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By *lay it Curvy OP   Woman  over a year ago

Manchester

Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You could be right!

I do get attention when I’m on a night out, and if I wanted to “pull” I could, but it’s not for me personally.

I do think there is a sense of “I like big girls, but I won’t let my mates know I like them” mentality with a lot of men. So I can see where you are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes me too

It’s frustrating

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By *lay it Curvy OP   Woman  over a year ago

Manchester


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I do get attention when I’m on a night out, and if I wanted to “pull” I could, but it’s not for me personally.

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I don't necessarily mean just on the "pull" but in meeting guys in general. But I also get the not wanting theirs to know.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman  over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

No, its very common.

I think Fab is the one and only place where we are accepted and not made to feel that way, infact reveared by some.

I read a comment on a post yesterday from a woman who was fat shaming the bbw women on fab. This saddened me as in every other aspect of life we are made to feel inferior to slim women, but for a woman to turn on us on here is just shit. Leave us be. We dont shame women for being slim, theres no need to do it to us in the one place we can be ourselves.

As for the men who are embarrased to go out in public with us, grow up ffs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No you’re definitely not the only person to feel this way. It can be quite disheartening.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love bbw more to play with have lovely tits to love them face sitting on me too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Any hole's a goal online mentality? Many guys will say what they think us girls want to hear, to get into our knickers, whatever size we are.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love bbw more to play with have lovely tits to love them face sitting on me too"
but what she's trying to say is would you chat a bbw up in a pub with your mates around while there was slimmer women?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any hole's a goal online mentality? Many guys will say what they think us girls want to hear, to get into our knickers, whatever size we are. "
absolouetly spot on .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any hole's a goal online mentality? Many guys will say what they think us girls want to hear, to get into our knickers, whatever size we are. "

Well just check my size

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any hole's a goal online mentality? Many guys will say what they think us girls want to hear, to get into our knickers, whatever size we are. absolouetly spot on . "
. Yes if I find her attractive and she had a nice personality

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any hole's a goal online mentality? Many guys will say what they think us girls want to hear, to get into our knickers, whatever size we are.

Well just check my size "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Quite a depressing thread this

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By *iz78Woman  over a year ago

wirral


"Quite a depressing thread this "

But oh so true

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"I love bbw more to play with have lovely tits to love them face sitting on me too but what she's trying to say is would you chat a bbw up in a pub with your mates around while there was slimmer women?"

This can sometimes make the slimmer girls jealous, which can work to get the slimmer birds to chill out and start talking.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can offer a cocktail sausage

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most of my ex’s have been BBW I don’t give a shit what other people think, that’s my preference

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By *ractor manMan  over a year ago

dublin

No this is something I don't understand myself if you like bbws on here whats wrong with been the same in the real world

As for myself a skinny mini dose nothing for me in anyway at all all my past girlfriend s have all been big girls .... do what makes you happy lads ..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"I can offer a cocktail sausage"

Is there ANY thread that you can't make about the size of your cock?

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple  over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Personally I much prefer bbw, never been into skinny women

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Personally I much prefer bbw, never been into skinny women "

What about average women? Size 12-14?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personally I much prefer bbw, never been into skinny women "

So *pat round the corner from me is skinny. She’s a size 8!! I’m not. But her lifestyle is drugs and alcohol. But she’s skinny so

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By *onny69sMan  over a year ago

Donny

If I like someone I like them whatever size.

As most first meets are a social first I have no problems been seen in public with whoever I'm meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bigger women can fuck a cock harder

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

If i found out that seriously hot women had a fetish for fucking old average guys like me, "Going ugly early" as the urban dictionary puts it, while awaiting their Justin Timberlake or Brad Pitt, I'd just enjoy the sex!

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By *anky_PankyWoman  over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I do think there is a sense of “I like big girls, but I won’t let my mates know I like them” mentality with a lot of men. So I can see where you are coming from. "

This in a lot of cases

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder "

Do you have statistics?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes you need a thread like this to open your eyes a little

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

Nope never really had an issue, but I’m fairly confident so I find that alone commands a certain presence that gets you noiticed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope never really had an issue, but I’m fairly confident so I find that alone commands a certain presence that gets you noiticed "

Absolutely this, confidence is sexy no matter what you look like.

Q x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope never really had an issue, but I’m fairly confident so I find that alone commands a certain presence that gets you noiticed

Absolutely this, confidence is sexy no matter what you look like.

Q x "

I’ll have to disagree

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By *eelouWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

Yip, I feel like this all the time. I then find it had to believe when someone actually says they're interested, take it with a pinch of salt due to all the negative comments I've had in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I adore BBWs on-site and in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope never really had an issue, but I’m fairly confident so I find that alone commands a certain presence that gets you noiticed

Absolutely this, confidence is sexy no matter what you look like.

Q x

I’ll have to disagree "

I should have added "in my opinion"

I find confidence sexy as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope never really had an issue, but I’m fairly confident so I find that alone commands a certain presence that gets you noiticed

Absolutely this, confidence is sexy no matter what you look like.

Q x

I’ll have to disagree

I should have added "in my opinion"

I find confidence sexy as fuck "

Confidence is totally sexy. I agree. And men will agree too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope never really had an issue, but I’m fairly confident so I find that alone commands a certain presence that gets you noiticed "

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By *ikely ladMan  over a year ago

Hounslow

Very interesting to hear but on this site attention to a female can be multiplied ten fold! Simply due to the ratio.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sometimes you need a thread like this to open your eyes a little"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope never really had an issue, but I’m fairly confident so I find that alone commands a certain presence that gets you noiticed

Absolutely this, confidence is sexy no matter what you look like.

Q x

I’ll have to disagree

I should have added "in my opinion"

I find confidence sexy as fuck

Confidence is totally sexy. I agree. And men will agree too. "

I've always been BBW, but also been lucky enough to be quite confident, and it does give you an added presence for sure x

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By *ikely ladMan  over a year ago

Hounslow


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

Yip, I feel like this all the time. I then find it had to believe when someone actually says they're interested, take it with a pinch of salt due to all the negative comments I've had in real life."

lou, don't take everything personally or think everyone is the same. Obviously I don't like negative nor do I think I deserve them but we're in a sink or swim society, and like it or not you need to be a strong swimmer.

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By *eelouWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

Yip, I feel like this all the time. I then find it had to believe when someone actually says they're interested, take it with a pinch of salt due to all the negative comments I've had in real life. lou, don't take everything personally or think everyone is the same. Obviously I don't like negative nor do I think I deserve them but we're in a sink or swim society, and like it or not you need to be a strong swimmer."

I've learned to ignore it over the years and let it go. Not everyone is like that I know but it still keep a little guard up in the background just incase. I'm actually quite confident and sociable and I'd happily talk to anyone but I'd never take it further. That's just me tho. I applaud and admire anyone who has who rocks their curves and has the confidence to go for what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think if the woman is confident she is sexy no matter what size she is. Some friends are curvy and to be fair they’d look ridiculous if they were a skinny mini. It’s how the woman feels about herself.

I’m not confident at the minute as had major surgery, now recovering but on a lot of medication that have side effects - can gain weight! not good in my books as I have got bigger and don’t like it. I want to be size 10-12 not a 16!

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By *ikely ladMan  over a year ago

Hounslow


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

Yip, I feel like this all the time. I then find it had to believe when someone actually says they're interested, take it with a pinch of salt due to all the negative comments I've had in real life. lou, don't take everything personally or think everyone is the same. Obviously I don't like negative nor do I think I deserve them but we're in a sink or swim society, and like it or not you need to be a strong swimmer.

I've learned to ignore it over the years and let it go. Not everyone is like that I know but it still keep a little guard up in the background just incase. I'm actually quite confident and sociable and I'd happily talk to anyone but I'd never take it further. That's just me tho. I applaud and admire anyone who has who rocks their curves and has the confidence to go for what they want. "

I don't blame you for not letting your guard down, it's our defense system that tells us to do that lou. Us fellas do the same but in different ways. Pride is a big thing and rejection puts a massive dent in that. I deal perfectly well, unfortunately others not so.

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By *eddonistikMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"Nope never really had an issue, but I’m fairly confident so I find that alone commands a certain presence that gets you noiticed

Absolutely this, confidence is sexy no matter what you look like.

Q x "

I think you have got it there, self confidence does attract with me and I would think with most men too. Plus a lot depends upon personal definition of BBW, height comes into that as much as figure I would have thought. Although I have been with many 'skinny' / 'slender' women and had a good time, my personal taste is for women with 'meat on their bones'.

Which ones has varied depending on facial looks, personality, wit and intelligence. Most of my long standinding relationships have been with women who have had 'meat on their bones' plus the other qulifications, age was pretty irrelevant.

One night stands, gang bangs etc it has been less dicriminatory, more a case of fucking in the moment.

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By *horehouseprincessWoman  over a year ago

small town near Munich


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

Its not just you, I often feel the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

there's just as much slim women bashing as there is bbw bashing on fab ...

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By *utonguy2023Man  over a year ago

luton

Nothimg wrong with a bbw one of my favs to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All you women on this thread should be very happy because of fab....

If no one wanted to date me in real life but I could log on to Fab and meet and have sex with hot women... I would be in heaven .

I would probably never leave the house.....

So if no guys hit on you on a night out and you can receive messages from 50-200 guys on fab.... Use Fab only and be happy...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder "

But tire quicker because the human body is not meant to carry excess weight...that is a medical fact

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because a lot of guys on here will say ANYTHING! to get a fuck, I don't adore big girls. I LOVE big tits.

I ADORE curvy women, but being obese is not attractive on a male or female. There's a difference between curvy and overweight, curvy has real definition, usually a waist, larger hips and breasts.

And don't get me started on BBW, imagine if men started using BBM and the likes of Boris Johnson, Les Dawson, Trump etc. Started banding it about...beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder,but I'm betting my sweetballs that term was coined by a big, not so beautiful woman.

The world's cruel, lots of people lie to get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

one of the very best ladies ive met (and im sure she will be ok with me saying this) has a fuller figure.

it had nothing to do with this in why i met her, it was because she has the most wonderful personality and we clicked together.

sex was always brilliant, we spent weekends away and stayed in hotels behaving very badly

to this day we remain in touch and she knows i care very much for her and im always there if she needs me.

just a wonderful women and i couldnt give a shit about her size.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In order to get what one wants, one will say everything one thinks you want to hear.

That's the nature of the beast.

It is your job to filter out if they are genuinely attracted to you and your body or if they are just paying you lips service in order to empty their balls inside your holes.

I carefully pay attention to the discrepancy between someone's behaviour and their words before forming my opinion.

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By *orkiecplCouple  over a year ago

York

Look at our profile and we been together nearly 20 years some men do like bbw

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because a lot of guys on here will say ANYTHING! to get a fuck, I don't adore big girls. I LOVE big tits.

I ADORE curvy women, but being obese is not attractive on a male or female. There's a difference between curvy and overweight, curvy has real definition, usually a waist, larger hips and breasts.

And don't get me started on BBW, imagine if men started using BBM and the likes of Boris Johnson, Les Dawson, Trump etc. Started banding it about...beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder,but I'm betting my sweetballs that term was coined by a big, not so beautiful woman.

The world's cruel, lots of people lie to get what they want."

They aren't facially attractive though. They would be BUM

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If only our eyes saw souls instead of bodies, how very different our idea of beauty would be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Isn’t this an illuminating thread ...........

Op I think there are guys out there who are confident in their choices and do approach women in the real world but there are others who care too much about what their mates think and that they ‘should’ be more attracted to slimmer women

Personally I think I’m attractive no matter what the scales say my life experience unfortunately says that you do get idiots who think they can approach you and verbally abuse you just because of how you look

Ignore them be confident and be yourself

All girls on Fab gets lots of attention but some guys in here and in the real world will say anything to get their leg over - it’s a fact

However beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we should respect others preferences and not think that just because you don’t find something attractive others won’t

I realise that I’m not for everyone and if folk don’t like my pics because of my weight then jog on - I respect that

There are plenty others that do and who also appreciate intelligence personality and not just my size

Just remember that Op I’m sure it’s the same for you xx

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By *xDeclanxxMan  over a year ago

Stourbridge

supply and demand.

There are 1000 men on here to 1 woman.

The hard truth!

Men lower their expectations in order to get a reply or if they are lucky enough sex!

Yet..

The opposite exists for men. Women are fussier because they can be as they receive 1000's of offers a day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Let's see how many men see this post as a "hey large ladies I'll kindly fuck you opportunity" and step forward proclaiming the love they've always had for BIG women...

be interesting to know what they class as big.

Ask yourself though ladies, do you really find fat men sexually irresistible. Being a stone or two over the supposedly ideal weight is often really fucking hot, but when your having to talc crevices then...sorry, not so hot.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"supply and demand.

There are 1000 men on here to 1 woman.

The hard truth!

Men lower their expectations in order to get a reply or if they are lucky enough sex!

Yet..

The opposite exists for men. Women are fussier because they can be as they receive 1000's of offers a day.

"

A thousand men to one woman?! Pretty sure that's not right.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fab world. I get lots of attention

Real world. Never been chatted up out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Online every woman gets attention. Some women get submerged in it and get totally addicted but most are sensible enough to see its usually guys sending everyone messages and hoping for any kind of response.

In reality men can't go sbd chat up every woman they see as face to face rejection is a lot worse.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Online every woman gets attention. Some women get submerged in it and get totally addicted but most are sensible enough to see its usually guys sending everyone messages and hoping for any kind of response.

In reality men can't go sbd chat up every woman they see as face to face rejection is a lot worse. "

Ooh that pic's back...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because a lot of guys on here will say ANYTHING! to get a fuck, I don't adore big girls. I LOVE big tits.

I ADORE curvy women, but being obese is not attractive on a male or female. There's a difference between curvy and overweight, curvy has real definition, usually a waist, larger hips and breasts.

And don't get me started on BBW, imagine if men started using BBM and the likes of Boris Johnson, Les Dawson, Trump etc. Started banding it about...beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder,but I'm betting my sweetballs that term was coined by a big, not so beautiful woman.

The world's cruel, lots of people lie to get what they want.

They aren't facially attractive though. They would be BUM "

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Let's see how many men see this post as a "hey large ladies I'll kindly fuck you opportunity" and step forward proclaiming the love they've always had for BIG women...

be interesting to know what they class as big.

Ask yourself though ladies, do you really find fat men sexually irresistible. Being a stone or two over the supposedly ideal weight is often really fucking hot, but when your having to talc crevices then...sorry, not so hot."

Never had to talc my crevices personally.

Each to their own and that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im Very glad to meet BBW in any situation, if I’m attracted to a lady I’ll try my best to get talking. I’m a bit shy on the approach but if I know you want my attention you will definitely get it. So nice to see curvy girls and BBW flaunt their amazing curves, I feel so proud standing alongside a girl with proper curves knowing she is with me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love bbw more to play with have lovely tits to love them face sitting on me too"

The OP was not asking a sex question

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

Seen it at clubs with my Mrs, beginning of the night guys walking away from her approach,

looking for a "hotty" no doubt, come midnight they're back, their standards have dropped..... they seem so surprised when they're told to fuck off.

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By *ee pandaWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Most men on here appreciate the bigger girl but anytime ive been out normally then not so much.

Plz just see past the size and look a bit deeper than my tits and ass. Im a bubbly caring lady and im much more cuddly than most lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I suspect the issue is that while they may prefer a bigger girl, on a night out with their mates, they wouldn't dream of hitting on a bigger girl because their mates will take the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well all you bbws are lovely and I have better banter with you and I enjoy the play time better so in my eyes your all perfect and if we was out on a night I’d spoil you and make you centre of attention X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whats wrong with guys wanting skinny woman? Its ok for you ladies to want a guy who is over 6 feet tall and has a 10" cock but when us guys prefer a skinny woman we are the bad ones

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im Very glad to meet BBW in any situation, if I’m attracted to a lady I’ll try my best to get talking. I’m a bit shy on the approach but if I know you want my attention you will definitely get it. So nice to see curvy girls and BBW flaunt their amazing curves, I feel so proud standing alongside a girl with proper curves knowing she is with me. "

Proper curves

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By *ee pandaWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Whats wrong with guys wanting skinny woman? Its ok for you ladies to want a guy who is over 6 feet tall and has a 10" cock but when us guys prefer a skinny woman we are the bad ones "

Cock size doesnt matter to me and a mans choice is there's all i mean is be consistant in ur choices dont have double standards about who u want here or in the vanilla situation x

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke

Tip of the iceberg ladies. There really are a lot of pathetic men on fab who will say whatever they think women want to hear, in order to try and increase their chances. Not just talking about appearance. Personally i find it pretty easy to spot based on the language they use, but apparently it still works...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

their is a more obvious reason which I'm sure you know, some guys think with their dicks, I know hard to believe but true

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whats wrong with guys wanting skinny woman? Its ok for you ladies to want a guy who is over 6 feet tall and has a 10" cock but when us guys prefer a skinny woman we are the bad ones "

Where has anyone said there’s something wrong with liking skinny women?

Everyone’s entitled to like what they like without being judged by others, whether that’s a 6ft Adonis, a size 6, or a size 24.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

However, a horny man is like electricity, searching for the path of least resistance...

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By *airyfatmanMan  over a year ago

by 'ere

Believe me,it’s even worse when you’re an overweight man. Lots of ladies here with phrases about wanting men to look past there size and see the person inside etc etc etc, which I personally always do, but it rarely seems to work the other way round. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had my fair share of “experiences” but if it wasn’t for the internet and meeting people to “break the ice” that way I’d probably be a virgin still. Never had the most confidence and was a little shy in my younger days but the amount of rejections I was always getting, and the comments (yes - from girls in the flesh at clubs etc that I wasn’t even trying to chat up) knocked it all completely away. Men have feelings too you know (ok, some don’t haha)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had a friend who ran an escort agency, he was very honest always...

He said the big girls always did better and made more cash as men are very shallow... loads of men want to fuck a fat bird and enjoy it immensely but don’t want to be seen with one in his arm...

Kinda summed it up perfectly to me!

I’m fed up of being single but won’t pay to join a dating website to be bypassed for all the skinny women.. whats the point?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

No, its very common.

I think Fab is the one and only place where we are accepted and not made to feel that way, infact reveared by some.

I read a comment on a post yesterday from a woman who was fat shaming the bbw women on fab. This saddened me as in every other aspect of life we are made to feel inferior to slim women, but for a woman to turn on us on here is just shit. Leave us be. We dont shame women for being slim, theres no need to do it to us in the one place we can be ourselves.

As for the men who are embarrased to go out in public with us, grow up ffs"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder "

Hahaha you mean we bounce better?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"there's just as much slim women bashing as there is bbw bashing on fab ...

"

True

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

As for the men who are embarrased to go out in public with us, grow up ffs"

If a woman says she won't date a short guy because she doesn't want to go out in heels and have everyone see her look taller than him, does she need to grow up ffs?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder

Hahaha you mean we bounce better? "

oh I love the bounce

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

As for the men who are embarrased to go out in public with us, grow up ffs

If a woman says she won't date a short guy because she doesn't want to go out in heels and have everyone see her look taller than him, does she need to grow up ffs? "

Yes she does (says a couple of shorties)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one of the very best ladies ive met (and im sure she will be ok with me saying this) has a fuller figure.

it had nothing to do with this in why i met her, it was because she has the most wonderful personality and we clicked together.

sex was always brilliant, we spent weekends away and stayed in hotels behaving very badly

to this day we remain in touch and she knows i care very much for her and im always there if she needs me.

just a wonderful women and i couldnt give a shit about her size.

"

What a lovely thing to say. Hope she reads this!

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By *airyfatmanMan  over a year ago

by 'ere

I like what I like and don’t give two shits what anything else thinks. As long as I’m happy (and the person I’m with too obviosuly) then all is good. I generally tend to do for larger and curvier girls. I find a lot of slimmer girls attractive too, don’t get me wrong, but being a larger guy it’s not something I’ve experienced. Not many slimmer girls generally want larger guys, plus I’d be worried about breaking them

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By *lay it Curvy OP   Woman  over a year ago

Manchester


"Whats wrong with guys wanting skinny woman? Its ok for you ladies to want a guy who is over 6 feet tall and has a 10" cock but when us guys prefer a skinny woman we are the bad ones "

Nothing was said about guys wanting skinny women, I can only talk about my own opinion as a larger woman, which was the difference socially to on here. I'm not looking to talk anyone down, please don't make it out to be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

I adore bbw's, I was in a relationship with one for over 30 years and looking out for the next sexy big girl.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whats wrong with guys wanting skinny woman? Its ok for you ladies to want a guy who is over 6 feet tall and has a 10" cock but when us guys prefer a skinny woman we are the bad ones "

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By *exyman261Man  over a year ago

Banbury


"You could be right!

I do get attention when I’m on a night out, and if I wanted to “pull” I could, but it’s not for me personally.

I do think there is a sense of “I like big girls, but I won’t let my mates know I like them” mentality with a lot of men. So I can see where you are coming from. "

This sums it up

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By *eelouWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

Some of the responses on here just cements why we feel this way. It's not just real life it's on here too and it can be just as nasty and condescending. Sadly always seems to be the same ones that I see bashing everyone just so they stand out. Worse than a school playground!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one of the very best ladies ive met (and im sure she will be ok with me saying this) has a fuller figure.

it had nothing to do with this in why i met her, it was because she has the most wonderful personality and we clicked together.

sex was always brilliant, we spent weekends away and stayed in hotels behaving very badly

to this day we remain in touch and she knows i care very much for her and im always there if she needs me.

just a wonderful women and i couldnt give a shit about her size.

What a lovely thing to say. Hope she reads this! "

One of the best. Always had my best interest at heart.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one of the very best ladies ive met (and im sure she will be ok with me saying this) has a fuller figure.

it had nothing to do with this in why i met her, it was because she has the most wonderful personality and we clicked together.

sex was always brilliant, we spent weekends away and stayed in hotels behaving very badly

to this day we remain in touch and she knows i care very much for her and im always there if she needs me.

just a wonderful women and i couldnt give a shit about her size.

What a lovely thing to say. Hope she reads this! "

I agree.

A really lovely post!

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By *bwlover82Man  over a year ago

london


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

I think you did not meet the right guys x

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By *bwlover82Man  over a year ago

london


"You could be right!

I do get attention when I’m on a night out, and if I wanted to “pull” I could, but it’s not for me personally.

I do think there is a sense of “I like big girls, but I won’t let my mates know I like them” mentality with a lot of men. So I can see where you are coming from. "

I don't care what my mate or others thing. My tastes are my tastes. My life is my life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are all human at the end of the day. We all have our preferences, our likes our dislikes. The weight or looks of a person doesn't make that person good or bad, boring or fun etc. it's that person underneath that truly turns people on. Ok we are all attracted to physical attraction but our desires aren't skin deep our desires are buried within.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You could be right!

I do get attention when I’m on a night out, and if I wanted to “pull” I could, but it’s not for me personally.

I do think there is a sense of “I like big girls, but I won’t let my mates know I like them” mentality with a lot of men. So I can see where you are coming from. "

If A man likes bigger girls and won't acknowledge that in front of his friends he's not much of a man. We like all body shapes, personality, face, eyes.. pretty much that order. Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like bigger girls with curves

So do most guys I know tbh

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Never had an issue finding willing chaps when out and about. I’m approachable and friendly so maybe that helps. As far as I know, I’ve met anyone that would be embarrassed to introduce me to their friends. I’m fat. I’m not a monster.

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Never had an issue finding willing chaps when out and about. I’m approachable and friendly so maybe that helps. As far as I know, I’ve met anyone that would be embarrassed to introduce me to their friends. I’m fat. I’m not a monster. "

*I’ve never met...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one of the very best ladies ive met (and im sure she will be ok with me saying this) has a fuller figure.

it had nothing to do with this in why i met her, it was because she has the most wonderful personality and we clicked together.

sex was always brilliant, we spent weekends away and stayed in hotels behaving very badly

to this day we remain in touch and she knows i care very much for her and im always there if she needs me.

just a wonderful women and i couldnt give a shit about her size.

What a lovely thing to say. Hope she reads this!

I agree.

A really lovely post! "

and you lady Whenever we have spoke.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never had an issue finding willing chaps when out and about. I’m approachable and friendly so maybe that helps. As far as I know, I’ve met anyone that would be embarrassed to introduce me to their friends. I’m fat. I’m not a monster.

*I’ve never met... "

I definitely wouldn't be embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mr here not sure what to say ladys only that there is guys on and off fab who do love a curvy lady...i was lucky to meet and marry one and I'd never change her..i loved her body when I meet her first and when she lost weight,which she wanted to..all the way through her pregnancy and all that goes with it..she was in my eyes stunning during her pregnancy sexy as bloody hell..and though she's determined to lose the baby weight as she calls it if she didn't i love her and her body like i did the first time we met...so ladys ignore the shit heads ye meet but don't tar all as bad because men who love a curvy lady are out there.MR SNICKERS

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For every female on fab it's easier to get attention here because the ratio is in our favour... as for the real world I do ok thanks... but I put that down to my confidence and approachability ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hot to say that the female form is a thing of beauty. I genuinely love curves/bbw. Nothing finer.....every person who knows me know that I love curves and enjoy the person with them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

I hear what your saying I met a guy out the other week said he loved curvy women with big boobs, saw same guy out at the weekend and he totally blanked me despite texting me every day the week before

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

That's out of order he's not worth the effort

Am I the only one who feels this way?

I hear what your saying I met a guy out the other week said he loved curvy women with big boobs, saw same guy out at the weekend and he totally blanked me despite texting me every day the week before

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

I hear what your saying I met a guy out the other week said he loved curvy women with big boobs, saw same guy out at the weekend and he totally blanked me despite texting me every day the week before

"

That's out of order he's not worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

I hear what your saying I met a guy out the other week said he loved curvy women with big boobs, saw same guy out at the weekend and he totally blanked me despite texting me every day the week before

That's out of order he's not worth the effort "

I've deleted his number now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder

But tire quicker because the human body is not meant to carry excess weight...that is a medical fact"

It is possible to be fit and fat btw... I'm fat but have fucked the life out of plenty if young, fit men, me on top

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder

But tire quicker because the human body is not meant to carry excess weight...that is a medical fact

It is possible to be fit and fat btw... I'm fat but have fucked the life out of plenty if young, fit men, me on top "

Ooooo can I be one of them young fit men pretty please

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder

But tire quicker because the human body is not meant to carry excess weight...that is a medical fact

It is possible to be fit and fat btw... I'm fat but have fucked the life out of plenty if young, fit men, me on top "

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke

It's like the cycle of guys saying one thing online and doing another in real life, is starting all over again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Let's see how many men see this post as a "hey large ladies I'll kindly fuck you opportunity" and step forward proclaiming the love they've always had for BIG women...

be interesting to know what they class as big.

Ask yourself though ladies, do you really find fat men sexually irresistible. Being a stone or two over the supposedly ideal weight is often really fucking hot, but when your having to talc crevices then...sorry, not so hot."

I used to play regularly with a guy that was 6'6" tall and almost as wide... I found him just as attractive as the gym bunnies I have played with or I wouldn't have fucked him! And he was a better fuck than some of those too, so...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Let's see how many men see this post as a "hey large ladies I'll kindly fuck you opportunity" and step forward proclaiming the love they've always had for BIG women...

be interesting to know what they class as big.

Ask yourself though ladies, do you really find fat men sexually irresistible. Being a stone or two over the supposedly ideal weight is often really fucking hot, but when your having to talc crevices then...sorry, not so hot.

I used to play regularly with a guy that was 6'6" tall and almost as wide... I found him just as attractive as the gym bunnies I have played with or I wouldn't have fucked him! And he was a better fuck than some of those too, so... "

I'm 6"8 haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Surely it is just a less public thing than all the guys with pretty girlfriends now they have a beard, tattoos and 6 packs, when those girls wouldn't have looked twice at them before they had any of those things... Fashion dictates for too many people and it is a hateful thing. I have always been a rocker/metalhead and mostly mixed with the same type of people, weirdly they have no problem with being with fat girls or very slim ones, even in public! In fact I have always found them to be less judgemental on the whole, when it comes to appearances

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder

But tire quicker because the human body is not meant to carry excess weight...that is a medical fact

It is possible to be fit and fat btw... I'm fat but have fucked the life out of plenty if young, fit men, me on top "

exactly

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By *eelouWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow

You guys are awesome, so lovely to see

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I adore BBW women here and in reality

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely it is just a less public thing than all the guys with pretty girlfriends now they have a beard, tattoos and 6 packs, when those girls wouldn't have looked twice at them before they had any of those things... Fashion dictates for too many people and it is a hateful thing. I have always been a rocker/metalhead and mostly mixed with the same type of people, weirdly they have no problem with being with fat girls or very slim ones, even in public! In fact I have always found them to be less judgemental on the whole, when it comes to appearances "

Need to meet these people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

bbw are always more sexier. who dont like big tits and big ass.i would rather have a big ass than a skinny boney ass in front of me i go for big girls and dont care what friend and others say bbw all the way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely it is just a less public thing than all the guys with pretty girlfriends now they have a beard, tattoos and 6 packs, when those girls wouldn't have looked twice at them before they had any of those things... Fashion dictates for too many people and it is a hateful thing. I have always been a rocker/metalhead and mostly mixed with the same type of people, weirdly they have no problem with being with fat girls or very slim ones, even in public! In fact I have always found them to be less judgemental on the whole, when it comes to appearances

Need to meet these people. "

You are always welcome to come to The Billy with me misses... 2 of the barmen are on here too... Waiting for my first date with one of em now lol

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By *ettyboop61Woman  over a year ago

St Neots


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

No your not the only one they forget we have feelings too....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Us less well endowed guys are pariahs too.

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By *inkerbell67Woman  over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fab is so removed from the real word I get plenty of messages from 20 something guys who wouldn’t look twice at me in a bar, same thing, so drop the size politics....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me (MT) it's the same with BBW and big men

Alit of males and females say they like bigger ladies or big men but statistically there are more that don't.

So when you go out climbing you are limiting you field if you like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Correct it’s very common among men on here they say that love bbws curves etc but then totally different in front of the public and friends,behind closed doors it’s totally different.Personally I would only sleep with someone I would date,click and chemistry are key and I’ve dated/had relationships with some lovely bbw girls.Some guys are different to others of course but I’ve noticed a pattern with some and it’s all about the click and chemistry but of course the physical attraction but don’t message someone you would be afraid to be seen with in the street x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

I’m not part of the body shaming brigade.....

But really......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

Took a long time to get the real women have curves quote! Expected it much earlier in this thread I guess I’m a figment of someone’s imagination, and body shaming slim people is wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

Hope that made you feel better about yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol

Took a long time to get the real women have curves quote! Expected it much earlier in this thread I guess I’m a figment of someone’s imagination, and body shaming slim people is wrong "

No it’s ok when you talk about slim people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For every female on fab it's easier to get attention here because the ratio is in our favour... as for the real world I do ok thanks... but I put that down to my confidence and approachability ..

"

APPROACHABILITY!!! Drops dead!! x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I feel that size is not an issue in my eyes. And I would never body shame anyone no matter.

For me real women, men or other genders is all in the mind not how someone looks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bigger women can fuck a cock harder "
quote of the day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

You'd think someone older wouldn't come out with such silly tosh as this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Offline or offline, shouldn't matter and shouldn't be so shallow. Me personally love a larger woman

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol

You'd think someone older wouldn't come out with such silly tosh as this. "

Age isn’t a factor

No need for kind of tosh at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I absolutely love bigger women.

For more reasons than just the body. Yes, bigger is definitely better when it comes to physical attraction, but I also think bigger women are much more fun mentally as well as physically.

Theres just something so freakin sexy about bbw's in a thousand different ways.

And I'm not one that would shy away from a bigger girl in front of friends in a bar etc.. I don't even understand that mentality to be honest.

If I'm attracted to you, then that's that. Why would anyone pretend they aren't?

Women, be fucking proud of your bodies, and know that your gorgeous. And if a guy don't like it, or pretends he don't like it?

Then he isn't worth your time anyway. ??

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By *airyfatmanMan  over a year ago

by 'ere


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol

You'd think someone older wouldn't come out with such silly tosh as this.

Age isn’t a factor

No need for kind of tosh at all "

It’s still a form of bullying. People are what they are. Others will all like different things. In a thread where people are saying how unfair it is to body shame larger people this then happens which is exactly the same against slim people. If they are female they are a real woman - end of

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By *arly StagesCouple  over a year ago

Penwortham

Proud to openly admire the larger ladies. And prouder still to show off my amazing girlfriend Mrs E who is absolutely stunning.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan  over a year ago

Coventry

Im the same on FAB as I am in the real world. I like bigger women and I'm mature and self assured enough be proud of myself and the things I'm passionate for.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple  over a year ago

North west ish


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

Bless. Was waiting for the twig/bone remark. Funny how some women feel the need to shame others to make themselves feel better.

Hope you feel better about yourself now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find it sometimes goes the other way though. I personally like the fuller figure myself but on a few occasions when out and about and I have tried to start a conversation with such a girl and have been met with quite a frosty reception along the lines of "just as I'm big doesn't make me easy". Then when trying to explain I like a fuller figure get called for calling a lady fat! Not all of us just like bbw on here but sometimes its hard to get a conversation going. (Hope that makes sense)

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"one of the very best ladies ive met (and im sure she will be ok with me saying this) has a fuller figure.

it had nothing to do with this in why i met her, it was because she has the most wonderful personality and we clicked together.

sex was always brilliant, we spent weekends away and stayed in hotels behaving very badly

to this day we remain in touch and she knows i care very much for her and im always there if she needs me.

just a wonderful women and i couldnt give a shit about her size.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fab is so removed from the real word I get plenty of messages from 20 something guys who wouldn’t look twice at me in a bar, same thing, so drop the size politics...."

Size politics? It’s a valid thread which plenty agree with.

What’s bugged you about this post?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Women, be fucking proud of your bodies, and know that your gorgeous. And if a guy don't like it, or pretends he don't like it?

Then he isn't worth your time anyway. ??"

You tell em!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fab is so removed from the real word I get plenty of messages from 20 something guys who wouldn’t look twice at me in a bar, same thing, so drop the size politics....

Size politics? It’s a valid thread which plenty agree with.

What’s bugged you about this post?"

It’s been done to death over the years, always the same comments and they never end well, just be happy with yourself and avoid those that judge, simple x

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm a guy and I like being a guy and I like hanging out with guys. In all my years of life, I can only recall one conversation where a guy spoke up and said that he preferred larger women. Preferred being the critical word there. Anyway, the point of the story was that he wasn't mocked at all. There was a short conversation about how big he liked them and who his ideal big woman was and then we continued with the general theme of the conversation. I don't think it's a given that guys are going to mock other guys for dating big women. More likely is that they would put him back in his place if he was being boastful, but that's quite a different thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely it is just a less public thing than all the guys with pretty girlfriends now they have a beard, tattoos and 6 packs, when those girls wouldn't have looked twice at them before they had any of those things... Fashion dictates for too many people and it is a hateful thing. I have always been a rocker/metalhead and mostly mixed with the same type of people, weirdly they have no problem with being with fat girls or very slim ones, even in public! In fact I have always found them to be less judgemental on the whole, when it comes to appearances

Need to meet these people.

You are always welcome to come to The Billy with me misses... 2 of the barmen are on here too... Waiting for my first date with one of em now lol "

Cool we will arrange something then xxx.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've been in groups of guys who really took the puss out of my larger lovers.

Beauty don't end at size 16!

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By *hite1100Man  over a year ago

Hither Green


"Fab is so removed from the real word I get plenty of messages from 20 something guys who wouldn’t look twice at me in a bar, same thing, so drop the size politics....

Size politics? It’s a valid thread which plenty agree with.

What’s bugged you about this post?"

I don’t think body shaming (of any build) is acceptable, but I think it cuts both ways. I’ve come across some profiles on here from BBW women that specify thin men only, so their acceptance of a larger body size for themselves isn’t reciprocated for their partners.

It’s also interesting to compare the BBW topic of this thread to the issue of height for men - a good mate of mine is 5”4 and has been openly mocked over the years by women in bars and nightclubs etc. So much so that he now as a major complex about it and is unable to form relationships, platonic or otherwise, with women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve spent most of my adult life being concerned what others thought of me. A size zero I am not!! I am learning to love myself and so if people don’t want to be around me because I’m not the size they “accept” then it’s bye bye and their loss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve spent most of my adult life being concerned what others thought of me. A size zero I am not!! I am learning to love myself and so if people don’t want to be around me because I’m not the size they “accept” then it’s bye bye and their loss "

Great attitude to have missus

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By *hite1100Man  over a year ago

Hither Green


"I’ve spent most of my adult life being concerned what others thought of me. A size zero I am not!! I am learning to love myself and so if people don’t want to be around me because I’m not the size they “accept” then it’s bye bye and their loss "

That’s exactly the right approach. Good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fab is so removed from the real word I get plenty of messages from 20 something guys who wouldn’t look twice at me in a bar, same thing, so drop the size politics....

Size politics? It’s a valid thread which plenty agree with.

What’s bugged you about this post?

I don’t think body shaming (of any build) is acceptable, but I think it cuts both ways. I’ve come across some profiles on here from BBW women that specify thin men only, so their acceptance of a larger body size for themselves isn’t reciprocated for their partners.

It’s also interesting to compare the BBW topic of this thread to the issue of height for men - a good mate of mine is 5”4 and has been openly mocked over the years by women in bars and nightclubs etc. So much so that he now as a major complex about it and is unable to form relationships, platonic or otherwise, with women. "

I hear you on the height thing but nothing I can do about it.

They unhappy with themselves so take it out on someone else.

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By *mmaAndDavidHornyFuckersCouple  over a year ago

Birmingham

If guys can't show off their bbw they dont deserve one

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Disagree with this as its not been my experience.

I had more (vanilla)boyfriends at size 20 than I ever did at size 12.

Currently a 16 and I constantly get male attention when I'm out.

Think it comes down to confidence, I've also noticed different areas of the country respond better to me than others..

Also different countries. They love me in Germany. In Holland not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

Sigh there's always one. Body shaming is not nice. I'm slim but you know what, I'm a real woman too!! Who'd have thunk it

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough


"Disagree with this as its not been my experience.

I had more (vanilla)boyfriends at size 20 than I ever did at size 12.

Currently a 16 and I constantly get male attention when I'm out.

Think it comes down to confidence, I've also noticed different areas of the country respond better to me than others..

Also different countries. They love me in Germany. In Holland not so much."

And to add to that: attitude! I've have four on the trot who ranged from size 12 -18 and the thing that I noticed was this. "I'm fat and ugly speech" is a really bad passion killer. I haven't listed BBW on my profile, but I can't help who I fall for.

It's not the size of her belly, boobs and hips that matter: it's the chips on her shoulders, that I'm not after.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bbw adored online and offline....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

Well it depends on what kind a guy you pick up to spend a night out. In my case i was with someone for 2 years and she was a curvy female as i dont like to give a label to women as in BBW sounds bit rude and cheap lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

quite right, nice to see you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol

quite right, nice to see you "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol "

Real women come in all shape and sizes, whatever a ‘real women’ is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If men want a twig thats ok but real women have curves not just bone lol

Real women come in all shape and sizes, whatever a ‘real women’ is.

"

It's a nice change to see your comment coming from a man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any hole's a goal online mentality? Many guys will say what they think us girls want to hear, to get into our knickers, whatever size we are. "

And then when you say "no" for whatever reason, you suddenly become a fat ugly slag....

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Maybe it's just me who feels this way, but I find it frustrating that many guys on here say they love bigger girls, but when "on a night out" nearly all guys don't show any interest, act in a rude way or recently in my own experience, are being cruel.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

"

Are these the same guys ? No.. that's their preference,

rude behaviour you can find in many different areas of life and there's no need .

I couldn't say if there's any correlation between online and offline likes dislikes of different body shapes sizes.

There have been threads asking if the attention ladies receive on here skews their views. Maybe fab has skewed your expectation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For every female on fab it's easier to get attention here because the ratio is in our favour... as for the real world I do ok thanks... but I put that down to my confidence and approachability ..

APPROACHABILITY!!! Drops dead!! x"

: you love me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

having the ability to have a bloody good laugh with each other as well as fun is more important to me than anyone's size.

its what i look for in someone, a fun personality.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally speaking. Couldn't give a monkeys what people think, either on fab or outside. I ask you all if being with a lady of any size bothers you because of what your mates think you deserve to spend your time on fab tugging it because you can't get a real women. Fat. Thin. Average. Don't care be a nice person and I'll be one back

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