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Massage - do you prefer to give or receive ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being a fan of massage I love to give a good massage as well as receive one but what to you prefer ?
As much as I love to receive a good massage I just love the satisfaction of providing a long and sensual massage. There is something special about a slow build up and getting more and more sensual without the raunch too early. |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
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Prefer to give...be it a nice all over body relaxation or a sexy one dependent on how the body's reacting (lady or hot wife).
May slightly brush or fleetingly pass areas which could be very sensitive.....oops teasing..
I know it's not everyone's taste but do love to give long foot massage but that may include use of my lips and tongue....Ow and a little eye contact....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the guys saying give... I wonder how many do really?
Me, I'll tell you straight
Would love to receive a massage right now and let out my stresses and strains. Just hope my moans of pleasure don't distract you?
Don't worry though, I would ensure you had a happy ending too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being a fan of massage I love to give a good massage as well as receive one but what to you prefer ?
As much as I love to receive a good massage I just love the satisfaction of providing a long and sensual massage. There is something special about a slow build up and getting more and more sensual without the raunch too early. "
I certainly want more of what I had Friday night  |
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Love to have a slow sensual massage. But,probably like most guys, it always starts so relaxing but then when the masseuse starts on my legs I get turned on. It’s the “please roll over sir” moment when you have a hard on under the towel that gets me.
Love to find someone or somewhere in London area that is not offended by me getting all turned on so I can really relax and enjoy. And if the massage goes internally to find my prostrate then happy days ! |
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By *weberMan
over a year ago
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"Being a fan of massage I love to give a good massage as well as receive one but what to you prefer ?
As much as I love to receive a good massage I just love the satisfaction of providing a long and sensual massage. There is something special about a slow build up and getting more and more sensual without the raunch too early. "
Deffo prefer giving but I’ve always dreamed about receiving a prostate massage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give i have strong but gentle fingers which goes down well also I don’t use oil as I can gently kiss sensitive areas while I do it inner thigh, back of neck especially |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Give i have strong but gentle fingers which goes down well also I don’t use oil as I can gently kiss sensitive areas while I do it inner thigh, back of neck especially "
For me, using oil is a must. There is something really sensual about using a reasonable amount of oil. Hot oil is also really good, if you haven’t tried it you should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Give i have strong but gentle fingers which goes down well also I don’t use oil as I can gently kiss sensitive areas while I do it inner thigh, back of neck especially
For me, using oil is a must. There is something really sensual about using a reasonable amount of oil. Hot oil is also really good, if you haven’t tried it you should. "
I might just do that but I would have to hold off on the kissing bit
I don’t fancy Kentucky fried lips |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m definitely more of a giver. I really enjoy giving a really nice sensual massage, you can beat it. Add a blindfold in to the mix and the senses of the one being massaged are vastly increased resulting in heightened pleasure.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to message more but writing a "cold message" to someone new takes me a long time not only because I tailor it to the women in question, while still remaining faithful to my own desires, but also because I agonise over virtually every word as I'm not a natural writer.
Consequently,when I don't get a response it just adds to the difficulty of the next message, hey-oh, self pitying over!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd love to message more but writing a "cold message" to someone new takes me a long time not only because I tailor it to the women in question, while still remaining faithful to my own desires, but also because I agonise over virtually every word as I'm not a natural writer.
Consequently,when I don't get a response it just adds to the difficulty of the next message, hey-oh, self pitying over! "
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I have a female friend on here. We have attended Massage and Tantric workshops together. We are looking for couples for massage swaps. If you are interested please message me. I will ask her to message you back to prove we are genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Both, if they can't be arsed then I'm not wasting my time and effort. For me it has to be mutual "
For me mutual massage is a favourite. I love alternating between giving and receiving. Sometime it’s great to massage in a way you know you really like to see how much pleasure it gives the receiver. Hopefully they learn from you as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love receiving, I'd love to give but can't for medical reasons.
I'd love to meet for just a massage, but I'm not sure I'd be prepared to do it here. "
If you find the right person, go for it. x |
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"I love receiving, I'd love to give but can't for medical reasons.
I'd love to meet for just a massage, but I'm not sure I'd be prepared to do it here.
If you find the right person, go for it. x"
People who lead with it, I wonder what their ulterior motives would be, if that makes sense. With a sex meet it's clear what's what. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am great at massage, but I love recieving them. Don't be gentle though! "
When winter hits Scotland I would be happy to give you a firm massage climbers hands are very strong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both did a one day tantric massage course (I know, one day isn't much but it was good) a while back and the way it has settled out is that He prefers giving and She likes receiving.....only preferences though, both giving and receiving are great |
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"Being a fan of massage I love to give a good massage as well as receive one but what to you prefer ?
As much as I love to receive a good massage I just love the satisfaction of providing a long and sensual massage. There is something special about a slow build up and getting more and more sensual without the raunch too early. "
Both. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Both, happy to just give though. I'd like to find a massage buddy actually. I enjoy giving pleasure to others, its not all about full sex for me."
Damn. where were you when I was there the 1990s? |
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