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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi guys, may I take this opportunity to introduce myself as a potential candidate for yourselves or any other couples/fems. I can hold a conversation am squeaky clean, neatly trimmed, well behaved and fully understand/respect peoples limits.
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"this is a pastime we guys so enjoy but its getting harder to find decent guys to bed our wives one liner messages dont do it for us come on guys where are you."
Why not block all single guys and do your own search that way you will always find exactly what your looking for just a thought |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Ooh the title of the thread makes me cringe. Sorry! And then the opening post made me cringe even more......
There is a school of thought that certain types of profiles attract certain types of people.. So if you are not attracting the type of person that you are after... Might be a place to start
Is it the type of profile I am likely to reply to.. Not really.. But i am probably not the type you are trying to attract....
You can wait on people to come to you and be reactive.... Or you can go out and wow people and be proactive!!
I think some people seem to have forgotten that attraction is a two way street, in that people have to attract me as much as I attract them!
Or was this just suppose to be a "look at me" thread....... |
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if there is no interaction there can never be any real chemistry. One liners are not the normal thing that you find from me. Reading your profile it needs a bit more adding to it and a bit of character. I am sure there are plenty of takers on here looking to meet couples and have fun so the best of luck |
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No pictures, and all you specify is smooth. Smooth, and we reiterate smooth.
Perhaps if you were to display a little personality than people might be able to engage with you. Comes across as a lazy couple who didnt make an effort as you will get messages anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No pictures, and all you specify is smooth. Smooth, and we reiterate smooth.
Perhaps if you were to display a little personality than people might be able to engage with you. Comes across as a lazy couple who didnt make an effort as you will get messages anyway."
Have I missed something? I can't seem to find where the OP asked anyone to critique their profile  |
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"Ooh the title of the thread makes me cringe. Sorry! And then the opening post made me cringe even more......
There is a school of thought that certain types of profiles attract certain types of people.. So if you are not attracting the type of person that you are after... Might be a place to start
Is it the type of profile I am likely to reply to.. Not really.. But i am probably not the type you are trying to attract....
You can wait on people to come to you and be reactive.... Or you can go out and wow people and be proactive!!
I think some people seem to have forgotten that attraction is a two way street, in that people have to attract me as much as I attract them!
Or was this just suppose to be a "look at me" thread......."
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"is this just becoming a place to insult people it was a light harted post about not finding many men who want to meet . what has this site become ?"
i saw nothing light hearted in the way you describe your wife a a thing to be passed around.
There are plenty of bantering threads started every day...i think you might do well to join in rather than critise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is this just becoming a place to insult people it was a light harted post about not finding many men who want to meet . what has this site become ?"
Though I don't agree with the profile assassinations perhaps an emoticon would have assisted the light hearted intent!
And there are some nice genuine guys and we do meet! Hopefully I fall into that category Hehe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooh the title of the thread makes me cringe. Sorry! And then the opening post made me cringe even more......
There is a school of thought that certain types of profiles attract certain types of people.. So if you are not attracting the type of person that you are after... Might be a place to start
Is it the type of profile I am likely to reply to.. Not really.. But i am probably not the type you are trying to attract....
You can wait on people to come to you and be reactive.... Or you can go out and wow people and be proactive!!
I think some people seem to have forgotten that attraction is a two way street, in that people have to attract me as much as I attract them!
Or was this just suppose to be a "look at me" thread......."
Oooh, not just me! Yes, the title and thread made me cringe. Reminds me also of women with names like dirtyslagslut starting threads about getting one line "wanna fuck" messages from single men.
Quelle...surprise!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This whole scene runs like a caste system, with single guys at the bottom of the food chain.
I've found that Some couples/ male half of the couples get off on looking down on single guys, able to wield the power because they have something that the poor no mates single doesn't. That attitude is pretty common.
And I'm sure I'm not alone in being a guy who has taken time out to write an introductory email , only to see that the mail was instantly deleted, even when all signs indicated that we have shared interests i common etc.
I recently had an email from a couple who were online, and I tried writing back to them, only to find that I'd been blocked! These sort of power trips and mind games played by some couples don't encourage single guys to take time out and write.
It's easy therefore to see why some people might just cut to the chase with a cold 'fancy a fuck type' intro mail, or cut and paste some cliched uninspiring text, if they think despite an appealing profile picture and common interests - in reality they're only going to be ignored or deleted by some dispassionate, ill mannered and dare I say poorly educated slobs.
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"Ooh the title of the thread makes me cringe. Sorry! And then the opening post made me cringe even more......
There is a school of thought that certain types of profiles attract certain types of people.. So if you are not attracting the type of person that you are after... Might be a place to start
Is it the type of profile I am likely to reply to.. Not really.. But i am probably not the type you are trying to attract....
You can wait on people to come to you and be reactive.... Or you can go out and wow people and be proactive!!
I think some people seem to have forgotten that attraction is a two way street, in that people have to attract me as much as I attract them!
Or was this just suppose to be a "look at me" thread.......
Oooh, not just me! Yes, the title and thread made me cringe. Reminds me also of women with names like dirtyslagslut starting threads about getting one line "wanna fuck" messages from single men.
Quelle...surprise! "
so much this and if you criticise the msgs you receive than you open yourself up to criticism. Or is this a single bashing site now |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"this is a pastime we guys so enjoy but its getting harder to find decent guys to bed our wives one liner messages dont do it for us come on guys where are you."
Why not try contacting some yourselves...
There are lots of lovely decent guys to choose from |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"title of thread made me cringe also. then reading post, it just come across as a lazy way of getting single men noticing you"
I wholeheartedly agree PP.
For information you should take a leaf our of this funny lady's book. Her attractiveness and appeal is borne out of a profile that is clear and very witty. Needless to say she gets the attention she deserves.
As some one who understands the OP's need.I think you need to work a little on your profile filter out single guys; and you and your wife browse through the available males in your taste and area.
Happy hunting |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Ooh the title of the thread makes me cringe. Sorry! And then the opening post made me cringe even more......
There is a school of thought that certain types of profiles attract certain types of people.. So if you are not attracting the type of person that you are after... Might be a place to start
Is it the type of profile I am likely to reply to.. Not really.. But i am probably not the type you are trying to attract....
You can wait on people to come to you and be reactive.... Or you can go out and wow people and be proactive!!
I think some people seem to have forgotten that attraction is a two way street, in that people have to attract me as much as I attract them!
Or was this just suppose to be a "look at me" thread.......
Oooh, not just me! Yes, the title and thread made me cringe. Reminds me also of women with names like dirtyslagslut starting threads about getting one line "wanna fuck" messages from single men.
Quelle...surprise! "
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"This whole scene runs like a caste system, with single guys at the bottom of the food chain.
I've found that Some couples/ male half of the couples get off on looking down on single guys, able to wield the power because they have something that the poor no mates single doesn't. That attitude is pretty common.
And I'm sure I'm not alone in being a guy who has taken time out to write an introductory email , only to see that the mail was instantly deleted, even when all signs indicated that we have shared interests i common etc.
I recently had an email from a couple who were online, and I tried writing back to them, only to find that I'd been blocked! These sort of power trips and mind games played by some couples don't encourage single guys to take time out and write.
It's easy therefore to see why some people might just cut to the chase with a cold 'fancy a fuck type' intro mail, or cut and paste some cliched uninspiring text, if they think despite an appealing profile picture and common interests - in reality they're only going to be ignored or deleted by some dispassionate, ill mannered and dare I say poorly educated slobs.
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Absoulutely spot on that man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol, the complexities of swinging, that's why 10 years ago we took to dogging.
Go out, see who's about, someone takes our fancy, be it a couple or single, have a chat, if we click off we go somewhere quiet, fun for all.
None of this email tennis that seems to be obligatory on the swinging home meet scene.
Looking at the thread title we think the OP was being tongue in cheek and didn't really see it as a pop at genuine folks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No pictures, and all you specify is smooth. Smooth, and we reiterate smooth.
Perhaps if you were to display a little personality than people might be able to engage with you. Comes across as a lazy couple who didnt make an effort as you will get messages anyway.
Have I missed something? I can't seem to find where the OP asked anyone to critique their profile "
everytime a single guy starts a thread about not beeing able to get a meet, then all hell breaks loose, so why should it be any different for a couple? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I know somewhere the OP can go to meet single guy gagging to meet their wife. A club!! A nice choice of different guys, all ready and willing. Warmer than dogging and more reliable than meeting off here. |
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"No pictures, and all you specify is smooth. Smooth, and we reiterate smooth.
Perhaps if you were to display a little personality than people might be able to engage with you. Comes across as a lazy couple who didnt make an effort as you will get messages anyway.
Have I missed something? I can't seem to find where the OP asked anyone to critique their profile
everytime a single guy starts a thread about not beeing able to get a meet, then all hell breaks loose, so why should it be any different for a couple?"
because single guys are pariahs and lepers and should take abuse and be eternally grateful when someone deigns to reply to them, it would seem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even the title "our wives", the denotation of possession is a turn off in itself. Sorry it sounds bit, this is mine, you can play with it, if i say so.
Very unappealing use of phrase"
got to agree with this post. for once were singing off the same page. i wont dare say though, that the show isnt over till the fat lady sings  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"title of thread made me cringe also. then reading post, it just come across as a lazy way of getting single men noticing you
I wholeheartedly agree PP.
For information you should take a leaf our of this funny lady's book. Her attractiveness and appeal is borne out of a profile that is clear and very witty. Needless to say she gets the attention she deserves.
As some one who understands the OP's need.I think you need to work a little on your profile filter out single guys; and you and your wife browse through the available males in your taste and area.
Happy hunting"
IOU for a blowjob is in the post as we speak  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i always reply ,with courteously and respect,after we are trying to give someones wife one.I always treat people as i wish to be treated,and try to give a balanced message ,we are out there ,thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooh the title of the thread makes me cringe. Sorry! And then the opening post made me cringe even more......
There is a school of thought that certain types of profiles attract certain types of people.. So if you are not attracting the type of person that you are after... Might be a place to start
Is it the type of profile I am likely to reply to.. Not really.. But i am probably not the type you are trying to attract....
You can wait on people to come to you and be reactive.... Or you can go out and wow people and be proactive!!
I think some people seem to have forgotten that attraction is a two way street, in that people have to attract me as much as I attract them!
Or was this just suppose to be a "look at me" thread......."
OUCH! ...but so true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"title of thread made me cringe also. then reading post, it just come across as a lazy way of getting single men noticing you
I wholeheartedly agree PP.
For information you should take a leaf our of this funny lady's book. Her attractiveness and appeal is borne out of a profile that is clear and very witty. Needless to say she gets the attention she deserves.
As some one who understands the OP's need.I think you need to work a little on your profile filter out single guys; and you and your wife browse through the available males in your taste and area.
Happy hunting
IOU for a blowjob is in the post as we speak "
Now that has to be the "must have gift" this Christmas!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"title of thread made me cringe also. then reading post, it just come across as a lazy way of getting single men noticing you
I wholeheartedly agree PP.
For information you should take a leaf our of this funny lady's book. Her attractiveness and appeal is borne out of a profile that is clear and very witty. Needless to say she gets the attention she deserves.
As some one who understands the OP's need.I think you need to work a little on your profile filter out single guys; and you and your wife browse through the available males in your taste and area.
Happy hunting
IOU for a blowjob is in the post as we speak "
Much as I would appreciate a BJ; I am more greedy; pour me a voddy and lets have a laff  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"title of thread made me cringe also. then reading post, it just come across as a lazy way of getting single men noticing you
I wholeheartedly agree PP.
For information you should take a leaf our of this funny lady's book. Her attractiveness and appeal is borne out of a profile that is clear and very witty. Needless to say she gets the attention she deserves.
As some one who understands the OP's need.I think you need to work a little on your profile filter out single guys; and you and your wife browse through the available males in your taste and area.
Happy hunting
IOU for a blowjob is in the post as we speak
Now that has to be the "must have gift" this Christmas! "
You are so right; strange thing is it is very appropriate to this thread.
PP is a very special lady who knows how have fun. She is like a cobra charmer in chat with her flute in one hand a voddy in the other. A true FABSWINGER and an exmple to those who want to have a good time in this lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair to the single guys we do get a lot of good emails, therefore can't complain.
We do get the "fancy a shag now" emails which just get ignored and deleted... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is a pastime we guys so enjoy but its getting harder to find decent guys to bed our wives one liner messages dont do it for us come on guys where are you."
Personally I enjoy meeting couples as well as single ladies. I always give it my best and realise that above all the lady must be pleasured to her hearts content. Generally the male half of couples who meet with single guys gets turned on by watching his wife/gf driven wild, so if I can help with helping her achieve bliss then its a roaring success for all concerned, hardly tricky to figure out.
I can't understand how the OP would find it so difficult tbh, as most men I have spoken to on here are of the same opinions as myself.
My advice would be simple, browse profiles for the type that appeal to both of you, then make contact. That way the man who fucks the good lady for the pleasure of all involved, especially her, can be vetted so that you know he is suitable for making her squirm with delight... |
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"Even the title "our wives", the denotation of possession is a turn off in itself. Sorry it sounds bit, this is mine, you can play with it, if i say so.
Very unappealing use of phrase
got to agree with this post. for once were singing off the same page. i wont dare say though, that the show isnt over till the fat lady sings "
i think you meant we're, or more properly we are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair to the single guys we do get a lot of good emails, therefore can't complain.
We do get the "fancy a shag now" emails which just get ignored and deleted... "
I wanna do u next julember |
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"Ooh the title of the thread makes me cringe. Sorry! And then the opening post made me cringe even more......
There is a school of thought that certain types of profiles attract certain types of people.. So if you are not attracting the type of person that you are after... Might be a place to start
Is it the type of profile I am likely to reply to.. Not really.. But i am probably not the type you are trying to attract....
You can wait on people to come to you and be reactive.... Or you can go out and wow people and be proactive!!
I think some people seem to have forgotten that attraction is a two way street, in that people have to attract me as much as I attract them!
Or was this just suppose to be a "look at me" thread......."
very well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even the title "our wives", the denotation of possession is a turn off in itself. Sorry it sounds bit, this is mine, you can play with it, if i say so.
Very unappealing use of phrase"
I was thinking the same thing!
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By (user no longer on site)
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ive never found it hard to meet single guys off here, infact i get more offers than i can possably meet, ok some messages are not worthy of a reply but i find most guys on here send ok messages and i have met loads of nice decent guys off here
I have a list of guys at the moment who i would love to meet them all but simply do not have the time to get thro them all as quicky as they would like so most get bored and move onto someone else before i have the chance to get round to them |
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"Oooh, not just me! Yes, the title and thread made me cringe. Reminds me also of women with names like dirtyslagslut starting threads about getting one line "wanna fuck" messages from single men.
Quelle...surprise! "
hahaha, that's what it made me think of too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even the title "our wives", the denotation of possession is a turn off in itself. Sorry it sounds bit, this is mine, you can play with it, if i say so.
Very unappealing use of phrase
got to agree with this post. for once were singing off the same page. i wont dare say though, that the show isnt over till the fat lady sings
i think you meant we're, or more properly we are "
oh excuse me, perhaps I should say kiss my bear arse or should that be bare arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even the title "our wives", the denotation of possession is a turn off in itself. Sorry it sounds bit, this is mine, you can play with it, if i say so.
Very unappealing use of phrase
got to agree with this post. for once were singing off the same page. i wont dare say though, that the show isnt over till the fat lady sings
i think you meant we're, or more properly we are
oh excuse me, perhaps I should say kiss my bear arse or should that be bare arse "
Jeepers someone was getting picky! I think someone has had their ego bruised and is lashing out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even the title "our wives", the denotation of possession is a turn off in itself. Sorry it sounds bit, this is mine, you can play with it, if i say so.
Very unappealing use of phrase
got to agree with this post. for once were singing off the same page. i wont dare say though, that the show isnt over till the fat lady sings
i think you meant we're, or more properly we are
oh excuse me, perhaps I should say kiss my bear arse or should that be bare arse
Jeepers someone was getting picky! I think someone has had their ego bruised and is lashing out!"
erm  my ego is quite inflated it doesnt bruise easily I will have you know lol |
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"Even the title "our wives", the denotation of possession is a turn off in itself. Sorry it sounds bit, this is mine, you can play with it, if i say so.
Very unappealing use of phrase
got to agree with this post. for once were singing off the same page. i wont dare say though, that the show isnt over till the fat lady sings
i think you meant we're, or more properly we are
oh excuse me, perhaps I should say kiss my bear arse or should that be bare arse
Jeepers someone was getting picky! I think someone has had their ego bruised and is lashing out!"
who said who in the what now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't have any problems meeting single guys. Yes I get the odd silly message but the majority of guys are really nice.
It sounds terribly egotistical to say I have a waiting list, and I don't mean to sound this way, but I do have a list of guys I'd love to meet with but timing prevents us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many cocks and too little time
if ya puncture em with them heels of yours, do you blow em back up again after ;o) lol xx
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yep. i give them the kiss of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This whole scene runs like a caste system, with single guys at the bottom of the food chain.
I've found that Some couples/ male half of the couples get off on looking down on single guys, able to wield the power because they have something that the poor no mates single doesn't. That attitude is pretty common.
And I'm sure I'm not alone in being a guy who has taken time out to write an introductory email , only to see that the mail was instantly deleted, even when all signs indicated that we have shared interests i common etc.
I recently had an email from a couple who were online, and I tried writing back to them, only to find that I'd been blocked! These sort of power trips and mind games played by some couples don't encourage single guys to take time out and write.
It's easy therefore to see why some people might just cut to the chase with a cold 'fancy a fuck type' intro mail, or cut and paste some cliched uninspiring text, if they think despite an appealing profile picture and common interests - in reality they're only going to be ignored or deleted by some dispassionate, ill mannered and dare I say poorly educated slobs.
Absoulutely spot on that man "
Thanks very much. Glad to see my experience isn't one shared by me alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is this just becoming a place to insult people it was a light harted post about not finding many men who want to meet . what has this site become ?
i saw nothing light hearted in the way you describe your wife a a thing to be passed around.
There are plenty of bantering threads started every day...i think you might do well to join in rather than critise "
Can joining in the banter include remarking on your novel way of spelling criticise (with a z also acceptable)? |
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"is this just becoming a place to insult people it was a light harted post about not finding many men who want to meet . what has this site become ?
i saw nothing light hearted in the way you describe your wife a a thing to be passed around.
There are plenty of bantering threads started every day...i think you might do well to join in rather than critise
Can joining in the banter include remarking on your novel way of spelling criticise (with a z also acceptable)?"
Wooh be careful now, I got a 24 hour forum ban for a light hearted quip about spelling mistakes and text speak!
(though as you aren't a single male you will probably get away with it! Hehe)  |
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"this is a pastime we guys so enjoy but its getting harder to find decent guys to bed our wives one liner messages dont do it for us come on guys where are you."
To get back to the op, there are apparently too many of us ' single guys' only some of us are clean discreet and able to hold a conversation.
You like watching your wife having sex, hopefully she likes to do it in front of you. Nothing wrong with that whatsoever. As it happens I like being part of a threesome.......  |
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