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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always something we question as well as we show both of us on our pictures. If both are playing then both are important to see if we are both attracted to their other partner.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We mainly show me because we are only looking to attract single males to play with me. If we were seeking couples or females we would have more of my husband showing. Also maybe the male doesn't want his photo up not everyone is comfortable with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have loads of couples message me but when I look I see the woman only. It puts me right off as if I played id need to see both male and female pics. I've a joint profile with my hubby and it contains almost equal amounts of photos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think only having pics of the female part of the couple limits their chances with bi females like me that want to play with both of them  "
I agree. Guys get yourselves on show!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We believe its the female who people want to see my man said he dont want to look at blokes sees enough of them at football lol"
And you aren't bothered what the guy you're expected to sleep with looks like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's great that we show off our partners beautiful form but does make you wonder why certain profiles have only the female pictures up.
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Even as a straight man, I like to see the bloke too. Just to prove they look normal if nothing else |
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"It's great that we show off our partners beautiful form but does make you wonder why certain profiles have only the female pictures up.
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I would think most people think like I do and its only the female half who meets and the male half is kept on a box in the cellar and fed on stale bread and scraps.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe the male half has a really private and professional job and absolutely cannot risk being photographed what so ever .
That's our problem anyway
My husband is 6ft5 tall, dark with blue eyes and very very popular with the ladies |
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This is a common question / moan.
I think men are generally less keen to be in front of the camera, and see the lady as easier on the eye.
Sometimes it's because only the lady actually plays.
We have photos of us both, as this is what we want to see. We usually meet couples with a bi lady, so there needs to be attraction to both members of the couple.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe the male half has a really private and professional job and absolutely cannot risk being photographed what so ever .
That's our problem anyway
My husband is 6ft5 tall, dark with blue eyes and very very popular with the ladies "
Some men love milk tray too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's great that we show off our partners beautiful form but does make you wonder why certain profiles have only the female pictures up.
I would think most people think like I do and its only the female half who meets and the male half is kept on a box in the cellar and fed on stale bread and scraps. "
Lucky sod.  |
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
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Most of my pictures are of me (Mrs) some of my husband, it doesn’t seem to stop couples or men wanting to meet.
My husband likes taking the pictures and I like him putting them up.
The best thing about Fab is the variety of people on here.
Each to their own I say and respect others
Happy fabbing Guys
Love to you all
Mrs Legin xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes agree.It is more of an observation rather than a moan.
"Most of my pictures are of me (Mrs) some of my husband, it doesn’t seem to stop couples or men wanting to meet.
My husband likes taking the pictures and I like him putting them up.
The best thing about Fab is the variety of people on here.
Each to their own I say and respect others
Happy fabbing Guys
Love to you all
Mrs Legin xx
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It depends which sex you are trying to attract the most I guess? All our pics are of me because we have more MMF’s than anything else, our verifications tell you there are two of us, as does our profile.. and pics are available for the ladies if they are requested. Don’t see a problem really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter what the man looks like. Swinging is wife swapping. The women must fuck the other man so their husband can fuck his wife. "
How boring and tedious just swapping..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We believe its the female who people want to see my man said he dont want to look at blokes sees enough of them at football lol"
But as the female half of your profile do you want to see what you might be getting? Do want to see the male half of the couple or just female pictures? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if they're looking for couples and only have the female then it makes us wonder if it's just a guy pretending to be a couple.
As we're both bi and get turned on seeing each other fuck, we are both shown in profile pics. Wish more men would add a face pic or even half if a bit shy. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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People advertise themselves in the way that works best for them. If that means photos of just the female then good luck to them. What is there to get annoyed about? It simply means they are advertising something you aren't interested in. Just move on to another profile that suits you better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not annoyed ...just an observation into how the female form is used .
Agree it is up to the individuals.
"People advertise themselves in the way that works best for them. If that means photos of just the female then good luck to them. What is there to get annoyed about? It simply means they are advertising something you aren't interested in. Just move on to another profile that suits you better."
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We just use it to filter couples out. Fine if they just want to meet a single guy or the guy in the couple states that he's a watcher only. However if they want me (f) to play with the guy but don't have the courtesy to allow to see him I feel they have no respect for me and won't meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well in my experience on my couples profile we have encountered the female is physically nice and our type but the guy isn’t and I think some try and hide that,we ask for face pictures and some are reluctant to do so,obviously we aren’t going to meet someone we haven’t seen amd we aren’t going to take one for the team so I think the female only pics are just to try and attract the couples. |
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"Yes totally agree, annoys us as we like to see what the male looks like as well. Probably more important for us to see male half as H can be quite picky"
Same for us. Miss is straight so its important for her to see what the guy looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have loads of couples message me but when I look I see the woman only. It puts me right off as if I played id need to see both male and female pics. I've a joint profile with my hubby and it contains almost equal amounts of photos."
Your public photos are all of the female |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Because even the cyberman is more attractive than hubby!
Deffo applies in our case! "
Being a guy looking to play with couples, seeing pictures of hubby isn't really that important to me. Couples may view this differently though, especially if the husband of the couple they'd like to play with is less appealing than a cyberman - female partners 'taking one for the team'at some point must become annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not annoyed ...just an observation into how the female form is used .
Agree it is up to the individuals.
People advertise themselves in the way that works best for them. If that means photos of just the female then good luck to them. What is there to get annoyed about? It simply means they are advertising something you aren't interested in. Just move on to another profile that suits you better."
Totally agree. If people dont like our pics, which are of the female only, move on. We are here for our enjoyment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People advertise themselves in the way that works best for them. If that means photos of just the female then good luck to them. What is there to get annoyed about? It simply means they are advertising something you aren't interested in. Just move on to another profile that suits you better."
What annoys people is the fact people mail them expecting you to meet them both. If a couple expect the male half is going to be allowed to play when there are no profile pictures is a little deluded at best. |
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We are a couple but it’s only me (Mrs Twinkle) who plays with other people so we don’t consider photos of Mr Twinkle as important - that being said we do have a few photos of us together and are more than happy to exchange a couples face picture once we get chatting. Works for us! |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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It's our choice what pictures we show, if that offends anyone then that is their problem. I have a job where I cannot risk showing my face on here in public.
I won't even put up pictures of Rachel with her face showing. It is our preference and to be honest I don't care if it costs us meets, we do what we do for our own reasons not to please anyone else's sensibilities.
We do however have private pictures of both of us that we can send to potential meets.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Not sure if you know but Rachels face picture is the first on your profile.
"It's our choice what pictures we show, if that offends anyone then that is their problem. I have a job where I cannot risk showing my face on here in public.
I won't even put up pictures of Rachel with her face showing. It is our preference and to be honest I don't care if it costs us meets, we do what we do for our own reasons not to please anyone else's sensibilities.
We do however have private pictures of both of us that we can send to potential meets. "
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I think any FM couple is missing a trick by not having the male half. After all your profile is your advert. I think a profile with pics of F and not of M would lead lots of people to question what is the problem with the M? |
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It's hard enough to find a woman who is open to play let alo e find a couple where everyone likes each other, and to be honest if the women get on the men will gladly follow. Wifey has final say on all of our plays |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's our choice what pictures we show, if that offends anyone then that is their problem. I have a job where I cannot risk showing my face on here in public.
I won't even put up pictures of Rachel with her face showing. It is our preference and to be honest I don't care if it costs us meets, we do what we do for our own reasons not to please anyone else's sensibilities.
We do however have private pictures of both of us that we can send to potential meets. "
I don’t think anyone is offended by it, I’m certainly not offended by it. If both of the couple are looking to play them a few body pics of each of them is what I would be looking for in a couple profile (doesn’t need to be face). If only the female is playing then surely she should have a female profile and an explanation on there like ....... I’m married/attached my hubby knows and loves to watch
Just my opinion, obviously each to their own and if a couple profile doesn’t work for me then I’ll just pass them by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple looking to meet other couples of course as a female I would like to see the Male of the prospective couple we are looking to meet and not just endless pics of the lady. If there aren’t any on their profile what would entice me to message them?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for everyone input.
Of course everyone has and is entitled to their own reasons etc.
It was more an observation of how we as a community use the beautiful female form as a click bait/ to gain attaention.
We are no exception as our profile pic is of Lucy's amazing bum.
Peace out
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"It's great that we show off our partners beautiful form but does make you wonder why certain profiles have only the female pictures up.
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We do exactly that. But we are only meeting guys and not couples. Oh and Tom is straight so anyone looking is only gonna get to play with Jerry |
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"Maybe the male half has a really private and professional job and absolutely cannot risk being photographed what so ever .
That's our problem anyway
My husband is 6ft5 tall, dark with blue eyes and very very popular with the ladies "
We often question this point. I'm not sure if there's anyone that can afford to be recognised by anyone and jeopardise their job.
But 1: if Mr is recognised,wouldn't that mean whoever did is also on here,meaning that they wouldn't say anything?. 2: are you saying that from a body picture,head cropped,tattoos blurred etc that Mr would be recognised by the person mentioned in 1 and therefore couldn't say anything and 2 what kind of job does he do that he'd be recognised by a body picture?. Before you go off on one  . I'm simply asking some questions as me and my girlfriend Lexi have never understood the whole "we or he doesn't have pictures because of our or his job". Dee |
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"It's hard enough to find a woman who is open to play let alo e find a couple where everyone likes each other, and to be honest if the women get on the men will gladly follow. Wifey has final say on all of our plays "
Just because lexi gets on with the woman. I don't gladly follow. If i don't like the female then theres no play. There's no take one for the team with us. We either both like them equally or we don't play. We both have the final say on if we play.  |
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"I think any FM couple is missing a trick by not having the male half. After all your profile is your advert. I think a profile with pics of F and not of M would lead lots of people to question what is the problem with the M?"
And also makes people think that they maybe only talking to the female. Then couples have bitch fits saying. "We're a couple,so address us as one " . |
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"Because the blokes would ruin the chance of a meet.....Really "
Of course. We've seen profiles with just female pictures on. Lexi asks to see the male and then boom. That potential meet is dead in the water  |
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"From a straight man’s point of view it’s the lady that catches your attention. I suppose if your bi the man needs to be on there as well? "
Huh. Really?. So if you were a couple then you'd be okay watching a guy who you didn't think was good looking or in decent shape playing with your partner? |
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"It's great that we show off our partners beautiful form but does make you wonder why certain profiles have only the female pictures up.
Even as a straight man, I like to see the bloke too. Just to prove they look normal if nothing else "
This 100% |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
Similar to the loads of other threads on this topic, every couple has their own dynamic and way of doing things which can affect which pics they have on.
However, if both people are planning to play with both of us then obviously we need to see them both which can be annoying when there are pics of just one.
We try and have a reasonable balance, although there are lots more of me (as the woman is often the draw) there are plenty of SSS for ladies to see what they’d be getting
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"It's hard enough to find a woman who is open to play let alo e find a couple where everyone likes each other, and to be honest if the women get on the men will gladly follow. Wifey has final say on all of our plays
Just because lexi gets on with the woman. I don't gladly follow. If i don't like the female then theres no play. There's no take one for the team with us. We either both like them equally or we don't play. We both have the final say on if we play. "
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We just delete messages or winks from these type of profiles
I am a straight woman,so v important I get an idea of the male.
Its up to people how they run their profiles ,but we think couples who want to meet other couples ,should be prepared to show both parties.
If they meet men only then understand why its mainly the lady they show.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because the blokes would ruin the chance of a meet.....Really
Of course. We've seen profiles with just female pictures on. Lexi asks to see the male and then boom. That potential meet is dead in the water "
I think that's one of the reasons- they hope that by the time people ask for the man's pics then people would feel guilty about turning them down as it would be obvious he was the issue. So they'd be guilted into meeting anyway. |
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"Because the blokes would ruin the chance of a meet.....Really
Of course. We've seen profiles with just female pictures on. Lexi asks to see the male and then boom. That potential meet is dead in the water
I think that's one of the reasons- they hope that by the time people ask for the man's pics then people would feel guilty about turning them down as it would be obvious he was the issue. So they'd be guilted into meeting anyway. "
That's pretty twisted. Do some people actually do that as a strategy?
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Couples profiles should have some male pics. Ours is more fem pics as hubby thinks why bother hardly anyone fabs them so must be more males online, plus he likes taking pics. But profiles with no male pics we wouldn't interact with  |
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"From a straight man’s point of view it’s the lady that catches your attention. I suppose if your bi the man needs to be on there as well?
Huh. Really?. So if you were a couple then you'd be okay watching a guy who you didn't think was good looking or in decent shape playing with your partner?"
Good point. I would be very wary of a couples profile where I did not see any photos of the male in a similar level of detail to F. I wouldn't want My Girl to be put into a position with someone she did not fancy in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because the blokes would ruin the chance of a meet.....Really
Of course. We've seen profiles with just female pictures on. Lexi asks to see the male and then boom. That potential meet is dead in the water
I think that's one of the reasons- they hope that by the time people ask for the man's pics then people would feel guilty about turning them down as it would be obvious he was the issue. So they'd be guilted into meeting anyway.
That's pretty twisted. Do some people actually do that as a strategy?
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Yes they do - some men from couples have admitted this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We just delete messages or winks from these type of profiles
I am a straight woman,so v important I get an idea of the male.
Its up to people how they run their profiles ,but we think couples who want to meet other couples ,should be prepared to show both parties.
If they meet men only then understand why its mainly the lady they show.
Miss"
This.
If the couples are straight and only looking for straight males the there is no need for pictures of the male.
If the male half of the couple is bi and they are looking for bi males or couples with a bi male there is need for male pictures.
If they are a straight couple looking to meet other couples there is need for both male and female pictures.
I don't meet couples. If I did I would want to see pictures of the male half. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If one day I chose to meet couples , I would be put off my photos of just the female.
Why are they hiding the male when they're meeting as a couple? It's not fair nor is it the correct thing to do.
If I turned up to their home or a social and found the guy not to my taste, I shall turn around and walk away.
I travel at my cost and put effort in how I dress for meets. So I would consider couples profiles with no male pics, decieving. I wouldn't be happy to travel, arrive and then see what the male looks like. They may feel like they're unattractive, sorry but leave that for their meet to judge.
Not everyone seeks pretty boys! Some of us actually prefer rough diamond types. So guys, upload your latest face and body pics to your profiles please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because the blokes would ruin the chance of a meet.....Really
Of course. We've seen profiles with just female pictures on. Lexi asks to see the male and then boom. That potential meet is dead in the water
I think that's one of the reasons- they hope that by the time people ask for the man's pics then people would feel guilty about turning them down as it would be obvious he was the issue. So they'd be guilted into meeting anyway. "
Very interesting. I have never thought about it that way.
Thinking about it that would be a very clever strategy if the male half is ugly. As a couple you would know if they are interested in you and suddenly lose interest after seeing a picture of the male half it must be because of the male half.
I have swung as a couple. It's very hard to find a couple you both fancy and who also fancies both of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If one day I chose to meet couples , I would be put off my photos of just the female.
Why are they hiding the male when they're meeting as a couple? It's not fair nor is it the correct thing to do.
If I turned up to their home or a social and found the guy not to my taste, I shall turn around and walk away.
I travel at my cost and put effort in how I dress for meets. So I would consider couples profiles with no male pics, decieving. I wouldn't be happy to travel, arrive and then see what the male looks like. They may feel like they're unattractive, sorry but leave that for their meet to judge.
Not everyone seeks pretty boys! Some of us actually prefer rough diamond types. So guys, upload your latest face and body pics to your profiles please!"
You ask for a/some pics of the male before you set anything up.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Considering meets have to be arranged via communication, pictures can be exchanged by both parties during that communication? Surely verifications would also be considered before the chat commenced. |
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"Hi Not sure if you know but Rachels face picture is the first on your profile.With a blindfold"
The blindfold doesn't really obscure her features - we feel confident we would recognise her from that picture. Ironically, it's better than some face pics couples have sent us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If one day I chose to meet couples , I would be put off my photos of just the female.
Why are they hiding the male when they're meeting as a couple? It's not fair nor is it the correct thing to do.
If I turned up to their home or a social and found the guy not to my taste, I shall turn around and walk away.
I travel at my cost and put effort in how I dress for meets. So I would consider couples profiles with no male pics, decieving. I wouldn't be happy to travel, arrive and then see what the male looks like. They may feel like they're unattractive, sorry but leave that for their meet to judge.
Not everyone seeks pretty boys! Some of us actually prefer rough diamond types. So guys, upload your latest face and body pics to your profiles please!
You ask for a/some pics of the male before you set anything up.. "
Shouldn't have to ask for them.
Shouldn't have to have those pics sent privately.
Couples advertise themselves as a couple, so both should upload pics of themselves. I'm not wasting my time messaging couples profiles to ask for something that fairly ought to be already on display. |
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"I think only having pics of the female part of the couple limits their chances with bi females like me that want to play with both of them "
That was the logic we used and how Hmm was persuaded to have some pics of him on our profile. It still hasn't worked in attracting ladies though . Least we're no worse off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Considering meets have to be arranged via communication, pictures can be exchanged by both parties during that communication? Surely verifications would also be considered before the chat commenced."
This |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"If one day I chose to meet couples , I would be put off my photos of just the female.
Why are they hiding the male when they're meeting as a couple? It's not fair nor is it the correct thing to do.
If I turned up to their home or a social and found the guy not to my taste, I shall turn around and walk away.
I travel at my cost and put effort in how I dress for meets. So I would consider couples profiles with no male pics, decieving. I wouldn't be happy to travel, arrive and then see what the male looks like. They may feel like they're unattractive, sorry but leave that for their meet to judge.
Not everyone seeks pretty boys! Some of us actually prefer rough diamond types. So guys, upload your latest face and body pics to your profiles please!
You ask for a/some pics of the male before you set anything up..
Shouldn't have to ask for them.
Shouldn't have to have those pics sent privately.
Couples advertise themselves as a couple, so both should upload pics of themselves. I'm not wasting my time messaging couples profiles to ask for something that fairly ought to be already on display."
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi Not sure if you know but Rachels face picture is the first on your profile.With a blindfold"
You may be right but Rachel is the judge of what she wants to show and not show and she wanted that pic posting. It is her most daring pic to date and I support her 100%.
I'm loving the comments from the picture police on here. We all post what we are comfortable with posting if you don't like it then ignore that profile. I would never dream of telling people what they should and shouldn't post. |
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"If one day I chose to meet couples , I would be put off my photos of just the female.
Why are they hiding the male when they're meeting as a couple? It's not fair nor is it the correct thing to do.
If I turned up to their home or a social and found the guy not to my taste, I shall turn around and walk away.
I travel at my cost and put effort in how I dress for meets. So I would consider couples profiles with no male pics, decieving. I wouldn't be happy to travel, arrive and then see what the male looks like. They may feel like they're unattractive, sorry but leave that for their meet to judge.
Not everyone seeks pretty boys! Some of us actually prefer rough diamond types. So guys, upload your latest face and body pics to your profiles please!
You ask for a/some pics of the male before you set anything up.. "
If we have to ask then they are not for us ...not when there are profiles with good pics of both parties .
If we get a message from a couple profile and all public pics are her,unless they have attached some of him ,instant delete.
As people have said,its up to everyone how they run their profile,but i do laugh when some of them then start threads moaning about attracting only men.
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"I think only having pics of the female part of the couple limits their chances with bi females like me that want to play with both of them
That was the logic we used and how Hmm was persuaded to have some pics of him on our profile. It still hasn't worked in attracting ladies though . Least we're no worse off!"
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"Because the blokes would ruin the chance of a meet.....Really
Of course. We've seen profiles with just female pictures on. Lexi asks to see the male and then boom. That potential meet is dead in the water
I think that's one of the reasons- they hope that by the time people ask for the man's pics then people would feel guilty about turning them down as it would be obvious he was the issue. So they'd be guilted into meeting anyway.
That's pretty twisted. Do some people actually do that as a strategy?
Yes they do - some men from couples have admitted this."
I don't get it. That's a massive turn off and must be quite demoralising for the male. Also if I was the female I wouldn't want a woman to fuck my man who didn't find him attractive. That would feel by virtue a snub of the female half. Surely people only want to fuck people who mutually desire each other? So why hid or play sly games? It's twisted. |
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Quite funny you mention this... I make it clear on our profile that hubby is the focus ... then again... probably the reason why no one will write back to me haha I do have one or two pictures up but I think my hubby is a god |
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"I think only having pics of the female part of the couple limits their chances with bi females like me that want to play with both of them
That was the logic we used and how Hmm was persuaded to have some pics of him on our profile. It still hasn't worked in attracting ladies though . Least we're no worse off!
You’re profile is great! "
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"Maybe the male half has a really private and professional job and absolutely cannot risk being photographed what so ever .
That's our problem anyway
My husband is 6ft5 tall, dark with blue eyes and very very popular with the ladies
We often question this point. I'm not sure if there's anyone that can afford to be recognised by anyone and jeopardise their job.
But 1: if Mr is recognised,wouldn't that mean whoever did is also on here,meaning that they wouldn't say anything?. 2: are you saying that from a body picture,head cropped,tattoos blurred etc that Mr would be recognised by the person mentioned in 1 and therefore couldn't say anything and 2 what kind of job does he do that he'd be recognised by a body picture?. Before you go off on one . I'm simply asking some questions as me and my girlfriend Lexi have never understood the whole "we or he doesn't have pictures because of our or his job". Dee"
it's not that deep Hun... we just don't choose to have them in public.
We have lots in private images though.
If we cropped his head blurred his tattoos blurred the image slightly you would see nothing haha.. literally no point of the image.
For eg I found my own sister on this site when browsing!! I was able to see her and find out she was a swinger, and block her. Whilst my secret was kept my secret hehe |
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"It's great that we show off our partners beautiful form but does make you wonder why certain profiles have only the female pictures up.
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Not in the slightest if they are a verified couple! |
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Mainly pics of the mrs on our public gallery! For a few reasons, she has the least confidence so like her to get the most attention and compliments etc, she’s not all that comfortable when girls/wives make a play for me looking the way I look, I’m either not a ladies type or I’m really their type and nothing in between for some reason?? As a result we’re mainly looking for guys to come pleasure my “better half” so there you go |
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"Mainly pics of the mrs on our public gallery! For a few reasons, she has the least confidence so like her to get the most attention and compliments etc, she’s not all that comfortable when girls/wives make a play for me looking the way I look, I’m either not a ladies type or I’m really their type and nothing in between for some reason?? As a result we’re mainly looking for guys to come pleasure my “better half” so there you go "
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Reading the comments it is clear the female form is used to attract attention.
This has been explained in a number of ways by the men but reading between the lines profiles with only the female pics are clearly seeking confirmation and do not have the confidence to show the male.
Seems also many people looking for only guys so happy days for men on here.
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As we are only seeking bi couples, if there aren't any public photos of the guy (doesn't have to be face) then we are likely to be less interested.
We have public photos of us both and will exchange face pics with those we feel a meet would take place.
Maybe some people just like their pics to be fabbed. Who knows. |
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over a year ago
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"Put pic of me on & instant fabbing, put pic of him on and after a while odd fab here & there, so he says why bother  "
Some people must think pics are only for the purposes of fabs and not for gaining meets |
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"Put pic of me on & instant fabbing, put pic of him on and after a while odd fab here & there, so he says why bother
Some people must think pics are only for the purposes of fabs and not for gaining meets "
I tell him women are like ninjas & perve in stealth mode lol |
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