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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago
Munster |
Please excuse my ignorance here but i am just wondering what is the attraction of the cuckholding experience?
I am fascinated by it but unfortunetly have never had the chance to act it out with a couple.
Is it the loss of power on the males behalf our is it something else? |
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By the strictest definition cuckholding is a form of D/s relationships,
with my sub hat on i can see the humiliation and loss of power will be a turn on,the wife can be indistinguishable from a Domme, often keeping the husband in chastity.
Good bulls, who from talking to friends are as rare as hens teeth, recognise they are entering a power dynamic,and that both the husband and wife are having their sexual needs met.
Indeed it can be the case that the wife submits to the bull, increasing the cucks humiliation.
A friend told me of a meet once where he ordered the hubby to dress in his wives knickers,while they went upstairs to fuck noisly.When he returned downstairs the knickers were dripping wet with precum...which gave the wife opportunity to tease her husband...at this point the bull left,leaving the wife back in charge...
Of course like everything cuckholding is a spectrum...
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"Iv always wanted to partake in cuckolding as the bull but sadly my 5ft6 and 11st frame doesn't seem to attract the couples. I'd be interested to experience the cuck side too, just for posterity."
attitude will overcome physical appearances...but i have never heard of any switch bulls...imo subs sense switchiness even before someone realises it about themselves. This is far more likely to put couples off...
(switch,someone who likes to be on the top and bottom } |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a vivid imagination is key in these scenarios. I love using mine to come up with ever more delightful ways to humiliate the cuck and give his domme wife something else to gloat at him over...naturally I'd run all these scenarios past the them first so that all are happy with it. It is fantasy after all... |
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"Iv always wanted to partake in cuckolding as the bull but sadly my 5ft6 and 11st frame doesn't seem to attract the couples. I'd be interested to experience the cuck side too, just for posterity.
attitude will overcome physical appearances...but i have never heard of any switch bulls...imo subs sense switchiness even before someone realises it about themselves. This is far more likely to put couples off...
(switch,someone who likes to be on the top and bottom }"
I'm on fab to experience a range of sexual experiences, being Dom excites me more than the thought of being sub but as part of my horizon broadening agenda I don't want to sit on one side of the fence till I try the other when it comes to bdsm/ cuckolding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoys being cuck somtimes but I couldn't do it all the time
The loss of all control over the situation and being made to watch gives me a pleasure/ pain buzz xx  |
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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago
Munster |
"I enjoys being cuck somtimes but I couldn't do it all the time
The loss of all control over the situation and being made to watch gives me a pleasure/ pain buzz xx "
At least you have the choice soapy pal lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a few years back i played with a cpl and i didnt realise what was realy happening. She invited me back for sex and just before we went inside, she went through a role play scenario with me and asked if i was ok with that. The hubby just watched from the darkness of a corner and she was very vocal as we played. I never saw him and we never met again. Was this a cuck experience or a voyeur ? I liked the fact i was being watched and pleasuring an older attractive woman. Answers pls.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a few years back i played with a cpl and i didnt realise what was realy happening. She invited me back for sex and just before we went inside, she went through a role play scenario with me and asked if i was ok with that. The hubby just watched from the darkness of a corner and she was very vocal as we played. I never saw him and we never met again. Was this a cuck experience or a voyeur ? I liked the fact i was being watched and pleasuring an older attractive woman. Answers pls. "
Aye ya been cucked lol well he was xx |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I think the problem is that most men think that being a bull is just an easy way to a shag and the dynamic as Jem said is just one between bull and wife leaving hubby out... Whereas any person in a 3 looks out for both other people
And that advertising as a bull gets more meets...
I have been at the other very soft end of what can be perceived as cuckholding and I enjoy it, but there is no way I consider myself to be bull like at all |
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" I think a vivid imagination is key in these scenarios. I love using mine to come up with ever more delightful ways to humiliate the cuck and give his domme wife something else to gloat at him over...naturally I'd run all these scenarios past the them first so that all are happy with it. It is fantasy after all..."
All the best sex starts with the imagination,however i do think in D/s it is vital.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not into cuckholding and in fact the very idea incenses me, if a stranger tried to dominate me, or if any guy tried to humiliate my OH, Id rip their head off, so I know its not for me.
But I do see a lot of profiles with guys suggesting that they are a bull and I get the impression that they are just wannabees, dabbling in something that is perceived rather than having any knowledge of.
Many guys seem to think its just having sex with the woman in front of the husband, even I, with very little knowledge, know theres more to it than that  |
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