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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t find men attractive however I do appreciate a good looking guy and equally a good cock 
I love playing with my bi side and happy with all male contact including kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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I borrow a phrase often used about something else... I would say that if presented with the opportunity in a room, and I feel in the right zone, then I may get involved.
Therefore my chosen phrase is: Recreationally Bi |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out."
I don't feel it has anything to with association's I just don't see what difference it makes in defining your personality, its personal tastes. People who like Marmite don't act any differently to those that don't.
Look at it like this
"I've played football a few times, that doesn't make me a footballer"
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction"
I am this completely.
It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight. |
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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction
I am this completely.
It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight."
I,ll label you
You champion Thread killer ....knew you'd steal the title  |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction
I am this completely.
It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight.
I,ll label you
You champion Thread killer ....knew you'd steal the title "
I've always been the thread killer but for all the wrong reasons
But don't worry it's only a matter of time before someone else posts a very similar point and everyone will have a chance to air their comments all over again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here."
You don't need to admit in front of everyone but you should accept your sexuality.
Does liking and wsnting to play with cocks makes you bi? Yes. Is it wrong? Absolutely not. If you like or you want to try - go for it and don't care what everyone thinks.
You might find a guy you'll find attractive, maybe you're still to discover your type. |
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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction
I am this completely.
It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight.
I,ll label you
You champion Thread killer ....knew you'd steal the title
I've always been the thread killer but for all the wrong reasons
But don't worry it's only a matter of time before someone else posts a very similar point and everyone will have a chance to air their comments all over again"
I was talking to the poster above me mate
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexuality is a scale (the kinsey scale) with straight on one end and gay on the other. And we all exist somewhere on this scale. Nobody can define your sexuality but you.
And its nothing to worry about or something that even needs a definition.
Just be yourself and do whatever or whoever make you happy. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction"
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction
I am this completely.
It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight.
I,ll label you
You champion Thread killer ....knew you'd steal the title
I've always been the thread killer but for all the wrong reasons
But don't worry it's only a matter of time before someone else posts a very similar point and everyone will have a chance to air their comments all over again"
He's actually talking about a specific thread about thread killers. I managed to post the last comment, closing the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here."
I can relate to this... I like the fun time of playing with a cock, but I dint want a relationship with a male.... very happy with the relationship with my wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out."
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out."
To not limit their potential meets. Disrespectful in my opinion because they aren't just kidding themselves. These types are making straight lose it's meaning. |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi. "
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
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Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. To not limit their potential meets. Disrespectful in my opinion because they aren't just kidding themselves. These types are making straight lose it's meaning."
What is Gay now? |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. To not limit their potential meets. Disrespectful in my opinion because they aren't just kidding themselves. These types are making straight lose it's meaning.
What is Gay now?"
I'm not the person to ask unless you want the thread to end quickly. |
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying."
It's not as simple as you think it is.
I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future.
However, my perception is that I'm straight.
I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying.
It's not as simple as you think it is.
I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future.
However, my perception is that I'm straight.
I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi."
Careful with perceptions, they are usually driven by what you want to hear, see or hear and rarely have any grounding in reality. One can perceive almost anything depend on the condition and suceptability of the mind and presumes from outside influences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying.
It's not as simple as you think it is.
I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future.
However, my perception is that I'm straight.
I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi."
Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you?
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By (user no longer on site)
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How about if you want to do something then JUST DO IT when the chance comes around, without worrying about all the labels that people who don't know better about yourself try to foist on you?
So what if you find yourself liking some cocks and wanting to suck them as a guy? That says NOTHING about a man's masculinity, because if it does then how do you explain those hyper-masculine, gym-going gays who would be happy to suck cock and take it up their rear door?
Funny how bisexual men are demonised and mocked so much, but we don't see the same sort of treatment for bisexual ladies. Why, is it because it's seen to be effeminate or undesirably submissive to be the one giving pleasure instead of taking it? |
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying.
It's not as simple as you think it is.
I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future.
However, my perception is that I'm straight.
I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi.
Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you?
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It's fairly simple really. I don't fancy women |
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"How about if you want to do something then JUST DO IT when the chance comes around, without worrying about all the labels that people who don't know better about yourself try to foist on you?
So what if you find yourself liking some cocks and wanting to suck them as a guy? That says NOTHING about a man's masculinity, because if it does then how do you explain those hyper-masculine, gym-going gays who would be happy to suck cock and take it up their rear door?
Funny how bisexual men are demonised and mocked so much, but we don't see the same sort of treatment for bisexual ladies. Why, is it because it's seen to be effeminate or undesirably submissive to be the one giving pleasure instead of taking it? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about if you want to do something then JUST DO IT when the chance comes around, without worrying about all the labels that people who don't know better about yourself try to foist on you?
So what if you find yourself liking some cocks and wanting to suck them as a guy? That says NOTHING about a man's masculinity, because if it does then how do you explain those hyper-masculine, gym-going gays who would be happy to suck cock and take it up their rear door?
Funny how bisexual men are demonised and mocked so much, but we don't see the same sort of treatment for bisexual ladies. Why, is it because it's seen to be effeminate or undesirably submissive to be the one giving pleasure instead of taking it? "
Perception that muscle make the a guy. And definitely . bi or gay has nothing to do with muscle. And no one is demonising that I've seen except possibly, not a mention or hind in here about bi being effeminate but its bi guys who raise the topic, it's asking about definition.
I'm a giver predominantly and definitely not effeminate. I'm also an Alpha. So again perceptions need to be checked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't find men attractive in the slightest BUT love sucking cock and submitting to Dom men. "
And? Is that because you're bi? Least you embrace it and celebrate it. |
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying.
It's not as simple as you think it is.
I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future.
However, my perception is that I'm straight.
I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi.
Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you?
It's fairly simple really. I don't fancy women "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying.
It's not as simple as you think it is.
I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future.
However, my perception is that I'm straight.
I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi.
Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you?
It's fairly simple really. I don't fancy women "
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Hello OP Mr virginity..
I am surprised to hear that you have been on here 5 months and thought that maybe you were the only 'straight ' guy who fancied a bit of cock..
This has been covered and re-covered time and time again on here, including many in the stories and fantasy section.So perhaps you don't visit the forum often.
I am very lucky to have as many meets as I want,turning most guys away..
The majority by far identify as straight,some want to suck but most want to be sucked.
Perhaps they are not straight,could be gay,could be bi, but to be quite honest I couldn't give a flying fuck and have never really understood why folk get so het up(see what I did there?)about it..
It's what it is,deal with it. |
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I'm not attracted to men, and rarely play with them in group situations, gang bangs etc. However I am attracted to good looking T-Girls and transexuals and if they are into me doing happily suck there cocks if they are okay with that, (even though I'm top) |
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"I'm not attracted to men, and rarely play with them in group situations, gang bangs etc. However I am attracted to good looking T-Girls and transexuals and if they are into me doing happily suck there cocks if they are okay with that, (even though I'm top)"
I do really love it when they suck my cock though! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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In general terms, both in the world at large, and to an extent on here, labels are irrelevant.
Their purpose on here is to help identify you to others that may be interested in meeting you - personally I identify and label myself as bisexual on here as that is what I am and I am open to meeting guys one on one, and as part of a group situation.
If someone chooses to identify differently then that is of course their prerogative, although when it's guys doing so to get round women and couples who won't meet bi men, which more often than not is the case, I personally find it both duplicitous and that they're deluding themselves as they are closing the door on just as many people as they are opening it to. And it's for that reason and the fact that if they are hiding their sexuality what else are they hiding, that I won't meet those that identify as Fab straight.
But that's my personal view and each are entitled to their own. |
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"In general terms, both in the world at large, and to an extent on here, labels are irrelevant.
Their purpose on here is to help identify you to others that may be interested in meeting you - personally I identify and label myself as bisexual on here as that is what I am and I am open to meeting guys one on one, and as part of a group situation.
If someone chooses to identify differently then that is of course their prerogative, although when it's guys doing so to get round women and couples who won't meet bi men, which more often than not is the case, I personally find it both duplicitous and that they're deluding themselves as they are closing the door on just as many people as they are opening it to. And it's for that reason and the fact that if they are hiding their sexuality what else are they hiding, that I won't meet those that identify as Fab straight.
But that's my personal view and each are entitled to their own."
They'll accept it from you more than me. (I'm different ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is sex only defined by penetration? Oral sex, is still sex isn’t it?
Only on ‘occasion’ is more a matter of situation and opportunity.
Is someone who hasn’t had sex in a few months or a year suddenly asexual?
If you’re having sex with both males and females you’re bi, regardless of the frequency.
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In general terms, both in the world at large, and to an extent on here, labels are irrelevant.
Their purpose on here is to help identify you to others that may be interested in meeting you - personally I identify and label myself as bisexual on here as that is what I am and I am open to meeting guys one on one, and as part of a group situation.
If someone chooses to identify differently then that is of course their prerogative, although when it's guys doing so to get round women and couples who won't meet bi men, which more often than not is the case, I personally find it both duplicitous and that they're deluding themselves as they are closing the door on just as many people as they are opening it to. And it's for that reason and the fact that if they are hiding their sexuality what else are they hiding, that I won't meet those that identify as Fab straight.
But that's my personal view and each are entitled to their own.
They'll accept it from you more than me. (I'm different )"
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
Isle of Arran |
For me even here on this site ,where we should be able to be open and honest about ourselves we are asked to tick boxes and pidgin whole us .I labeled myself as bi curious because that's how I feel ,but every one defines it differently.could we not just do away with the labels and simply say we want satisfying skin on skin sex ,and choose whoever we want at the time without the all the labels and the stigma that still seems to go with them ? LETS JUST HAVE FUN FOLKS. |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
Ive enjoyed giving a guy a hand job and also have enjoyed giving a guy head, I’ve enjoyed receiving both from a guy too.
However, kissing a guy has left me cold and giving a guy anal did nothing for me either. So I really don’t think it’s as easy as slapping a label on. I just know what I like and what I don’t |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying.
It's not as simple as you think it is.
I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future.
However, my perception is that I'm straight.
I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi.
Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you?
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You do make a lot of valid points I just feel on this occasion you have missed mine.
I have bi stated on my profile, I have no issue with people seeing that and forming their own conclusions without any explanation from me.
When it comes to my own sexual preferences I don't ever consider a man in those. I am not confused, and there is no confusion created around me I just don't see myself as bi. You might see yourself as bi and that's cool. I don't and neither do many others.
It's up to the person to decide what sexuality they are and not others to decide based on what they've done or may do again in future.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t even worry about labelling it. As long as the other person is agreeable to the situation !!!
Wanking and sucking a cock is fun!!! When that cock explodes as a result of your skills, it’s hugely satisfying!! Doesn’t matter what anyone wants to call it!!! Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Come over to the dark side, its amazing, and really,life is very short, who cares what you are, the important thing is that you enjoy youself and if everyone else is happy , well whats not to like.
An opportunity came up yesterday for me, i was in the hotel steam room with three other guys and lets just say it got exceptionally steamy, but we all had a great time, and it put a smile on my face for the rest of the evening.
Just go for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate drugs and the people that use them....
But every time I go out and get d*unk.....
I will want and use drugs....
I won’t ever buy them nor will use them alone...
I will only use them when I go out or if someone offers them to me.....
I am classed as a drug user/addict? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In general terms, both in the world at large, and to an extent on here, labels are irrelevant.
Their purpose on here is to help identify you to others that may be interested in meeting you - personally I identify and label myself as bisexual on here as that is what I am and I am open to meeting guys one on one, and as part of a group situation.
If someone chooses to identify differently then that is of course their prerogative, although when it's guys doing so to get round women and couples who won't meet bi men, which more often than not is the case, I personally find it both duplicitous and that they're deluding themselves as they are closing the door on just as many people as they are opening it to. And it's for that reason and the fact that if they are hiding their sexuality what else are they hiding, that I won't meet those that identify as Fab straight.
But that's my personal view and each are entitled to their own."
That sums us up too. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I hate drugs and the people that use them....
But every time I go out and get d*unk.....
I will want and use drugs....
I won’t ever buy them nor will use them alone...
I will only use them when I go out or if someone offers them to me.....
I am classed as a drug user/addict?"
A user yes, an addict no - simple as |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate drugs and the people that use them....
But every time I go out and get d*unk.....
I will want and use drugs....
I won’t ever buy them nor will use them alone...
I will only use them when I go out or if someone offers them to me.....
I am classed as a drug user/addict?
A user yes, an addict no - simple as "
I wish the world was so simple... thank you for a mature reply.... |
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction"
Couldn't have said it any better! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find some human beings attractive and others not so, sometimes I feel like I’d like to have sex with them, sometimes not. A few I could have a relationship with that goes beyond friendship most I couldn’t. Gender is irrelevant to me it’s the person that I find attractive, be that looks or personality or both.
Labels are for jam but it does help if want marmalade rather than strawberry jam. |
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here."
Exactly the same, no attraction at all. Not into kissing either.. But a good cock is fun to play with.. In both mmf and mm capacities |
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction"
I (Mr) can relate to that.
The labels on here don't really cover the full spectrum.
Am I "Bi Curious"?
No I'm not curious about fucking a guy nor am I curious about being fucked by one, I have no interest whatsoever in either.
I'm not curious about sucking a cock because I've already done it quite a few times and I'm sure I will do again.
Am I fully Bi?
No I don't think so. As above I would never fuck or be fucked by a guy. I have no interest in meeting a guy one on one even just for oral or wanking.
However when in a MMF with Mrs and another guy I have played with and sucked his cock (quite a few have sucked mine as well)
Most of the guys we play with are straight so I would never make the first move but occasionally when the other guy makes it known then I'm quite happy to join in.
So until FAB comes up with a label I can feel comfortable with then I will have to stay as FAB straight but happy with (some) other forms of interaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum.
I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction
I (Mr) can relate to that.
The labels on here don't really cover the full spectrum.
Am I "Bi Curious"?
No I'm not curious about fucking a guy nor am I curious about being fucked by one, I have no interest whatsoever in either.
I'm not curious about sucking a cock because I've already done it quite a few times and I'm sure I will do again.
Am I fully Bi?
No I don't think so. As above I would never fuck or be fucked by a guy. I have no interest in meeting a guy one on one even just for oral or wanking.
However when in a MMF with Mrs and another guy I have played with and sucked his cock (quite a few have sucked mine as well)
Most of the guys we play with are straight so I would never make the first move but occasionally when the other guy makes it known then I'm quite happy to join in.
So until FAB comes up with a label I can feel comfortable with then I will have to stay as FAB straight but happy with (some) other forms of interaction. "
I feel exactly the same. Well put. |
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Gay/bi/straight isn’t enough to describe our sexuality.
Me and my man are gay. We won’t ever be in relationships with women.
That said, we love pussy. Women and feminine body shapes in general don’t excite us all that much but actual vaginas we find hot and are really into MMF stuff. Does that make us bisexual? Probably not but we settle for bicurious.
So I can see a situation where a straight man only likes cock but isn’t turned on by the masculine form |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi?
Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out.
Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female.
I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some.
Therefore I identify as bi.
If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you?
Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you.
David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil???
Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying.
It's not as simple as you think it is.
I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future.
However, my perception is that I'm straight.
I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi.
Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you?
You do make a lot of valid points I just feel on this occasion you have missed mine.
I have bi stated on my profile, I have no issue with people seeing that and forming their own conclusions without any explanation from me.
When it comes to my own sexual preferences I don't ever consider a man in those. I am not confused, and there is no confusion created around me I just don't see myself as bi. You might see yourself as bi and that's cool. I don't and neither do many others.
It's up to the person to decide what sexuality they are and not others to decide based on what they've done or may do again in future.
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Those who play bi and have it in profile aren't the issue. It's those who seem confused or not wanting to accept that's what they are which is being discussed from what I've been reading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's obviously a lot of people who are not happy with the term bi and what it means. Lots of denial. I suppose one can lead a life of denial in society but then one begins to question what does anyone actually believe or can believe if that becomes the accepted approach by certain groups. Where does it stop, or maybe it doesn't and soon there is nothing truth by which one can benchmark from.
Thanks OP and others for good conversation without falling into too much personal attacks. One that will certainly continue as people find their place or not.
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I do not class myself as bi. I do not fancy guys. I don’t want to kiss guys. I don’t want to suck cock. I don’t want a guy to suck my cock. I don’t want to fuck a guy. I don’t want to be fucked by a guy. HOWEVER, I do appreciate a good looking cock on an objectively good looking guy. I like seeing those type of cocks cum. I like wanking them to make them cum. I don’t mind that guy wanking my cock. I hugely enjoy going down on a woman whilst her partner is fucking her, and my tongue may come into contact with his cock. I enjoy that happening to me too. No sucking, no prolonged licking, no cocks in mouth. I don’t label myself as anything really, I don’t feel the need for anybody to, but if I had to I’d say I’m playful! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a difficult one, I am predominantly straight and fall into the having one cigar at Xmas doesn't make you a smoker, but there is not a label that fits this analogy. Have fun anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most if not all replies to this thread have come from guys. Let me give you the T girl take on this and I know I’m not alone in what I say.
In my male form I couldn’t touch another guys cock. But as a T girl I can’t get enough.
So what is bi. gay, straight? Maybe just words and it’s how you yourself feels that’s important |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
I posted the following on another thread but feel it's sums up my final view on the subject
Before I do I have to say that I have seen this subject posted many many times before, but out of all of them this has been the most intelligent and enjoyable, no one has been offended every view has been respected and no body has been told they're wrong for having their own opinion. Thanks guys faith in fab has been restored
"Apply your own labels. If you label other people does that make you judgemental? Does that make me judgemental for saying that? and equally so for anyone who agrees or disagrees with me.
You are who you are, only you can know this and it's not for others to tell you"
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