I have verifications, but I don’t verify people loads of different times. I don’t think many others do either. I worry it sometimes makes me look like a pure one time only meet kinda gal, which I hate.
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Yes I've met most of my meets more than once. Only a couple we've verified each other twice. I know the feeling, can look like once was enough! To be honest I think most people do the same. Multiple veris from the same person doesn't seem to be the done thing. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I have verifications, but I don’t verify people loads of different times. I don’t think many others do either. I worry it sometimes makes me look like a pure one time only meet kinda gal, which I hate.
What do you guys think about this? "
Well I'm obviously a girl bit a guy, but I have verified more than once. If I met someone socially I will veri but then do an updated one when /if we play.....
If I then see them for a decent period of time I may update it again. I generally don't expect the person concerned to show all of them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always re verify and people always do us again too, it’s become a bit of a standing joke with regulars and keeps our verifications over the 300 mark so we don’t generally get bothered by idiots, dreamers, fakes and the judgemental. Win, win for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never thought about the only verifying once makes you look like a one time only gal, but then if you verify the same person more than once and them you, you can fall into the trap of pissing on their lamp post 
Verification is so much more complicated than I’m sure it was intended  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Verifications are 99% of the time cringey as fuck...there must be a Veri generator or copy and paste that spews out the same old shat!
Treat this one right
Might keep them to myself
The rest is between us two
Smelt great...Yadda Yadda Yadda yawn!
Basically you're reviewing what should be an amazing act...when i fuck I go Astral!, I throw everything around the room, limbs, sense, concept of time..I wouldn't be able to recall and capture what I did in a cheesy paragraph, it takes away the essence of the entire act???
And the old chestnut of "well if proves they're not a psychopath" load if bollocks I bet Peter Sutcliffe had the odd nice word written about him..I'll chance the excitement of psychopath thanks. Over the years of using fab I've stayed away from the process.
Hate em? They're the same bullshit as a "like" button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dislike varis tbh i think what happens on the meet should stay within the meet not broadcasted.
They can be useful as when i get a message/wink ect if they have many meets in short periods generally i wont meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have verifications, but I don’t verify people loads of different times. I don’t think many others do either. I worry it sometimes makes me look like a pure one time only meet kinda gal, which I hate.
What do you guys think about this? "
How does verification's you have left for others reflect on you? The person/s reading them are interested in the other person not you. |
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"I dislike varis tbh i think what happens on the meet should stay within the meet not broadcasted.
They can be useful as when i get a message/wink ect if they have many meets in short periods generally i wont meet. "
Get where your coming from re broadcasts. We always kiss but don't tell in our veri's left.
Why won't you mwet others who have a few in a short time? |
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"Verifications are 99% of the time cringey as fuck...there must be a Veri generator or copy and paste that spews out the same old shat!
Treat this one right
Might keep them to myself
The rest is between us two
Smelt great...Yadda Yadda Yadda yawn!
Basically you're reviewing what should be an amazing act...when i fuck I go Astral!, I throw everything around the room, limbs, sense, concept of time..I wouldn't be able to recall and capture what I did in a cheesy paragraph, it takes away the essence of the entire act???
And the old chestnut of "well if proves they're not a psychopath" load if bollocks I bet Peter Sutcliffe had the odd nice word written about him..I'll chance the excitement of psychopath thanks. Over the years of using fab I've stayed away from the process.
Hate em? They're the same bullshit as a "like" button."
PMSL! Bit like not being invited to a birthday party then! I guess thats a view from the have not clamp.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"97% lamp post pissing.
However, women can get meets without veris.
Men can't."
Well technically you can we are both living proof as we didn't have any initially yet met (I met a woman I assume you did). But I will go with some of that they do help though god knows why in reality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dislike varis tbh i think what happens on the meet should stay within the meet not broadcasted.
They can be useful as when i get a message/wink ect if they have many meets in short periods generally i wont meet.
Get where your coming from re broadcasts. We always kiss but don't tell in our veri's left.
Why won't you mwet others who have a few in a short time? "
Its just not my thing im on here for the forums really, social meets and a possible fwb for regular meets. It takes alot to do it for me though im very picky in the woman i like. |
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"Verifications are 99% of the time cringey as fuck...there must be a Veri generator or copy and paste that spews out the same old shat!
Treat this one right
Might keep them to myself
The rest is between us two
Smelt great...Yadda Yadda Yadda yawn!
Basically you're reviewing what should be an amazing act...when i fuck I go Astral!, I throw everything around the room, limbs, sense, concept of time..I wouldn't be able to recall and capture what I did in a cheesy paragraph, it takes away the essence of the entire act???
And the old chestnut of "well if proves they're not a psychopath" load if bollocks I bet Peter Sutcliffe had the odd nice word written about him..I'll chance the excitement of psychopath thanks. Over the years of using fab I've stayed away from the process.
Hate em? They're the same bullshit as a "like" button.
PMSL! Bit like not being invited to a birthday party then! I guess thats a view from the have not clamp. "
You keep massaging that "nice gentleman" Yadda Yadda yawn ego...the best products in life don't need a cheesy review, nor do they feel the need to convince people they're decent..
We just do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only verify once and I’d never give details of what happened on a veri and wouldn’t expect someone else too either. I don’t even like veris to be honest. I’ve enough to prove I’m genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive even told people no need to veri...even prior to meeting...jokingly saying your street cred could be put at risk screwing an old bloke...most are polite but some take heed and do it discretely I dont care really as long as there are one or two up there...some veris ARE important..even at my age I avoid no veri people over 1yr on the site ! |
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"I dislike varis tbh i think what happens on the meet should stay within the meet not broadcasted.
They can be useful as when i get a message/wink ect if they have many meets in short periods generally i wont meet.
Get where your coming from re broadcasts. We always kiss but don't tell in our veri's left.
Why won't you mwet others who have a few in a short time? "
See this is what I mean. It scares people away 
I sometimes think maybe it’s good as the people who then talk to me are maybe are more serious about the meet as they have veris and not judging my numbers  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I dislike varis tbh i think what happens on the meet should stay within the meet not broadcasted.
They can be useful as when i get a message/wink ect if they have many meets in short periods generally i wont meet. "
So, what about if they attend socials then? That can result on several veris.  |
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"I dislike varis tbh i think what happens on the meet should stay within the meet not broadcasted.
They can be useful as when i get a message/wink ect if they have many meets in short periods generally i wont meet.
So, what about if they attend socials then? That can result on several veris. "
Then you can clearly see they are socials when reading. Im talking about meets, in short periods some on here meet 2/3 aweek. For me thats a big turn off. Some people my find a pin cushion a turn on. I dont. |
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"97% lamp post pissing.
However, women can get meets without veris.
Men can't.
Well technically you can we are both living proof as we didn't have any initially yet met (I met a woman I assume you did). But I will go with some of that they do help though god knows why in reality "
We're not fussed if a man is not verified. If a man says he's a man we believe him. It's about what else he says and the pics.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have verifications, but I don’t verify people loads of different times. I don’t think many others do either. I worry it sometimes makes me look like a pure one time only meet kinda gal, which I hate.
What do you guys think about this? "
We're not keen on multiple veries either. Two are ok (one for social and one for play) as it shows we're meeting not just for socials. Any more than that is just too much. Wouldn't want to sound like we're claiming someone or being claimed ourselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dislike varis tbh i think what happens on the meet should stay within the meet not broadcasted.
They can be useful as when i get a message/wink ect if they have many meets in short periods generally i wont meet.
So, what about if they attend socials then? That can result on several veris.
Then you can clearly see they are socials when reading. Im talking about meets, in short periods some on here meet 2/3 aweek. For me thats a big turn off. Some people my find a pin cushion a turn on. I dont. "
Me too. Loads of veris that aren’t socials put me off totally and I wouldn’t bother. Everyone’s different on here and you work it how you want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is what I mean. Why are they there if you just get judged
I mean is it bad thing if I like having sex. "
Surely this is the whole point of fab and swinging itself? Anyone who judges people on here for having lots of meets is in the wrong place. |
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"This is what I mean. Why are they there if you just get judged
I mean is it bad thing if I like having sex.
Surely this is the whole point of fab and swinging itself? Anyone who judges people on here for having lots of meets is in the wrong place. "
Why is everything classed as judging though if it’s not for you? I don’t understand it. It’s more each to their own surely? I got stick for saying I like straight men. I got asked for reasons! I won’t meet people who meet lots of different people for sex. I don’t want to. That’s my choice. Doesn’t mean I think any less of the people who do or that I’m judging them. |
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