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“Exceptional Males”?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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“Exceptional Males”.
How often does that appear on profiles!
At risk of paraphrasing Groucho Marx, I would not want to be a member of a group of males that thinks of themselves as “Exceptional”. How twatty would you need to be to assume!
Besides, a huge cock is only the most important attribute of a huge cock. As many women here keep reminding us - it’s not all about the appendage.
I know there has to be an attraction but brain cells and a smile are on the list surely!? |
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"“Exceptional Males”.
How often does that appear on profiles!
At risk of paraphrasing Groucho Marx, I would not want to be a member of a group of males that thinks of themselves as “Exceptional”. How twatty would you need to be to assume!
Besides, a huge cock is only the most important attribute of a huge cock. As many women here keep reminding us - it’s not all about the appendage.
I know there has to be an attraction but brain cells and a smile are on the list surely!?"
Are you assuming 'exceptional' refers only to cock size?
For me it means all of someone's attributes and a description I'd expect to make a judgement on, not the person messaging me, if that makes sense. |
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Exceptional to me is they have the whole package to a very high standard. Professional means they have a professional job - teacher, nurse, fireman, doctor etc and don't spend their days watching jeremy Kyle whilst waiting for their next benefit payment. I have no problem with exceptional professionals. They are my standards. If that upsets those not in those groups thats their issue. |
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"Exceptional to me is they have the whole package to a very high standard. Professional means they have a professional job - teacher, nurse, fireman, doctor etc and don't spend their days watching jeremy Kyle whilst waiting for their next benefit payment. I have no problem with exceptional professionals. They are my standards. If that upsets those not in those groups thats their issue. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I see someone asking for exceptional males on a profile, or they call thereselves a professional couples, or looking for gym fit guys, I presume they’re twats and avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I see someone asking for exceptional males on a profile, or they call thereselves a professional couples, or looking for gym fit guys, I presume they’re twats and avoid. "
Ohhh that's harsh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I see someone asking for exceptional males on a profile, or they call thereselves a professional couples, or looking for gym fit guys, I presume they’re twats and avoid.
Ohhh that's harsh "
Hey, I don’t make the rules.  |
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The way I see it it's based solely on look's.
Let's face it someone who is looking for exceptional guy's probably wouldn't even entertain the possibility of a conversation unless they fulfill the visual preference.
I assume that they are looking for guy's who have below a certain body fat percentage,a certain height, decent hair and of course the appropriate size appendage?
But how do you know that person is exceptional?
They may look the part but maybe a total moron?
Besides one person's idea of exceptional is not another's.
For example myself I am possibly as far from this Ideal as possible but I am able to hold a conversation, respectful, polite and can make people laugh.
To some I may be classified as hideous to others exceptional to most just very average.
My point is how can we base an opinion based solely on look's?
But it's just another example of our shallow image driven society fuelled by social media that we live in today. |
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The word 'exceptional' itself is open to interpretation. As it has been stated earlier, the people looking for individuals with 'exceptional' attributes are the ones who can clarify what they are looking for.
Though in all earnest, I have always avoided profiles like that. They can be a mine field.  |
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"The way I see it it's based solely on look's.
Let's face it someone who is looking for exceptional guy's probably wouldn't even entertain the possibility of a conversation unless they fulfill the visual preference.
I assume that they are looking for guy's who have below a certain body fat percentage,a certain height, decent hair and of course the appropriate size appendage?
But how do you know that person is exceptional?
They may look the part but maybe a total moron?
Besides one person's idea of exceptional is not another's.
For example myself I am possibly as far from this Ideal as possible but I am able to hold a conversation, respectful, polite and can make people laugh.
To some I may be classified as hideous to others exceptional to most just very average.
My point is how can we base an opinion based solely on look's?
But it's just another example of our shallow image driven society fuelled by social media that we live in today."
You've started with a false assumption (it being all about looks) to arrive at a conclusion that might not apply to everyone.
Personally I would determine how exceptional someone is based on a range of qualities. |
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Hands up, I say I'm only looking for exceptional men. As the definition of exceptional is unusually good or outstanding I don't see why people are so bothered by it. How often do people get profile advice saying they need to stand out, ie be outstanding?
For me it's nothing to do with cock size and all to do with someone making an unusually good impression compared to the crap messages and profiles I usually see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"“Exceptional Males”.
How often does that appear on profiles!
At risk of paraphrasing Groucho Marx, I would not want to be a member of a group of males that thinks of themselves as “Exceptional”. How twatty would you need to be to assume!
Besides, a huge cock is only the most important attribute of a huge cock. As many women here keep reminding us - it’s not all about the appendage.
I know there has to be an attraction but brain cells and a smile are on the list surely!?"
It's supply and demand, bottom line is its human nature to want the best you can get so here it's even easier to get it , the choice for women and couples is never ending, one wrong thing said and they move on to next fine specimen |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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I think people get irked about it when they believe that the people demanding 'Exceptional Men' are punching above their weight. This site is about people's fantasy so they are gonna take advantage, nobody gives out pity fucks. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Hands up, I say I'm only looking for exceptional men. As the definition of exceptional is unusually good or outstanding I don't see why people are so bothered by it. How often do people get profile advice saying they need to stand out, ie be outstanding?
For me it's nothing to do with cock size and all to do with someone making an unusually good impression compared to the crap messages and profiles I usually see. "
This pretty much sums up my first thoughts when I read the OP - "exceptional" by it's very definition suggests someone different from the others not necessarily bigger or better.
So to not expect exceptional suggests that someone would not be at all choosy, which is worse surely? |
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I think asking for exceptional males and describing oneself as professional is perfectly acceptable. Why does it irk people?
If you feel excluded because of these descriptions and preferences stick with the profiles that do include you. We're excluded from many and vice versa but we concentrate on the ones that do include us. It makes life a lot easier. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I think asking for exceptional males and describing oneself as professional is perfectly acceptable. Why does it irk people?
If you feel excluded because of these descriptions and preferences stick with the profiles that do include you. We're excluded from many and vice versa but we concentrate on the ones that do include us. It makes life a lot easier."
Just see guys moaning all the time about it. Yeah I am of the same opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At then of the day OP. It's a label without obvious definition. Much like straight or bi-curious here on fab which seems to mean anything the person wants it to mean depending upon whom they are chatting too or facing at any given time.
As one has already said I too would avoid someone putting 'professional' up as yes it often comes with lots if additional stipulations. Much simpler to avoid imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Exceptional to me is they have the whole package to a very high standard. Professional means they have a professional job - teacher, nurse, fireman, doctor etc and don't spend their days watching jeremy Kyle whilst waiting for their next benefit payment. I have no problem with exceptional professionals. They are my standards. If that upsets those not in those groups thats their issue. "
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"“Exceptional Males”.
How often does that appear on profiles!
At risk of paraphrasing Groucho Marx, I would not want to be a member of a group of males that thinks of themselves as “Exceptional”. How twatty would you need to be to assume!
Besides, a huge cock is only the most important attribute of a huge cock. As many women here keep reminding us - it’s not all about the appendage.
I know there has to be an attraction but brain cells and a smile are on the list surely!?"
I openly admit to being a twat & exceptional has no bearing on cock size.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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What is exceptional? In this context there's no mean to measure exceptional, you can stretch it like nylons and it's quite amazing what you can fit in there. What is exceptional to one might not to another. So it's actually a rather unlucky word choice and/or an inability to express more clearly what you're looking for. |
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