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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Not in all cases. I've been given the green light to sleep with another man, but I'm not sure if i could. Possibly if it was a full swap with a couple but I'm still not 100% convinced i could. I def wasn't coerced into the scene, it was me that suggested to my man we should have a ffm lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Seriously???!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When it says 'no single men' it means they used the mail filter to block messages from men.
Men often hound people. The men mail and mail and mail whether the person/ couple is looking for men or not. The men are also often abusive when someone turns them down.
Using the mail filter means they won't get hundreds of pointless mails or abuse.
It makes life much happier and they can go looking for men if they so desire.
Or they may not want to meet men at all. They may want to meet women or other couples.
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
I have a couples profile, single men are blocked.
The profile was jointly written, I was far from coerced.
It was my choice to block single men. If and when we want to meet with one, we'll find one.
I deal with enough FAF messages on this profile.
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We say “no single men” because we like to play in a foursome with other couples!
Why do single men assume all husbands want to watch their wives with other men?
We like to watch each other but all playing at the same time. |
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"Ok. So the minority will reply but the majority won't by the very nature of what they are doing."
you seem convinced that you're right. People don't have to defend themselves or convince you otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep of course it is! Because as a bi sexual female I can explore my sexuality at home with hubby can’t I? Oh wait I can’t 
You can if I nip round for a cuppa! "
It’s a long way! But sure xx |
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1. We're swingers who want to meet swingers. 99% of single men are not swingers. Get yourself a partner, then you can apply.
2. I really question the intelligence of people who think many women are passive little lambs who can be coerced into things they don't want to do. The average woman is far better at soft power than the average man.
3. The reality is that whilst most couple profiles are run by the men, the women effectively hold the ultimate over which meets do and don't happen. This is because women give consent, not men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When it says 'no single men' it means they used the mail filter to block messages from men.
Men often hound people. The men mail and mail and mail whether the person/ couple is looking for men or not. The men are also often abusive when someone turns them down.
Using the mail filter means they won't get hundreds of pointless mails or abuse.
It makes life much happier and they can go looking for men if they so desire.
Or they may not want to meet men at all. They may want to meet women or other couples.
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Very much this in our case. Also Kate had expressed more of an interest in fucking another women. I'm already experimented and while I'm OK with playing with a guy it's not something I'm looking for.
Mike xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
OP I don’t think any couple owes you any explanation or reasoning to convince you of anything. Believe what you want to believe and do your own research on potential playmates but maybe keep your sweeping generalisations to yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
In some cases yes in others no.
You can not make a sweeping statement based on your limited view on the lifestyle.
Boo was the person that wanted to enter in to the swinging scene and MT was happy to explore it but it was led by Boo.
There are many reasons why couples don't look for single men or do play with so for men but only in a club environment.
It comes down to what that couple wants and it's as simple as that |
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Obvious as in your opinion ?
Or
Obvious now from a thorough analysis of all couples profile on Fab ?
The second is fact and the first is a load of balloney |
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It can get tedious getting "fancy a fuck" "suck my cock" messages all the time (not saying all men are like this) so it is sometimes easier to put that you are not looking for single men and just find the ones that you are interested in. Rarely do we get messages like this from women or couples but we get them every day from men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Previous couple profiles I’ve had have been a joint adventure together where we play with other couples and prefer a foursome.
Playing as a single the dynamics change, I rarely play with couples now as the couples that do message want me and the female to put on a show for the man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Bollocks, nobody has to convince you of anything |
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Not the case here. I set up the profile & hubby reads/catches up evening. No cohercing here & we both are in this together & jointly make decisions as the mood takes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise
Bollocks, nobody has to convince you of anything"
As the female half of this couple I’ve been coerced into agreeing with mr b
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In some cases, yes.
I would hazard a guess and say over half are like this maybe?"
And what do you base that on
We have friends who are couples up and down the country and its never been like that where we go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise
Bollocks, nobody has to convince you of anything
As the female half of this couple I’ve been coerced into agreeing with mr b
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Genuine Swingers. Wife does as she's told. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise
Bollocks, nobody has to convince you of anything
As the female half of this couple I’ve been coerced into agreeing with mr b
Genuine Swingers. Wife does as she's told.
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She'd make mincemeat of me if I tried to coerce her into anything 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When it says 'no single men' it means they used the mail filter to block messages from men.
Men often hound people. The men mail and mail and mail whether the person/ couple is looking for men or not. The men are also often abusive when someone turns them down.
Using the mail filter means they won't get hundreds of pointless mails or abuse.
It makes life much happier and they can go looking for men if they so desire.
Or they may not want to meet men at all. They may want to meet women or other couples.
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I think You hit the nail on the head there |
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Sorry, why would people not looking for single males need to convince a single male of anything?
I'm sure there are people here doing it for unhealthy reasons. Judge each meet as you find them. If you have doubts, walk away. It's all you can do. |
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How can anyone expect a single male that is not a swinger to understand the motivations of a loving swinging couple? He’s a single guy that likes sex so has joined a swinging site hoping he can join in a couples kink. He has an uneducated opinion, his sweeping generalisation is foolish but he’s probably not alone in his opinion.
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Are you a conspiracy theorist, by any chance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the cut of the OPs jib, However OP.. prepare your anus for incoming mail with headlines akin to.
"Who are you to say what couples can and can not do"
"You obviously don't understand swinging"
"How dare you judge others"
Just be careful having those opinion thingies on here, everyone is free to do whatever they like...don't challenge it with your modern outspoken thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
totally wrong. I the female is the one who decided no single males. Couples only so hubby can also play.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can anyone expect a single male that is not a swinger to understand the motivations of a loving swinging couple? He’s a single guy that likes sex so has joined a swinging site hoping he can join in a couples kink. He has an uneducated opinion, his sweeping generalisation is foolish but he’s probably not alone in his opinion.
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He's not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise
Bollocks, nobody has to convince you of anything
As the female half of this couple I’ve been coerced into agreeing with mr b
Genuine Swingers. Wife does as she's told.
She'd make mincemeat of me if I tried to coerce her into anything
Mr B"
You're doing it wrong. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Found the incel |
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"When it says 'no single men' it means they used the mail filter to block messages from men.
Men often hound people. The men mail and mail and mail whether the person/ couple is looking for men or not. The men are also often abusive when someone turns them down.
Using the mail filter means they won't get hundreds of pointless mails or abuse.
It makes life much happier and they can go looking for men if they so desire.
Or they may not want to meet men at all. They may want to meet women or other couples.
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In our experience this is the case.
I'm sure there are cases like the OP states, however I think these are relatively rare.
In most cases it seems to be a joint effort, with the lady having the final say.
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"1. We're swingers who want to meet swingers. 99% of single men are not swingers. Get yourself a partner, then you can apply.
2. I really question the intelligence of people who think many women are passive little lambs who can be coerced into things they don't want to do. The average woman is far better at soft power than the average man.
3. The reality is that whilst most couple profiles are run by the men, the women effectively hold the ultimate over which meets do and don't happen. This is because women give consent, not men. "
This completely
Sounds to us like a case of sour grapes
With our profile, it was Jude who stipulated no single men because:
A. she wants to explore her bi side;
B. the experiences we've had with single men have been nearly 100% negative.
And like the quote above, Jude holds ALL of the cards when we decide who to meet/play with ... if she's not feeling it, it doesn't happen. |
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Hey, you might get an outraged couple who discuss this and agree the lady can have sex with you which will convince you they both wanted it!!!!!!
Meanwhile......on planet Earth.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
I chose not to have single men as it is my right to chose who I let fuck me.
Why is making a choice about what I want to do seen by yourself as my other half forcing me into something because you think he wants to fuck other women?
And how do you know that these profiles that state no single men do not search ones out them self Instead of recieving a 100 messages in the space of 8 minutes as we experienced at the weekend when we unblocked them for a period of time in order to find one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you need convincing otherwise?
Aw go on - have a go! "
Lol .. Great response... Good to see you at at one of your Birthday parties at Manchester lounge social last week... Hope you have recovered.. lol x |
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I was reading this article just yesterday about how the female's sexuality is key to a relationship (most data gathered is about heterosexual couples).
And that women tend to bore of one partner relatively quickly into a relationship (a handful of years).
Quite a different take on it all.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/oct/13/a-strong-libido-and-bored-by-monogamy-the-truth-about-women-and-sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise
Bollocks, nobody has to convince you of anything
As the female half of this couple I’ve been coerced into agreeing with mr b
Genuine Swingers. Wife does as she's told.
She'd make mincemeat of me if I tried to coerce her into anything
Mr B
You're doing it wrong. x"
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
wife setup her own profile and isn't into other sausage.. she just wants women and gets more than me (not that I try tbh on here). |
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Well done op. Great post to remind us couples that don't want to meet single people, the reasons why we don't want to meet single people.
That some of you really bring nothing to the party and have an overwhelming sense of entitlement as to what you should expect : |
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"I was reading this article just yesterday about how the female's sexuality is key to a relationship (most data gathered is about heterosexual couples).
And that women tend to bore of one partner relatively quickly into a relationship (a handful of years).
Quite a different take on it all.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/oct/13/a-strong-libido-and-bored-by-monogamy-the-truth-about-women-and-sex "
That was a really interesting read thanks for posting that url |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
EH yeah that's it exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've got to hand it to these single males who act like cunts.
They make us decent single males look good! "
You played your hand too early.
Never declare yourself as a "decent". Women will work it out for themselves if you are or not.
Let cunts act like cunts. Women will filter accordingly without parental supervision |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've got to hand it to these single males who act like cunts.
They make us decent single males look good!
You played your hand too early.
Never declare yourself as a "decent". Women will work it out for themselves if you are or not.
Let cunts act like cunts. Women will filter accordingly without parental supervision "
True |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Not in our case no it was my idea to join to get a ffm.
No one has coherced me and I don't fuck men nor does Dick fuck women without my agreement!
It's about lady love here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise
OP I don’t think any couple owes you any explanation or reasoning to convince you of anything. Believe what you want to believe and do your own research on potential playmates but maybe keep your sweeping generalisations to yourself "
totally agree we both set our profile up and we both monitor it and neither of us play unless both of us are happy. male |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
When I was on here as part of a couple I (the female) put that on our profile as we were more interested in ‘traditional’ swinging where we would play or soft swap with another couple and when we wanted a single man we preferred to look for men that fit our taste than be bombarded with the messages from men that weren’t what we wanted and just see this as somewhere to get an easy lay.x |
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"Yep of course it is! Because as a bi sexual female I can explore my sexuality at home with hubby can’t I? Oh wait I can’t "
completely agree it was a joint decision with me and mr and personally wouldn't feel comfortable with single guys that's not what we are hear for xx |
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"You've got to hand it to these single males who act like cunts.
They make us decent single males look good!
You played your hand too early.
Never declare yourself as a "decent". Women will work it out for themselves if you are or not.
Let cunts act like cunts. Women will filter accordingly without parental supervision "
Appears one did in this instance with the poster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Actually we are the opposite he would much rather see me having fun than him. The only reason we do not tick we are seeking single guys is we cannot keep up with messages..
S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Can you let me know what coherced means? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We say “no single men” because we like to play in a foursome with other couples!
Why do single men assume all husbands want to watch their wives with other men?
We like to watch each other but all playing at the same time. "
Exactly!! |
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"I was reading this article just yesterday about how the female's sexuality is key to a relationship (most data gathered is about heterosexual couples).
And that women tend to bore of one partner relatively quickly into a relationship (a handful of years).
Quite a different take on it all.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/oct/13/a-strong-libido-and-bored-by-monogamy-the-truth-about-women-and-sex "
Sounds like another sex at dawn type book. No real hard evidence in that article but still thought provoking |
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"1. We're swingers who want to meet swingers. 99% of single men are not swingers. Get yourself a partner, then you can apply.
2. I really question the intelligence of people who think many women are passive little lambs who can be coerced into things they don't want to do. The average woman is far better at soft power than the average man.
3. The reality is that whilst most couple profiles are run by the men, the women effectively hold the ultimate over which meets do and don't happen. This is because women give consent, not men.
This completely
Sounds to us like a case of sour grapes
With our profile, it was Jude who stipulated no single men because:
A. she wants to explore her bi side;
B. the experiences we've had with single men have been nearly 100% negative.
And like the quote above, Jude holds ALL of the cards when we decide who to meet/play with ... if she's not feeling it, it doesn't happen."
I wonder if, in the OPs world, wife's spend most their time cleaning up after us, cooking and giving us back rubs. After all, they are so easy to bend to our will  |
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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago
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I won't convince you and not because I don't have a valid explanation, but because
1. One What ever I say you will be convinced my husband is making me type it Or that I'm a bloke
2. Because you are not in the frame of mind to listen to others argument
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it says 'no single men' it means they used the mail filter to block messages from men.
Men often hound people. The men mail and mail and mail whether the person/ couple is looking for men or not. The men are also often abusive when someone turns them down.
Using the mail filter means they won't get hundreds of pointless mails or abuse.
It makes life much happier and they can go looking for men if they so desire.
Or they may not want to meet men at all. They may want to meet women or other couples.
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I just have to say that not all men do this. Of course you know this I just had to put it out in the forum. Sadly those that do seem to be in the majority which is an absolute tragedy for those men on here who have respect and a sense of civility and fun. X |
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We put it as a rule, as we don't want to have local single men bumping into us in our vanilla life.
Couples have each other to keep themselves in check, with a single male, we'd hope that they are capable of doing just that, but aren't prepared to risk that piece of assurance that we have within our own rules.
If we are on the mainland we wouldn't rule it out though. |
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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago
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How would you know, you blocked couples.....
We must be fake also, fake varified also.
Or is it because opening up our profile will bring in hundreds of messages of which only a few can string a sentence together and lack of effort on there profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I couldn't get wet for another man - it's all mental for me. Hubby is very good at mental stimulation so sex is ..... well I'll let you figure that out ..
I'm bi and it was my idea - the age difference between us is hot for me and the idea of other women involved is just as kinky 
No men - couldn't handle the idea of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it says 'no single men' it means they used the mail filter to block messages from men.
Men often hound people. The men mail and mail and mail whether the person/ couple is looking for men or not. The men are also often abusive when someone turns them down.
Using the mail filter means they won't get hundreds of pointless mails or abuse.
It makes life much happier and they can go looking for men if they so desire.
Or they may not want to meet men at all. They may want to meet women or other couples.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife likes to play with women. I'm lacking in the breast and vagina department, she says shes got all she needs in a man at home. We do play with couples and it's her choice to take it as far as she pleases but more often than not she wants to go for the other female in the couple. |
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"Maybe I’ve hit a nerve there "
Well you're likely to do that if you post ludicrous, ill thought out and possibly offensive opinions
However we would like to thank you for reminding us why we block single men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Some women love women, some men love men, some women love trannies, some men love beer hope this helps
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
I wouldn't say most at all in reality there are many married women who are looking to express their bi side. Others do meet single men but get pissed off at the harassment of single guys and like to pick their own single male. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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Because we do this for both of our enjoyment and a single guy wouldn’t enable this adequately. Not to say the scenario wouldn’t ever arise, but if it did, it’d likely be with a guy we already know rather than a Fab random.
I could go into the situation and thinking further but cant be arsed
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
I would agree with you on that one OP. This is my other half pet hate. Lexi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise
I would agree with you on that one OP. This is my other half pet hate. Lexi "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Even in cases where this is true, if you have enough experience you can usually tell quite quickly, but in the majority of profiles on here you're looking at either experienced couples who know this only works if decisions are joint, or newer couples who are finding their way and working out what they are comfortable with in their own time.
Our profile said no single men, to start with. Clyde is newer to swinging than I am, and so we agreed to take things at his pace. I was the one who offered to do that, I wasn't coerced or forced. As he has become more comfortable, our limits have expanded. We decide together what we want. Simple as that. X |
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Utter utter rubbish. I have absolutely no interest in fucking random men off here. However I want to watch my partner fuck other women. That is MY choice abd oyr dynamic.Definitely not one to be cohersed. In fact anyone who knows me knows how true that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs S is the lead in our couple. She just doesn't want to play with single men. She says if she wanted to fuck random fella's she would be on a dating site not a swingers one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely complete and utter drivel...
Female half here set up this profile we both look at it add pictures chat etc..
I for one like seeing my hubby getting flirty with another woman it's a huge turn on as is hubby watching me with a guy or female or both..
I think you really need to understand dynamics op..
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
I think there is some truth in this. Usually couples who meet single guys it is the man running the account as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it's up to them.
If I were you, I'd focus on finding people who do meet single men.
People on fab have all sorts of requirements. Height, ethnicity, straight/bi etc.
You're not going to appeal to everyone, so just focus your efforts on those you might at least have some prospect of appealing to |
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"It means either married ladies are lettuce pickers or hubby's selfish and wants all the glory for himself"
I'm partial to a bit of light girl-on-girl when the mood takes, but really I'm just greedy and love having lots of cocks to play with.
So thats that theory of yours out the window. |
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"Only recently ‘no single men’ got taken off our profile because I finally managed to get my confidence together and ask my husband if we could, scary moment as I know he only makes us be on here so he can fuck other ladies. Sometime soon I hope to be allowed out of the kitchen and wear makeup outside aswell...
you've had 4 guy meets? "
Was the sarcasm lost?
We did used to have no single men, but that’s because I prefer to look for them myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
And add to that is " we are looking for single woman only" lol
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Swinging to us is couples, singles are bit of extra naughty fun when mood takes be it fem or male but as I'm more situational bi then the ffm isn't priority for either of us, whereas mfm with hubby in driving seat so to say is awesome (he's not slightly bi so my indulgence only)- Fi |
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Try reading our profile! |
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"Sour grapes comes to mind.
We play together and alone
Mandy with single guys and I play with couples and single ladies.
The note coming through here is that you get inundated with single males "
I think its definitely sour grapes. These threads are always interesting cos shows u people who are judgemental against swingers ....yet join a swingers site.. |
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"Sour grapes comes to mind.
We play together and alone
Mandy with single guys and I play with couples and single ladies.
The note coming through here is that you get inundated with single males
I think its definitely sour grapes. These threads are always interesting cos shows u people who are judgemental against swingers ....yet join a swingers site.. "
Must confess. Couple to couple Wow |
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Really??? It was my wife that bought up the subject of swinging & after many conversations we went to a club to see what the lifestyle was all about. She hadn't been coerced, pressured or anything. I would never pressure her into doing anything she didn't want to do. Its called respect & when WE set up this profile it was HER that said SHE didn't want to meet single men, not me selecting it.
So why do you need convincing anyway? Not having much luck getting your leg over??? |
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coerced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
When a man calls women 'female' that's a BIG RED FLAG for me, the rest of your post doesn't change my mind.
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Some couples profiles are completed rules by the man and you can tell the ones straight away, I’ve met some really nice ones who are not just out to meet other couples so the guy can “play” with a another woman or watch his wife/partner/fwb/mistress etc
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise Some couples profiles are completed ruled* by the man and you can tell the ones straight away, I’ve met some really nice ones who are not just out to meet other couples so the guy can “play” with a another woman or watch his wife/partner/fwb/mistress etc "
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
Don’t need to convince you of a damn thing. Hubby is hardly ever on here, although he does have final say in meets ( my Dom, my protector). We joined because I love seeing two guys together (which is why we won’t meet STRAIGHT guys) I talk on forums and answer all messages ....
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By (user no longer on site)
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We decided together to swing after 30 years we decided to have a bit more fun...life is for living. i have a couples profile and also hubby has a couples profile...we each get different couples and we have also met some lovely single guys |
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"It's so obvious that most couples profiles stating 'no single men' are set up by the male in the couple. The female is coherced into the scene because the guy wants to shag another woman. Please convince me otherwise "
There is just lots of fakes so just chill... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just saw this thread and thought what upper bollocks! No wonder when I tried to click on his profile he was already on block lol"
love your profile pic can't think why
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