Encountering people from the 'real' world on here or vice versa, anyone had that or think they have? No great bother to me, I'm pretty open about myself, sexuality etc, basically as far as my sex life goes not much good as a target for exposure.
Over the years I've got to know a lot of people well, would never dream of saying anything about them in the 'real' world. I've chanced upon people in similar non sexual roles who it turned out have been o this scene, no big deal to me. I always think that most people have a kink one way or another. Has anyone ever had it go badly, if so how, just being nosey to be honest? |
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Within a couple of days of joining we.got messages of a guy who recognised my missus by revealing personal details, such as the small town she is from in ireland, and wouldnt reveal who he was. Found it a bit creepy. Fortunately it didnt put us off  |
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"Within a couple of days of joining we.got messages of a guy who recognised my missus by revealing personal details, such as the small town she is from in ireland, and wouldnt reveal who he was. Found it a bit creepy. Fortunately it didnt put us off "
That would be creepy, perhaps I'm wrong but if he had said it's Mark from wherever, I'm into that stuff too I think that would be okay. The guy would be being open and honest. A few years ago I met a couple from fairly close to my home and at first they were nervous because of that. I said look if I bump into you in ASDA I'm not going to say 'lovely 3 some the other night'. We did meet up and had great fun, funnily enough they lived quite close to the local ASDA. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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I think the reality is you WILL encounter people you know in real life on Fab. Even though I'm not married and have no 'baggage' I do like to keep my swinging lifestyle private because of where I work(NHS). But if I see someone I know I don't freak out I just assume they have as much to lose. Over the years I have met people who I knew in real life and got in touch on Fab, can't say there was anything bad was good fun actually ! |
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I’ve had my manager at work, a couple of work colleagues, neighbours, my mechanic, pals husbands..... 
I’ve also sent a pic, received a message back saying they knew me, so did their wife, then blocked me! |
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"Encountering people from the 'real' world on here or vice versa, anyone had that or think they have? No great bother to me, I'm pretty open about myself, sexuality etc, basically as far as my sex life goes not much good as a target for exposure.
Over the years I've got to know a lot of people well, would never dream of saying anything about them in the 'real' world. I've chanced upon people in similar non sexual roles who it turned out have been o this scene, no big deal to me. I always think that most people have a kink one way or another. Has anyone ever had it go badly, if so how, just being nosey to be honest? "
I met with a woman on here (on my old account) and we had sex a good few times over a couple of weeks. I met up with her on the morning of my Christmas work do. Later that night I turn up at my works Christmas party and I find her sat next to my boss, I had no idea that she was even married, let alone married to my boss. That was extremely awkward..but nobody at work knows about it to this day and I no longer see her lol |
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By *otgirl32Woman
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"I’ve had my manager at work, a couple of work colleagues, neighbours, my mechanic, pals husbands.....
I’ve also sent a pic, received a message back saying they knew me, so did their wife, then blocked me! "
That's not only ridiculous but just rude and mean. At the very least they could have written back then blocked. |
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"I’ve had my manager at work, a couple of work colleagues, neighbours, my mechanic, pals husbands.....
I’ve also sent a pic, received a message back saying they knew me, so did their wife, then blocked me!
That's not only ridiculous but just rude and mean. At the very least they could have written back then blocked. "
some are like that sadly. |
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"I’ve had my manager at work, a couple of work colleagues, neighbours, my mechanic, pals husbands.....
I’ve also sent a pic, received a message back saying they knew me, so did their wife, then blocked me!
That's not only ridiculous but just rude and mean. At the very least they could have written back then blocked. "
I’ve still no idea who they are. I’ve nothing to hide though, so I’m not particularly worried just mildly intrigued |
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