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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. | |||
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"The internet a bred this kind of behaviour now..because you will never actually see these folk in real life, they can act like this, with no real consequences to them." Glad we wont see such horrible people who boast so much goody things on their profile and behave the opposite way . | |||
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"The internet a bred this kind of behaviour now..because you will never actually see these folk in real life, they can act like this, with no real consequences to them. Glad we wont see such horrible people who boast so much goody things on their profile and behave the opposite way ."  | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. " What if they are just fakes and you would like to chat up to make sure people are sane? Admit it, nobody sends face pics in first message unless they are single men. Would u send? | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. " Exactly. I’d rather send a face picture with a first message so if I’m not their type I’m not already drawn into conversation with them. I block people after trying to be polite and receiving abuse back. I use the block feature to protect myself, not to offend the other person. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. What if they are just fakes and you would like to chat up to make sure people are sane? Admit it, nobody sends face pics in first message unless they are single men. Would u send?" I never message first but if someone messages me as a reply I send one | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth " How about showing some manners? | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. What if they are just fakes and you would like to chat up to make sure people are sane? Admit it, nobody sends face pics in first message unless they are single men. Would u send?" I always send a face picture with my first message | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth " Still no need for bad manners though..just say.. sorry your not for us and then maybe block to save coming across each other again | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth Still no need for bad manners though..just say.. sorry your not for us and then maybe block to save coming across each other again " Exactly. Infact we always go one extra mile by adding few positive lines about their looks ,making sure we dont offend them in anyway. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth How about showing some manners? " I agree and I love your approach to it, I'm just saying why I think it happens | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. Exactly. I’d rather send a face picture with a first message so if I’m not their type I’m not already drawn into conversation with them. I block people after trying to be polite and receiving abuse back. I use the block feature to protect myself, not to offend the other person." We only block people if we getting same message over and over again from the same guy. We rarely block cpls here,especially who are genuine and verified. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth Still no need for bad manners though..just say.. sorry your not for us and then maybe block to save coming across each other again Exactly. Infact we always go one extra mile by adding few positive lines about their looks ,making sure we dont offend them in anyway. " | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better?" It's about manners.. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. What if they are just fakes and you would like to chat up to make sure people are sane? Admit it, nobody sends face pics in first message unless they are single men. Would u send?" Yep. When I send first messages, I attach a face pic and I’ve been ignored and blocked several times. I never chat to anyone unless they have sent me theirs. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" It really doesn't bother us at all...it makes it obvious we're not for them so we just move on. We're not owed anything by strangers on the internet... | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" I think if you’ve sent a face photo and they’ve blocked you straight away, you can’t help but take it personally. Especially if they asked you for a face photo. But this is what social media has done to people, cause you’re not looking at them face to face, you can’t see their reaction. Therefore people appear to be ruthless and cruel. You just have to decide if that’s something you want to deal with, or whether this isn’t for you. | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. " No it's about neediness and entitlement. There is nothing rude about blocking someone. And while I would personally go for 'thanks but no thanks' I have certainly never given a second thought to someone who's blocked me. | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. " Ok. Then you are going to be offended over and over again or you can shrug and move on. | |||
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"We block if someone isn't for us or we are not for them. Means they don't pop up later on updates and we accidentally message them again. That said we do try and send a polite thanks but no thanks 1st." Thats honestly very cruel. We do understand your point but it sends a wrong message to them who sent you face pics and u blocked them straight away. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth How about showing some manners? " Do a forum search and you’ll find countless threads from single guys saying a similar thing and countless answers along the lines of ‘just move on’. It’s not worth getting furious over. They see your faces and don’t fancy you, it’s awkward then to say that so they block and move on. It happens to guys a lot, so why expect special treatment just because you’re a couple?  | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" Fuck em!.....or not  | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. No it's about neediness and entitlement. There is nothing rude about blocking someone. And while I would personally go for 'thanks but no thanks' I have certainly never given a second thought to someone who's blocked me. " We dont give second thought about being blocked but the way its done is wrong. They asked face pics, we send ours. We ask their face pics, they block us. WTF! | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Fuck em!.....or not "Hahha wanted to but they blocked us lol | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth How about showing some manners? Do a forum search and you’ll find countless threads from single guys saying a similar thing and countless answers along the lines of ‘just move on’. It’s not worth getting furious over. They see your faces and don’t fancy you, it’s awkward then to say that so they block and move on. It happens to guys a lot, so why expect special treatment just because you’re a couple? "We dont block single guys even though they r not for us. Nothing about being a cpl here. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth How about showing some manners? Do a forum search and you’ll find countless threads from single guys saying a similar thing and countless answers along the lines of ‘just move on’. It’s not worth getting furious over. They see your faces and don’t fancy you, it’s awkward then to say that so they block and move on. It happens to guys a lot, so why expect special treatment just because you’re a couple? "Glad someone else picked up on the very different responses shown to a couple. If a single man had had the same whinge and dared to call people obnoxious for being blocked sone of the people already replying to this thread would have posted very different responses. | |||
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"We block if someone isn't for us or we are not for them. Means they don't pop up later on updates and we accidentally message them again. That said we do try and send a polite thanks but no thanks 1st. Thats honestly very cruel. We do understand your point but it sends a wrong message to them who sent you face pics and u blocked them straight away. " What if you’ve recognised them? It’s easier to block. I wouldn’t be too upset if someone has blocked me. I’ve blocked loads of people over the years for various reasons. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Fuck em!.....or not
Hahha wanted to but they blocked us lol"I get that a lot from single men. I say no but they don’t care and want to fuck me anyway. I’m sure there’s a law about that sort of attitude. | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. Ok. Then you are going to be offended over and over again or you can shrug and move on. " We do shrug it off.. been swingers to long to take it personally ..but no need for bad manners..we go off our own standards not others, and politely say no thanks and so on..and only block if really needed..because sometimes folk can not take no for an answer | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. No it's about neediness and entitlement. There is nothing rude about blocking someone. And while I would personally go for 'thanks but no thanks' I have certainly never given a second thought to someone who's blocked me. We dont give second thought about being blocked but the way its done is wrong. They asked face pics, we send ours. We ask their face pics, they block us. WTF!" you've stated a thread calling people obnoxious. You've said it makes you furious. And according to another poster on this thread you've named and shamed them. Yeah that's definitely not giving them a second thought...  | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth How about showing some manners? Do a forum search and you’ll find countless threads from single guys saying a similar thing and countless answers along the lines of ‘just move on’. It’s not worth getting furious over. They see your faces and don’t fancy you, it’s awkward then to say that so they block and move on. It happens to guys a lot, so why expect special treatment just because you’re a couple?
Glad someone else picked up on the very different responses shown to a couple. If a single man had had the same whinge and dared to call people obnoxious for being blocked sone of the people already replying to this thread would have posted very different responses. "I’m glad you said some! | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth How about showing some manners? Do a forum search and you’ll find countless threads from single guys saying a similar thing and countless answers along the lines of ‘just move on’. It’s not worth getting furious over. They see your faces and don’t fancy you, it’s awkward then to say that so they block and move on. It happens to guys a lot, so why expect special treatment just because you’re a couple?
Glad someone else picked up on the very different responses shown to a couple. If a single man had had the same whinge and dared to call people obnoxious for being blocked sone of the people already replying to this thread would have posted very different responses. " | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. No it's about neediness and entitlement. There is nothing rude about blocking someone. And while I would personally go for 'thanks but no thanks' I have certainly never given a second thought to someone who's blocked me. " Totally agree. These are fleeting online interactions. It shouldn't be the expectation that you get your ego massaged every time someone doesn't want to fuck you. You're not going to be everyone's type, or even most people's type. It's much healthier to accept that and treat getting blocked/deleted with a shrug rather than getting annoyed that you haven't been rejected politely enough. | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. No it's about neediness and entitlement. There is nothing rude about blocking someone. And while I would personally go for 'thanks but no thanks' I have certainly never given a second thought to someone who's blocked me. We dont give second thought about being blocked but the way its done is wrong. They asked face pics, we send ours. We ask their face pics, they block us. WTF! you've stated a thread calling people obnoxious. You've said it makes you furious. And according to another poster on this thread you've named and shamed them. Yeah that's definitely not giving them a second thought... "Agreed, really sounds like sour grapes tbh. | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. No it's about neediness and entitlement. There is nothing rude about blocking someone. And while I would personally go for 'thanks but no thanks' I have certainly never given a second thought to someone who's blocked me. We dont give second thought about being blocked but the way its done is wrong. They asked face pics, we send ours. We ask their face pics, they block us. WTF! you've stated a thread calling people obnoxious. You've said it makes you furious. And according to another poster on this thread you've named and shamed them. Yeah that's definitely not giving them a second thought...
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. No it's about neediness and entitlement. There is nothing rude about blocking someone. And while I would personally go for 'thanks but no thanks' I have certainly never given a second thought to someone who's blocked me. We dont give second thought about being blocked but the way its done is wrong. They asked face pics, we send ours. We ask their face pics, they block us. WTF! you've stated a thread calling people obnoxious. You've said it makes you furious. And according to another poster on this thread you've named and shamed them. Yeah that's definitely not giving them a second thought...
Agreed, really sounds like sour grapes tbh.
That makes for much worse manners than blocking in my opinion"And naming and shaming on here or as an update on a profile is also against rules too. Threads like this are a really good filter in themselves imo. | |||
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" Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" Nope! Not in the slightest. Thousands of potential victims left.  | |||
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"Well I had a message 8 minutes ago from a couple. I just tried to have a look at their profile before replying only to find they’d blocked me already....I kinda find that funny tbh. I’m certainly not furious. They probably had second thoughts, or maybe one of them sent the message and the other wouldn’t approve, or they realised why I like bi guys more, or they decided I reply too slow, or whatever.... I think I’ll just move on to another one of my messages and not worry myself over it "I would argue that to send someone a message and then block them is pretty poor taste to be honest, why message in the first place if you’re not interested? I’m sure you’ve got plenty of other messages to be getting on with anyway, sod ‘em | |||
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"The internet a bred this kind of behaviour now..because you will never actually see these folk in real life, they can act like this, with no real consequences to them." Agree with this. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" No let them block away , if they're not interested I have no desire to have them pop up in searches Please ladies , couples if some one sends you a message and you're not interested just block away xxx | |||
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"Well I had a message 8 minutes ago from a couple. I just tried to have a look at their profile before replying only to find they’d blocked me already....I kinda find that funny tbh. I’m certainly not furious. They probably had second thoughts, or maybe one of them sent the message and the other wouldn’t approve, or they realised why I like bi guys more, or they decided I reply too slow, or whatever.... I think I’ll just move on to another one of my messages and not worry myself over it
I would argue that to send someone a message and then block them is pretty poor taste to be honest, why message in the first place if you’re not interested? I’m sure you’ve got plenty of other messages to be getting on with anyway, sod ‘em "Agree fully. Why show interest in first place? And if it doesn't match then politely decline and move on. Why offend someone and ruin their day? | |||
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"Some sour grapes lol. Think the thread is about us. And to clarify OP we said nice pics to you in the message but said your not what we are looking for. If you read the dictionary you will find that our actions come no where near to the meaning of obnoxious. We also commented something nice about your pic so we tried to stay positive. " Lol! Sour grapes from webcam cpl? Too funny | |||
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"Some sour grapes lol. Think the thread is about us. And to clarify OP we said nice pics to you in the message but said your not what we are looking for. If you read the dictionary you will find that our actions come no where near to the meaning of obnoxious. We also commented something nice about your pic so we tried to stay positive. " | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better?" This! | |||
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"That ship called Dignity has just set sail." It's lost a couple of passengers then | |||
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"That ship called Dignity has just set sail. It's lost a couple of passengers then " | |||
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"PS - Blocking one person does not mean the whole site. Talk about being melodramatic lol x" You r overacting now. Chill lol | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" Thars a strange take on why they block you 
Why would it be disease?!
They don't like you so they don't want yo contact you again so they block you to stop it from happening. Its a site tool and they use it as they see fit.
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" Just remember if they are like that here,just think of it as a lucky escape! Rudness is not a nice look. However it just goes to show that you're a class above them. Smile move on. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Just remember if they are like that here,just think of it as a lucky escape! Rudness is not a nice look. However it just goes to show that you're a class above them. Smile move on. " .
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"Well I had a message 8 minutes ago from a couple. I just tried to have a look at their profile before replying only to find they’d blocked me already....I kinda find that funny tbh. I’m certainly not furious. They probably had second thoughts, or maybe one of them sent the message and the other wouldn’t approve, or they realised why I like bi guys more, or they decided I reply too slow, or whatever.... I think I’ll just move on to another one of my messages and not worry myself over it
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Just remember if they are like that here,just think of it as a lucky escape! Rudness is not a nice look. However it just goes to show that you're a class above them. Smile move on. " but it's not rude. If you read the whole thread the couple in question said something nice but they weren't attractive so prevented either side from having an awkward moment if they messaged each other again. To be honest I'm surprised this thread is still standing. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Just remember if they are like that here,just think of it as a lucky escape! Rudness is not a nice look. However it just goes to show that you're a class above them. Smile move on. but it's not rude. If you read the whole thread the couple in question said something nice but they weren't attractive so prevented either side from having an awkward moment if they messaged each other again. To be honest I'm surprised this thread is still standing. " Wish they had said something nice, the thread wouldnt have been standing at all. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Just remember if they are like that here,just think of it as a lucky escape! Rudness is not a nice look. However it just goes to show that you're a class above them. Smile move on. but it's not rude. If you read the whole thread the couple in question said something nice but they weren't attractive so prevented either side from having an awkward moment if they messaged each other again. To be honest I'm surprised this thread is still standing. "  | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Just remember if they are like that here,just think of it as a lucky escape! Rudness is not a nice look. However it just goes to show that you're a class above them. Smile move on. " Many thanks. Thats all we all want..some positivity. Afterall we are here for fun and not ruining someone's day. Cheers | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Just remember if they are like that here,just think of it as a lucky escape! Rudness is not a nice look. However it just goes to show that you're a class above them. Smile move on. but it's not rude. If you read the whole thread the couple in question said something nice but they weren't attractive so prevented either side from having an awkward moment if they messaged each other again. To be honest I'm surprised this thread is still standing. Wish they had said something nice, the thread wouldnt have been standing at all. " Are you going to star threads about everyone that blocks you? | |||
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"It would be good if an automated message came when you blocked someone just something simple like. Thanks your not what you looking for or similar " But what about when you're blocking someone for an abusive message? I don't want to send them a thanks but you're just not for me message. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth How about showing some manners? " A breadth of fresh air | |||
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"I envy some of you: honestly I do. I've spent more time this year with my doctors than I have with my children and grandchildren. I'd love it if my only cause of vextation was a stranger exercising their right to not engage with me for sex. Thankfully I've never had a sense of entitlement, think I have universal appeal or expect others to do things my way. Get over yourselves some of you." This.. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Just remember if they are like that here,just think of it as a lucky escape! Rudness is not a nice look. However it just goes to show that you're a class above them. Smile move on. Many thanks. Thats all we all want..some positivity. Afterall we are here for fun and not ruining someone's day. Cheers" We are all here for fun, most of us don't start threads calling a whole section of fab obnoxious. Most of us will just block and move on. | |||
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"We will reply to face pics sent if we are not interested and we expect people to do the same if they are not interested in us, from that point we block as no point having a situation further down the line where either party messages again and you end up with the “you didn’t fancy us the last time we messaged” conversation " I've had that situation numerous times which is why I now block, it stops it from happening again. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. " I couldn't agree more I am just getting fed up of people complaining about being blocked, after all its a feature of life if you don't like it find another site where people can't block you. | |||
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"Interesting subject, in my opinion I won't even bother about anyone blocking you, just block them back and move on. A lot of people struggle with interpersonal relations based on a lack of confidence, if you get blocked like that don't worry about it." ...or entitlement has led some to believe every transaction should be on their terms. | |||
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"Some sour grapes lol. Think the thread is about us. And to clarify OP we said nice pics to you in the message but said your not what we are looking for. If you read the dictionary you will find that our actions come no where near to the meaning of obnoxious. We also commented something nice about your pic so we tried to stay positive. " Yes, the OP called you out as fake on their profile but it has since been deleted. | |||
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"Interesting subject, in my opinion I won't even bother about anyone blocking you, just block them back and move on. A lot of people struggle with interpersonal relations based on a lack of confidence, if you get blocked like that don't worry about it." Thanks, learnt a hard way. It happened few times in past 9 months we been on fab, thought of posting here too see if its rare or regular phenomenon. | |||
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"I usually block when I’m not interested. It’s not a matter of not having manners, but rather when I’ve tried to be polite and say ‘thanks but no thanks’ in the past, the majority of people get really shitty with you and either start insulting you or demanding to know why you’re not interested. " Everybody wud do the same if someone is abusing and insulting. | |||
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"Interesting subject, in my opinion I won't even bother about anyone blocking you, just block them back and move on. A lot of people struggle with interpersonal relations based on a lack of confidence, if you get blocked like that don't worry about it. Thanks, learnt a hard way. It happened few times in past 9 months we been on fab, thought of posting here too see if its rare or regular phenomenon." welcome to the man's world on fab  | |||
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"I usually block when I’m not interested. It’s not a matter of not having manners, but rather when I’ve tried to be polite and say ‘thanks but no thanks’ in the past, the majority of people get really shitty with you and either start insulting you or demanding to know why you’re not interested. Everybody wud do the same if someone is abusing and insulting. " Exactly why I sometimes block from messages and forum threads. | |||
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"I usually block when I’m not interested. It’s not a matter of not having manners, but rather when I’ve tried to be polite and say ‘thanks but no thanks’ in the past, the majority of people get really shitty with you and either start insulting you or demanding to know why you’re not interested. Everybody wud do the same if someone is abusing and insulting. " You really have your own agenda on this don’t you. After sending no thanks messages, loads of us THEN get abusive messages in return, some of them utterly vile. Blocking is a bloody fantastic tool on here and I for one use it with impunity. | |||
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"Interesting subject, in my opinion I won't even bother about anyone blocking you, just block them back and move on. A lot of people struggle with interpersonal relations based on a lack of confidence, if you get blocked like that don't worry about it. ...or entitlement has led some to believe every transaction should be on their terms." Hello sweetheart , how have you been ?not been seeing a lot of your posts, hope you are keeping well. Madam,you know at this stage of my journey I don't need to feel entitled about anything, I don't need to stress at all, it is not a hard sell for me,am just enjoying myself | |||
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"I usually block when I’m not interested. It’s not a matter of not having manners, but rather when I’ve tried to be polite and say ‘thanks but no thanks’ in the past, the majority of people get really shitty with you and either start insulting you or demanding to know why you’re not interested. Everybody wud do the same if someone is abusing and insulting. You really have your own agenda on this don’t you. After sending no thanks messages, loads of us THEN get abusive messages in return, some of them utterly vile. Blocking is a bloody fantastic tool on here and I for one use it with impunity." Agreed | |||
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"I usually block when I’m not interested. It’s not a matter of not having manners, but rather when I’ve tried to be polite and say ‘thanks but no thanks’ in the past, the majority of people get really shitty with you and either start insulting you or demanding to know why you’re not interested. Everybody wud do the same if someone is abusing and insulting. You really have your own agenda on this don’t you. After sending no thanks messages, loads of us THEN get abusive messages in return, some of them utterly vile. Blocking is a bloody fantastic tool on here and I for one use it with impunity." well put. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" Don't let fab people make you furious or they will have won even more. Smile, laugh and move on | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?It's been said many times but many people not just couples use it as a method of reducing messages, they don't fancy you so no point chatting further, it's a kind of brutal truth Still no need for bad manners though..just say.. sorry your not for us and then maybe block to save coming across each other again " | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Don't let fab people make you furious or they will have won even more. Smile, laugh and move on" Thanks. Was trying to highlight an issue here. Some peeps just get away being negative. | |||
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"Interesting subject, in my opinion I won't even bother about anyone blocking you, just block them back and move on. A lot of people struggle with interpersonal relations based on a lack of confidence, if you get blocked like that don't worry about it. ...or entitlement has led some to believe every transaction should be on their terms. Hello sweetheart , how have you been ?not been seeing a lot of your posts, hope you are keeping well. Madam,you know at this stage of my journey I don't need to feel entitled about anything, I don't need to stress at all, it is not a hard sell for me,am just enjoying myself" Touched on it further up. I've been in hospital more times this year than I've been in my children's, sisters, family and friends homes. I've spent more time with my doctors than my family. Hell, more people have seen my bits than my other half, so I do envy those who have nothing else of note to bother them, allowing them to become apoplectic with rage because someone, a total stranger, has exercised their right not to fuck them. | |||
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"I usually block when I’m not interested. It’s not a matter of not having manners, but rather when I’ve tried to be polite and say ‘thanks but no thanks’ in the past, the majority of people get really shitty with you and either start insulting you or demanding to know why you’re not interested. Everybody wud do the same if someone is abusing and insulting. You really have your own agenda on this don’t you. After sending no thanks messages, loads of us THEN get abusive messages in return, some of them utterly vile. Blocking is a bloody fantastic tool on here and I for one use it with impunity." Yes, we r running for the Mayoral seat on Fab...agenda lol We also block ppl who are insulting and abusing to us. Blocking is good, we r pointing out a typical blocking attitude towards ppl. Apologies if you misread us. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" What a weird point of view. If somebody isn't going to meet you why on earth not block. Why is it obnoxious to block? This isn't a social club or school playground where you have to like everybody, I find people's fear of getting blocked utterly bizarre. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" To be honest, this kind of behaviour makes me laugh, it just shows that it was a good thing I didn't waste too much time (although it's not couples with me) | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. I couldn't agree more I am just getting fed up of people complaining about being blocked, after all its a feature of life if you don't like it find another site where people can't block you. " Thinking of a site where ppl are not so vile . Any suggestions? | |||
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"The internet a bred this kind of behaviour now..because you will never actually see these folk in real life, they can act like this, with no real consequences to them." So what do you think the consequences of blocking somebody should be? | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Don't let fab people make you furious or they will have won even more. Smile, laugh and move on Thanks. Was trying to highlight an issue here. Some peeps just get away being negative. " Tbh, I think you've tarred all couples with the same brush. The couple in question have responded very politely and with dignity on this thread. I don't think this thread will be helping you to find future meets either, possibly the reverse. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" Sorry to hear that - 2 x males have done this to us in last few days 1 of them sent us two nasty comments and blocked us because we didn’t continue to chat with him. Other one showed interest seen the photos, loved them and then blocked us lol If being good looking was a crime hah | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Don't let fab people make you furious or they will have won even more. Smile, laugh and move on Thanks. Was trying to highlight an issue here. Some peeps just get away being negative. " it's not being negative , people are entitled to use the block button how they choose ,u got blocked move on hell I get blocked 2/3 times a week sometimes a day it might be because I'm not good looking ,I'm too far away or they don't like my verifications I just think your loss and move on it's no skin of my nose if they don't want to get to know the real man behind the fab image | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Don't let fab people make you furious or they will have won even more. Smile, laugh and move on Thanks. Was trying to highlight an issue here. Some peeps just get away being negative. " That's what am saying darling, you can't bother yourself about people who act like this, am very respectful and even at that I still come across people like this, the truth is, it might not even be about you, maybe they might be upset about something else and they would just want to take it out on you, don't let anyone dump that negative energy on you , just avoid their lane respectfully and move on to people who make you feel great | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Don't let fab people make you furious or they will have won even more. Smile, laugh and move on Thanks. Was trying to highlight an issue here. Some peeps just get away being negative. it's not being negative , people are entitled to use the block button how they choose ,u got blocked move on hell I get blocked 2/3 times a week sometimes a day it might be because I'm not good looking ,I'm too far away or they don't like my verifications I just think your loss and move on it's no skin of my nose if they don't want to get to know the real man behind the fab image" | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how people who get so upset by a stranger blocking them on a swinging site copes with life. They don't want to mwet you. Would a 'we don't fancy you and have no intention of meeting you' message really be any better? It's about manners.. No it's about neediness and entitlement. There is nothing rude about blocking someone. And while I would personally go for 'thanks but no thanks' I have certainly never given a second thought to someone who's blocked me. " | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? Sorry to hear that - 2 x males have done this to us in last few days 1 of them sent us two nasty comments and blocked us because we didn’t continue to chat with him. Other one showed interest seen the photos, loved them and then blocked us lol If being good looking was a crime hah" Haha it shows their lack of confidence, i believe and they hide behind block button. | |||
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"Interesting subject, in my opinion I won't even bother about anyone blocking you, just block them back and move on. A lot of people struggle with interpersonal relations based on a lack of confidence, if you get blocked like that don't worry about it. ...or entitlement has led some to believe every transaction should be on their terms. Hello sweetheart , how have you been ?not been seeing a lot of your posts, hope you are keeping well. Madam,you know at this stage of my journey I don't need to feel entitled about anything, I don't need to stress at all, it is not a hard sell for me,am just enjoying myself Touched on it further up. I've been in hospital more times this year than I've been in my children's, sisters, family and friends homes. I've spent more time with my doctors than my family. Hell, more people have seen my bits than my other half, so I do envy those who have nothing else of note to bother them, allowing them to become apoplectic with rage because someone, a total stranger, has exercised their right not to fuck them." Sorry darling, am sure everything will work out fine and you will be ok, I understand where you are coming from and accept your position | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? What a weird point of view. If somebody isn't going to meet you why on earth not block. Why is it obnoxious to block? This isn't a social club or school playground where you have to like everybody, I find people's fear of getting blocked utterly bizarre. " Entitlement! | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" Nope it does not make me furious. | |||
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"So someone blocks you,so what?it's not like you were going to meet them,and do you really want to keep can contact with someone that wants nothing to do with you? " | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. I couldn't agree more I am just getting fed up of people complaining about being blocked, after all its a feature of life if you don't like it find another site where people can't block you. Thinking of a site where ppl are not so vile . Any suggestions?" People aren't vile here, it's just your perception. Feel free to leave if it doesn't suit you. | |||
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"Lol! Looks like all single women got the post completely wrong. Ladies, you are entitled to block anyone you like. But thats not the point. Using block button is not the issue here at all. Anyway, the post is not for those who block ppl and move on, its for ppl who genuinely thinks that someone has blocked you unfairly and not being polite. " Add me to the list of 'blockers' | |||
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"I envy some of you: honestly I do. I've spent more time this year with my doctors than I have with my children and grandchildren. I'd love it if my only cause of vextation was a stranger exercising their right to not engage with me for sex. Thankfully I've never had a sense of entitlement, think I have universal appeal or expect others to do things my way. Get over yourselves some of you." Great post | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? No. Blocking is a positive feature of this site and I welcome it. Why not just send face pics with a first message, saves all that time and energy. I couldn't agree more I am just getting fed up of people complaining about being blocked, after all its a feature of life if you don't like it find another site where people can't block you. Thinking of a site where ppl are not so vile . Any suggestions? People aren't vile here, it's just your perception. Feel free to leave if it doesn't suit you. " Exactly, so its your mis perception about us that you felt it to comment something which we never intended to. Please read one more time. We never generalised the issue. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious? What a weird point of view. If somebody isn't going to meet you why on earth not block. Why is it obnoxious to block? This isn't a social club or school playground where you have to like everybody, I find people's fear of getting blocked utterly bizarre. Entitlement!" Again, how can you feel entitled to see somebody's profile, it would be funny if it wasn't serious, and now it's unfair to block, unfair in what way! Is it because they want to carry on perving at the pictures even when you arent going to meet. In which case I can suggest a better site would be one of the porn sites, they can't block. | |||
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"Lol! Looks like all single women got the post completely wrong. Ladies, you are entitled to block anyone you like. But thats not the point. Using block button is not the issue here at all. Anyway, the post is not for those who block ppl and move on, its for ppl who genuinely thinks that someone has blocked you unfairly and not being polite. " Single women haven't got it completely wrong at all. Don't understand why you are taking such offence at being blocked after being politely declined. This thread is a really nasty one purely to get back at the couple in question, whom I have spoken to previously. They seem lovely. Thanks for tarring all of us single women with the same brush as well, by the way. | |||
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"Lol! Looks like all single women got the post completely wrong. Ladies, you are entitled to block anyone you like. But thats not the point. Using block button is not the issue here at all. Anyway, the post is not for those who block ppl and move on, its for ppl who genuinely thinks that someone has blocked you unfairly and not being polite. " You can't just move the goal posts when you don't like the way the thread has gone. And who are you to say what's fair and what isn't fair in terms of people blocking you. | |||
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"Lol! Looks like all single women got the post completely wrong. Ladies, you are entitled to block anyone you like. But thats not the point. Using block button is not the issue here at all. Anyway, the post is not for those who block ppl and move on, its for ppl who genuinely thinks that someone has blocked you unfairly and not being polite. " No its not an agree with you thread or go away either I have to say your arrogance is outstanding if you messaged yourself I am 100% sure you would really not like the people you are messaging and more than likley block yourself. Like others have said you have put yourself in a bad light and doubt people reading will be saying Ooo nice classy friendly couple. | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy?" They are no longer interested. Find someone else who is | |||
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"Lol! Looks like all single women got the post completely wrong. Ladies, you are entitled to block anyone you like. But thats not the point. Using block button is not the issue here at all. Anyway, the post is not for those who block ppl and move on, its for ppl who genuinely thinks that someone has blocked you unfairly and not being polite. No its not an agree with you thread or go away either I have to say your arrogance is outstanding if you messaged yourself I am 100% sure you would really not like the people you are messaging and more than likley block yourself. Like others have said you have put yourself in a bad light and doubt people reading will be saying Ooo nice classy friendly couple. "It's actually all very immature, and I think it's sad that the OP is proof of yet more keyboard warriors of fab | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" nope | |||
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"Some sour grapes lol. Think the thread is about us. And to clarify OP we said nice pics to you in the message but said your not what we are looking for. If you read the dictionary you will find that our actions come no where near to the meaning of obnoxious. We also commented something nice about your pic so we tried to stay positive. Lol! Sour grapes from webcam cpl? Too funny " This is the most obnoxious thing I have read on this thread, so far! | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? They are no longer interested. Find someone else who is " This | |||
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"Lol! Looks like all single women got the post completely wrong. Ladies, you are entitled to block anyone you like. But thats not the point. Using block button is not the issue here at all. Anyway, the post is not for those who block ppl and move on, its for ppl who genuinely thinks that someone has blocked you unfairly and not being polite. " Define "unfairly". | |||
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"Lol! Looks like all single women got the post completely wrong. Ladies, you are entitled to block anyone you like. But thats not the point. Using block button is not the issue here at all. Anyway, the post is not for those who block ppl and move on, its for ppl who genuinely thinks that someone has blocked you unfairly and not being polite. No its not an agree with you thread or go away either I have to say your arrogance is outstanding if you messaged yourself I am 100% sure you would really not like the people you are messaging and more than likley block yourself. Like others have said you have put yourself in a bad light and doubt people reading will be saying Ooo nice classy friendly couple.
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"Some sour grapes lol. Think the thread is about us. And to clarify OP we said nice pics to you in the message but said your not what we are looking for. If you read the dictionary you will find that our actions come no where near to the meaning of obnoxious. We also commented something nice about your pic so we tried to stay positive. Lol! Sour grapes from webcam cpl? Too funny This is the most obnoxious thing I have read on this thread, so far! "Isn't it? | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy?" That they didnt want to meet you? | |||
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"Some sour grapes lol. Think the thread is about us. And to clarify OP we said nice pics to you in the message but said your not what we are looking for. If you read the dictionary you will find that our actions come no where near to the meaning of obnoxious. We also commented something nice about your pic so we tried to stay positive. Lol! Sour grapes from webcam cpl? Too funny This is the most obnoxious thing I have read on this thread, so far! "Like I posted earlier, the couple responded with dignity. Sadly lacking from some of the posts it would seem. | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" No, but then again I usually have face pics on my profile, so if men don’t like what I look like, they can choose not to reply/message me first and can block me if they see wish. And I’ll probably never know. Many people get abuse for sending a polite rejection, so it is far easier to block. The block button is there to be used. | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy?" It's rude and it's childish. You're human beings not pieces of meat. Some people think it's ok to treat people like meat. You'll find many supporting their strange ways on this thread. It IS rude. Be thankful you'll never meet them. That's a positive. You're better than that. x | |||
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"The internet a bred this kind of behaviour now..because you will never actually see these folk in real life, they can act like this, with no real consequences to them."
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy?" Now you're amending your original post to try and look less entitled. Would I be correct in assuming it's the male half posting? | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? It's rude and it's childish. You're human beings not pieces of meat. Some people think it's ok to treat people like meat. You'll find many supporting their strange ways on this thread. It IS rude. Be thankful you'll never meet them. That's a positive. You're better than that. x" Oh yes. We are glad that we never met them. Got another cpl who after sharing some niceties on chat, asked for Mrs phone number. We refused it politely and found ourselves blocked the next day . Its just shocking . | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude." You've called people idiots for blocking you. You;ve called people obnoxious for blocking you. You've complained people have blocked you unfairly. You've laughed at people and accused them of having no confidence. You've asked about sites where people aren't vile. An d I;m sure if I kept scrolling up there would be more of the same. And you are accusing other people of being rude? Answer me this if they hadn't blocked you, what would you have said to them about being declined? Because nothing on this thread suggests you'd have accepted it and moved on | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy?" Why do you feel the need to say so called classy ? We wouldn’t get to message 2 without a photo . We wouldn’t reply to any message that didn’t have a face photo attached . They didn’t fancy you and blocked you. You have called them vile and obnoxious that’s why people have turned against you. If you had started a thread saying you find it frustrating when people block without saying no and not calling the other couple names you would have had a more positive thread. You’ve only made yourselves look bad | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy?" It clearly has riled you, it may be it was a bit rude of them but there's only your side of it and not sure with your reaction to it that your looking at it objectively.. It's nothing like idiocy or people being obnoxious or vile.. | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? It's rude and it's childish. You're human beings not pieces of meat. Some people think it's ok to treat people like meat. You'll find many supporting their strange ways on this thread. It IS rude. Be thankful you'll never meet them. That's a positive. You're better than that. x Oh yes. We are glad that we never met them. Got another cpl who after sharing some niceties on chat, asked for Mrs phone number. We refused it politely and found ourselves blocked the next day . Its just shocking ." Why is it shocking? Plenty of reason for blocking have already been given on this thread. Try reading them. | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? It's rude and it's childish. You're human beings not pieces of meat. Some people think it's ok to treat people like meat. You'll find many supporting their strange ways on this thread. It IS rude. Be thankful you'll never meet them. That's a positive. You're better than that. x Oh yes. We are glad that we never met them. Got another cpl who after sharing some niceties on chat, asked for Mrs phone number. We refused it politely and found ourselves blocked the next day . Its just shocking ." What's shocking about that? | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? It's rude and it's childish. You're human beings not pieces of meat. Some people think it's ok to treat people like meat. You'll find many supporting their strange ways on this thread. It IS rude. Be thankful you'll never meet them. That's a positive. You're better than that. x Oh yes. We are glad that we never met them. Got another cpl who after sharing some niceties on chat, asked for Mrs phone number. We refused it politely and found ourselves blocked the next day . Its just shocking ." A lot of people like to verify via a phone conversation. They wanted to speak on the phone. You didn't. So what do you suggest? If you weren't willing to compromise about giving the number why should they compromise about wanting it? | |||
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"Yes in a word, it does. Ok so someone else might not be your type but you could still get on really well & heaven forbid go for a drink, chat & become friends. " Maybe they've got enough friends? | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? It's rude and it's childish. You're human beings not pieces of meat. Some people think it's ok to treat people like meat. You'll find many supporting their strange ways on this thread. It IS rude. Be thankful you'll never meet them. That's a positive. You're better than that. x Oh yes. We are glad that we never met them. Got another cpl who after sharing some niceties on chat, asked for Mrs phone number. We refused it politely and found ourselves blocked the next day . Its just shocking ." standard practice to speak to u on phone and confirm everyone is genuine and not a single man posing as a couple ,did I ask for their number ,no u just blocked so their first thought would be must be a man posing as a couple | |||
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"Yes in a word, it does. Ok so someone else might not be your type but you could still get on really well & heaven forbid go for a drink, chat & become friends. Maybe they've got enough friends? " A valid point | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? It's rude and it's childish. You're human beings not pieces of meat. Some people think it's ok to treat people like meat. You'll find many supporting their strange ways on this thread. It IS rude. Be thankful you'll never meet them. That's a positive. You're better than that. x Oh yes. We are glad that we never met them. Got another cpl who after sharing some niceties on chat, asked for Mrs phone number. We refused it politely and found ourselves blocked the next day . Its just shocking ." Probably just a man wanting wank chat. | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? Why do you feel the need to say so called classy ? We wouldn’t get to message 2 without a photo . We wouldn’t reply to any message that didn’t have a face photo attached . They didn’t fancy you and blocked you. You have called them vile and obnoxious that’s why people have turned against you. If you had started a thread saying you find it frustrating when people block without saying no and not calling the other couple names you would have had a more positive thread. You’ve only made yourselves look bad " Normally. We never chat on forums, we are on Fab for merely 9 months. Met some fantastic ppl and ppl who we approached were also good. Had many rejections too, never had complaints. But in this journey,we did found that some ppl blocked us without being polite about it. Not all, some, i am talking about 4 to 5 cpls. I am not generalising at all | |||
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"It happened few times with us. Cpls ask for face pics and when we send them, they straight away blocked us. When we dont like anyone then we politely decline with positive comment and never block cpls or singles. Hate when someone just blocks you as if you got the deadliest disease. Doesnt it makes you furious?" I try not to allow people to annoy me on here. It's not worth worrying about people who DON'T want to meet us, better to concentrate on those who DO. Cal | |||
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"Guys guys, hold on pls Let me assert here one more time. Its not about blocking people, its not about our entitlement to block ppl. Its about being rude. Let me give one more example We were approached by a so called classy cpl. We exchanged hi hello. Then we chatted about places and meets. And after 6 messages, that cpl suddenly blocked us. What could you say to that idiocy? It clearly has riled you, it may be it was a bit rude of them but there's only your side of it and not sure with your reaction to it that your looking at it objectively.. It's nothing like idiocy or people being obnoxious or vile.. " The couple they referred to and mentioned on their status (now removed) have replied with a contradictory, yet polite, dignified response, only to be insulted further by the op. | |||
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