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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are a lot of chats on here about peoples sexuality and whether they are straight, fab straight, bi curious etc
Appreciating that some prefer honesty but there can be people who are not sure what their sexuality is
If they are willing to try things and their reasons for wanting to please is not necessarily a sexual one does their sexuality actually matter?
Does a male have to be bi curious or gay to be willing to try things with a male
top - can they not just be sub? |
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By *hill44Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
It took me a long time to pluck the courage to play with a man never looked back since though I'm bi love men & women ,unfortunately society didn't seen to except people for who they are & just being happy with them selves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Labeling can be very useful for some people as it gives them something 'concrete' to define a party of them where as others find it restrictive. There's also the problem with subjective understanding so what's bi to one person may not be to another.
My advise is not to worry about it too much. Try stuff, if you enjoy it do it again. If not don't judge those who do enjoy it. Within reason that is, play with respect and consent even when you're pretending otherwise!
Mike xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have thought that on a site that is all about people meeting for sex, that sexuality would be important.
I’ve had this guy (supposed to be part of fm couple) messaging me, begging for me to visit while his “partner” is away and let him suck my cock. Keeps saying it doesn’t matter that he is a guy and that I don’t even have to look if I don’t want to.
So why the fuck does he not believe I am straight? It definitely does matter!! |
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I couldn't submit to many people so call myself dominant and do tend to prefer dominating sexually even with someone i could submit to because i love being in control.
I'm definitely not lesbian or bi, have dabbled in both and didn't enjoy it. If other people know i am straight then they know i'm only sexually interested in people possessing a penis, and that for any romantic relationship i would also only be interested in someone wih a penis too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexuality is very fluid and also something that people to define themselves by.
If you look at the Kinsey scale which is the sliding scale of sexuality.
You have 0 to 6
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions
So when it comes to exploring you may not be fully homo or hetro but your not 100 hetro |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone trying to over explain scales and whatever is missing the point. The idea that the OP is proposing is that it doesn’t matter and you shouldn’t care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone trying to over explain scales and whatever is missing the point. The idea that the OP is proposing is that it doesn’t matter and you shouldn’t care"
And if the Individual does not care that is up to them as its all down to personal choice.
But the same goes to those that do care and take pride in how they choose to identify themselves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am not saying people should not care or people should not take pride in how they identify
And people should accept how others identify
It is more about those who are not sure how they identify and hence does it matter
for example if i am interested and willing to submit to a guy and do things (which may or may not include sexual) does it matter if i am straight, bi or gay? To me its about expressing my sub side which is different from my sexual side |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not saying people should not care or people should not take pride in how they identify
And people should accept how others identify
It is more about those who are not sure how they identify and hence does it matter
for example if i am interested and willing to submit to a guy and do things (which may or may not include sexual) does it matter if i am straight, bi or gay? To me its about expressing my sub side which is different from my sexual side"
If it does not matter to you it should not matter to others |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
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I've always been very horny and willing to try new things with who ever turns me on I don't like labels though and I bet all men on here have thought oooo that's a nice cock at one time before without feeling bi or gay it's just raw rampant sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am not saying people should not care or people should not take pride in how they identify
And people should accept how others identify
It is more about those who are not sure how they identify and hence does it matter
for example if i am interested and willing to submit to a guy and do things (which may or may not include sexual) does it matter if i am straight, bi or gay? To me its about expressing my sub side which is different from my sexual side
If it does not matter to you it should not matter to others"
Agreed but it does to some, esp if I am willing to do things that dont sexually turn me on but do mentally |
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