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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. "  | |||
"Always confused me this! Granted the majority don’t but what are the reasons plenty of gorgeous women on here have a preference for married rather than single guys? X" Do you mean- those who are married but on here as single adverts? ( we stay away from those!) Or- men who are married and on here with their wives? I adore teasing married men in this way. I love that I am tempting him but his wife feels empowered that he is wanted and he is hers... Mrs P x | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. " | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. "News to me? | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. " | |||
"Always confused me this! Granted the majority don’t but what are the reasons plenty of gorgeous women on here have a preference for married rather than single guys? X" It's not confusing really, if you want nsa then picking somebody who shouldn't get attached to you seems like a good option until of course they do get attached then it's not so problematic | |||
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Come see if your better in bed than the wife you won't be.
Definitely never going to leave her very much in love just sex.
She will join us to if your lucky. | |||
"Married. .. just saying .
Come see if your better in bed than the wife you won't be.
Definitely never going to leave her very much in love just sex.
She will join us to if your lucky. "on my way | |||
"Married. .. just saying .
Come see if your better in bed than the wife you won't be.
Definitely never going to leave her very much in love just sex.
She will join us to if your lucky. on my way "Lol ladies ... | |||
"Married. .. just saying .
Come see if your better in bed than the wife you won't be.
Definitely never going to leave her very much in love just sex.
She will join us to if your lucky. on my way
Lol ladies ..."omg the ladies win again ha | |||
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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. " Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down." Yep | |||
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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. " | |||
"The reason why I did when I was single was that I knew that they wouldn’t get clingy and they took our encounter for what it was. " | |||
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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. " Apart from their mates on a night out  | |||
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"They are less clingy "I hate clingons | |||
"Married. .. just saying .
Come see if your better in bed than the wife you won't be.
Definitely never going to leave her very much in love just sex.
She will join us to if your lucky. "Isn't this how many see it on here, single, couple, married etc. Cheating, non cheating..... just sex. | |||
"They are less clingy "That's not been my experience | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down." Every married guy i know tells their mates about their bit(s) on the side. So the fellas in my life tell me. | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down." Yup. Agree | |||
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"Always confused me this! Granted the majority don’t but what are the reasons plenty of gorgeous women on here have a preference for married rather than single guys? X Do you mean- those who are married but on here as single adverts? ( we stay away from those!) Or- men who are married and on here with their wives? I adore teasing married men in this way. I love that I am tempting him but his wife feels empowered that he is wanted and he is hers... Mrs P x" Absolutely agree with this | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. " | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down." I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting. | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting." you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting." This is the REAL swinging world! | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting.you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings " Lol thought this was the nature of swinging! | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. "This I believe ^^^ | |||
".you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings " I hear what you say but my interest in this lifestyle is limited to superficial encounters with men, I'm not seeking anything more meaningful than that, just as I have no wider expectations on their part either over my emotional well-being, it would be a perilous playground otherwise! | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting.you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings Lol thought this was the nature of swinging! " Me too! | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting.you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings Lol thought this was the nature of swinging! Me too!" This is exactly what it was like when I first started, 20 years ago. It was superficial. I was under no illusions, that I was an extension to someone's already great sex life. It's about sex, nsa sex, no more no less. It shouldn't be emotional, only to the extent of 'the' moment. After that everyone should walk away and get on with the day to day. I'm speaking as someone who saw one couple for 8 years and others between 1-4 years. With other one offs in between. Now, I think it has become much more of a social event. While that may not be a bad thing, as someone said on another post yesterday, it's just sex! | |||
"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting.you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings Lol thought this was the nature of swinging! Me too!" Me three!! In the vanilla world, then yes, girls who target married men are as bad as the cheaters themselves. On here, or in a club, a play partner is just that & I have no interest in their life story. It’s none of my business. A swinger is a swinger and if we click & get on then yes, it’s likely we will play. | |||
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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. " Exactly, it is what it is. | |||
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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting.you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings Lol thought this was the nature of swinging! Me too! Me three!! In the vanilla world, then yes, girls who target married men are as bad as the cheaters themselves. On here, or in a club, a play partner is just that & I have no interest in their life story. It’s none of my business. A swinger is a swinger and if we click & get on then yes, it’s likely we will play." this! I don't want to know about the wife, kids or other, sounds cold but it isn't my problem | |||
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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting.you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings Lol thought this was the nature of swinging! Me too! Me three!! In the vanilla world, then yes, girls who target married men are as bad as the cheaters themselves. On here, or in a club, a play partner is just that & I have no interest in their life story. It’s none of my business. A swinger is a swinger and if we click & get on then yes, it’s likely we will play." yes you're in the neopolitan swinging world I'm in the unrelated to ice-cream cosmopolitan swinging world where I get to know and like the person, you know things like their name and really intimate details like what they like to drink and where they live and omg their telephone numbers sort if intimate | |||
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"I don't see the problem with married men. They are only ever after sex and from someone who doesn't want anything else that's a big plus. They are unlikely to stalk you. There time is limited so if they plan a meet you can be fairly sure they are gonna turn up. " I love you're thinking | |||
" Now, I think it has become much more of a social event. While that may not be a bad thing, as someone said on another post yesterday, it's just sex!" It is what you want it to be, some look to develop a wider social network, others don't. I just don't believe there should be a default 'responsibility to others' mindset unless that's something both parties want from the lifestyle. | |||
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"I've turned down countless married men, I've got to the point where I've organised meets then found out about their spouse and cancelled. I do a fair bit of chatting before I meet, so to me it already feels like they're giving me more attention than their spouse and that doesn't sit well with me at all. That does feel like it's heading into cheating territory because during the messaging there's already a bond of sorts building. In a club it's different. It's more visual and less chat, that person isn't giving me lots of time, getting to know me as a person per se, therefore in my eyes qualifies as more of a fuck than a cheat (from my perspective - I wouldn't feel so guilty knowing I'd fucked a married guy if it was situational shall we say) I appreciate that may not make much sense to some. I just know I'd be devastated if I contributed to destroying someone's life. A lot of people don't care, not their problem, they aren't interested in the personal life of the other party and that's fine as long as they can sleep soundly at night if the worst happened. I've seen first hand what can happen when someone finds out they've been cheated on, and I don't want to play any part in someone wanting to end their own life as the world they believe they lived in was no more than a lie. When the person they trusted more than anyone in the world had been living a double life, the mental damage it can do, well, doesn't bare thinking about. So yeah, I may sound like a hypocrite, but I'd not meet someone who was attached from the site, but I may fuck one in a club as it's less personal and I doubt I'd be asking those questions. " What about if you regularly fucked married men in clubs unwittingly, it's all about if you don't know it doesn't hurt you, is that what you're saying? | |||
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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting." Agreed | |||
"I've turned down countless married men, I've got to the point where I've organised meets then found out about their spouse and cancelled. I do a fair bit of chatting before I meet, so to me it already feels like they're giving me more attention than their spouse and that doesn't sit well with me at all. That does feel like it's heading into cheating territory because during the messaging there's already a bond of sorts building. In a club it's different. It's more visual and less chat, that person isn't giving me lots of time, getting to know me as a person per se, therefore in my eyes qualifies as more of a fuck than a cheat (from my perspective - I wouldn't feel so guilty knowing I'd fucked a married guy if it was situational shall we say) I appreciate that may not make much sense to some. I just know I'd be devastated if I contributed to destroying someone's life. A lot of people don't care, not their problem, they aren't interested in the personal life of the other party and that's fine as long as they can sleep soundly at night if the worst happened. I've seen first hand what can happen when someone finds out they've been cheated on, and I don't want to play any part in someone wanting to end their own life as the world they believe they lived in was no more than a lie. When the person they trusted more than anyone in the world had been living a double life, the mental damage it can do, well, doesn't bare thinking about. So yeah, I may sound like a hypocrite, but I'd not meet someone who was attached from the site, but I may fuck one in a club as it's less personal and I doubt I'd be asking those questions. What about if you regularly fucked married men in clubs unwittingly, it's all about if you don't know it doesn't hurt you, is that what you're saying? " I guess so. It might sound lame but yeah. Situational rather than pre-meditated. | |||
"Personally I’ve found married men nicer and more respectful to be honest. On top of that they’re unlikely to want anything other than fun and friendship which is what I want. I don’t want a relationship. Also, unlike a lot of people on here who just see things as black and white, I don’t tend to judge people. Just my opinion on it "I don't see things as black n white, far from it. I just know it doesn't sit right with me due to my own experiences in life and things I've witnessed. I don't judge those that meet married people, I just couldn't knowingly do it myself. That's down to me and my predisposition to feeling guilty about stuff. | |||
"I've turned down countless married men, I've got to the point where I've organised meets then found out about their spouse and cancelled. I do a fair bit of chatting before I meet, so to me it already feels like they're giving me more attention than their spouse and that doesn't sit well with me at all. That does feel like it's heading into cheating territory because during the messaging there's already a bond of sorts building. In a club it's different. It's more visual and less chat, that person isn't giving me lots of time, getting to know me as a person per se, therefore in my eyes qualifies as more of a fuck than a cheat (from my perspective - I wouldn't feel so guilty knowing I'd fucked a married guy if it was situational shall we say) I appreciate that may not make much sense to some. I just know I'd be devastated if I contributed to destroying someone's life. A lot of people don't care, not their problem, they aren't interested in the personal life of the other party and that's fine as long as they can sleep soundly at night if the worst happened. I've seen first hand what can happen when someone finds out they've been cheated on, and I don't want to play any part in someone wanting to end their own life as the world they believe they lived in was no more than a lie. When the person they trusted more than anyone in the world had been living a double life, the mental damage it can do, well, doesn't bare thinking about. So yeah, I may sound like a hypocrite, but I'd not meet someone who was attached from the site, but I may fuck one in a club as it's less personal and I doubt I'd be asking those questions. What about if you regularly fucked married men in clubs unwittingly, it's all about if you don't know it doesn't hurt you, is that what you're saying? " So it’s ok for a married man to visit a club, but it’s not ok for a woman to play with him?! That makes no sense. It’s the same as my point before. If you’re in a club (as with a vanilla club) you chat about fun stuff, superficial stuff, you laugh & make small talk. You don’t ask them it they’re married, do they have hobbies, what they do for a living, what car they drive etc. They’re in a club, I’m in a club. If we hit it off & there is chemistry then yes, we are likely to play. I don’t think me (or any man, woman or couple) having sex with them is the biggest issue in the marriage. It’s more that they’re in a Swingers club in the first place. | |||
"I've turned down countless married men, I've got to the point where I've organised meets then found out about their spouse and cancelled. I do a fair bit of chatting before I meet, so to me it already feels like they're giving me more attention than their spouse and that doesn't sit well with me at all. That does feel like it's heading into cheating territory because during the messaging there's already a bond of sorts building. In a club it's different. It's more visual and less chat, that person isn't giving me lots of time, getting to know me as a person per se, therefore in my eyes qualifies as more of a fuck than a cheat (from my perspective - I wouldn't feel so guilty knowing I'd fucked a married guy if it was situational shall we say) I appreciate that may not make much sense to some. I just know I'd be devastated if I contributed to destroying someone's life. A lot of people don't care, not their problem, they aren't interested in the personal life of the other party and that's fine as long as they can sleep soundly at night if the worst happened. I've seen first hand what can happen when someone finds out they've been cheated on, and I don't want to play any part in someone wanting to end their own life as the world they believe they lived in was no more than a lie. When the person they trusted more than anyone in the world had been living a double life, the mental damage it can do, well, doesn't bare thinking about. So yeah, I may sound like a hypocrite, but I'd not meet someone who was attached from the site, but I may fuck one in a club as it's less personal and I doubt I'd be asking those questions. What about if you regularly fucked married men in clubs unwittingly, it's all about if you don't know it doesn't hurt you, is that what you're saying? I guess so. It might sound lame but yeah. Situational rather than pre-meditated." I operate life on that premise so I see your point | |||
" Now, I think it has become much more of a social event. While that may not be a bad thing, as someone said on another post yesterday, it's just sex! It is what you want it to be, some look to develop a wider social network, others don't. I just don't believe there should be a default 'responsibility to others' mindset unless that's something both parties want from the lifestyle." I don't disagree with you. What works for one, doesn't for others. It's the diversity of fab. By social I mean, going on 'dates', wining and dining. It seems a crossover from dating to me. It also seems that many go to clubs, use it as a social event without playing. Each to their own, I'm live and let live, no judgement from me. Seeing a couple or single on a regular basis, you do get to know about them, we would always sit, have a cuppa and discuss the week, families etc and again after play. It wasn't just 'fuck and go'. But we all knew why we there. It was what it was. | |||
"I've turned down countless married men, I've got to the point where I've organised meets then found out about their spouse and cancelled. I do a fair bit of chatting before I meet, so to me it already feels like they're giving me more attention than their spouse and that doesn't sit well with me at all. That does feel like it's heading into cheating territory because during the messaging there's already a bond of sorts building. In a club it's different. It's more visual and less chat, that person isn't giving me lots of time, getting to know me as a person per se, therefore in my eyes qualifies as more of a fuck than a cheat (from my perspective - I wouldn't feel so guilty knowing I'd fucked a married guy if it was situational shall we say) I appreciate that may not make much sense to some. I just know I'd be devastated if I contributed to destroying someone's life. A lot of people don't care, not their problem, they aren't interested in the personal life of the other party and that's fine as long as they can sleep soundly at night if the worst happened. I've seen first hand what can happen when someone finds out they've been cheated on, and I don't want to play any part in someone wanting to end their own life as the world they believe they lived in was no more than a lie. When the person they trusted more than anyone in the world had been living a double life, the mental damage it can do, well, doesn't bare thinking about. So yeah, I may sound like a hypocrite, but I'd not meet someone who was attached from the site, but I may fuck one in a club as it's less personal and I doubt I'd be asking those questions. What about if you regularly fucked married men in clubs unwittingly, it's all about if you don't know it doesn't hurt you, is that what you're saying? So it’s ok for a married man to visit a club, but it’s not ok for a woman to play with him?! That makes no sense. It’s the same as my point before. If you’re in a club (as with a vanilla club) you chat about fun stuff, superficial stuff, you laugh & make small talk. You don’t ask them it they’re married, do they have hobbies, what they do for a living, what car they drive etc. They’re in a club, I’m in a club. If we hit it off & there is chemistry then yes, we are likely to play. I don’t think me (or any man, woman or couple) having sex with them is the biggest issue in the marriage. It’s more that they’re in a Swingers club in the first place." That's not what was said at all. What was said is, in a club there's not the level of chat and finding out about them as there is on here, I'm agreeing with you. It's situational. | |||
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"Same for meeting married women. They turn up, want a good fuck and that's it. I've no problems with that as long as that's all it is " Mmmm I love married women who are only after a good time then carry on with their lives....so hot! 
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"Married men are less likely to want any form of commitment, and are less likely to tell anyone. Female logic. The reality is that unless the males partner gives him permission to play, both he and the female he is playing with, are selfish and in my opinion, both not very nice people for potentially turning an innocent persons life upside down. I'm afraid I disagree, as swingers we seek no emotional involvement with the men we meet which to us makes such liaisons different from affairs that take place in vanilla world. The relationship between a husband and wife is a matter for them, whilst we wouldn't want to turn someone's life upside down, we've absolutely no responsibility to them or anyone else we choose to meet here, single, married or co-habiting.you always have a responsibility to people, we are real living beings not to be discarded as sexual playthings Lol thought this was the nature of swinging! Me too! Me three!! In the vanilla world, then yes, girls who target married men are as bad as the cheaters themselves. On here, or in a club, a play partner is just that & I have no interest in their life story. It’s none of my business. A swinger is a swinger and if we click & get on then yes, it’s likely we will play.yes you're in the neopolitan swinging world I'm in the unrelated to ice-cream cosmopolitan swinging world where I get to know and like the person, you know things like their name and really intimate details like what they like to drink and where they live and omg their telephone numbers sort if intimate" I've gotta like them to fk em... Tick Do know their name.. Tick Last married man liked whiskey.... Tick oh and I do have a married man's phone number/WhatsApp. So really Mark, my world and yours is no different
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