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You need respect to start with I would imagine.
You could go to a club and have a chat with a couple.
If I were to meet with a partner I would be looking for someone to just fuck me while he watched; there's a bit more to it than that for some. |
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"You need respect to start with I would imagine.
You could go to a club and have a chat with a couple.
If I were to meet with a partner I would be looking for someone to just fuck me while he watched; there's a bit more to it than that for some."
Yes I know I was just saying that’s the thing I’m looking for, I wouldn’t be rude and so abrupt if to start chatting to them? |
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"Strange as we want a local guy to do just that and we are also struggling!!
Hi how are u?just seen that your looking for a meet tomorrow and il b free.
Can i pm u?x"
See everyone can meet up but not me arghhhhh |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X "
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger? |
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"Strange as we want a local guy to do just that and we are also struggling!!
Hi how are u?just seen that your looking for a meet tomorrow and il b free.
Can i pm u?x"
By all means, send face pic and the Mrs will take a look at your profile etc. Although we are restricted to time for this meet, so having to stay local! |
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"Strange as we want a local guy to do just that and we are also struggling!!
Your profile says not really looking for guys though. I would definitely be happy meeting you two  "
Yes as we are not always looking for guys. Our meet does say guys so sorry for the confusion! |
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I meet a lovely couple for a social a few weeks ago. We got on brilliantly. The conversation and laughter didn’t stop all night. They gave me a nice nice vari which you can see on my profile. They now want a second social before a meet. |
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"I meet a lovely couple for a social a few weeks ago. We got on brilliantly. The conversation and laughter didn’t stop all night. They gave me a nice nice vari which you can see on my profile. They now want a second social before a meet. "
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger?"
I agree and Depends on the male in the couple what he is like. I'd feel like I'd lost my dominance if we done that let another male take control until i was told that I can play. It's not like you have found a single bloke and a single lady to do this when it's another man's actual partner it's different. |
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"I would hazard a guess that it's because your profile suggests you're only available during the day. How many couples are both going to be available daytime?"
Yes I know I’m not perfect and I’m asking everything on my terms but I live in hope x |
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"I would hazard a guess that it's because your profile suggests you're only available during the day. How many couples are both going to be available daytime?"
We meet daytimes - we work playtimes around work. We're just up the road from him and have messaged |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger?
I agree and Depends on the male in the couple what he is like. I'd feel like I'd lost my dominance if we done that let another male take control until i was told that I can play. It's not like you have found a single bloke and a single lady to do this when it's another man's actual partner it's different. "
We do this all the time. My fella, is very much a Dom. Not just in the swinging world but kink community too. He enjoys nothing more than watching me and another fella, 3, 4 or moresomes. He will then join in the action and be last in. "Claiming back what's his." Before the Fab Police jump in. Claiming back- our meaning of our partnershipn we bel9ng together. He in no way feels that he loses his dominance. Very much the oppisit. He has the control and power to who and how we play. One word from him or me (fem) all play stops. |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger?
I agree and Depends on the male in the couple what he is like. I'd feel like I'd lost my dominance if we done that let another male take control until i was told that I can play. It's not like you have found a single bloke and a single lady to do this when it's another man's actual partner it's different.
We do this all the time. My fella, is very much a Dom. Not just in the swinging world but kink community too. He enjoys nothing more than watching me and another fella, 3, 4 or moresomes. He will then join in the action and be last in. "Claiming back what's his." Before the Fab Police jump in. Claiming back- our meaning of our partnershipn we bel9ng together. He in no way feels that he loses his dominance. Very much the oppisit. He has the control and power to who and how we play. One word from him or me (fem) all play stops. "
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"I would hazard a guess that it's because your profile suggests you're only available during the day. How many couples are both going to be available daytime?
We meet daytimes - we work playtimes around work. We're just up the road from him and have messaged"
Well clearly there will be some and great you guys are now in contact, my point was that alone further narrows the odds. |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger?
I agree and Depends on the male in the couple what he is like. I'd feel like I'd lost my dominance if we done that let another male take control until i was told that I can play. It's not like you have found a single bloke and a single lady to do this when it's another man's actual partner it's different.
We do this all the time. My fella, is very much a Dom. Not just in the swinging world but kink community too. He enjoys nothing more than watching me and another fella, 3, 4 or moresomes. He will then join in the action and be last in. "Claiming back what's his." Before the Fab Police jump in. Claiming back- our meaning of our partnershipn we bel9ng together. He in no way feels that he loses his dominance. Very much the oppisit. He has the control and power to who and how we play. One word from him or me (fem) all play stops. "
Correct me if I'm wrong but its some form of cuckold isn't it? He has no dominance in that if your with another man or 2 or 3 or 4 and his sitting there watching in no way can that man still feel dominant. That's just how I see it. We both personally like mmf were we play at the same time and go for it like the world's about to end lol. In scenarios like what you enjoy in my opinion your the dominant 1 out of you both and when he is just sitting there waiting for his turn after they have finished it plays abit of a sissy role which is not me taking the micky it's an actually fetish for a couple. A dominant male is 1st in and last out |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger?"
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I'm not against what you enjoy I'm just putting what other couples might feel like during that type of play. Every1 to there own be a boring world if we all only enjoy as the same thing. And it would be something I'd 100% enjoy as a single male but I'm talking from a point of view me in a couple |
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"We live in Poole, and we meet guys like you all the time. Your only just up the road from us. Hotlist us, keep an eye on out status when we're out and playing. "
I love it when a guy asks for something like this on here and then against all probability someone actually replies and offers it  It gives the rest of us faith.
I hope this comes through for you dude  |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X "
It's not!
I've only recently rejoined, but previously I used to meet couples from all over our part of the world, even further. Portsmouth, Havant, Southampton, port Solent, emsworth, Chichester, etc, etc. Although to be honest I can't remember anyone from Fareham! |
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"We live in Poole, and we meet guys like you all the time. Your only just up the road from us. Hotlist us, keep an eye on out status when we're out and playing.
I love it when a guy asks for something like this on here and then against all probability someone actually replies and offers it It gives the rest of us faith.
Thanks I hope so
I hope this comes through for you dude "
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger?
I agree and Depends on the male in the couple what he is like. I'd feel like I'd lost my dominance if we done that let another male take control until i was told that I can play. It's not like you have found a single bloke and a single lady to do this when it's another man's actual partner it's different.
We do this all the time. My fella, is very much a Dom. Not just in the swinging world but kink community too. He enjoys nothing more than watching me and another fella, 3, 4 or moresomes. He will then join in the action and be last in. "Claiming back what's his." Before the Fab Police jump in. Claiming back- our meaning of our partnershipn we bel9ng together. He in no way feels that he loses his dominance. Very much the oppisit. He has the control and power to who and how we play. One word from him or me (fem) all play stops.
Correct me if I'm wrong but its some form of cuckold isn't it? He has no dominance in that if your with another man or 2 or 3 or 4 and his sitting there watching in no way can that man still feel dominant. That's just how I see it. We both personally like mmf were we play at the same time and go for it like the world's about to end lol. In scenarios like what you enjoy in my opinion your the dominant 1 out of you both and when he is just sitting there waiting for his turn after they have finished it plays abit of a sissy role which is not me taking the micky it's an actually fetish for a couple. A dominant male is 1st in and last out "
No it's no part of Sissy or cuckold play. As I said he's always last in. More often than not he's first in too. When he's sitting back watching he's directing the action. Telling them to spitroast me ect. As I can't say as I have my mouth full- more often than not. If we're at a club / gangbang or orgy. He will say who can or can't play with me. As I'm too busy under bodies to see. He knows my types. He is very much in control of the action and play. I can't always see / know whats going on. He keeps me safe and make sure play flows. Very much being the dominant.
Sissy or cuck's are very much a differant roles. They are told what to do in a play. A sissy is usally dressed and used as a fluffer for both the male and female. They may get fucked by either m/f. But not normally aloud to fuck. A cuck is normally caged, and may be fucked by either m/f. Not normally aloud to fuck female. And can be verbally humiliated by his female partner. |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger?
I agree and Depends on the male in the couple what he is like. I'd feel like I'd lost my dominance if we done that let another male take control until i was told that I can play. It's not like you have found a single bloke and a single lady to do this when it's another man's actual partner it's different.
We do this all the time. My fella, is very much a Dom. Not just in the swinging world but kink community too. He enjoys nothing more than watching me and another fella, 3, 4 or moresomes. He will then join in the action and be last in. "Claiming back what's his." Before the Fab Police jump in. Claiming back- our meaning of our partnershipn we bel9ng together. He in no way feels that he loses his dominance. Very much the oppisit. He has the control and power to who and how we play. One word from him or me (fem) all play stops.
Correct me if I'm wrong but its some form of cuckold isn't it? He has no dominance in that if your with another man or 2 or 3 or 4 and his sitting there watching in no way can that man still feel dominant. That's just how I see it. We both personally like mmf were we play at the same time and go for it like the world's about to end lol. In scenarios like what you enjoy in my opinion your the dominant 1 out of you both and when he is just sitting there waiting for his turn after they have finished it plays abit of a sissy role which is not me taking the micky it's an actually fetish for a couple. A dominant male is 1st in and last out
No it's no part of Sissy or cuckold play. As I said he's always last in. More often than not he's first in too. When he's sitting back watching he's directing the action. Telling them to spitroast me ect. As I can't say as I have my mouth full- more often than not. If we're at a club / gangbang or orgy. He will say who can or can't play with me. As I'm too busy under bodies to see. He knows my types. He is very much in control of the action and play. I can't always see / know whats going on. He keeps me safe and make sure play flows. Very much being the dominant.
Sissy or cuck's are very much a differant roles. They are told what to do in a play. A sissy is usally dressed and used as a fluffer for both the male and female. They may get fucked by either m/f. But not normally aloud to fuck. A cuck is normally caged, and may be fucked by either m/f. Not normally aloud to fuck female. And can be verbally humiliated by his female partner. "
That's what suites you but you are heavy swingers obviously from things you have said but your views on this are going to be different to ours just like some other couples will have a different view to both of us. And it is cuckold you don't have to be caged for it to be cuckold, Cuckold is watching another man with your wife gf etc and to be fucked by the man or women is not necessary it's a choice you choose if they play at all and to be honest it's usually the women if he isn't b68, also humiliation doesn't have to play apart in cuckold either there separate just depends if you want to add it in. It's about a man who gets turned on watching his wife sleep with other men. And voyeurism is getting turned on watching anyone have sex so they are different before people jump on that |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X
perhaps because many couples like to play together with others and not have the male partner marginalised by a stranger?
I agree and Depends on the male in the couple what he is like. I'd feel like I'd lost my dominance if we done that let another male take control until i was told that I can play. It's not like you have found a single bloke and a single lady to do this when it's another man's actual partner it's different.
We do this all the time. My fella, is very much a Dom. Not just in the swinging world but kink community too. He enjoys nothing more than watching me and another fella, 3, 4 or moresomes. He will then join in the action and be last in. "Claiming back what's his." Before the Fab Police jump in. Claiming back- our meaning of our partnershipn we bel9ng together. He in no way feels that he loses his dominance. Very much the oppisit. He has the control and power to who and how we play. One word from him or me (fem) all play stops.
Correct me if I'm wrong but its some form of cuckold isn't it? He has no dominance in that if your with another man or 2 or 3 or 4 and his sitting there watching in no way can that man still feel dominant. That's just how I see it. We both personally like mmf were we play at the same time and go for it like the world's about to end lol. In scenarios like what you enjoy in my opinion your the dominant 1 out of you both and when he is just sitting there waiting for his turn after they have finished it plays abit of a sissy role which is not me taking the micky it's an actually fetish for a couple. A dominant male is 1st in and last out
No it's no part of Sissy or cuckold play. As I said he's always last in. More often than not he's first in too. When he's sitting back watching he's directing the action. Telling them to spitroast me ect. As I can't say as I have my mouth full- more often than not. If we're at a club / gangbang or orgy. He will say who can or can't play with me. As I'm too busy under bodies to see. He knows my types. He is very much in control of the action and play. I can't always see / know whats going on. He keeps me safe and make sure play flows. Very much being the dominant.
Sissy or cuck's are very much a differant roles. They are told what to do in a play. A sissy is usally dressed and used as a fluffer for both the male and female. They may get fucked by either m/f. But not normally aloud to fuck. A cuck is normally caged, and may be fucked by either m/f. Not normally aloud to fuck female. And can be verbally humiliated by his female partner.
That's what suites you but you are heavy swingers obviously from things you have said but your views on this are going to be different to ours just like some other couples will have a different view to both of us. And it is cuckold you don't have to be caged for it to be cuckold, Cuckold is watching another man with your wife gf etc and to be fucked by the man or women is not necessary it's a choice you choose if they play at all and to be honest it's usually the women if he isn't b68, also humiliation doesn't have to play apart in cuckold either there separate just depends if you want to add it in. It's about a man who gets turned on watching his wife sleep with other men. And voyeurism is getting turned on watching anyone have sex so they are different before people jump on that"
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X "
Guess it's like asking why can't i get two ladies to meet me. Who bloody knows. Could be profile,not what they're looking for,wrong age range,too far etc etc. Golden question that lad |
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I would suggest that patience is necessary. This is exactly what I have been looking fir and it’s taken me months to find a couple.
Finding them is one thing bug you also all have to click.
I was lucky, we met for a drink and were chatting like old friends in no time at all.
Before I knew it they said ‘we’re off home, you coming?’
We had a fantastic first play, and I’m looking forward to meeting with them again. |
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"I would suggest that patience is necessary. This is exactly what I have been looking fir and it’s taken me months to find a couple.
Finding them is one thing bug you also all have to click.
I was lucky, we met for a drink and were chatting like old friends in no time at all.
Before I knew it they said ‘we’re off home, you coming?’
Lucky man
We had a fantastic first play, and I’m looking forward to meeting with them again."
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"A club would be your best start in meeting such a couple I think x
No clubs in Portsmouth
Yes there is.liberations.been there years ! "
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"A club would be your best start in meeting such a couple I think x
No clubs in Portsmouth
Yes there is.liberations.been there years !
Where is it, is it any good? "
Liberations is a pop up club. We have one in Bournemouth. Held around once a month.
Alass there is not much around us. You have Gems in Yovil, swalks Southampton way. Again a pop uo club. We are very limited for clubs down here. We like the Attic in Derby. |
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"Why can’t I meet a local couple that want me there to fuck the misses as he watches us then joins in? It can’t be that hard surely? X "
Why don't you provide a female for a guy to fuck then let him join in... Simples |
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