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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx |
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
*Waves enthusiastically!*  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
*Waves enthusiastically!* "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
Cum north little lady were really gentle and loving  male |
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"I find my middle finger alone works a treat "
Agree with this - one well aimed and properly used finger can be more effective than an hour of attempting to fit an entire fist in and missing the right spot.....
It's not rocket science, just understanding how the female body works...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
Sorry... I ate them all!!   |
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
Sorry... I ate them all!! "
Oh you tease....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
i think u need to meet a new man if the above is happening  |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
im a joiner... im naturally good with my hands and fingers... |
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
let me introduce myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
there still learning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us men eh.
Never do anything right. 
ahhh but they can and do "
Really? Be another thread today or tomorrow bashing us guys about something or other.
You pick them look at yourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us men eh.
Never do anything right.
ahhh but they can and do
Really? Be another thread today or tomorrow bashing us guys about something or other.
You pick them look at yourselves"
I dont bash. There are all good and bad with all sexes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
My hubby only needs one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
I'm here , what was the question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...
then look puzzled when it starts to shrink. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
Sorry... I ate them all!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...
then look puzzled when it starts to shrink."
Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...
then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.
Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?! "
Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely
I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...
then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.
Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!
Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely
I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though. "
Tease!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...
then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.
Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!
Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely
I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though.
Tease!! "
Teasing is good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...
then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.
Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!
Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely
I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though.
Tease!!
Teasing is good "
Teasing is very good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.
Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.
Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used."
I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too |
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"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.
Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.
I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too "
Oh, hello.
I’ve got a bit of an idea but really it’s like playing cards, watch for others reactions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.
Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.
I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too
Oh, hello.
I’ve got a bit of an idea but really it’s like playing cards, watch for others reactions "
Hello |
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"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.
Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.
I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too
Oh, hello.
I’ve got a bit of an idea but really it’s like playing cards, watch for others reactions
Hello "
I need to be careful I don’t put my foot in it here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...
then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.
Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!
Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely
I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though.
Tease!!
Teasing is good "
When you're closer!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...
then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.
Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?! "
It's actually amazing how many women "think" they know what to with a cock, no one will ever compete with your own touch, but unfortunately due to people passing on bad techniques and not actually communicating the world is now littered with useless wankers (literally) |
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We all know about the G spot but begin with the opening as there are far more nerves to stimulate located there then when you lady is ready gently slowly and if you dont know when she is ready be frank ASK she may respect you for it as no two ladies are alike. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.
Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.
I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too
Oh, hello.
I’ve got a bit of an idea but really it’s like playing cards, watch for others reactions
Hello
I need to be careful I don’t put my foot in it here "
That would be painful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
Is that what the some people refer to as 'Finger Blasting'? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate this. Guaranteed to turn me off and make me sore. ‘Relax!’ - well stop acting like you’re vigorously beating an egg and I might. "
Completely agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him."
My man does. It's other men who don't and they don't want to be told I don't want the piss frigged out of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
Is that what the some people refer to as 'Finger Blasting'?"
Yes. |
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
There are just a lot of naive but enthusiastic men about at least they are trying if not that well. |
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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
Never send a man to do a woman's job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find my middle finger alone works a treat
Agree with this - one well aimed and properly used finger can be more effective than an hour of attempting to fit an entire fist in and missing the right spot.....
It's not rocket science, just understanding how the female body works...! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
The clitoris has roughly a few thousand nerve endings so i think some guys should learn their way around one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only ever needed 1 finger and my tongue. Used in the right way and reading her body it gets results (although we had been together 20 years so got to really know here signs) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate this. It really annoys me when they do that. They think all women want it, we don’t.
So many of them are clueless.
But also, too many think that one size fits all and that what works for one woman will work for every woman. Some women like fingers, some don’t. It’s best to communicate with the person and get to know what they like and how they like it! |
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
The clitoris has roughly a few thousand nerve endings so i think some guys should learn their way around one "
I think the ladies are talking about fingers on the inside not frigging a clit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
It sounds like you have had a bad experience, and have felt let down because of it, would you like to elaborate on your thoughts on this matter? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
The clitoris has roughly a few thousand nerve endings so i think some guys should learn their way around one
I think the ladies are talking about fingers on the inside not frigging a clit "
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
It sounds like you have had a bad experience, and have felt let down because of it, would you like to elaborate on your thoughts on this matter?"
Just some guys goin to hard and rough not a pleasant experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
It sounds like you have had a bad experience, and have felt let down because of it, would you like to elaborate on your thoughts on this matter?
Just some guys goin to hard and rough not a pleasant experience "
I am sorry to hear that, and how did it make you feel? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
The clitoris has roughly a few thousand nerve endings so i think some guys should learn their way around one
I think the ladies are talking about fingers on the inside not frigging a clit "
Point taken, ops post fully understood. Point I'm making is no need to finger a pussy like a one arm bandit |
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"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him."
Precisely! If a guy was doing something I wasn't enjoying I'd ask him gently to stop and guide him in the right direction. Are people just laying there and enduring bad foreplay?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him.
Precisely! If a guy was doing something I wasn't enjoying I'd ask him gently to stop and guide him in the right direction. Are people just laying there and enduring bad foreplay? "
We have to experience first before we can guide them. I had one man do the finger blast thing, years back, that made me quite ill for weeks afterwards. Now I stipulate that I will not tolerate it, so don't try it. Any man who asks me if I'm a squirter gets a lecture. |
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"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him.
Precisely! If a guy was doing something I wasn't enjoying I'd ask him gently to stop and guide him in the right direction. Are people just laying there and enduring bad foreplay?
We have to experience first before we can guide them. I had one man do the finger blast thing, years back, that made me quite ill for weeks afterwards. Now I stipulate that I will not tolerate it, so don't try it. Any man who asks me if I'm a squirter gets a lecture. "
I don't think anyone's ever asked me. If they did the answer would be no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Use the younger it’s more connecting spiritually than a bone without nerves , fingering is just a small part of a sexual experience and often men confuse their brains with force that equals pleasure , it can be hurtful to ram and insert ( I’m told)
I would not like my arse prodded by 3 or more fingers
But a woman’s gentle tougue brushing across the area would be sensual
Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Another stimulating position. Lie head to foot, both on back with hips touching. Put one leg each over the partners chest. Use your thumb with finger aiming toward her belly. It can be as long as your finger and has more girth. It also seem to be more of a slower way too. She has also free run over the lower half of me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another stimulating position. Lie head to foot, both on back with hips touching. Put one leg each over the partners chest. Use your thumb with finger aiming toward her belly. It can be as long as your finger and has more girth. It also seem to be more of a slower way too. She has also free run over the lower half of me too. "
Oh forgot to say. Very visually stimulating too for both of us. |
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
I think I’m pretty good but could always do with a few tips / ideas? |
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"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him.
Precisely! If a guy was doing something I wasn't enjoying I'd ask him gently to stop and guide him in the right direction. Are people just laying there and enduring bad foreplay? "
I've met a couple of people who don't take gentle direction or even straightforward direction well.
They think they are "experts" and just go hell for leather.
Ouch.
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By (user no longer on site)
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my fwb managed this by kissing me and fingering me with 1 then 2 fingers and i came really hard. the intense and the intimacy had me cuming over and over. |
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx
*Waves enthusiastically!* "
I think thats the technique they're complaining about |
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"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.
Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
I
M here baby xxxx |
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