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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No offence but why do most cpls prefer bi women more than straight?
Can a lady be bi without any experience? Is it different than bi men?
Pls keep your comments educative rather being judgemental. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I would think one answer, if the woman in a couple is bi themselves, is that they'd be more interested in meeting other likeminded couples where the dynamics and preferences allow for more than just a straight swap between the two halves of the couple, which is what it would potentially be if one of the ladies were straight.
I'd suggest that a lady who is interested in playing with other ladies but has no experience is bi-curious, same as with a man who is interested in playing with men. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"No offence but why do most cpls prefer bi women more than straight?
Can a lady be bi without any experience? Is it different than bi men?
Pls keep your comments educative rather being judgemental."
Probably because a threesome might work better when each person is attracted to the other two. I would suggest that without experience a lady would best be described as bi-curious - but a lot on here are very offended by informative descriptions (labels). No reason for it to be any different for men, just have to be clear on what and who you are looking for, good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No offence but why do most cpls prefer bi women more than straight?
Can a lady be bi without any experience? Is it different than bi men?
Pls keep your comments educative rather being judgemental.
Probably because a threesome might work better when each person is attracted to the other two. I would suggest that without experience a lady would best be described as bi-curious - but a lot on here are very offended by informative descriptions (labels). No reason for it to be any different for men, just have to be clear on what and who you are looking for, good luck "
Thanks.
We are looking for simple straight swap, full or soft but most of them we found only few cpls who have straight in their profile, rest all are bi or bicurious or bi sexual. But saying that, in all meets our boundaries were respected by all fabulous cpls.
We tried bi fem play, didnt float out boat at all. He didnt enjoy watching bifem play and neither she enjoyed performing it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would think one answer, if the woman in a couple is bi themselves, is that they'd be more interested in meeting other likeminded couples where the dynamics and preferences allow for more than just a straight swap between the two halves of the couple, which is what it would potentially be if one of the ladies were straight.
I'd suggest that a lady who is interested in playing with other ladies but has no experience is bi-curious, same as with a man who is interested in playing with men."
We met a cpl where the man was more interested in a bifem more than the lady, who was clearly not experienced and made us thought that is it the hubby who is grooming her to be bi for his own fantasy?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I would think one answer, if the woman in a couple is bi themselves, is that they'd be more interested in meeting other likeminded couples where the dynamics and preferences allow for more than just a straight swap between the two halves of the couple, which is what it would potentially be if one of the ladies were straight.
I'd suggest that a lady who is interested in playing with other ladies but has no experience is bi-curious, same as with a man who is interested in playing with men.
We met a cpl where the man was more interested in a bifem more than the lady, who was clearly not experienced and made us thought that is it the hubby who is grooming her to be bi for his own fantasy?
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Yes there are those where that may be the case - ultimately all you can do is be true to yourselves and what you are looking for and make it clear to any potential meets ahead of time what your boundaries are.
It may rule some people out, but it's better to find the right match than one that has expectations you're not interested in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No offence but why do most cpls prefer bi women more than straight?
Can a lady be bi without any experience? Is it different than bi men?
Pls keep your comments educative rather being judgemental."
We prefer Bifem couples so that Tracy can enjoy a 3some while I watch. Due to the after affects of prostate cancer I can't get an erection at the moment. |
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"No offence but why do most cpls prefer bi women more than straight?
Can a lady be bi without any experience? Is it different than bi men?
Pls keep your comments educative rather being judgemental.
We prefer Bifem couples so that Tracy can enjoy a 3some while I watch. Due to the after affects of prostate cancer I can't get an erection at the moment."
We simply wouldn’t meet a couple where the female was straight . That’s because I prefer not to be under pressure to play , it’s mainly the voyeuristic side that works for me . It’s my wife who plays and she loves it , but unless the other woman is like me and happy to watch , it simply wouldn’t work . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would think one answer, if the woman in a couple is bi themselves, is that they'd be more interested in meeting other likeminded couples where the dynamics and preferences allow for more than just a straight swap between the two halves of the couple, which is what it would potentially be if one of the ladies were straight.
I'd suggest that a lady who is interested in playing with other ladies but has no experience is bi-curious, same as with a man who is interested in playing with men.
We met a cpl where the man was more interested in a bifem more than the lady, who was clearly not experienced and made us thought that is it the hubby who is grooming her to be bi for his own fantasy?
Yes there are those where that may be the case - ultimately all you can do is be true to yourselves and what you are looking for and make it clear to any potential meets ahead of time what your boundaries are.
It may rule some people out, but it's better to find the right match than one that has expectations you're not interested in. "
We have been eliminated by quiet a lot on this issue but i cant understand why some cpls stress more on bifem.
When my Mrs was playing with the other woman, i was checking my phone . Clearly not our cup of tea. |
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Wish there was a biplayful option as I'm not curious as enjoy bit of fem fun, so feels hypocrictical to say straight given the criticism men get on here about lying. We're full swap all the way  it's the male form that really rocks my boat & hubby doesn't get off watching me just with fem - Fi xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No offence but why do most cpls prefer bi women more than straight?
Can a lady be bi without any experience? Is it different than bi men?
Pls keep your comments educative rather being judgemental.
We prefer Bifem couples so that Tracy can enjoy a 3some while I watch. Due to the after affects of prostate cancer I can't get an erection at the moment.
We simply wouldn’t meet a couple where the female was straight . That’s because I prefer not to be under pressure to play , it’s mainly the voyeuristic side that works for me . It’s my wife who plays and she loves it , but unless the other woman is like me and happy to watch , it simply wouldn’t work . "
True,its about voyeuristic pleasure, fair point.
What if Mrs wants to watch her man playing bi for her voyeuristic pleasure? I am just asking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No offence but why do most cpls prefer bi women more than straight?
Can a lady be bi without any experience? Is it different than bi men?
Pls keep your comments educative rather being judgemental.
We prefer Bifem couples so that Tracy can enjoy a 3some while I watch. Due to the after affects of prostate cancer I can't get an erection at the moment."
Fair play.
Got you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No offence but why do most cpls prefer bi women more than straight?
Can a lady be bi without any experience? Is it different than bi men?
Pls keep your comments educative rather being judgemental.
We prefer Bifem couples so that Tracy can enjoy a 3some while I watch. Due to the after affects of prostate cancer I can't get an erection at the moment.
We simply wouldn’t meet a couple where the female was straight . That’s because I prefer not to be under pressure to play , it’s mainly the voyeuristic side that works for me . It’s my wife who plays and she loves it , but unless the other woman is like me and happy to watch , it simply wouldn’t work .
True,its about voyeuristic pleasure, fair point.
What if Mrs wants to watch her man playing bi for her voyeuristic pleasure? I am just asking."
We did this once at a party. Tracy watched me play with another woman. She loved it. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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I have always been attracted to beautiful sexy women, but after my first girl on girl experience at a club about five years ago I realised that I had made the transition from bi-curious to bisexual. I love kissing, touching and feeling a female body, but in playing with another couple I always absolutely respect the other woman's boundaries. We are happy to play with bisexual/bi-curious men as long as they play totally straight and respect our boundaries - most do, but unfortunately some don't and play then stops immediately
Many on Fab complain about labels. I don't - they are essential to help preliminary discussions that set the boundaries. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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What if Mrs wants to watch her man playing bi for her voyeuristic pleasure? I am just asking."
That's the whole point - be clear and informative on what you want and find others that match your choices. The tighter your parameters the harder it will be to find a match - just something you have to accept. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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What if Mrs wants to watch her man playing bi for her voyeuristic pleasure? I am just asking.
That's the whole point - be clear and informative on what you want and find others that match your choices. The tighter your parameters the harder it will be to find a match - just something you have to accept. "
We are clear what we want, after months on Fab just came with this doubt about cpls seeking more bifem cpls.
We are looking for simple straight swap fun, soft or full. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have always been attracted to beautiful sexy women, but after my first girl on girl experience at a club about five years ago I realised that I had made the transition from bi-curious to bisexual. I love kissing, touching and feeling a female body, but in playing with another couple I always absolutely respect the other woman's boundaries. We are happy to play with bisexual/bi-curious men as long as they play totally straight and respect our boundaries - most do, but unfortunately some don't and play then stops immediately
Many on Fab complain about labels. I don't - they are essential to help preliminary discussions that set the boundaries. "
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