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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Curious...
I've been very fortunate to end up naked with one or two women and I've noticed (like men) there's lots of variety in bedroom skills..
Some women are content to lay back doing feck all as you mount them like a warm duvet..
Others are so very different, all pushy, kissy, grabby, and almost professional when it comes to actually riding cock!
FIRSTLY: how do you harness your skills..is it trial and error, porn?, Feedback or passed on to each other like a great lasagne recipe.
SECONDLY: how do men spot the ones with the old mad skills as they come in unexpected forms at times.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Trip trop trip trop across your bridge!
I guess you are expecting people to bite at this while you chew on your bones under the bridge.  "
????? Jesus you forumites get worse every day...it's a genuine question about the difference in women in the sack, drop your siren and find a thread you can contribute something worthwhile to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Trip trop trip trop across your bridge!
I guess you are expecting people to bite at this while you chew on your bones under the bridge.
????? Jesus you forumites get worse every day...it's a genuine question about the difference in women in the sack, drop your siren and find a thread you can contribute something worthwhile to"
I see the truth hurts you keep chewing your bones bye bye. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Trip trop trip trop across your bridge!
I guess you are expecting people to bite at this while you chew on your bones under the bridge.
????? Jesus you forumites get worse every day...it's a genuine question about the difference in women in the sack, drop your siren and find a thread you can contribute something worthwhile to
I see the truth hurts you keep chewing your bones bye bye. "
Something tells me you'll be back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trial and error - what worked before may not work on a different person.
Playing follow the pornstar is great fun and can lead to positions you hadn’t tried before.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious...
I've been very fortunate to end up naked with one or two women and I've noticed (like men) there's lots of variety in bedroom skills..
Some women are content to lay back doing feck all as you mount them like a warm duvet..
Others are so very different, all pushy, kissy, grabby, and almost professional when it comes to actually riding cock!
FIRSTLY: how do you harness your skills..is it trial and error, porn?, Feedback or passed on to each other like a great lasagne recipe.
SECONDLY: how do men spot the ones with the old mad skills as they come in unexpected forms at times.
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I like to chop and change in foreplay. Experiment a bit, throw in some kinky bits. I'm not great at riding, most positions bore the fk outta me! So I try to do something different with that too! |
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"It’s always in the eyes in my experience. A glint that seems to say “oh, you’ve no idea boy!” "
It's definitely in the eyes for me, sometimes I'll act on my instinct and see it through sometimes I just have to ignore it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it comes down to how confident a woman is. Some of my friends won't go on top for instance bcz they are unhappy with their stomachs. So unless you are 100% okay with your body then that can and does often affect how you are with people who you don't know that well.
I'm not sure to spot a lazy women on the bedroom though. But Mr is probably better at that than i am ha. I also think a lady can loose her skills somewhat as a lot of men like to dominate women,from what I've seen in clubs, so the lady doesn't usually have to do much except oral. Lexi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being mounted by a warm duvet sounds great. Once Im warmed up I can pull a trick or two out, if Im not all tied up  "
Ah Autumn, you remind me of a much loved car that could be tricky to start but surpassing nippy once it was running  Never had to tie it up though but would be delighted to do so in your case
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For me it was being with guys who are shit in bed, if you leave it to them to do stuff the sex will be crap so you gotta ride their dick like you wanna cum.
I don't suck guys off any more either. Not for casual sex anyway. They're welcome to lick my pussy though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me it was being with guys who are shit in bed, if you leave it to them to do stuff the sex will be crap so you gotta ride their dick like you wanna cum.
I don't suck guys off any more either. Not for casual sex anyway. They're welcome to lick my pussy though."
Great insight!!...I get that, as I've been in bed with some less than amazing partners and if you've anything about you, you'll try to make the situation better, so it's bit like having a opportunity to try things out as you think - fuck it, nothing to lose. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1) Experimentation over time and with different guys.
2) I don't think you can tell.
Off topic but whenever I see your profile pic and username I always think you're a woman."
Every great man must embrace the woman inside him. 
*Providing the strap on meets safe regulations that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being mounted by a warm duvet sounds great. Once Im warmed up I can pull a trick or two out, if Im not all tied up
Ah Autumn, you remind me of a much loved car that could be tricky to start but surpassing nippy once it was running Never had to tie it up though but would be delighted to do so in your case
Mike "
sounds just like me, I need ticking over for a while |
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"Curious...
I've been very fortunate to end up naked with one or two women and I've noticed (like men) there's lots of variety in bedroom skills..
Some women are content to lay back doing feck all as you mount them like a warm duvet..
Others are so very different, all pushy, kissy, grabby, and almost professional when it comes to actually riding cock!
FIRSTLY: how do you harness your skills..is it trial and error, porn?, Feedback or passed on to each other like a great lasagne recipe.
SECONDLY: how do men spot the ones with the old mad skills as they come in unexpected forms at times.
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How about accepting women for who they are? Or maybe even admit that your skills aren't up to much and that's why some of us lay there bored doing feck all. |
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"For me it was being with guys who are shit in bed, if you leave it to them to do stuff the sex will be crap so you gotta ride their dick like you wanna cum.
I don't suck guys off any more either. Not for casual sex anyway. They're welcome to lick my pussy though.
Great insight!!...I get that, as I've been in bed with some less than amazing partners and if you've anything about you, you'll try to make the situation better, so it's bit like having a opportunity to try things out as you think - fuck it, nothing to lose."
I've never been the type of person who will have sex for the sake of having sex, it's gotta be good sex.
Most guys tend not to mind what you do and cum fairly easily so that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Curious...
I've been very fortunate to end up naked with one or two women and I've noticed (like men) there's lots of variety in bedroom skills..
Some women are content to lay back doing feck all as you mount them like a warm duvet..
Others are so very different, all pushy, kissy, grabby, and almost professional when it comes to actually riding cock!
FIRSTLY: how do you harness your skills..is it trial and error, porn?, Feedback or passed on to each other like a great lasagne recipe.
SECONDLY: how do men spot the ones with the old mad skills as they come in unexpected forms at times.
How about accepting women for who they are? Or maybe even admit that your skills aren't up to much and that's why some of us lay there bored doing feck all."
Ha Hey!!! Here's another one...word must have got out to make you run for that forum siren!?
I admit I'm shit I'm the sack, terrible fucking me is like humping a cocktail sausage that's been left out in the rain...and as long as they fiddle with my useless little cocktail sausage, I shall endeavour to accept women for who they are,
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By (user no longer on site)
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Interesting thread, I've often wondered how guys would rate me in bed.
I can't offer the full package cos I'm not great on top, if a guys favourite position is cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, he's fucked, or not cos that's one of my worst areas.
However, every guy I've slept with has been a fast cummer, like my fanny does the mortal kombat voiceover "FINISH HIM" it's always over quite quickly.
My skillz lie in the prep, lots and lots of foreplay, massaging him, sucking his dick, licking his arse hole out, making him tea and biscuits, toileting him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting thread, I've often wondered how guys would rate me in bed.
I can't offer the full package cos I'm not great on top, if a guys favourite position is cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, he's fucked, or not cos that's one of my worst areas.
However, every guy I've slept with has been a fast cummer, like my fanny does the mortal kombat voiceover "FINISH HIM" it's always over quite quickly.
My skillz lie in the prep, lots and lots of foreplay, massaging him, sucking his dick, licking his arse hole out, making him tea and biscuits, toileting him. "
BEST ANSWER YET!!! purely because I know when someone is next on top of my cocktail sausage I'll be thinking "FINISH HIM!"
P.s looking at your prep reportiore no wonder they finish quick!!! |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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My skillz lie in the prep, lots and lots of foreplay, massaging him, sucking his dick, licking his arse hole out, making him tea and biscuits, toileting him. "
I was enjoying that until you mentioned tea. It’s a deal breaker if it’s not coffee.
OP, The best answer I can offer for finding people who do what you enjoy and get involved, is to discuss sex before, during and after play. I don’t mean things like “I want you to do x, y or z”. More asking what someone will do or has tried. What their hard limits are and what soft limits they may have. A healthy discussion about what you have done in the past and enjoyed too. It’s all about the communication. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
I look at how their body is responding to me and vary what I'm doing according to that.
I've had guys who literally do not listen to what my body, my words or anything are telling them. They just seem to think they know better or feel that it's all about pleasing them.
It's like they've watched something on a film and think that's the way to do it regardless of whether the person receiving it seems to be enjoying it or not. |
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"I think it comes down to how confident a woman is. Some of my friends won't go on top for instance bcz they are unhappy with their stomachs. So unless you are 100% okay with your body then that can and does often affect how you are with people who you don't know that well."
I find this logic strange, we still see a woman's body when she's not on top though
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By (user no longer on site)
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Communicating with the person before hand can kind of tell you how the sex is gonna go. I've had two spectacular guys, it used to be 3 but the first guy was my long term ex and he's a cunt and thinking about him makes me want to nail my fanny to a wall so we won't count him.
The two spectacular guys gave massive hints to what they'd be like in bed purely from how they conversed. Wasn't smutty sex chat, just general chat where certain key words were mentioned. Examples being when talking about training and one guy saying he'd like to go down on me with a sweaty fanny. The other guy asking if when we met for what was a long weekend would I not shower all weekend. Interestingly the common denominator between the two was that both guys wanted me to take a dump on them or send a video with such footage, I didn't comply with the request as it's just too embarrassing for me, plus I eat a lot of protein, but experience has taught me that the guys that are into that kind of thing, generally are better lovers, no inhibitions, make you feel at ease, wouldn't have to worry about fanny farts or the odd piece of poop escaping with anal, just down for raw no fucks given, decent sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Communicating with the person before hand can kind of tell you how the sex is gonna go. I've had two spectacular guys, it used to be 3 but the first guy was my long term ex and he's a cunt and thinking about him makes me want to nail my fanny to a wall so we won't count him.
The two spectacular guys gave massive hints to what they'd be like in bed purely from how they conversed. Wasn't smutty sex chat, just general chat where certain key words were mentioned. Examples being when talking about training and one guy saying he'd like to go down on me with a sweaty fanny. The other guy asking if when we met for what was a long weekend would I not shower all weekend. Interestingly the common denominator between the two was that both guys wanted me to take a dump on them or send a video with such footage, I didn't comply with the request as it's just too embarrassing for me, plus I eat a lot of protein, but experience has taught me that the guys that are into that kind of thing, generally are better lovers, no inhibitions, make you feel at ease, wouldn't have to worry about fanny farts or the odd piece of poop escaping with anal, just down for raw no fucks given, decent sex. "
You're quite fantastic. |
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"1) Experimentation over time and with different guys.
2) I don't think you can tell.
Off topic but whenever I see your profile pic and username I always think you're a woman."
Omg me too it wasnt til he said happy to be mounted i looked up to the arrow saying man lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Communicating with the person before hand can kind of tell you how the sex is gonna go. I've had two spectacular guys, it used to be 3 but the first guy was my long term ex and he's a cunt and thinking about him makes me want to nail my fanny to a wall so we won't count him.
The two spectacular guys gave massive hints to what they'd be like in bed purely from how they conversed. Wasn't smutty sex chat, just general chat where certain key words were mentioned. Examples being when talking about training and one guy saying he'd like to go down on me with a sweaty fanny. The other guy asking if when we met for what was a long weekend would I not shower all weekend. Interestingly the common denominator between the two was that both guys wanted me to take a dump on them or send a video with such footage, I didn't comply with the request as it's just too embarrassing for me, plus I eat a lot of protein, but experience has taught me that the guys that are into that kind of thing, generally are better lovers, no inhibitions, make you feel at ease, wouldn't have to worry about fanny farts or the odd piece of poop escaping with anal, just down for raw no fucks given, decent sex. "
I love messy sex. But I draw the line at poop  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1) Experimentation over time and with different guys.
2) I don't think you can tell.
Off topic but whenever I see your profile pic and username I always think you're a woman.
Omg me too it wasnt til he said happy to be mounted i looked up to the arrow saying man lol"
I'm quite a feminine man, not too girly mind, just a bit of eyeliner, heels, bra, tenna lady type of thing.. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Communicating with the person before hand can kind of tell you how the sex is gonna go. I've had two spectacular guys, it used to be 3 but the first guy was my long term ex and he's a cunt and thinking about him makes me want to nail my fanny to a wall so we won't count him.
The two spectacular guys gave massive hints to what they'd be like in bed purely from how they conversed. Wasn't smutty sex chat, just general chat where certain key words were mentioned. Examples being when talking about training and one guy saying he'd like to go down on me with a sweaty fanny. The other guy asking if when we met for what was a long weekend would I not shower all weekend. Interestingly the common denominator between the two was that both guys wanted me to take a dump on them or send a video with such footage, I didn't comply with the request as it's just too embarrassing for me, plus I eat a lot of protein, but experience has taught me that the guys that are into that kind of thing, generally are better lovers, no inhibitions, make you feel at ease, wouldn't have to worry about fanny farts or the odd piece of poop escaping with anal, just down for raw no fucks given, decent sex.
I love messy sex. But I draw the line at poop "
Well you can't make an omelette without cracking an egg! Someone told me that once  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Communicating with the person before hand can kind of tell you how the sex is gonna go. I've had two spectacular guys, it used to be 3 but the first guy was my long term ex and he's a cunt and thinking about him makes me want to nail my fanny to a wall so we won't count him.
The two spectacular guys gave massive hints to what they'd be like in bed purely from how they conversed. Wasn't smutty sex chat, just general chat where certain key words were mentioned. Examples being when talking about training and one guy saying he'd like to go down on me with a sweaty fanny. The other guy asking if when we met for what was a long weekend would I not shower all weekend. Interestingly the common denominator between the two was that both guys wanted me to take a dump on them or send a video with such footage, I didn't comply with the request as it's just too embarrassing for me, plus I eat a lot of protein, but experience has taught me that the guys that are into that kind of thing, generally are better lovers, no inhibitions, make you feel at ease, wouldn't have to worry about fanny farts or the odd piece of poop escaping with anal, just down for raw no fucks given, decent sex.
I love messy sex. But I draw the line at poop
Well you can't make an omelette without cracking an egg! Someone told me that once "
Ahh but you can blow a trumpet without snotting all over the piccolist in front of you |
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