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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering if the cd is fully done up ie wig make up etc do you expect a fake girlie voice aswell. I have considered trying it but got too nervous and spoke in my own male voice. It 100% put one guy off. Should I be practicing my girl voice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think the site can cater for the divergent 'groups' that exist these days- There are fully transitioned trans, people in between (genderfluid etc) and those who maybe wear female clothing to masturbate in- unfortunately a lot of people have stereotypical ideas about how people 'ought' to or 'should' be.
The site doesn't reflect modern experiences and could do with a bit of a category update really- especially with regard to sexual identity.
But that's my two pennorth.. |
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If a guy is coming to meet you knowing fully what's what then he can't be out off by a voice. I'm higher pitched than a regular male as it is so I just aim to replicate the sounds and words my gf made when speaking to her. It worked on a kikvoice call and video call so all on all I would say aim higher and softer |
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Just be yourself. You don’t have to play feminine at all. The only difference between you and whomever you meet is your wearing women’s clothes and are freely open with your sexuality and your date is just expecting one thing.
Some guys will want you as you are. Some will want you to purr and whine and some will want you to tuck your man bits away as they get freaked out
Do whatever your comfortable with |
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"I don't think the site can cater for the divergent 'groups' that exist these days- There are fully transitioned trans, people in between (genderfluid etc) and those who maybe wear female clothing to masturbate in- unfortunately a lot of people have stereotypical ideas about how people 'ought' to or 'should' be.
The site doesn't reflect modern experiences and could do with a bit of a category update really- especially with regard to sexual identity.
But that's my two pennorth.."
I agree as we are miles apart from a CD.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I definitely wouldn't want a put on girly voice it would just make me laugh.
The Catherine Tate character " I'm a lady " Was surely a piss take off such a situation.
Like many males it's the visual aspect and the kinkiness that interests me. |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
Bristol East |
Plenty of tutorials on You Tube if you want to learn how to change the pitch of your voice.
Generally speaking, males speak from the base of the throat and females speak from the top.
So, for a male, it is about learning to lift the voice from the bottom of the throat to the top. And vice versa for a female.
If it matters to you, that is. If it doesn't, it doesn't.
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
Definitely not, I try my best to look convincing but as soon as I open my mouth my Somerset tones come out its obvious that I'm a guy.
It takes me ages to get ready if I had to learn to speak differently it would take me all evening to get ready for a meet. |
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I always tell people befor hand that I can't do a female voice so don't expect one. It sounds so much worse someone doing an awful female impression rather than just speaking normally, unless it's something you have practiced over and over for years. The most I do is try to speak more quietly and slightly softer |
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Never been a problem for Katie, same with not being able to be smooth every time, men know what they are meeting they know we are trying to be as feminine as possible for them and everyone has been understanding, Katie just talks softer and tries to put a higher pitch to the voice, and the moans, men usually want any moans to be feminine as possible and not a blokes grunt. If the guy can’t get over it then it’s not your fault there will be a guy who will get what he wants from you so just go with it and have fun. |
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"No I definitely wouldn't want a put on girly voice it would just make me laugh.
The Catherine Tate character " I'm a lady " Was surely a piss take off such a situation.
Like many males it's the visual aspect and the kinkiness that interests me."
It's Little Britain |
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"Its very difficult, but if you're out in public and you need to speak, sounding like Barry White will definitely blow your cover."
I just speak in my male voice even when out in public - I'm not ashamed of what I am and feel it is good for our community for others to know we are out there. I hope people who encounter me say things like "I met this trans something girl today - she was really nice and looked amazing"
We need the public to have positive encounters with us.
Also, it's not just voice but also vocabulary. Women say things like "I've got a sore tummy" men "My gut's sore" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The option to put cd isn't there, so I am on here classed as a TV
I don't do wigs makeup, just dressing, I do it for me and the feeling, I don't change my voice and still a male except with stockings etc on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met lots of lovely TV/TS's over the years(never for sex, just at clubs n parties/socials)...I just find it weird that someone would want them to be more 'feminine', to the point they are deluding themselves that they'd rather have a woman that was born a female. |
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"I've met lots of lovely TV/TS's over the years(never for sex, just at clubs n parties/socials)...I just find it weird that someone would want them to be more 'feminine', to the point they are deluding themselves that they'd rather have a woman that was born a female."
I think you have missed the point. |
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I tend to act more feminine around a guy and I think my voice becomes slightly campier (if that makes sense) because of my behaviour. But I would never try to put on a girly voice, take me as you find me. |
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