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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is playing away a big no no for most on here?

I can understand both sides of the argument, just thought I'd try and get the general concensus.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Opinions are divided with most being in the against camp.

Life's complicated, everyone has a story to tell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has their reasons for everything I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some prefer playing away, more to lose if not discrete, less clingy etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some prefer playing away, more to lose if not discrete, less clingy etc."

This is very true!!

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By *iss PermahornyWoman over a year ago

Lady Wank Chariot (LWC)

Nobody should judge, each to their own. I do have a thing for married men, personally, although I am not married myself. Xx

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Most will say it's a no no, just be honest about it on your profile then people can choose whether to meet you or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody should judge, each to their own. I do have a thing for married men, personally, although I am not married myself. Xx"

Oooo hello...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some do, some don’t, some say so, some don’t.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us a no no. Doesn’t feel right for us but more than that it’s the potential drama if a partner finds out/turns up at a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why play away when playing separately can be amicably agreed upon?

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By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

"Nobody should judge, each to their own. I do have a thing for married men, personally, although I am not married myself. Xx"

Women who have a thing for married men are few and far between - but always great fun to play with!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Nobody should judge, each to their own. I do have a thing for married men, personally, although I am not married myself. Xx"

I have a thing for people who like married men x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The majority will say on here that they won't play with married/attached people. But who believes everything they read?

Also those who say they won't, funnily enough forget that rule when entering a club. It suddenly doesn't matter as much.

I will play with married people as I'm open minded enough to know life is rarely black and white.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Inherently I believe deceit is unfair in most case, but we all have our stories. I’ve been guilt of it in past relationships....so cast absolutely no judgment. My FB is married, it’s his burden not mine.

MrsK xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't say it would bother me. I'm just looking for good sex and not a partner. So can't see why not.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

I love playing away as the fans that travel are noisier and it's usually a better day/evening out than playing at home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do but I have my reasons and I say I’m married...no one should judge and if it’s not your thing just stay away from us.....

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

Having been cheated on by exes and knowing the pain it causes we wouldn't want to be potentially causing this for anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is playing away a big no no for most on here?

I can understand both sides of the argument, just thought I'd try and get the general concensus. "

For me its all down to trust!

If you lie to your wife you sure as hell will lie to me.

So if I ask you if you are STI free well its a pointless question as you are not honest so easier to move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is playing away a big no no for most on here?

I can understand both sides of the argument, just thought I'd try and get the general concensus.

For me its all down to trust!

If you lie to your wife you sure as hell will lie to me.

So if I ask you if you are STI free well its a pointless question as you are not honest so easier to move on. "

Anyone else can lie about STI though too, so being married and cheating isn't relative.

It's a daft comparison.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if im in a relationship im not interested in anyone else.

what anyone else does is there business

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Opinions are divided with most being in the against camp.

Life's complicated, everyone has a story to tell"

Absolutely. I couldn't agree more x x

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By *exyman261Man over a year ago

Banbury

"For us a no no. Doesn’t feel right for us but more than that it’s the potential drama if a partner finds out/turns up at a meet. "

Has that happened?

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By *annylickerMan over a year ago

Chester-le-Street

"Is playing away a big no no for most on here?

I can understand both sides of the argument, just thought I'd try and get the general concensus. "

Married and always discreet, but my meets are few and far between

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By *hunderstruckMan over a year ago

Northampton

"Is playing away a big no no for most on here?

I can understand both sides of the argument, just thought I'd try and get the general concensus.

For me its all down to trust!

If you lie to your wife you sure as hell will lie to me.

So if I ask you if you are STI free well its a pointless question as you are not honest so easier to move on. "

I read a post where a woman had no qualms about meeting a married man because “ he would be more cautious and wouldn’t bring anything home”

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Is playing away a big no no for most on here?

I can understand both sides of the argument, just thought I'd try and get the general concensus.

For me its all down to trust!

If you lie to your wife you sure as hell will lie to me.

So if I ask you if you are STI free well its a pointless question as you are not honest so easier to move on.

I read a post where a woman had no qualms about meeting a married man because “ he would be more cautious and wouldn’t bring anything home”"

I've never understood that reasoning. Marriage isn't a charm against disease.

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