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over a year ago
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I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not  |
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not "
Yeah I understand that but unfortunately quite a lot of male profiles on he don’t have pictures with their face in |
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over a year ago
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"Yes definitely all the time
It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart "
This ^
We get messages like
‘Do you want young cock’
‘I like an older woman’
Shows immaturity- just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers.... |
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"It's all about preference rather than judging, I'd say. Preference and attraction. "
Fair and I’ve seen this with a few profiles that they state on their profile they would meet 18 year olds but when you message them they turn around and say they don’t meet anyone under 25 |
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"Yes definitely all the time
It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart
This ^
We get messages like
‘Do you want young cock’
‘I like an older woman’
Shows immaturity- just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers...."
Some of us young men don’t have profiles like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
If you've noticed it on here before you already have the answer to your question ffs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes definitely all the time
It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart
This ^
We get messages like
‘Do you want young cock’
‘I like an older woman’
Shows immaturity- just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers....
Some of us young men don’t have profiles like that"
Never said they ALL are
Re read my post
Ta
Happy fabbing pal .. I’m sure you’d have more success in a town centre ‘spoons on a Saturday night ..
We enjoy social side and age gap means conversation can get awkward....
In a club fine ...
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not "
This but in reference to women opposed to men haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do judge them and im usually spot on sadly.
Its why I've a small age range. I wont go under 31 but even 31 to 34 ive had more drama then any other range. That's just my personal experience x |
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"Yes definitely all the time
It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart
This ^
We get messages like
‘Do you want young cock’
‘I like an older woman’
Shows immaturity- just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers....
Some of us young men don’t have profiles like that
Never said they ALL are
Re read my post
Ta
Happy fabbing pal .. I’m sure you’d have more success in a town centre ‘spoons on a Saturday night ..
We enjoy social side and age gap means conversation can get awkward....
In a club fine ...
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I know that I wasn’t snapping back i was just stating a fact |
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.
If you've noticed it on here before you already have the answer to your question ffs!"
Woah ok I was just trying to get a general consensus |
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"We will talk to anybody regardless of age. We won't meet anybody outside of our age range though.
We need criteria to choose who we meet and age is one of them"
Exactly.
Despite our age range, we still get folk old enough to be our parents (and we're mid 40s!) trying it on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.
If you've noticed it on here before you already have the answer to your question ffs!
Woah ok I was just trying to get a general consensus "
The Sydney University website has published material on this sort of thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Yes most people seem to judge age and generally it’s too young or too old.
Too young can be like having sex with your kids friends and too old like having sex with your parents friends.
Many do set arbitrary limits though and Brad Pitt/George Clooney would struggle on Fab as they’re outside many people’s age range.
We think things like fitness and body shape are much more important than age. We’d rather meet an in shape 55 year old than an out of shape 35 year old. |
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"We will talk to anybody regardless of age. We won't meet anybody outside of our age range though.
We need criteria to choose who we meet and age is one of them
Exactly.
Despite our age range, we still get folk old enough to be our parents (and we're mid 40s!) trying it on! "
That I understand it’s just you get people saying “how can you do this in your everyday life” or “you’re only on here for free sex” which for some young profiles that true but for others it’s not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Everyone judges at some point I personally am not interested in 99 year olds sorry
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.
Yes most people seem to judge age and generally it’s too young or too old.
Too young can be like having sex with your kids friends and too old like having sex with your parents friends.
Many do set arbitrary limits though and Brad Pitt/George Clooney would struggle on Fab as they’re outside many people’s age range.
We think things like fitness and body shape are much more important than age. We’d rather meet an in shape 55 year old than an out of shape 35 year old. "
That’s fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.
Everyone judges at some point I personally am not interested in 99 year olds sorry "
Damn. I was hoping me you and a 99 year old could have a threesome |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Its a filter why shouldn't it be I am sure you have yourself in the past age, gender, location and sexuality are the initial filters we all use. |
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Yes, on here. We are very unlikely to be attracted to people who are, of a similar age to our parents or children.
In clubs we chat to people, regardless of whether or not we want to have sex with them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Nope neither of us care about age, just looks and attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.
Everyone judges at some point I personally am not interested in 99 year olds sorry
Damn. I was hoping me you and a 99 year old could have a threesome"
now that's a little better but still not ideal especially if 99 year old still has her teeth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey OP
I started this adventure thinking I wouldn’t.
But I do now- purely to stop people feeling they’ve wasted them time messaging us.
It’s not about the looks it’s really down to the fact we have had experience of the conversation drying up with those two ‘young’ and for most ‘older’ peeps, I’ve generally found most aren’t in the shape I like.
However- that’s just because we can. This world of cyber makes choices as easy as a click or swipe.
As everyone else will tell you. Get to clubs. Go show them how mature you are. Turn up when you say you will and then your verifications will speak for themselves like a lot of decent young pups on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Yes I judge on everything.
You always come across as a nice bloke.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
It's not a judgement, I just have limits on what age I consider meeting |
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over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Yes, people set their age preferences; it’s pretty commonplace, if you look at their profiles. |
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I know it's irrational, but I have a hard limit under 25. I know 18 or 16 to 25 year olds are of age, it just feels too young to me, like looking at a teenager (which I don't fwiw). So despite the fact that I'm only 8-9 years older than a 24 year old... I just can't, even where I'm happy to go decade's older. (as I say, irrational)
Other than that I go with patterns, which include age. Before I blocked single guys permanently, my limits were 30 to 60. Under 30, and I got a disproportionate amount of immaturity and entitlement. Over 60, I got a disproportionate amount of sexism/ views about women I won't condone. There are of course exceptions (and OP, at the risk of sounding condescending, in what I've seen of you you seem like an exception), but when dealing with the bulk of mail I was, under 30 and over 60 were just too much hassle to deal with as compared to reward. |
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"I know it's irrational, but I have a hard limit under 25. I know 18 or 16 to 25 year olds are of age, it just feels too young to me, like looking at a teenager (which I don't fwiw). So despite the fact that I'm only 8-9 years older than a 24 year old... I just can't, even where I'm happy to go decade's older. (as I say, irrational)
Other than that I go with patterns, which include age. Before I blocked single guys permanently, my limits were 30 to 60. Under 30, and I got a disproportionate amount of immaturity and entitlement. Over 60, I got a disproportionate amount of sexism/ views about women I won't condone. There are of course exceptions (and OP, at the risk of sounding condescending, in what I've seen of you you seem like an exception), but when dealing with the bulk of mail I was, under 30 and over 60 were just too much hassle to deal with as compared to reward. "
Yeah I understand and no it didn’t sound condescending whatsoever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy  "
Thats how i feel. No one younger than my kids or older than my parents. |
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Everyone does as they put limits on their preferences |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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Something I have noticed, (with guys as it’s rare that I interact with ladies here... ) is that some men tend to say they are younger than they really are. I get contacted by lots of men who are apparently in their 50s, but their photos are at least 10 years old! My cutoff age is 53, I will not meet anyone beyond that age. But I’ve been to a few socials where I am expecting to see a man inhis early 50s and it’s actually early 60s!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On fab no-one younger than my kids (actually prefer a bit older) and not that much older than me BUT not at a club and prefer partying with older people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Amongst a rake of other things, yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not "
Not an unreasonable assumption... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have age filters on here however at a club it's not something I even consider. If I'm attracted to them I would just go for it "
That's the advantage of seeing someone in person against gambling on the internet... |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"I have age filters on here however at a club it's not something I even consider. If I'm attracted to them I would just go for it
That's the advantage of seeing someone in person against gambling on the internet..."
I think the main thing for me on here is coming across people who lie about their age or use old pictures which is why I use filters. In the flesh you get exactly what you see  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not
Not an unreasonable assumption..."
Hence it saying, it isn't always the case  |
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not
Not an unreasonable assumption...
Hence it saying, it isn't always the case "
Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it |
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"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy "
I'd say that was some kind of judgment. Maybe that's the wrong verb but some kind of assessment based on age takes place.
Many men like young women, because they appear most reproductively fit. Maybe it's not a conscious assessment but it'll be there in the subconscious as one of the variables. Hence why men are often quite happy to fuck a women young enough to be their daughter. I don't think women are as strongly affected by a potential partner's age on a biological level so in their case personal choice might be a bigger component :D Also so many young men behave like dicks that anyone in their right mind will be avoiding them
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" just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers...."
Ah nuts, final confirmation that I'm old, I have neither a lynx can nor a sky remote 
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"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy
I'd say that was some kind of judgment. Maybe that's the wrong verb but some kind of assessment based on age takes place.
Many men like young women, because they appear most reproductively fit. Maybe it's not a conscious assessment but it'll be there in the subconscious as one of the variables. Hence why men are often quite happy to fuck a women young enough to be their daughter. I don't think women are as strongly affected by a potential partner's age on a biological level so in their case personal choice might be a bigger component :D Also so many young men behave like dicks that anyone in their right mind will be avoiding them
Mike xx"
I do agree with you mike most young men do behave inappropriately which is demeaning to those of us that do as we are lumped together. |
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not
Not an unreasonable assumption...
Hence it saying, it isn't always the case
Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it"
Although I did miss read the comment before my last one lol... I'm sure I read it more than once before replying too... Must be my age  |
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not
Not an unreasonable assumption...
Hence it saying, it isn't always the case
Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it
Although I did miss read the comment before my last one lol... I'm sure I read it more than once before replying too... Must be my age "
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not
Not an unreasonable assumption...
Hence it saying, it isn't always the case
Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it
Although I did miss read the comment before my last one lol... I'm sure I read it more than once before replying too... Must be my age "
Nah your very young |
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Of course, but its less about judging and more about prefence.
I first starting using fab at about 27/28 and 30 seems to be the average minimum age people go for.
By don't worry, at 21 there are plenty of people who will be interested. |
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"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not
Not an unreasonable assumption...
Hence it saying, it isn't always the case
Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it
Although I did miss read the comment before my last one lol... I'm sure I read it more than once before replying too... Must be my age
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Ah it's ok... My brain has always been mush |
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"Of course, but its less about judging and more about prefence.
I first starting using fab at about 27/28 and 30 seems to be the average minimum age people go for.
By don't worry, at 21 there are plenty of people who will be interested. "
I’m not worried it was a curious thought as I understand it’s preferences |
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
We do but have a particular situation. I'm 54 and Lefty is 44 so anyone 10 years older than me is too old and someone 10 years younger than Lefty is too young.
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"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.
We do but have a particular situation. I'm 54 and Lefty is 44 so anyone 10 years older than me is too old and someone 10 years younger than Lefty is too young.
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Yeah it’s the rules you have set yourselves |
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"I don't want anyone my kids ages. My eldest is 30yrs old, its my body my rules. Ms"
we are the same also find it hard to find things in common if to young. We like the social side so our age range works better
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"I don't want anyone my kids ages. My eldest is 30yrs old, its my body my rules. Mswe are the same also find it hard to find things in common if to young. We like the social side so our age range works better "
To be honest most do even I have difficulty finding things in common with people my age on here |
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"It's all about preference rather than judging, I'd say. Preference and attraction.
Fair and I’ve seen this with a few profiles that they state on their profile they would meet 18 year olds but when you message them they turn around and say they don’t meet anyone under 25"
Well wait 4 years and message them again |
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Women will go for men genuinely on how they handle themselves. I am 30 but my face body and frame says I’m fresh 19yr old at best. But because I carry myself to be a 30yr old and carry somewhat of wisdom. I get a fair amount of women talking to me. And another note. Do go in expecting sex while going to clubs. Just take the easy lane. Talk observe and socialise, it will be better in the long run |
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