before someone gets the wrong idea, it's not because we're claiming job seekers as we both work and very hard, it's because we find it's irrelevant. |
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""So Mrs Ronaldinho, what first attracted you to the bug eyed, buck toothed, lank haired multi millionaire?" "
Do you remember the Mrs Merton show?
She had Debbie McGee on, the first question was. "So Debbie, what first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?" |
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Who knows what their income is, when looking at exceptionally gorgeous chest and face pics? The beauty of this site is, you have no idea of who is who.... But if stated openly, id question their motives and probably pop myself a few miles away in the opposite direction! Money is of no interest... I earn my own and pay my own bills! What i need and what i get is worked for, not gifted! |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Does being rich and successful, help on fab? For example an average looking guy, who turns up to a meet, would be viewed as more attractive. Interested in people's views "
No and only some sad person would think it would the same goes for rich women too. |
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"And let’s face the facts if someone has a huge bank balance they won’t need to be on fab "
I'm not so sure. As in the real world affluency would probably be more obvious, therefore they'd get plenty of goldiggers and hangers-on purporting to be the opposite?
Whilst neither technically rich, nor poor, but comfortable enough, I'm a pleaser as well as a purveyor of kink when the mood takes me and the thought of someone simply "putting up" with this and "going through the motions" with a hidden agenda is one that I'd find not only non-arousing but actually repulsive. I'd want a woman to be as turned on as I was by the scarlet acts we get up to, so as such even if I was fabulously wealthy I'd probably find myself on Fab with no mention of my monetary value made obvious?
Though I suppose indulging in my helicopter over the Grand Canyon may be quite a buzz, mind.  |
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Rich is a relative word.. to a mercedes driver and bentley driver is rich.. to a person without a car a car owner is rich.
Interesting if responses change when someone says "I got no money" can you pick me up buy drinks and drop me off home" |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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To me money is not the be all end all! As I always say to people..I am not a material girl, my name is not Madonna! I am attracted to a person by ther personality, banter and smile..looks to me are a bonus but when I think about it, blokes I go for do all hav something similar in ther looks. Also..treat people the way u want to be treated urself, its all about keeping it real and not about pleasing others xx |
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To be honest we met on a sugardaddie site... I just wanted to meet men not boys and someone who is successful in what they want knowing how to get it. It's a major attraction for me to have someone who - yes may look rough and ready but bloody intelligent which to me is sooo sexy. I don't find people attractive and have never fancied a man without knowing their mind set. I'm attracted to brains, dominance in business and traditional values of family. My opinion only |
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I dont know about fab, but in real life I think some women do find men more attractive if they think their rich. I drove an old banger of a car for years, never had any females pay attention. Then about 8 months ago I got a very sporty and new BMW. Ive now had quite a lot of attention/flirting at traffic lights and in car parks, especially from the younger females |
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"Ive now had quite a lot of attention/flirting at traffic lights and in car parks, especially from the younger females "
You’re 26? How “young” are these females? Plenty teenagers love a guy with a car, 16 year olds driving around in the Corsa’s of 20+ year old men, I remember!
Still, a BMW isn’t a Bugatti and they could simply be interested in you, but you think it’s because of the car. |
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"Ive now had quite a lot of attention/flirting at traffic lights and in car parks, especially from the younger females
You’re 26? How “young” are these females? Plenty teenagers love a guy with a car, 16 year olds driving around in the Corsa’s of 20+ year old men, I remember!
Still, a BMW isn’t a Bugatti and they could simply be interested in you, but you think it’s because of the car. "
Well, a few have had 'R' plates up, so that would mean more than likely 17/18 etc. Youre right, a BMW isnt a Bugatti. I believe the car helps a lot, on my own Im not the best looking Thats probably why I bought it  |
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""So Mrs Ronaldinho, what first attracted you to the bug eyed, buck toothed, lank haired multi millionaire?"
Do you remember the Mrs Merton show?
She had Debbie McGee on, the first question was. "So Debbie, what first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?""
Remember watching the show, I cringed whereas Debbie smiled sweetly.. |
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"Ive now had quite a lot of attention/flirting at traffic lights and in car parks, especially from the younger females
You’re 26? How “young” are these females? Plenty teenagers love a guy with a car, 16 year olds driving around in the Corsa’s of 20+ year old men, I remember!
Still, a BMW isn’t a Bugatti and they could simply be interested in you, but you think it’s because of the car.
Well, a few have had 'R' plates up, so that would mean more than likely 17/18 etc. Youre right, a BMW isnt a Bugatti. I believe the car helps a lot, on my own Im not the best looking Thats probably why I bought it "
Since when has a BMW made anything or anyone attractive?
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"Ive now had quite a lot of attention/flirting at traffic lights and in car parks, especially from the younger females
You’re 26? How “young” are these females? Plenty teenagers love a guy with a car, 16 year olds driving around in the Corsa’s of 20+ year old men, I remember!
Still, a BMW isn’t a Bugatti and they could simply be interested in you, but you think it’s because of the car.
Well, a few have had 'R' plates up, so that would mean more than likely 17/18 etc. Youre right, a BMW isnt a Bugatti. I believe the car helps a lot, on my own Im not the best looking Thats probably why I bought it
Since when has a BMW made anything or anyone attractive?
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For you, never obviously. But for others, sometimes. Id find a female more atteactive driving an very sporty expensive car, as opposed to a cheap banger, but thats just me |
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"Ive now had quite a lot of attention/flirting at traffic lights and in car parks, especially from the younger females
You’re 26? How “young” are these females? Plenty teenagers love a guy with a car, 16 year olds driving around in the Corsa’s of 20+ year old men, I remember!
Still, a BMW isn’t a Bugatti and they could simply be interested in you, but you think it’s because of the car.
Well, a few have had 'R' plates up, so that would mean more than likely 17/18 etc. Youre right, a BMW isnt a Bugatti. I believe the car helps a lot, on my own Im not the best looking Thats probably why I bought it
Since when has a BMW made anything or anyone attractive?
For you, never obviously. But for others, sometimes. Id find a female more atteactive driving an very sporty expensive car, as opposed to a cheap banger, but thats just me "
The cheaper banger being the BMW then
The most boring looking cars on the road. |
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"Ive now had quite a lot of attention/flirting at traffic lights and in car parks, especially from the younger females
You’re 26? How “young” are these females? Plenty teenagers love a guy with a car, 16 year olds driving around in the Corsa’s of 20+ year old men, I remember!
Still, a BMW isn’t a Bugatti and they could simply be interested in you, but you think it’s because of the car.
Well, a few have had 'R' plates up, so that would mean more than likely 17/18 etc. Youre right, a BMW isnt a Bugatti. I believe the car helps a lot, on my own Im not the best looking Thats probably why I bought it
Since when has a BMW made anything or anyone attractive?
For you, never obviously. But for others, sometimes. Id find a female more atteactive driving an very sporty expensive car, as opposed to a cheap banger, but thats just me
The cheaper banger being the BMW then
The most boring looking cars on the road."
Boring looking to you, yes. Far from boring looking or driving to others |
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Went to Kew Gardens the other day. At the entrance a flash car pulled up driven by a chauffeur. A trampy looking guy got out of the back accompanied by a very glamorous blonde. I'm thinking money worked for him. |
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Does it make a difference in real life? Undoubtedly.
Does it work on fab? Well everyone will say that it’s all about personality (meaning it’s all about looks!), but the real truth is that everyone knows the difficulty in establishing the type of relationship where you can in fact get your hands on the money. |
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"Most prestige cars are either on finance or a PCP.
Its all smoke and mirrors.
Caviar lifestyle on a Coal miners wages."
Agree re. cars on PCP, very often the case.
Re miners’ wages... I remember chatting to an Australian miner at a rather nice resort in Thailand a few years back. He told me he only worked 4 months of the year and spent the rest of it on holiday.
A bit like offshore oil workers, they earn more than you realise.... |
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"Most prestige cars are either on finance or a PCP.
Its all smoke and mirrors.
Caviar lifestyle on a Coal miners wages."
Hardly anybody buys brand new cars outright anymore, and why would they? Makes sense to get a car on finance or PCP. People can try caviar lifestyle on coal miners wages, but thats not going to last long is it? Spend what you can afford  |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"Does it make a difference in real life? Undoubtedly.
Does it work on fab? Well everyone will say that it’s all about personality (meaning it’s all about looks!), but the real truth is that everyone knows the difficulty in establishing the type of relationship where you can in fact get your hands on the money."
Hey Mr I don’t agree, I have my own money thank you, don’t need anyone else’s or need to know if they have none or plenty, makes no difference especially on fab, why should it matter?
And I also don’t agree on the personality looks comment, personality is massive for me, If I was going to meet Mr Hotpants 2018 and his personality sucked it would be a no go from me! |
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""So Mrs Ronaldinho, what first attracted you to the bug eyed, buck toothed, lank haired multi millionaire?"
Do you remember the Mrs Merton show?
She had Debbie McGee on, the first question was. "So Debbie, what first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?"
Remember watching the show, I cringed whereas Debbie smiled sweetly.."
Total professional |
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"Most prestige cars are either on finance or a PCP.
Its all smoke and mirrors.
Caviar lifestyle on a Coal miners wages.
Hardly anybody buys brand new cars outright anymore, and why would they? Makes sense to get a car on finance or PCP. People can try caviar lifestyle on coal miners wages, but thats not going to last long is it? Spend what you can afford "
Agree entirely, why would anybody buy a brand new car for their personal vehicle when you lose 20% the second you drive it away.
As for the comment on finance, that's why we are in the austerity that we are after the last labour government led the way on spending money that we didn't have.
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"Most prestige cars are either on finance or a PCP.
Its all smoke and mirrors.
Caviar lifestyle on a Coal miners wages.
Hardly anybody buys brand new cars outright anymore, and why would they? Makes sense to get a car on finance or PCP. People can try caviar lifestyle on coal miners wages, but thats not going to last long is it? Spend what you can afford
Agree entirely, why would anybody buy a brand new car for their personal vehicle when you lose 20% the second you drive it away.
As for the comment on finance, that's why we are in the austerity that we are after the last labour government led the way on spending money that we didn't have.
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m and m are you living the life of luxury, fast cars and glitzy holidays |
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"Most prestige cars are either on finance or a PCP.
Its all smoke and mirrors.
Caviar lifestyle on a Coal miners wages.
Hardly anybody buys brand new cars outright anymore, and why would they? Makes sense to get a car on finance or PCP. People can try caviar lifestyle on coal miners wages, but thats not going to last long is it? Spend what you can afford
Agree entirely, why would anybody buy a brand new car for their personal vehicle when you lose 20% the second you drive it away.
As for the comment on finance, that's why we are in the austerity that we are after the last labour government led the way on spending money that we didn't have.
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Everything else being equal, it will be cheaper to buy a car with cash than it would be be to borrow money to buy it. You will be paying more in interest to borrow over 3 years than you would earn on the same amount if it was sitting in the bank.
Few people have £30-40k lying about to splurge on a car, but many can afford a £300-400 month PCP payment. This is why driving a high value car doesn’t necessarily imply wealth.
If you’re concerned about depreciation you shouldn’t be buying a new car in the first place (with a few exotic exceptions). |
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"Most prestige cars are either on finance or a PCP.
Its all smoke and mirrors.
Caviar lifestyle on a Coal miners wages.
Hardly anybody buys brand new cars outright anymore, and why would they? Makes sense to get a car on finance or PCP. People can try caviar lifestyle on coal miners wages, but thats not going to last long is it? Spend what you can afford
Agree entirely, why would anybody buy a brand new car for their personal vehicle when you lose 20% the second you drive it away.
As for the comment on finance, that's why we are in the austerity that we are after the last labour government led the way on spending money that we didn't have.
m and m are you living the life of luxury, fast cars and glitzy holidays "
We own 3 cars and enjoy a nice lifestyle as we own our own company but would never buy a brand new vehicle as it doesn't make sense financially.
Our motto, if we cant buy it outright, we don't buy it.
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"I don't think it counts on fab? Well not for me anyway.
I'm attracted to successful people because they have an air about them but that doesn't always mean they're rich "
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head |
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"Does it make a difference in real life? Undoubtedly.
Does it work on fab? Well everyone will say that it’s all about personality (meaning it’s all about looks!), but the real truth is that everyone knows the difficulty in establishing the type of relationship where you can in fact get your hands on the money.
Hey Mr I don’t agree, I have my own money thank you, don’t need anyone else’s or need to know if they have none or plenty, makes no difference especially on fab, why should it matter?
And I also don’t agree on the personality looks comment, personality is massive for me, If I was going to meet Mr Hotpants 2018 and his personality sucked it would be a no go from me! "
I think my comments were a generalisation and meant to be taken somewhat lightheartedly. But, that does not mean that I don’t stand by them in the broadest terms.
There are many examples already given on this thread where (usually) men seem to be able to ‘bat above an average’ when it’s well known that they have a bit in the bank. We have already listed American presidents and footballers, but I’d add to that champions of industry (Bernie Eccleston anyone?) and rockstars (Rod Stewart perhaps?). I’m not denying that these people also have a certain charisma and confidence which may be deemed a part of their overall attractiveness in addition to their wealth.
On Fab though, I said that I don’t think men are quite as likely to attract women through wealth alone, as most people are not looking for the type of long term relationship where financial situations are likely to be a consideration. The previous posters have mentioned guys with a bit of wedge but this is equally as likely to apply to women, and it’s lovely to hear that you personally at least, are doing ok for yourself.
For me, well at least I consider myself mildly attractive and I hope that translates to the aura I give off to people in general as well as on a website. I can take some consolation from the fact that my mum agrees, even if she is the only one.
Cash wise, I’m not on the bread line either, but I’ve learnt to find enjoyment in the simplest of things, and I don’t think I’d like the stuff I choose anymore even if it were encrusted with rubies.
I don’t agree with some of your comments though. If we accept this is a website where people aren’t as likely to be as attracted by money, then what? I think if you’re honest looks are far more important than you’d like to admit. I can remember times where I’ve been chatting to people for ages, before asking what would make them decide whether they wanted to meet or not. One answer depended not upon anything less superficial than the length of my magnificent beard! Perhaps that is the type of scenario you’ve encountered yourself... |
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"Most prestige cars are either on finance or a PCP.
Its all smoke and mirrors.
Caviar lifestyle on a Coal miners wages.
Hardly anybody buys brand new cars outright anymore, and why would they? Makes sense to get a car on finance or PCP. People can try caviar lifestyle on coal miners wages, but thats not going to last long is it? Spend what you can afford
Agree entirely, why would anybody buy a brand new car for their personal vehicle when you lose 20% the second you drive it away.
As for the comment on finance, that's why we are in the austerity that we are after the last labour government led the way on spending money that we didn't have.
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If people didn't buy a new car, how would anybody ever buy used cars?
I buy a new one every year - sometimes the updated model of whatever I had, sometimes something completely different depending on what mood I'm in. I don't think money makes me more attractive, but it sure makes dates a lot more fun! |
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"Went to Kew Gardens the other day. At the entrance a flash car pulled up driven by a chauffeur. A trampy looking guy got out of the back accompanied by a very glamorous blonde. I'm thinking money worked for him."
What other option does he have? Who should he be accompanied by, either way, he loses. |
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"Most prestige cars are either on finance or a PCP.
Its all smoke and mirrors.
Caviar lifestyle on a Coal miners wages.
Hardly anybody buys brand new cars outright anymore, and why would they? Makes sense to get a car on finance or PCP. People can try caviar lifestyle on coal miners wages, but thats not going to last long is it? Spend what you can afford
Agree entirely, why would anybody buy a brand new car for their personal vehicle when you lose 20% the second you drive it away.
As for the comment on finance, that's why we are in the austerity that we are after the last labour government led the way on spending money that we didn't have.
If people didn't buy a new car, how would anybody ever buy used cars?
I buy a new one every year - sometimes the updated model of whatever I had, sometimes something completely different depending on what mood I'm in. I don't think money makes me more attractive, but it sure makes dates a lot more fun!"
Sorry to contradict but a PCP or a lease car becomes a used car once it goes back ,,,, and then possibly sold on through the auctions . As for people buying new cars . People can buy them as tax write offs as I have often done |
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"Would money make you a better fuck ?
We think not "
Google “rich men women orgasm”.
Researchers say women orgasm more with richer men. Don’t shoot the messenger. we’re just citing research. |
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