I am part of a couples profile. I posted (a bit willy nilly as it turns out) about defending my honour in the only way I know how. (I am from Salford after all). I forgot to sign that I was the poster and then I went to work. My partner suffered for my slip.
My partner wants to punish me by barring me from posting I obviously (big time poster  ) don't want that.
Where's the question .......it's coming.
How do you separate your posts in a couples profile ? Does only one partner post ? Do you have a second profile so you can post independently from each other ? Do you sign your name ? |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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When I had a couple profile we just signed off as either V or A (him).
I’m not sure it was ever really noticed by anyone else to be honest although sometimes I’d come along and realise what trouble he’d just caused 
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"I think a couples profile represents both of you. Mr N sometimes says its time for me to step away. I do think each partner ought to bear in mind that they're representing the other in some way."
Yep, this. We have very similar views on most things so post from a couples perspective plus we are usually together when we post. Occasionally a post will be from a personal perspective and then we sign it off. |
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over a year ago
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"I am part of a couples profile. I posted (a bit willy nilly as it turns out) about defending my honour in the only way I know how. (I am from Salford after all). I forgot to sign that I was the poster and then I went to work. My partner suffered for my slip.
My partner wants to punish me by barring me from posting I obviously (big time poster ) don't want that.
Where's the question .......it's coming.
How do you separate your posts in a couples profile ? Does only one partner post ? Do you have a second profile so you can post independently from each other ? Do you sign your name ? "
We have a separate mail profile for only that reason. But sadly admin still ban both profiles on some occasions, with the innocent party getting a week's ban for using another profile.
So in terms of site rules you can't win, but at least for any posters with an ounce of common sense it's obvious who is posting. |
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This is the thing, I don't want him annoyed/bothered by something I did. When you have found "trouble" how did you deal with your partner ? If that's not a too invasive question ? Were you annoyed ? Defensive ? Supportive ? |
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"Didn't think having a second profile would be against the rules.
xslutx (getting better at remembering)"
Having a second profile isn't against the rules. Using that profile to get around a forum block is |
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"This is the thing, I don't want him annoyed/bothered by something I did. When you have found "trouble" how did you deal with your partner ? If that's not a too invasive question ? Were you annoyed ? Defensive ? Supportive ?"
If I get "too involved" in a forum post Mr N just says "you're too involved in that ya daft woman" and if I agree I stop posting.
If I don't agree I carry on. This is a joint profile but we're individuals within it. If I said something that caused him trouble I'd try to correct it because I don't want to give the wrong impression of us as a couple. |
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It's very rare that Jayne posts from this profile, she has one she uses if she cruises the forums etc, but if she does post she signs off with her name.
I think it's something that's passed me by tbh, I hadn't really given it any thought, but now its come up its given me something to think about. |
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We both run our profile on the main site but P has never posted in the forums though she does monitor my contributions. As we're so alike in our thinking I don't think she's ever got upset or annoyed by anything I've said though. |
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The way we seem to have developed (without really ever discussing it) is that I, Mr, am the one that posts in the forums. Probably because I used to use the forums a lot when I was on as a single. Mrs is the one who generally replies to or sends messages. Unless it's a "thanks but no thanks" in which case I get left to do that!!!! |
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I( Mrs) post from this profile and sign off Mrs. He posts from a singles profile. In theory should work as we even have different speech and posting styles. Doesn't always though and people still lump us as one sometimes.
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Partner? Implies equal status, we are in a BDSM relationship based on a D/s dynamic with your consensually agreed limits boundaries, protocols and have been for over 9 years...
You will sign off with your agreed fet name..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Didn't think having a second profile would be against the rules.
xslutx (getting better at remembering)
Having a second profile isn't against the rules. Using that profile to get around a forum block is "
Yes but unfortunately the admins make strange assumptions on that and refuse to respond to queries or explanations. Makes for a very frustrating experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is the thing, I don't want him annoyed/bothered by something I did. When you have found "trouble" how did you deal with your partner ? If that's not a too invasive question ? Were you annoyed ? Defensive ? Supportive ?"
I think this was aimed at me?
Nothing happened, it's funny, lol. It's only a sex forum, not something that matters. Normally when we used a couples profile only 95% of the time or more then it was my fault, so I started my own profile. We have very different posting styles, my wife tends to take the peaceful calming approach, whereas when confronted I tend to prefer the Israeli type response especially if responding to a clear idiot or bigot
But no nothing ever happens between us. Obviously we take the piss out of each other if we get banned |
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