i think hoping too might be the problem...its a swinging site,if people think you are here looking for more you will put them off...
Did i expect to find love in my first week at uni,no, if i had been looking would kev and i be together 22 years later? Certainly not.
live,have fun,be a happy confident woman...and who knows what might happen. |
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Agreed - this ain't eharmony.
Most people aren't looking specifically for a relationship... if one blossoms and both parties are cool with it, then it's all good. But people are here to primarily find someone they want to have sex with, not settle down, find a house, choose a car and go on holiday with. |
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Ironically some vanilla friends of mine are on a dating website that has a fishing theme to it yet they're having more casual sex (in the multiplex) than I am!
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10 internet points to the first person who gets my reference to an obscure indie band from the 90s  |
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"no and to be honest im not looking, i love being single 
Only cause you can't have me, right?"
but of course darling, i didnt want to come over as to needy tho...when you moving in |
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"no and to be honest im not looking, i love being single
Only cause you can't have me, right?
but of course darling, i didnt want to come over as to needy tho...when you moving in "
Maybe in the New Year,,, or possibly the spring, or even early summer.
By the way, has anyone seen my pet rabbit anywhere...?!?  |
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"no and to be honest im not looking, i love being single
Only cause you can't have me, right?
but of course darling, i didnt want to come over as to needy tho...when you moving in
Maybe in the New Year,,, or possibly the spring, or even early summer.
By the way, has anyone seen my pet rabbit anywhere...?!? "
*licks lips and puts the plate in the sink*  |
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"Ironically some vanilla friends of mine are on a dating website that has a fishing theme to it yet they're having more casual sex (in the multiplex) than I am!
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10 internet points to the first person who gets my reference to an obscure indie band from the 90s "
Is it The Verve? |
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"Is it The Verve?
And our survey said..... fzgh!# qk2£@
(I couldn't work out how to say the noise it used to make when they got it wrong.)
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Do I get another go?!!!
reverend and the makers?? |
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I introduced a good friend to fabs just over a year ago, he ex was a w###er and when she had the balls to bin him i made her up a profile and kept an eye on the people mailing her for a few weeks till she found her confidence. Fabs has turned her whole life round, in a way i nor her expected, she flirted, had meets, nights out, met some lovely, decent people. Then she met ian, both fell in love and now living happily ever after. She never went looking to settle down, so never say never, just enjoy the site and what it brings you and good luck and happy swinging xx  |
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"Do I get another go?!!!
reverend and the makers??
Yes.
Er, I mean yes you get another go... but that wasn't the right answer either."
Bugger! Will be back when I've finished rifling through my cd collection........unless you want to give me a clue... |
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Dancing in the disco, bumper to bumper,
Wait a minute, where's me jumper ?
It's alright to say things can only get better,
You haven't lost your brand new sweater.
Pure new wool, and perfect stitches,
Not the type of jumper that makes you itches
Oh no.
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No one knows what the future holds or whats waiting for us round the next corner,id say enjoy fab for what its sole purpose is and if it happens its an added bonus.good luck and enjoy |
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who knows what will happen for you...but this isnt a dating site. its a sex site, so perhaps if its a relationship you are after then you should join a dating agency?
But as long as you are happy to meet with no expectations (apart from a good shag) then no harm done! |
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thanks for the messages,
i do enjoy the site and i DONT expect to find love from here, its just you hear of lots of people finding love, i wish i could thats all,
im not expecting anything than pure sex from here but it would be nice to meet a partner with a mutual like for swinging. |
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Been on the scene now nearly thirty years and never had any intention of falling for a swinger
(the long term swinging relationships I had before were vanillas when I met them)
I usually meet through friends and at socials and have actually only met 2 people ever off sites ( I use the sites to stay in touch and piss about)
However one of the two I did meet lived I'm Scotland and as soon as we met ( we had been talking for months) we knew lol
Funny thing is I ain't her type and she ain't mine
But early next year we move in together and then the year after we marry
So good luck with it but what I would say is if you are purely looking for love then be careful
All the best
Craig xx |
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The first thing I discounted on becoming a swinger was falling in love...
...but I did meet someone on a site and despite us both protesting to friends we were only friends with benefits, it went way more serious than that - and that's how the cookie crumbled for us. It got us when we both weren't looking...
I would have certainly never joined a swingers website with love being high on the agenda at all, but it does happen in exceptional circumstances. These days my love for others is more a frubbly (socio-sexual) thing than anything romantic, although I think every Lady deserves to be made to feel special.
Good hunting, good luck and stay happy
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"I introduced a good friend to fabs just over a year ago, he ex was a w###er and when she had the balls to bin him i made her up a profile and kept an eye on the people mailing her for a few weeks till she found her confidence. Fabs has turned her whole life round, in a way i nor her expected, she flirted, had meets, nights out, met some lovely, decent people. Then she met ian, both fell in love and now living happily ever after. She never went looking to settle down, so never say never, just enjoy the site and what it brings you and good luck and happy swinging xx "
Thats a really lovely story...hope that inspires the OP.. |
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"Hey Soapy, if you're moving up here, you'd better get those profile details sorted!
Crewe and Cheshire with capital 'C's but Scotland with a small 's'!! D'you like living dangerously??  "
Blame the Scottish spelling police fa that she checked me profile lol xx |
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Not something that either of us expected to find through a site. Met on a previous site, clicked, and fell madly in love! We are in the lifestyle, because we want to and to add to our relationship, no hastles. Totally open, and do it together. |
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i live in hope tho, but happy to play still 
