"Why do guys ask for a meet. And say when. And think they can get away with putting out for meet before the meet they are ment to be meeting that night. What woman on here would stand for that. "
It’s standard procedure for the women on here to do exactly that. They never know when in the ‘hundreds of messages they receive a day’ they’ll get that better offer.
In your case though, sorry it’s upset you. If sure you’ll find someone more suitable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not something I would stand for, or ever do. I'm not a multi meet type of person anyway. If I'm planning on meeting someone, my attention is focused on them, not some random in the background, just in case I get let down. Someone posting a meet around the time I'm supposed to be seeing them, is not someone I want to meet. I've even fucked someone off who tried that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just edging his bets by the sounds of it..this guy is very lucky..2 meet on the go..most never get one after years on here..dog eat dog..it's the way the swinging sites attitudes have gone..it's not just the guys.. a lot of couples and ladies have bad attitude too, when it comes to morals |
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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago
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this actually happened to me
i was talking to my lady on whats app n then I already have a meet posted just see if I get messages Cose I was free
n she said same thing just like u said she thought I was meeting someone else n you girls are so wrong
I put a meet doesn’t mean I am meeting just do it to get attention sometimeswhen I have no intention just want to chat or set up meet for an other days
so what is would say is
do ur thing don't worry about others
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this actually happened to me
i was talking to my lady on whats app n then I already have a meet posted just see if I get messages Cose I was free
n she said same thing just like u said she thought I was meeting someone else n you girls are so wrong
I put a meet doesn’t mean I am meeting just do it to get attention sometimeswhen I have no intention just want to chat or set up meet for an other days
so what is would say is
do ur thing don't worry about others
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A posted meet usually has the date they want to meet. If someone posted for a meet which had the same day they were meeting me, damn right I'd do my own thing.... They wouldn't be meeting me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i guess they had mutton and then were offered steak.
no offense to the op intended.just the best way i could explain it.
hope this episode hasnt tainted your opinion of other men on this site who do know how to behave respectfully. |
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Some people have very little free time and experiances of let downs. I think that's what's called hedging your bets. Same as some people do in the vanilla dating game. Although understandable, bad form in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He message me to ask to meet him. But found out he put out for meet today so guess he was going to do meet with them or her before me tonight. He always was dishonest and very greedy "
Why meet him then? |
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