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over a year ago
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To the singletons....Heard this a few times on here.If you met someone on here and for together would you stay in the scene together or go vanilla? Your thoughts........ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To the singletons....Heard this a few times on here.If you met someone on here and *got together would you stay in the scene together or go vanilla? Your thoughts........"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve thought about this on occasion. For me it would depend on the person but I think if it was really looking like being a serious thing I’d like us to be exclusive, or certainly off fab, for a while to give the relationship a space to develop. Other ties mean that new relationships are snatched in the spaces between other commitments. Adding sex with others to the mix could just be too distracting. There would always be like minded friends to play with off fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve thought about this on occasion. For me it would depend on the person but I think if it was really looking like being a serious thing I’d like us to be exclusive, or certainly off fab, for a while to give the relationship a space to develop. Other ties mean that new relationships are snatched in the spaces between other commitments. Adding sex with others to the mix could just be too distracting. There would always be like minded friends to play with off fab."
So in that case is fab just a place to pass time between finding mr/mrs right?
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Two years ago we were both on here with our own profiles. We then met at a club and became a couple. Now 2 years later we are still happy together but now havd a couples profile as well as our own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely stay on the scene. Swinging is in me, it's part of me and who, I am and how I want to spend my life.
I'd be so happy if I could find a partner who wants the same as me. |
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I think exclusivity at least to begin with.
You'd need to develop a deep trust and understanding of eachother before sharing with others. You can only do that in an exclusive relationship.
If my partner didn't want to swing then I'd happily go vanilla. They'd be the most important thing after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think exclusivity at least to begin with.
You'd need to develop a deep trust and understanding of eachother before sharing with others. You can only do that in an exclusive relationship.
If my partner didn't want to swing then I'd happily go vanilla. They'd be the most important thing after all. "
I agree about being exclusive to start with to build the relationship and trust. |
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