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Husband has said I can..do I?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would go for it if he's 100% fine with it but maybe do a social meet first with them where mr is their and he can then say yes or no if he thinks somethings not right with that person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
Unsure "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
Unsure "
if you are going to do it you may as well do it proper, all night job I would say |
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"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
Unsure "
You only live once 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't do overnight for a first meet...
An hour would be sufficient if new to that scene x
You have reasons to be unsure. Talk them through with your partner.
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
Unsure "
Would this be happening before or after you give birth? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
Unsure "
If this is something you'd like to do then do it, will he be meeting others on his own too? If so will you be comfortable with that?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always be safe. Most important thing.
Talk to the people that you like and see what develop.
Then once your comfortable, and your husband has also spoken to the guy arrange what is right for you.
If you do the over night thing I'd recommend speaking to hubby on the phone while awsy so he knows your fine.
Guy shouldn't have a problem with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your asking on here, you have doubts, if you have doubts don't do it, simple "
Generally this. Talk it over some more, sleep on it and see if your subconscious gives it up. Brains being what they are (unreliable!) it might not in which case you'll either have to find out by trying or play it safe and possibly never know. Apparently making a list before your go to sleep is a good prompt for you brain to work on the subject overnight so maybe try listing your concerns (actually write them down) and see how you feel in the morning 
Mike xx |
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Tell you have.... When you havnt
See how the reaction goes
Sometimes these things are a better idea at the time than they realy are..... Before you know it it'll be OK for Mr to sleep around because you did.
Sounds pretty unhealthy for the relationship to me tbh.
All for what?.. Sake of a shag? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about a club trip; you have the social side where you can meet like minded people in a pressure free environment and you have play areas should you wish.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
Unsure "
This is how we do it OP, we don’t really play much with couples but we do have 3sums.
We both play alone and it works well for us.
Took us a while to realise this is how we like to play, but I can tell you we haven’t looked back.
Mrsk x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find what works for both of you...do you want to meet a single guy/girl and then take pics/videos and send them? Or show him afterwards or tell him all about it.
Talk about what you want from it...and if you both agree then do it.
Your pics are stunning, I’m sure you’ll be able to take your pick from guys...  |
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"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
Unsure "
Anita doesn't need my permission to do anything, and if she wanted to meet someone without me that would be fine... it's completely up to her.
In your case, it's just a matter of whether you want to or not.
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
For us most of the joy of swinging comes from sharing the experience, so we can't really imagine wanting to play on our own. Why not choose w half way house: go to a club, play with whoever you want and let him watch from a distance? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP are you pregnant?
That's a good question  it could change people's replies "
Yes I am
That's not a permanent thing though
Although I have been to clubs and meets while pregnant as the hormones are intense |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"OP are you pregnant?
That's a good question it could change people's replies
Yes I am
That's not a permanent thing though
Although I have been to clubs and meets while pregnant as the hormones are intense "
So you're ok meeting strangers whilst pregnant? |
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"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.
He has said I can meet alone if I want.
He asked what I would do
1st single guy
2 couple
3rd single girl
Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.
Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?
Unsure "
If you decide yes then make it a one off with someone you know to test the water so to speak , only an hour or so and not too far from home, take pictures if able to share with other half ( get permission of course) enjoy yourself xx |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Yes I am. What's your issue? if your husband is up for it go for it ,hotel would be the best thing x meet for a social 1st in the bar "
I would be concerned about my heavily pregnant wife meeting anyone on her own.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm capable as an adult to look after myself.
When we do this I won't be pregnant but I was left alone in Chams in a room with a guy when pregnant a few months back.
Being a woman and pregnant doesn't mean I need him there to protect me.
I've done numerous photo shoots when pregnant without him there. One of them an adult toy shoot |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm capable as an adult to look after myself.
When we do this I won't be pregnant but I was left alone in Chams in a room with a guy when pregnant a few months back.
Being a woman and pregnant doesn't mean I need him there to protect me.
I've done numerous photo shoots when pregnant without him there. One of them an adult toy shoot "
I'm sure you are, have fun and stay safe |
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