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It does to me, I want someone I can hold a conversation with and that's easier with people closer to my own age with common experiences, and I want someone with plenty of stamina who I find attractive. Not saying that rules out every guy below and above my age range but it helps filter numbers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does to me, I want someone I can hold a conversation with and that's easier with people closer to my own age with common experiences, and I want someone with plenty of stamina who I find attractive. Not saying that rules out every guy below and above my age range but it helps filter numbers. "
25-50 is a good age range I think
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't matter as much as it does for a relationship, but it still has relevance. I have my age filters set for the ages I'm interested in, but they aren't set in stone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a case of you like what you like... an emotional mature 20s something is hot as is a kinky 70s plus... as long as there is a physical and friendly connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does to us x 25-55 an even better age range
Our age preference is just a guide really, but it’s unlikely we would meet anyone younger x "
exactly no need, the best sex is with those that are confident and that comes with experience |
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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago
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It should not matter in a purely hedonistic way but yes if your after a relationship.
There are so many vain people in here, wait till they hit 50 and they realise the filters they had are then set against them!! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter as much as it does for a relationship, but it still has relevance. I have my age filters set for the ages I'm interested in, but they aren't set in stone "
Almost word for word what I'm thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately I feel that a lot of people my age put us in a bad spot as I know a lot of twats myself. Doesn't help me at all as people ignore me before trying to get to know me |
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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago
where ever |
"It does to me, I want someone I can hold a conversation with and that's easier with people closer to my own age with common experiences, and I want someone with plenty of stamina who I find attractive. Not saying that rules out every guy below and above my age range but it helps filter numbers. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to prefer guys below 35, however, there are always exceptions to the rules. For my sanity though, when I am actively looking for new male playmates then my filters are strictly set to under 35s as I can't be arsed to deal with the extra messages, mostly from guys I don't fancy. If I happen to find a guy I like that is over that limit then I will contact him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should not matter in a purely hedonistic way but yes if your after a relationship.
There are so many vain people in here, wait till they hit 50 and they realise the filters they had are then set against them!! Lol. "
It’s vain to have a preference now?
But let me guess, if someone’s preference included your age and not someone younger you wouldn’t have a problem right?
It seems to me some only have a problem with preference when it excludes them.
Nothing wrong with having any preference. |
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"Yes to me it does. I have a child in their twenties and I wouldn’t be comfortable at all meeting someone their age. "
We have both minimum and upper ages minimum is due to same as yours upper is less rigid would meet if they attracted whats your upper limit and why? |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"It matters to some, which is why so many lie about their age "
This is true. I’ve had a couple of meets where people (and their photos) say they are a certain age, but when meeting in person they are at least 10 years older...  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"If it’s just pleasure and not a relationship should age matter "
if you think age really doesn't matter... since you have 18 to 99 on your profile... would you really have sex with a 98 yr old?
i'll sit back and listen?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately for most age does matter! In my eyes it is just a number and holds no real representation of what a person is like but to others it puts them off!
Makes it difficult when you are attracted to women older than yourself as most aren’t interested  |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
We met a girl in a club not so long ago. She had just turned 50 and was feeling sorry for herself. She is absolutely stunning by the way people. We found we got on very well and the conversation flowed. When we got home we went to message her to say what a great chat we had and was lovely to meet her. We couldn't message as we are out of her age limit. We are 52 and she is 50. Hey ho no doubt at some point we will bump into her again. Saying that though she mustn't have liked us as she didn't message us to say it was good to meet us so probably didn't like us. Fab is a fickle thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At swingers clubs I never ask someone their age, if your attracted to each other and are getting along then that is all that matters to go off to a room and have sex.
I tend to agree with you that for sex, age does not really matter, it's attraction that matters, but for a relationship it certainly would. I cannot see a relationship lasting with a significant age difference. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
Some of the best sex I've had was with blokes much older and much younger than me so age is relative. It's also situational. In an intense group session age, looks all get blurred and the sex is all that matters. In most other situations for me it's the mental connection that leads to great sex irrespective of age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think so as long as both parties fancy each other. Last club visit we attended I had a woman 30 years younger ... she was 25 and I 55 ... and I don’t remember her complaining "
But you have an age filter set at 26-70, so surely to have an age filter it matters somewhat to you? |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"If it’s just pleasure and not a relationship should age matter "
If it's just pleasure then... yeah age still does matter.
We'd feel totally creeped out fucking people of a certain generations (both older and younger) so that would NOT be pleasurable for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I heard you crumble to dust past 42...
Do I look like dust to you.... 
A tad more lively I would say
Or am I a figment of your imagination.... "
Careful, I have a very dirty imagination  |
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"Yes to me it does. I have a child in their twenties and I wouldn’t be comfortable at all meeting someone their age. "
You wait until your children are in their 30’s and your oldest grandchild is 15! I dropped that rule fast as it didn’t leave me with much form the small pot of men who actually meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age... is but a number.
Obviously, there is the legal age to consider and I’m assuming we are all on board with that? Okay, so...
Age and how it impacts physically on a person is not consistent to be a meter in its own right. A heavy smoking, hard drinking and poor lifestyle person at 50 wont be in better condition than a non smoking, clean living gym bunny of the same age. It is but a number.
I wouldn’t approach a woman who was technically young enough to be my daughter. I would avoid teenagers for this reason. If I was approached by ladies in their twenties and up, then thank you. I have no upper limit.
There are far to many factors and attributes to use age and age alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
Too young I'd feel like his mum.
Too old is feel like his daughter.
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Have to agree with this! Anyone in their 20s just seems too young!...too close to my sons age which just feels all kinds of wrong! Nice to look at on here tho!! |
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