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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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mmmm,sluts give it away,sex workers get paid for sex 
Its quite a common fantasy,and i hope u find a way to explore it...just also hope the mods dont think you are advertising  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have a fantasy of getting paid for sex, is this a common fantasy for women??? |
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i've been offered money for all maner of things, have never taken anyone up on it because for me it takes away the fun part, it also would make me feel obligated to play
however, if you are happy and round rules etc are set then it is up to you what you want to do - just have fun |
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"i have a fantasy of getting paid for sex, is this a common fantasy for women???"
yes...quite common...i think its the naughtiness,maybe you could role play it with a meet...i know a couple who used to go,seperatly to a hotel,and he would watch her "pick up"(it was a prearranged thing from a site like this),
She would "negotiate" the price,and what she wud do for different amounts . |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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Believe it or not, I once got offered cash for a meet. However, it's not really my thing, it was on a bad night for me, it would have taken me 1 hour to get ready and another to get to his and it would probably have taken him 2 minutes to have a wank, shoot his load and lose interest in the entire thing.
It was flattering if he was genuine about it, but I'm just here for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was paid for my 'services'just last night,albeit with a couple of bottles of wine and a chinese takaway!
Good times lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have a fantasy of getting paid for sex, is this a common fantasy for women???"
Very common actually...and many men have a thing about it in reverse..
Its easy to role play although I know a few people that just actually put up a profile.. got a client and did it the once like that.. it depends what your thing is..
Fantasy is great.. but I find making the fantasies real is even better.
cali x |
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i would pay for sex if i could find it locallk whitenaxen |
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"i would pay for sex if i could find it locallk whitenaxen"
i am sure even cumbria has sex workers |
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Someone on here offered to give me a blowjob in return for 20 Superkings. I declined I might add. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmm,sluts give it away,sex workers get paid for sex
Its quite a common fantasy,and i hope u find a way to explore it...just also hope the mods dont think you are advertising "
Sluts?!! I don't see myself as a slut, but if that's how you class yourself (or your wife) ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have a fantasy of getting paid for sex, is this a common fantasy for women???"
I'm quite happy to help you with your fantasy, is 10p enough for the fantasy, but not too much to turn you into a prostitute? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmm,sluts give it away,sex workers get paid for sex
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Are you suggesting there are a lot of sluts on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do remember someone telling me years ago, when times were hard that she went on the game.
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He parked round the corner whilst she stood on the corner. Car pulls up and says ‘how much for full sex’, she tootles of to ask hubby, ‘£100’ he said, back she goes and tells him, I only have ‘£25’ he said, how much for a BJ? tootles off again and comes back, ‘BJ is £25’, so he gets his cock out and it's a whopper, she hesitates and tootles back to her hubby and asks, can they loan the chap £75 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i charge £150 an hour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i charge a pair of guccis and im theres  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i charge £150 an hour "
is there ever offers on .. lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmm,sluts give it away,sex workers get paid for sex
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The terminology you use can be deemed as offensive. Lots of female swingers do not consider themsleves sluts or feel they are giving it away.
If its how you class yourself then all well and good, its a word you are comfortable with and that is fine.
Perhaps the wording would be better as 'I am a slut and I give it away but sex workers get paid' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel i am to picky to be a slut . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have often had this fantasy think alot of women do i wouldnt go through with it though. atleast i dont think i would. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i could not pay for sex 1 i am too tight with money lol
2 i would hate to think someone was only have sex with me as i had paid not because she wanted to
i do enjoy looking for laugh at ads on adult work site even in cumbria a lot of adds some scarly lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i could not pay for sex 1 i am too tight with money lol
2 i would hate to think someone was only have sex with me as i had paid not because she wanted to
i do enjoy looking for laugh at ads on adult work site even in cumbria a lot of adds some scarly lol"
Never think that women that do it are doing it JUST for the money.. Many sex workers I know do it because they love sex..and think they may as well get paid for it..
They point out to me that I throw about £800 a week away giving it away to swingers lol
Many these days are just horny women trying to put a little extra cash..and well.. if you are doing something you enjoy, getting paid to do it is even better..
Cali x |
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i got this message couple weeks ago from someone on this site
clare lookin to sort her gas bill , wat do u want her to do |
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I think I'd get off on it. I'm outwardly quite straight in real life. But knowing every time I looked at my posh shoes someone had paid me for sex, would have me smiling to myself.....it's just a fantasy...!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmm,sluts give it away,sex workers get paid for sex
Its quite a common fantasy,and i hope u find a way to explore it...just also hope the mods dont think you are advertising
Sluts?!! I don't see myself as a slut, but if that's how you class yourself (or your wife) ... "
sassy if i had a wife kev would be very happy...someone might do the housework 
And yes, i am a happy proud slut,but rather than rehash old debates on this thread....i think you have missed my christmas namechange
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"mmmm,sluts give it away,sex workers get paid for sex
The terminology you use can be deemed as offensive. Lots of female swingers do not consider themsleves sluts or feel they are giving it away.
If its how you class yourself then all well and good, its a word you are comfortable with and that is fine.
Perhaps the wording would be better as 'I am a slut and I give it away but sex workers get paid' "
then they dont need to ue the word slut,do they...i was replying to the OP's use of the term... |
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Ahhh didnt see the op had removed her first post...she said she wanted to be a total slut and get paid for sex....hence my reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got paid for sex a few times about 8 years ago so to speak. Well actually I got paid for my company, but the sex that took place was an "optional" if both parties were happy with that. It wasn't part of a fantasy of mine at the time, just suffering from the skint-ness that a lot do in their mid-twenties. That being said I certainly found it enjoyable.
I don't think with any of these occasions that the ladies in question would struggle to attract a sex partner, its just that they were career women for whom time was at a premium. Also there was probably a lot less of these type of sites online at the time. Now I'm a little older and work all hours myself, I can certainly empathise with them a lot more!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It might be good at some point if there was a bit of realism introduced to discussions on this subject.
A lot of the women doing it aren't doing it from some romantic idea or using it to put themselves through Cambridge University. And they aren't sex addicts scratching an itch.
They are doing it to get by. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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payment comes in many guises, not just cash.
holidays, home improvements etc are sometimes offered up around here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no stigma about payment for sex and don't feel a need to judge anyone who charges or pays.
It's just an area that is not for me because I believe some things have a higher value than a price. |
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Does being taken out for a nice meal by a guy, then deciding to have fun class as charging for sex?? If so Gulty as charged!! having said that have been out plenty of times and had a nice meal and a drink but not taken things any further...
Did have a guy ask me to go out shoe shopping with him and as much as I would have loved to always felt he expected something at the end of it so declined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never take any form of payment for sex and that includes presents or DIY jobs that are sometimes offered on here. I personally would never agree to go shoe or clothes shopping with a playmate, or accept those kind of presents, thankfully I've always felt great achievement from working and using my brain in order to buy the things I like.
I have seen many profiles where women have wrote, 'I love lingerie, buy me some from Agent Provocateur and ill model it for you' - yes payment for sex comes in many guises.
But if someone has a prostitution fantasy and arranges a role play with a meet then fair enough, its up to them.
I also have seen many romantic notions of prostitution, how girls love sex and might as well make a few quid from it. These notions tend to come from perhaps speaking to one person. I think most of us can imagine that a prostitutes life is not really Julia Roberts |
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"I would never take any form of payment for sex and that includes presents or DIY jobs that are sometimes offered on here. I personally would never agree to go shoe or clothes shopping with a playmate, or accept those kind of presents, thankfully I've always felt great achievement from working and using my brain in order to buy the things I like.
I have seen many profiles where women have wrote, 'I love lingerie, buy me some from Agent Provocateur and ill model it for you' - yes payment for sex comes in many guises.
But if someone has a prostitution fantasy and arranges a role play with a meet then fair enough, its up to them.
I also have seen many romantic notions of prostitution, how girls love sex and might as well make a few quid from it. These notions tend to come from perhaps speaking to one person. I think most of us can imagine that a prostitutes life is not really Julia Roberts "
It was exploring the fantasy the now deleted post was about...like all role play it is of course a sanatised fantasy,part of why i don't do role play.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also have seen many romantic notions of prostitution, how girls love sex and might as well make a few quid from it. These notions tend to come from perhaps speaking to one person. I think most of us can imagine that a prostitutes life is not really Julia Roberts "
I dont think anyone thinks they are going to find richard gere... But I know a lot of girls that work and most to be fair I know through swinging...but just happen to also make a living from what they enjoy...
I know a few that have done it because they felt it was the only option..and that is a little sad... of course there are plenty that dont do it because they love it..
but same could be said about many people doing other jobs...
Back on topic it comes up in the top 3 of female fantasys...
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any vacancies ? Xx |
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I also have seen many romantic notions of prostitution, how girls love sex and might as well make a few quid from it. These notions tend to come from perhaps speaking to one person. I think most of us can imagine that a prostitutes life is not really Julia Roberts
I dont think anyone thinks they are going to find richard gere... But I know a lot of girls that work and most to be fair I know through swinging...but just happen to also make a living from what they enjoy...
I know a few that have done it because they felt it was the only option..and that is a little sad... of course there are plenty that dont do it because they love it..
but same could be said about many people doing other jobs...
Back on topic it comes up in the top 3 of female fantasys...
Cali x"
and we cant mention one of the other ones here
But both show that people find breaking rules a turn on |
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I'm intrigued now about the other 2.
Is one of them a word that's also a type of seed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being taken out for a nice meal by a guy, then deciding to have fun class as charging for sex?? If so Gulty as charged!! having said that have been out plenty of times and had a nice meal and a drink but not taken things any further...
Did have a guy ask me to go out shoe shopping with him and as much as I would have loved to always felt he expected something at the end of it so declined. "
Shoe shopping??? I'll give you 25 quid for his contact details!! Ms  |
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i agree there are probably prenty of people working as escorts because they enjoy sex and think they might as well get paid for what they enjoy. but what i dont like is thought that someone has to have sex with you not chooses to at the end of the evenning also if the lady was been made by boyfriend or pimp etc to go out and work not doing it by own choice, that is main thing that would put me of paying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my x once got payed for sex ,fantsy of hers ,i used to see a guy who was a little bazzar with his sexual requests he always gave me monie when i left said it was for a taxi,but it was far more than i needed so i geuse he was paying me for indulging his requests in a round about way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have had couples pay for me to get to them does that count lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have a fantasy of getting paid for sex, is this a common fantasy for women???"
As an ex male escort I was never paid for sex services but did charge an hourly rate or booking fee for my time. If I decided to have sexual contact it was always between consenting adults and not for financial gain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get paid "per inch" so it's little wonder I'm fuckin' skint |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did once, but called it quits.
She said 50p an inch in and 50p an inch out.
I only had a £5, so slipped it all in and stayed there, as I couldn't afford to take it out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has a fantasy of being paid for sex. More of me pimping her out at a hotel. Having to fuck strangers for cash. Think it all came from a porn clip lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have a fantasy of getting paid for sex, is this a common fantasy for women???"
it's not a fantasy of mine as I've done it, still do actually
the fantasy may not match the reality though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has a fantasy of being paid for sex. More of me pimping her out at a hotel. Having to fuck strangers for cash. Think it all came from a porn clip lol |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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Actually get paid for doing something I love? If I thought I could make a living out of it I'd give up my job in a flash!
But that's never going to happen so I'm not handing my notice in just yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look if you want to pay me I sure will not argue it's very very naughty and sexy plus gives some guys a real chance of sex with a pretty lady that sometimes is the only way it would happen for some people so each to their own and if they have money to burn well why not ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have a fantasy of getting paid for sex, is this a common fantasy for women???
it's not a fantasy of mine as I've done it, still do actually
the fantasy may not match the reality though"
Agreed it's not pretty woman !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not for me!! I don't even feel comfortable letting a meet pay all evening as i feel there'd be an expectation of sex in return. I have sex with someone purely because we find each other mutually attractive and interesting, not because any money or goods have changed hands! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many UNLOS on this thread I got confused.....ermmm what were we talking about?  |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
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It would feel so wrong to be paid. We book hotels but we'd never ever think of asking the people we invite to contribute to the costs. Everyone has their own particular fantasies but getting paid is one that would never cross our minds
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never ever ever ask for money that's just not on! I also wouldn't book a hotel room just something there that doesn't sit easy with me not sure what thou! Maybe I'd feel like the receptionist or half the hotel knowing why I was there!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would find it horny to negotiate a price dependant on what was required |
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After watching the billie Piper Belle de Jour program even i thought it looked tempting lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loved that programme! And yes I agree looked fantastic lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow! That's just fab lol |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Ive removed posts and closing this now sorry |
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