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over a year ago
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
Its a lot easier to arrange a mmf as a single girl than it is for a single make to organise a mff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
you won't have any trouble I'm sure
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"If you know a nice single man that you can trust ask him if he has a sexy friend?
I know no nice single men, that's my problem xx"
Ahhhhh, that's a shame. What about the guy who's veried you? You definitely want to know one of them, to keep you safe. 2 randoms would be a no no, for me anyway. |
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
Fairly easy if its 2 guys you have met singularly if you get on with them both. Still not hard if you have met one guy a few times and talk it over with him then find a second guy who is up for it. |
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"If you know a nice single man that you can trust ask him if he has a sexy friend?
I know no nice single men, that's my problem xx
Ahhhhh, that's a shame. What about the guy who's veried you? You definitely want to know one of them, to keep you safe. 2 randoms would be a no no, for me anyway. "
Yeah, any group situation, including a threesome, a wingman/person is a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
I've just viewed your profile, I don't think you will have a problem finding willing participants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway. |
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I've found it really tricky to organise with good people.
Easier (and safer) to do it with a swinging friend and then advertise for a third. Even if it doesn't work out, you can still play with each other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been trying to sort this for a year cant find one so two is a hopeless mission right now. I agree with Ruby "
Pleased it's not just me feeling this way. Couples have it easier when wanting a mmf experience. |
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"Ive been trying to sort this for a year cant find one so two is a hopeless mission right now. I agree with Ruby
Pleased it's not just me feeling this way. Couples have it easier when wanting a mmf experience."
I agree with this, all my experiences have been with couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you know a nice single man that you can trust ask him if he has a sexy friend?
I know no nice single men, that's my problem xx"
your kidding me. Really? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Ive been trying to sort this for a year cant find one so two is a hopeless mission right now. I agree with Ruby
Pleased it's not just me feeling this way. Couples have it easier when wanting a mmf experience."
Yes because guys are happy to hook up with a couple. The main problem for me is finding the one that you trust to then find the second guy. I just couldn't walk into a club and pick up two guys thats just not me.
But OP when you find the answer let us know. |
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I enjoyed exactly this at a club early this year. I have to say it will go down (no pun) as one of the best sexual thrills of my life. Got chatting to a couple in the jacuzzi and they asked me to join them in a play room. Great fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you know a nice single man that you can trust ask him if he has a sexy friend?
I know no nice single men, that's my problem xxyour kidding me. Really?"
All married or in long term relationships unfortunately! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive been trying to sort this for a year cant find one so two is a hopeless mission right now. I agree with Ruby
Pleased it's not just me feeling this way. Couples have it easier when wanting a mmf experience.
Yes because guys are happy to hook up with a couple. The main problem for me is finding the one that you trust to then find the second guy. I just couldn't walk into a club and pick up two guys thats just not me.
But OP when you find the answer let us know. "
It's not my thing either, trust is important, especially in a group situation, I've never been much into sex with randoms, let alone two!
I'll keep you posted on my endeavour!! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I enjoyed exactly this at a club early this year. I have to say it will go down (no pun) as one of the best sexual thrills of my life. Got chatting to a couple in the jacuzzi and they asked me to join them in a play room. Great fun."
A little easier for a guy though, don't you think? Couples going to a club will mostly be looking for another guy to join them. Maybe a woman but they are quite likely to be with a guy already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself and my M black fuck buddy ( both of us are bi and play with eachother) would love to have a sexy F like yourself to join us, we've had a couple join us on a few occasions, but a sexy F would be amazing, but very very difficult to find. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found as a single guy,u get overlooked,I'd love to be involved/invited to a meet like this ,I've played with couples so far , and I'm openly looking for a female partner in crime for clubnights think it'd be hot to have a wingwoman to bounce off ...no pun intended  |
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
In the Manchester area but my pal Peter, meggo3 and I have organised many a thing for single ladies and couples. See verifications for references. |
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meet a single, like and trust him enough for a chat about mmf, then advertise for another single men. always made me feel saver to have my wingman so to say... if you type in your status you are looking for a male for mmf that usually does the trick... |
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway. "
I agree with Ruby 100%. I asked the same question a while ago on this forum receiving many replies. The one that stuck out for me is what Ruby has said above, apparently, to my amazement, some guys do not want to share a female, how mad is that!! To only want one on one or FFM really took me by surprise. I thought guys would be queueing up to experience a MMF.
Others said go to a club, however, that's not really my scene so I concluded it's really difficult to arrange a MMF, I'm still trying. First and foremost, it's difficult to meet a female who is into a MMF so I have not even started the journey of finding another guy at this stage. I was also advised that there's a lot of fake profiles on here (especially couples) and loads of time wasters which is a shame for those genuine people on here.
Let me know how you get on as I will if I ever get to experience it. |
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway. "
Bang on. There’s a lot of guys who are on a Fab just to get laid as often and as exotically as possible. What you need are swingers. People who embrace the lifestyle and so are comfortable with other men and sharing, etc.
If you were closer I’d sort it out for you. Try going to a group social and see who you meet. A lot of the predatory men stay clear cos the real swingers chase them off!!! |
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway.
I agree with Ruby 100%. I asked the same question a while ago on this forum receiving many replies. The one that stuck out for me is what Ruby has said above, apparently, to my amazement, some guys do not want to share a female, how mad is that!! To only want one on one or FFM really took me by surprise. I thought guys would be queueing up to experience a MMF.
Others said go to a club, however, that's not really my scene so I concluded it's really difficult to arrange a MMF, I'm still trying. First and foremost, it's difficult to meet a female who is into a MMF so I have not even started the journey of finding another guy at this stage. I was also advised that there's a lot of fake profiles on here (especially couples) and loads of time wasters which is a shame for those genuine people on here.
Let me know how you get on as I will if I ever get to experience it. "
I can't think of any reason that I guy wouldn't want MMF, (and more), great fun. |
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
I would have thought you’d have them queuing up. You’re a stunner!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you know a nice single man that you can trust ask him if he has a sexy friend?
I know no nice single men, that's my problem xx"
I actually know one or two single guys that are within your criteria range on your profile, whom I have had regular threesome fun with other single women or female halves of couples in the past. So we're all totally cool, chill, verified and legit, and I think none of us would pass someone as hot as you up! X
Dropped you a line anyway. |
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The sensible things seem to be to couple up with a guy you're familiar with and go to a club. But this is easier said than done. As others have said, finding someone you like enough to experiment with who is happy to have another man join you apparently isn't easy. Although ask most men if there's anything they'd like to try and many will say MFF. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive been trying to sort this for a year cant find one so two is a hopeless mission right now. I agree with Ruby "
I agree with you ruby and any other attractive women on this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or we are tailer made to provide this service . The dynamics of the 2 guys knowing each other and being comfortable with sharing the 1 lady adds to the experiences  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway.
Bang on. There’s a lot of guys who are on a Fab just to get laid as often and as exotically as possible. What you need are swingers. People who embrace the lifestyle and so are comfortable with other men and sharing, etc.
If you were closer I’d sort it out for you. Try going to a group social and see who you meet. A lot of the predatory men stay clear cos the real swingers chase them off!!!"
I do go to Fab socials and to clubs. Still has the same problems that I mentioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sensible things seem to be to couple up with a guy you're familiar with and go to a club. But this is easier said than done. As others have said, finding someone you like enough to experiment with who is happy to have another man join you apparently isn't easy. Although ask most men if there's anything they'd like to try and many will say MFF. "
Exactly this.....it's so frustrating |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"The sensible things seem to be to couple up with a guy you're familiar with and go to a club. But this is easier said than done. As others have said, finding someone you like enough to experiment with who is happy to have another man join you apparently isn't easy. Although ask most men if there's anything they'd like to try and many will say MFF.
Exactly this.....it's so frustrating "
A lot state group sex and looking for couples on their profiles just to cover all bases to get a woman. When it actually comes down to going ahead with it, they back out, don't show or try to re-arrange it as a 1-1 meet. So frustrating.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s harder than you might think unless you are indescriminate about who you meet. It’s not actually that easy finding men that fit what I’m looking for then a lot of men say they would be up for it but then insist that they want to meet you on there own first. There are a few ‘couple’ profiles that are two men looking for meets but they are rarely the kind of men I want.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve done it a few times. Always with known fab friends and/or their trusted friends. It’s always been very sexy
Not tried organising it with men I don’t know
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I suspect I've been lucky. Most of the guys I've met are definitely into group sex (have had it, actively look for it, are known among organisers) and also know others who are. So I find MMF pretty straightforward. I can see how that wouldn't always be the case though. |
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
It's easy if you know the right people  . I've never had much trouble.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just try a club. It's a safe environment and you are pretty much guaranteed to find a couple of willing guys who are attractive to you."
How do you build up a connection and know you can trust 2 random guys you just meet? It's not as simple as that. How can you say you're guaranteed to find people? I've been to clubs a few times and not met anyone. Maybe some people aren't too fussy who they play with, but for myself, I can't do it with just anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just try a club. It's a safe environment and you are pretty much guaranteed to find a couple of willing guys who are attractive to you.
How do you build up a connection and know you can trust 2 random guys you just meet? It's not as simple as that. How can you say you're guaranteed to find people? I've been to clubs a few times and not met anyone. Maybe some people aren't too fussy who they play with, but for myself, I can't do it with just anyone."
me neither I need to know and like a person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you know a nice single man that you can trust ask him if he has a sexy friend?
I know no nice single men, that's my problem xx"
Well, you would blow me off
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"I’d love a bi mmf  "
Bi MMF has been harder to arrange than an straight one.
I've had fab straight guys asking if I can arrange a bi MMF.Great, I'm up for that. But then they want to view the other profile without the other profile viewing theirs...I'm not going to give out names unless both parties are ok with that so it all gets too complicated.
A club meet is probably the way forward or another MFF as they are way more fun x |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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It's a very different dynamic 3 individuals rather than a couple and a guy..
There are countless reasons why this would be really awkward to arrange. You might be better trying to find a couple (mmm on here to arrange it with.
Good luck arranging with individuals I'd say two chances and slim is heading out of town.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust and being genuine is a big thing for me. If you know anyone you trust ask them to look and see who's out their. You can tell the idiots as their about 95% of fab guys. They give us 5% of guys a really bad name... but mmf and ffm are both really good fun and so horny xxx |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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It's not so difficult depends on what you want. If you play with bi guys then very easy if you have slept with one bi guy he'll inevitably have a mate to join you. If you don't want bi guys, then anyone you've played with before plus someone off fab is quite easy have done it many times. Doing a MMF 3sum with 2 totally new guys would be difficult because takes a bit of time for the ice to melt. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Just try a club. It's a safe environment and you are pretty much guaranteed to find a couple of willing guys who are attractive to you.
How do you build up a connection and know you can trust 2 random guys you just meet? It's not as simple as that. How can you say you're guaranteed to find people? I've been to clubs a few times and not met anyone. Maybe some people aren't too fussy who they play with, but for myself, I can't do it with just anyone."
Like many others we don't look for a connection. We have all the connections we need in our vanilla life. For us swinging is about fulfilling sexual fantasies, and our shared fantasy is nsa sex with total strangers. We are very fussy, but rarely go to a club without finding playmates with whom there is a mutual attraction. Many single women we encounter have the same perspective on swinging as we do, and if the OP is also similar then a club is a good bet for her. |
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
Be picky and find two guys who already enjoy playing together in a threesome or foursome. And I think I just might know of two such gentlemen!  |
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"Just try a club. It's a safe environment and you are pretty much guaranteed to find a couple of willing guys who are attractive to you.
How do you build up a connection and know you can trust 2 random guys you just meet? It's not as simple as that. How can you say you're guaranteed to find people? I've been to clubs a few times and not met anyone. Maybe some people aren't too fussy who they play with, but for myself, I can't do it with just anyone.
Like many others we don't look for a connection. We have all the connections we need in our vanilla life. For us swinging is about fulfilling sexual fantasies, and our shared fantasy is nsa sex with total strangers. We are very fussy, but rarely go to a club without finding playmates with whom there is a mutual attraction. Many single women we encounter have the same perspective on swinging as we do, and if the OP is also similar then a club is a good bet for her."
Well said. I have a connection with my gf. I'm not looking for a replacement. Yes while we won't just play with anyone. The connection we seek is totally different to one we have. |
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences?
I would have thought you’d have them queuing up. You’re a stunner!!"
They probably are queueing up but unlike a lot of men on this thread, I reckon she’s looking for two men she finds attractive and can connect with.
Having a working cock is not a good reason to ask a bloke to fuck, it’s so much more than that. |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences? "
It is very easy if you have the confidence to visit a swingers club, you can then chat and find two guys you fancy before retiring to a private room for some fun. |
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway. "
This is absolutely mine too! The perception males have that women and couples can get what they want on here is simply not true- particularly when they’re looking for very high quality males!
High quality males (ie attractive with a good body and a great personality) don’t NEED to share females - so unless they’re actually turned on my MMF then there’s nothing in it for them! Tbh I totally get where they’re coming from - I wouldn’t want an mff with a straight female! |
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences?
It is very easy if you have the confidence to visit a swingers club, you can then chat and find two guys you fancy before retiring to a private room for some fun."
i’d Say this is your best bet op! The only group experiences I’ve had have been in swinging clubs. Far easier to organise there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway.
This is absolutely mine too! The perception males have that women and couples can get what they want on here is simply not true- particularly when they’re looking for very high quality males!
High quality males (ie attractive with a good body and a great personality) don’t NEED to share females - so unless they’re actually turned on my MMF then there’s nothing in it for them! Tbh I totally get where they’re coming from - I wouldn’t want an mff with a straight female! "
I don't have any perceptions of this place, if it happens it happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious to know, how easy is it to organise a MMF as a single girl? Any single fabbers out there managed it and care to share their experiences?
I would have thought you’d have them queuing up. You’re a stunner!!
They probably are queueing up but unlike a lot of men on this thread, I reckon she’s looking for two men she finds attractive and can connect with.
Having a working cock is not a good reason to ask a bloke to fuck, it’s so much more than that. "
And tbh, even when you do manage to get two men you know, like and trust into a room, you can still spend more time ensuring that THEY are having a good time than relaxing and enjoying yourself.
I think it’s a long term plan Mrs Gg. Find one person to be your wing man then look for the third party. As others have said, clubs are a good place to do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only other thing I’d suggest is to look for men who have a less ‘transactional’ view of their adventures and may be happier to go with the flow, so mmf might not be their favourite way to spend time, but it’s an adventure and they know that building a sexual connection with you is likely to lead to further sexual adventures down the line.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway.
This is absolutely mine too! The perception males have that women and couples can get what they want on here is simply not true- particularly when they’re looking for very high quality males!
High quality males (ie attractive with a good body and a great personality) don’t NEED to share females - so unless they’re actually turned on my MMF then there’s nothing in it for them! Tbh I totally get where they’re coming from - I wouldn’t want an mff with a straight female! "
Exactly this. The chances of finding 2 guys like this in a club are even slim. The majority exactly want 1 on 1 with single females. Of course if you're a couple, single men will play with you because it's a chance of a pussy, if there's no single females on offer. It's easier for couples as often they aren't looking for a connection, whereas many single women and men are. The dynamics are different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway.
This is absolutely mine too! The perception males have that women and couples can get what they want on here is simply not true- particularly when they’re looking for very high quality males!
High quality males (ie attractive with a good body and a great personality) don’t NEED to share females - so unless they’re actually turned on my MMF then there’s nothing in it for them! Tbh I totally get where they’re coming from - I wouldn’t want an mff with a straight female!
Exactly this. The chances of finding 2 guys like this in a club are even slim. The majority exactly want 1 on 1 with single females. Of course if you're a couple, single men will play with you because it's a chance of a pussy, if there's no single females on offer. It's easier for couples as often they aren't looking for a connection, whereas many single women and men are. The dynamics are different."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d imagine this is the easiest meet to arrange out of all the possible others and by now you’ve been inundated with volunteers lol
xx"
It seems that many couples, and single men, have a misconception of how easy it is for single ladies on here. It's wrong to say it easy. |
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"I’d imagine this is the easiest meet to arrange out of all the possible others and by now you’ve been inundated with volunteers lol
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It seems that many couples, and single men, have a misconception of how easy it is for single ladies on here. It's wrong to say it easy."
Perhaps I am unusual. I’ve done MMF with a couple but was completely at ease with the male since we got on and the whole point of our encounter was the female - i.e., not me. We both focused on her. We all had a good time.
Probably true that most fellas are in it for what they can get themselves and that could well be part of the problem you’re having. |
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"I’d imagine this is the easiest meet to arrange out of all the possible others and by now you’ve been inundated with volunteers lol
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It seems that many couples, and single men, have a misconception of how easy it is for single ladies on here. It's wrong to say it easy."
Oh don’t misinterpret it,we said it was probably the easiest of all meets to set up we can appreciate the amount of rubbish single women have to put up with along with all the fakes. Never as easy as it should be xx |
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"Ive been trying to sort this for a year cant find one so two is a hopeless mission right now. I agree with Ruby
Pleased it's not just me feeling this way. Couples have it easier when wanting a mmf experience."
This thread has suprised me. I thought it would have been easy. I would happily join in for a MMF. |
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"If your looking for an mmf, have you thought about looking for mm in the searches of guys who already do it or have you thought about 2 bi guys, most bi guys are always up for mfm "
This hahah
Myself and my black fuck buddy love MMF ( bith of us are bi( |
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"This isn't easy at all. Finding 2 guys who you get on well with and who are happy to share you, who are comfortable being naked with each other, who get on well with each other. Not easy at all. Lots of men only want 1 on 1 play or mff. That's my experience anyway.
This is absolutely mine too! The perception males have that women and couples can get what they want on here is simply not true- particularly when they’re looking for very high quality males!
High quality males (ie attractive with a good body and a great personality) don’t NEED to share females - so unless they’re actually turned on my MMF then there’s nothing in it for them! Tbh I totally get where they’re coming from - I wouldn’t want an mff with a straight female! "
A mff with straight women is very hard work,from my experience and not as a fun as it sounds. We're all looking for different things on here. So while some can find two guys to do it,others will struggle |
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"I’d imagine this is the easiest meet to arrange out of all the possible others and by now you’ve been inundated with volunteers lol
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It seems that many couples, and single men, have a misconception of how easy it is for single ladies on here. It's wrong to say it easy."
Oh it's not easy. But it is a lot easier. . I've been on both sides and where as getting interest is easier in a couple or single females. It's easier to set up as a single guy once you have the interest. Less people that have to like each other |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Just try a club. It's a safe environment and you are pretty much guaranteed to find a couple of willing guys who are attractive to you.
How do you build up a connection and know you can trust 2 random guys you just meet? It's not as simple as that. How can you say you're guaranteed to find people? I've been to clubs a few times and not met anyone. Maybe some people aren't too fussy who they play with, but for myself, I can't do it with just anyone."
Agree with this, however we appear to be lucky.
That and a I have an extremely bubbly wife. |
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I've found it impossible to organise in 3 years on Fab. But I am very fussy and have to experience both separately to check compatibility before bringing them together |
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