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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "
Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!
Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people? |
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.
Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!
Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people? "
the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.
Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!
Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?
the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update"
Well if I saw that they'd definitely be going on my block list, no questions asked.
One of the things I hated the most when I started swinging was getting demeaned for my youth. The hypocrisy of many swingers is legendary. Young single male swingers under 25 are most likely to be derided as "just looking for sex", but you'd never see anyone have a bad word to say or have anything but lust for a girl that's just turned 18 and decided to try swinging. |
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.
Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!
Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?
the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update
Well if I saw that they'd definitely be going on my block list, no questions asked.
One of the things I hated the most when I started swinging was getting demeaned for my youth. The hypocrisy of many swingers is legendary. Young single male swingers under 25 are most likely to be derided as "just looking for sex", but you'd never see anyone have a bad word to say or have anything but lust for a girl that's just turned 18 and decided to try swinging. "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.
Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!
Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?
the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update
Well if I saw that they'd definitely be going on my block list, no questions asked.
One of the things I hated the most when I started swinging was getting demeaned for my youth. The hypocrisy of many swingers is legendary. Young single male swingers under 25 are most likely to be derided as "just looking for sex", but you'd never see anyone have a bad word to say or have anything but lust for a girl that's just turned 18 and decided to try swinging.
yeah exactly "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "
was it a typo? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.
Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!
Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?
the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update"
Couples think that because they have a partner attached to them that somehow makes them having casual sex as something different to single people.
If it makes them feel better about fucking people they aren't married to, leave them to it. |
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. was it a typo?"
not a typo |
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I totally agree with the comments here as swinging doesnt have to have an age limit as we are all here for many different reasons. The young lad whos posted is a lovely lad whos very mature for his age which makes him different to the other young selfish lads ive seen and met on here. Happy swinging babe xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As people have said swinging doesn’t have an age limit.
There are many on here who like patronise us younger folk and claim we shouldn’t be in here as it’s for “adults”.
Ignore them, obviously have nothing better to do than had their status as a rant!  |
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"As people have said swinging doesn’t have an age limit.
There are many on here who like patronise us younger folk and claim we shouldn’t be in here as it’s for “adults”.
Ignore them, obviously have nothing better to do than had their status as a rant! "
it's what i'm doing it just made me laugh |
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "
They clearly know every 21 yr old on fab  . That's going to be based on their experiences i guess or maybe they're having a sly dig at a 21 yr old ha. Either way they are entitled to their opinion. I know some 30 yr olds who are just after sex. So that statement is not true  |
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.
They clearly know every 21 yr old on fab . That's going to be based on their experiences i guess or maybe they're having a sly dig at a 21 yr old ha. Either way they are entitled to their opinion. I know some 30 yr olds who are just after sex. So that statement is not true "
well it's not my statement |
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"Surely the point of being on here is that you want sex?"
Well not always ....ive arranged meets and not had sex .... its not a forgone conclusion with me .....
Sometimes your meet isnt always what you envisaged ..  |
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"Surely the point of being on here is that you want sex?
Well not always ....ive arranged meets and not had sex .... its not a forgone conclusion with me .....
Sometimes your meet isnt always what you envisaged .. "
yeah that does happen |
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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It sounds to me like said person can't comprehend a younger individual having the maturity and interests to understand and be part of the lifestyle. A pretty good percentage of people do correlate age and maturity although you'd think prolonged exposure to the sight would make those people understand that isn't the case given that women in particular get shown a lack of maturity in a fair few messages each day.
Some may disagree with me here but my opinion is that such statements suggest limited intelligence to me so you swerve those people. |
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"It sounds to me like said person can't comprehend a younger individual having the maturity and interests to understand and be part of the lifestyle. A pretty good percentage of people do correlate age and maturity although you'd think prolonged exposure to the sight would make those people understand that isn't the case given that women in particular get shown a lack of maturity in a fair few messages each day.
Some may disagree with me here but my opinion is that such statements suggest limited intelligence to me so you swerve those people."
I have seen it so much on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "
what are the requirements to be a swinger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,
"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"
I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "
Lol, so what do they think swingers are after, coffee partners. I genuinely think a, huge number of Fab members don't realise swinging is about sex |
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May be the status is saying you are to young for what we are looking for,some people like our self don't meet anyone younger than our own kids and no one as old as our parent's.
Fab cut the daily status words allowed by half over 12 months ago now ..
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I think it's an individual case by case basis at any age. Lots of people on this site and there are some who them self wouldn't say their swingers. I say forget the labels and take people as you find them. |
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"I think it's an individual case by case basis at any age. Lots of people on this site and there are some who them self wouldn't say their swingers. I say forget the labels and take people as you find them. "
Agree too many labels in life
Are we not all on here for sexy adult fun  |
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