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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My male partner is sub. This is quite new to me and I'm discovering what does it for him. He has a cage I sometimes make him wear, pegged him many times in a domineering way. I'm wanting to know more ways to Dom him. |
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Look on line for resources and read them together. Put phrases such as "tasks for submissive" in the search engine or "ideas for dommes".
I only say this because unless we know what pushes his (and your) particular buttons it can be difficult. Does he like humiliation for instance? Making him wear women's knickers under his trousers to work would achieve this but wouldn't do much for him if humiliation wasn't his thing . Is he in to role playing, impact play etc? |
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"Look on line for resources and read them together. Put phrases such as "tasks for submissive" in the search engine or "ideas for dommes".
I only say this because unless we know what pushes his (and your) particular buttons it can be difficult. Does he like humiliation for instance? Making him wear women's knickers under his trousers to work would achieve this but wouldn't do much for him if humiliation wasn't his thing . Is he in to role playing, impact play etc? "
He's not really told me what he wants but I want to surprise him. Thanks for the Google advice |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Look up "BDSM questionnaire" on Google and both fill it out - the good ones provide a comprehensive list of activities that you can rate on a scale of 1-5 as to how interested you are in each of them - once you've completed it and cross-compared then you should have quite a list of things to explore further  |
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"Look on line for resources and read them together. Put phrases such as "tasks for submissive" in the search engine or "ideas for dommes".
I only say this because unless we know what pushes his (and your) particular buttons it can be difficult. Does he like humiliation for instance? Making him wear women's knickers under his trousers to work would achieve this but wouldn't do much for him if humiliation wasn't his thing . Is he in to role playing, impact play etc?
He's not really told me what he wants but I want to surprise him. Thanks for the Google advice "
Sounds like a lucky sub  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Look on line for resources and read them together. Put phrases such as "tasks for submissive" in the search engine or "ideas for dommes".
I only say this because unless we know what pushes his (and your) particular buttons it can be difficult. Does he like humiliation for instance? Making him wear women's knickers under his trousers to work would achieve this but wouldn't do much for him if humiliation wasn't his thing . Is he in to role playing, impact play etc?
He's not really told me what he wants but I want to surprise him. Thanks for the Google advice
Sounds like a lucky sub "
Oh he is  |
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