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Penetration yea or not always necessary?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so interesting point here. Bit odd for a man, but I don't often like penetration in sex. I love women but I like to give 100% but not always like the actual fucking bit.
I feel that I can give satisfaction without it. Some women think that I'm either not into it (wrongly!) or I'm not into them (also very wrong!)
Thoughts?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not always has to be.
one women i had meet a few years ago on another site and had stayed in contact with by text asked me if she could meet.
not for sex, she had real problems just wanted someone to hold her through the night and talk for a bit.
i was very happy to be there for her and even though she is now out of the country she still contacts me and talks about things.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Penetration is great but it doesn’t always have to be with a penis, I appreciate fingers greatly  "
I do too! Can’t cum through penetration alone but can being fingered. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Penetration is great but it doesn’t always have to be with a penis, I appreciate fingers greatly "
I will concede to that point, if done correctly then fingering can be great fun. I can speak from experience, but some ladies have told me that some men finger like they are digging for gold.
( the trick men, I have found is gentle 'come here! Motions) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think for straight ladies playing one on one its expected that penetration will happen, for us bi girls playing FFM or MFMF etc it’s not the be all and end all |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I'd be really disappointed if I didn't get actual sex. It takes me ages to find guys I'm compatible with so I'd rather someone was upfront with me so I knew they weren't going to give me 100%. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In all honest why would I only want half the fun? If a guy can't fully perform then I will pass. Sorry to be brutal but at least I am honest. "
I respect your honesty. I salute you for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a necessity for me, my enjoyment comes from giving pleasure however it is preferred. If penetration isn’t desired I can always lock the wee fella away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so interesting point here. Bit odd for a man, but I don't often like penetration in sex. I love women but I like to give 100% but not always like the actual fucking bit.
I feel that I can give satisfaction without it. Some women think that I'm either not into it (wrongly!) or I'm not into them (also very wrong!)
Thoughts?
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My hubby would relate to that. He really dislikes fucking (one reason I'm here) and much prefers to play other ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm interesting. I do like all the other bits to do with sex, but I think my mind would consider things not quite finished and I would be hankering for more. I do love the feeling of being filled with cock,and the pressure/presence of the man behind it. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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I'm shortsighted and end up with some curious looks when I start shagging miscellaneous items while using my usual defensive cover line of "so what's so weird about shagging the..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmm interesting. I do like all the other bits to do with sex, but I think my mind would consider things not quite finished and I would be hankering for more. I do love the feeling of being filled with cock,and the pressure/presence of the man behind it. "
Offt! Starts the car. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there is going to be any sexual activity then penetration needs to be a part of that if it just a casual meet. That is the best way to make me cum so... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on my mood really in my case. Sometimes I just crave a long makeout and oral session mutually, and sometimes all I can think of is grabbing someone's hair and fucking them hard in doggy playing out my breeding fantasy in my head. So it all depends really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Penetration is a necessity for me.
I don't cum on meets so extended amounts of oral on me would bore me senseless.
And while I'm very much a giver, I still want a cock in me for my efforts as I enjoy the feeling of being fucked even if there is no finish for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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foreplay is very important to us, we love teasing each other before penetration,
however we sometimes just enjoy foreplay and mutual masturbation,
for us penetration is not the be all and end all but do enjoy it most time we play |
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Whole I enjoy the other bits it's not fully complete without giving her some dick.
I remember staying at friends house, we were work colleagues, work night out, had a fumble, oral, but I don't consider we had sex because we didn't stick it in, no condoms if you're wondering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, the foreplay part is the best bit for me, the exploring, the kissing, the licking, the stroking .. the penetration bit is an ends to a means for me but I prefer all the stuff that precedes it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so interesting point here. Bit odd for a man, but I don't often like penetration in sex. I love women but I like to give 100% but not always like the actual fucking bit.
I feel that I can give satisfaction without it. Some women think that I'm either not into it (wrongly!) or I'm not into them (also very wrong!)
Thoughts?
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I've had better sexual moments with foreplay only and my orgasms are more intense too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All these blokes saying they prefer foreplay, so women will think they’re considerate lovers, yeah pull the other one, stop playing to the female gallery. Yeah, foreplay is good but it’s just the amusé bouche to sticking your cock in a nice wet and warm vagina and honestly I can’t get in there quick enough, in fact I’ll keep taking it out, just so I can put it back in again.
Big fan of vaginas. Morning ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If women just want foreplay they can use there toys for that, what they all crave is to feel the weight of a bloke on top of her, blowing his beans inside her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women just want foreplay they can use there toys for that, what they all crave is to feel the weight of a bloke on top of her, blowing his beans inside her. "
I prefer being on top |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All these blokes saying they prefer foreplay, so women will think they’re considerate lovers, yeah pull the other one, stop playing to the female gallery. Yeah, foreplay is good but it’s just the amusé bouche to sticking your cock in a nice wet and warm vagina and honestly I can’t get in there quick enough, in fact I’ll keep taking it out, just so I can put it back in again.
Big fan of vaginas. Morning ladies "
I don't think you have been clear enough, can you explain what you really mean
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women just want foreplay they can use there toys for that, what they all crave is to feel the weight of a bloke on top of her, blowing his beans inside her.
I prefer being on top "
I know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women just want foreplay they can use there toys for that, what they all crave is to feel the weight of a bloke on top of her, blowing his beans inside her.
I prefer being on top
I know. "
Didn’t hear you complaining when you had a mouthful of my tits though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women just want foreplay they can use there toys for that, what they all crave is to feel the weight of a bloke on top of her, blowing his beans inside her.
I prefer being on top
I know.
Didn’t hear you complaining when you had a mouthful of my tits though "
How could I complain with your tits in my mouth, the mumbling I was making, was me trying to shout out the safe word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women just want foreplay they can use there toys for that, what they all crave is to feel the weight of a bloke on top of her, blowing his beans inside her.
I prefer being on top
I know.
Didn’t hear you complaining when you had a mouthful of my tits though
How could I complain with your tits in my mouth, the mumbling I was making, was me trying to shout out the safe word. "
You survived, didn’t you? Stop your whinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women just want foreplay they can use there toys for that, what they all crave is to feel the weight of a bloke on top of her, blowing his beans inside her.
I prefer being on top
I know.
Didn’t hear you complaining when you had a mouthful of my tits though
How could I complain with your tits in my mouth, the mumbling I was making, was me trying to shout out the safe word.
You survived, didn’t you? Stop your whinging "
Only just, your tits should have a health warning on them. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"All these blokes saying they prefer foreplay, so women will think they’re considerate lovers, yeah pull the other one, stop playing to the female gallery. Yeah, foreplay is good but it’s just the amusé bouche to sticking your cock in a nice wet and warm vagina and honestly I can’t get in there quick enough, in fact I’ll keep taking it out, just so I can put it back in again.
Big fan of vaginas. Morning ladies "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t cum from penetration either so it’s not a necessity every time. Fingers and a tongue is my favourite part anyway. "
I think most women love a good tongue glading up and down over the most sensitive parts of a lady’s love box
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t cum from penetration either so it’s not a necessity every time. Fingers and a tongue is my favourite part anyway. I think most women love a good tongue glading up and down over the most sensitive parts of a lady’s love box "
I'm glad you used "most". There are plenty of women who really don't enjoy oral. It bores me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not something I think has to happen, sometimes just the kissing and caressing does the trick. I think you can get lots of satisfaction for non penile penetration. We have thousands of erotic sensual points on the body if you stimulate them and fire them correctly well let's just it's a roller coaster of a journey. Male  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry OP but if I were your type I'd say a definite no thank you to you.
Reason being, penetration is the main sexual activity I'm interested in.
I don't really care for receiving oral. Prolonged oral even bores me!
I like giving oral to guys and I do like to swallow whilst maintaining eye contact throughout. Then I like receiving abit or oral before the main event...sex! I love penetration more than anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not something I think has to happen, sometimes just the kissing and caressing does the trick. I think you can get lots of satisfaction for non penile penetration. We have thousands of erotic sensual points on the body if you stimulate them and fire them correctly well let's just it's a roller coaster of a journey. Male "
Love this. I love erotic sex and that doesn’t always involve penetration. Touch and eye contact is the most important thing to me and I love my mind to be completely fucked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a must for me, as good as all the other stuff is, I’d still be craving for penetration.
I’ve had non penetration meets elsewhere and I didn’t feel fully satisfied! |
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"I don’t cum from penetration either so it’s not a necessity every time. Fingers and a tongue is my favourite part anyway. I think most women love a good tongue glading up and down over the most sensitive parts of a lady’s love box
I'm glad you used "most". There are plenty of women who really don't enjoy oral. It bores me. "
Defintely. L isn’t that fussed about oral either, she says it bores her after a little while
She defo wants penetrating in a meet. She gets more and longer orgasms from that than anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not something I think has to happen, sometimes just the kissing and caressing does the trick. I think you can get lots of satisfaction for non penile penetration. We have thousands of erotic sensual points on the body if you stimulate them and fire them correctly well let's just it's a roller coaster of a journey. Male "
That's fair enough. But unless I have the D in me after all that, I do leave feeling unfulfilled, no matter how many orgasms I've had. I'm just a woman who wants it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not something I think has to happen, sometimes just the kissing and caressing does the trick. I think you can get lots of satisfaction for non penile penetration. We have thousands of erotic sensual points on the body if you stimulate them and fire them correctly well let's just it's a roller coaster of a journey. Male
Love this. I love erotic sex and that doesn’t always involve penetration. Touch and eye contact is the most important thing to me and I love my mind to be completely fucked. "
Mind fucking mmm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not something I think has to happen, sometimes just the kissing and caressing does the trick. I think you can get lots of satisfaction for non penile penetration. We have thousands of erotic sensual points on the body if you stimulate them and fire them correctly well let's just it's a roller coaster of a journey. Male
That's fair enough. But unless I have the D in me after all that, I do leave feeling unfulfilled, no matter how many orgasms I've had. I'm just a woman who wants it all "
That's never a problem each to their own |
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"Not something I think has to happen, sometimes just the kissing and caressing does the trick. I think you can get lots of satisfaction for non penile penetration. We have thousands of erotic sensual points on the body if you stimulate them and fire them correctly well let's just it's a roller coaster of a journey. Male
That's fair enough. But unless I have the D in me after all that, I do leave feeling unfulfilled, no matter how many orgasms I've had. I'm just a woman who wants it all "
And me. I feel cheated otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not something I think has to happen, sometimes just the kissing and caressing does the trick. I think you can get lots of satisfaction for non penile penetration. We have thousands of erotic sensual points on the body if you stimulate them and fire them correctly well let's just it's a roller coaster of a journey. Male
Love this. I love erotic sex and that doesn’t always involve penetration. Touch and eye contact is the most important thing to me and I love my mind to be completely fucked.
Mind fucking mmm "
The best kind of sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so interesting point here. Bit odd for a man, but I don't often like penetration in sex. I love women but I like to give 100% but not always like the actual fucking bit.
I feel that I can give satisfaction without it. Some women think that I'm either not into it (wrongly!) or I'm not into them (also very wrong!)
Thoughts?
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I love penetration. I have enough solo orgasmic non penetration with my wand, so man penetrate me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not something I think has to happen, sometimes just the kissing and caressing does the trick. I think you can get lots of satisfaction for non penile penetration. We have thousands of erotic sensual points on the body if you stimulate them and fire them correctly well let's just it's a roller coaster of a journey. Male
Love this. I love erotic sex and that doesn’t always involve penetration. Touch and eye contact is the most important thing to me and I love my mind to be completely fucked.
Mind fucking mmm
The best kind of sex. "
always |
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By *umumCouple
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP but if I were your type I'd say a definite no thank you to you.
Reason being, penetration is the main sexual activity I'm interested in.
I don't really care for receiving oral. Prolonged oral even bores me!
I like giving oral to guys and I do like to swallow whilst maintaining eye contact throughout. Then I like receiving abit or oral before the main event...sex! I love penetration more than anything else."
Agreed |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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For the vast majority of times, I need to feel a cock in me or else sex is not complete.
But there have several times I've had a fella over for just a cuddling and kissing session to the point that I've fallen alseep in his arms. Typically we'd fuck upon getting up so maybe that's cheating lol |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
I love penetration as much as anyone but my last meet had all the equipment, but his head wasn’t in it as I found out when he fitted me in which was great for him but not for me.
So those that can’t/wont invest a reasonable amount of time can pass me by.
Depends on the man and how he makes you feel afterwards for me makes the difference, so penetrating sex or fingers is great if he’s got time...l  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to be fingered, it's one of my favourite things to be done to me, I love how Mr Doublehunbon eats my pissy too, but I always have finish on a cock |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some interesting thoughts. Like a lot on here, I prefer to use my imagination. Don't get me wrong I will fuck, but if you are getting into it and having a good time why end it? Have fun and go for it you have an entire body to work with not just the genitals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some interesting thoughts. Like a lot on here, I prefer to use my imagination. Don't get me wrong I will fuck, but if you are getting into it and having a good time why end it? Have fun and go for it you have an entire body to work with not just the genitals. "
All those I've met, we do use the entire body for pleasure. It just also includes penetration |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive found women fall into two types those that come mainly from clittoral stimulation and those that need penertration to orgasm
its often straight women who fall into the latter "
How do you figure that ?
We must be the exception. Straight but penetration doesn’t do it. Think it’s more about anatomy than sexual orientation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive found women fall into two types those that come mainly from clittoral stimulation and those that need penertration to orgasm
its often straight women who fall into the latter
How do you figure that ?
We must be the exception. Straight but penetration doesn’t do it. Think it’s more about anatomy than sexual orientation. "
indeed it's always about the individual not the label male |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some interesting thoughts. Like a lot on here, I prefer to use my imagination. Don't get me wrong I will fuck, but if you are getting into it and having a good time why end it? Have fun and go for it you have an entire body to work with not just the genitals. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive found women fall into two types those that come mainly from clittoral stimulation and those that need penertration to orgasm
its often straight women who fall into the latter "
just two I think you've underestimated women certainly here, some women cum just looking at abs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Penetration is great but it doesn’t always have to be with a penis, I appreciate fingers greatly
I will concede to that point, if done correctly then fingering can be great fun. I can speak from experience, but some ladies have told me that some men finger like they are digging for gold.
( the trick men, I have found is gentle 'come here! Motions) "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Penetration is great but it doesn’t always have to be with a penis, I appreciate fingers greatly
I will concede to that point, if done correctly then fingering can be great fun. I can speak from experience, but some ladies have told me that some men finger like they are digging for gold.
( the trick men, I have found is gentle 'come here! Motions) "
My hand and fingers get tired |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One of my best ever moments sexualy didn't have penetration! The lady made me orgasm orally and I repaid favour. She was obviously massively turned on that I came and she swallowed, when I went down on her I also fingered her g spot! When I slid a finger in her ass she squirted on my face!
No penetration!!! ?? |
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"ive found women fall into two types those that come mainly from clittoral stimulation and those that need penertration to orgasm
its often straight women who fall into the latter just two I think you've underestimated women certainly here, some women cum just looking at abs "
Not for us older women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Penetration is great no doubt about it but I'm with you OP not always required. I love performing Oral on woman amd if this all they want it's fine by me.
Used to meet a FB for literally just that amd it was great. |
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