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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Potential can of worms question. If a couple have ground rules and one of the couple consistently breaks them, would the other be entitled to consider it cheating? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would suggest a lack of respect in the relationship. Without that there can't be trust, without trust you are just Fuck buddies sharing a roof/bills. Never been a problem for us. |
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Depends on what the rules are. If the boundary was not to meet others alone and only play as a couple, then yeah, I would consider it as cheating. Need more clarity on what the specific ground rules were I’m afraid.
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Potential can of worms question. If a couple have ground rules and one of the couple consistently breaks them, would the other be entitled to consider it cheating?"
Depends on what 'rule(s)' weres broken.  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Depends on what they were but if they're part of the boundaries you've put in place and are "consistently" broken then it sounds like a discussion is needed - can only lead to resentment otherwise. |
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"As one part of a new couple not ready to share yet but I’m sure we will. I’m just thinking making these “ground rules” seems a bit of a job!"
I think the trick is not to have too many thereby keeping it simple. Sometimes something happens during a meet that you hadn't even thought of. Then is the time to talk rather than brood or take some sort of reciprocal action. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Potential can of worms question. If a couple have ground rules and one of the couple consistently breaks them, would the other be entitled to consider it cheating?"
It all depends on the ground rules as without details they can be wide as the ocean. If the ground rule is no picking your nose on a meet and said partner does its not cheating but if one is no fucking about on their own and they do well that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think trust between a cpl is to us important . We have done separate room swaps and our ground rule is no bareback so we know neither of us will break the rule |
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"As one part of a new couple not ready to share yet but I’m sure we will. I’m just thinking making these “ground rules” seems a bit of a job!
I think the trick is not to have too many thereby keeping it simple. Sometimes something happens during a meet that you hadn't even thought of. Then is the time to talk rather than brood or take some sort of reciprocal action. "
Good advice, im sure we will enjoy discussing this long into the night.
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Potential can of worms question. If a couple have ground rules and one of the couple consistently breaks them, would the other be entitled to consider it cheating?"
In our view if couples don't respect agreed boundaries then they probably shouldn't be swinging. |
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