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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts? |
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"Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts? "
All depends on what your wife is like at cooking. My wife’s Yorkshire puddings are outstanding, so I’d be pretty miffed if I ended up with those crappy shop bought ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never thought about that one. Dont know if id like going to sleep next to another woman to be honest...
Can see how it could be filthy but I dont think it would be something we’d do but if you did it we’d love to read how it went  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" All depends on what your wife is like at cooking. My wife’s Yorkshire puddings are outstanding, so I’d be pretty miffed if I ended up with those crappy shop bought ones."
I get that, nothing better than homemade bread and Yorkshires haha. Hotel does take that out of the equation tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts?
All depends on what your wife is like at cooking. My wife’s Yorkshire puddings are outstanding, so I’d be pretty miffed if I ended up with those crappy shop bought ones."
Oh man to my own heart...homemade Yorkshire and homemade gravy, I can feel a mouthgasm coming on....oh and a gorgeous wife. STICK  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Can see how it would be fun and might be something we would try but it would have to be with a couple we knew well and trusted, wouldn't want to do it on a first meet.
Also worry that it might spoil the magic, people we meet think I am lovely they haven't had to sleep next to me with my snoring etc  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can see how it would be fun and might be something we would try but it would have to be with a couple we knew well and trusted, wouldn't want to do it on a first meet.
Also worry that it might spoil the magic, people we meet think I am lovely they haven't had to sleep next to me with my snoring etc "
We agree with that it's definitely not a first meet scenario. In our eyes tho it would strengthen our relationship afterward give a refreshed feeling. Even being more more grateful to what you have eg a partner that doesn't snore haha  |
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"Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts? "
Sounds perfect our house needs a Autumn clean |
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"Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts? "
Never tried it ... but could be fun with the right people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Although not a couple scenario, I did go away for the weekend with the wife of a couple I met regularly. We'd built up trust to do it and it was a huge turn on for us all (including hubby who remained at home)
It was obviously a lot more than just "want to watch my wife" etc
Was the whole experience that turned us on. He encouraged us both to treat each other like we were the couple if that makes sense.
Takes a lot of trust though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts?
All depends on what your wife is like at cooking. My wife’s Yorkshire puddings are outstanding, so I’d be pretty miffed if I ended up with those crappy shop bought ones."
Your wife’s dumplings look pretty good also |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts?
All depends on what your wife is like at cooking. My wife’s Yorkshire puddings are outstanding, so I’d be pretty miffed if I ended up with those crappy shop bought ones."
This had me in stitches
On a more serious note, this is unlikely to go well with four people involved unless they were genuinely all attracted to each other and had a connection too.
I (Mr) have been very atttacted to other women and enjoy sex with other women but unlikely to want to lie and sleep next to another woman unless I really liked her and that’s not why we swing. We swing to enhance and spice things up not replace. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Very interesting!!...would your other half be interested in the use of an 02 ford fiesta for 24 hours, I'll also put £5 petrol in and leave a couple of Now that's what I call music CDs in so he can have a razz about.
Don't rush him for an answer, let him give it a coat of thought. |
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"Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts? "
We did an over night swap and wouldn't do it again, spent the whole night thinking and worrying about each other.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can see how it would be fun and might be something we would try but it would have to be with a couple we knew well and trusted, wouldn't want to do it on a first meet.
Also worry that it might spoil the magic, people we meet think I am lovely they haven't had to sleep next to me with my snoring etc
We agree with that it's definitely not a first meet scenario. In our eyes tho it would strengthen our relationship afterward give a refreshed feeling. Even being more more grateful to what you have eg a partner that doesn't snore haha "
That only works if you swap with somebody who is worse than your other half. What happens if you get somebody better? It’s a dangerous game I reckon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That only works if you swap with somebody who is worse than your other half. What happens if you get somebody better? It’s a dangerous game I reckon."
However!...let's face it, you could be in a club, pair off...start fucking and look in that person's eyes and think...
"Where have you been all my life" doesn't have to take 24 hours, I fall in love with people on the train all the time...then by the time I get off, we've had an imaginary wedding, an imaginary affair and an imaginary divorce...the pretty stranger is now wondering why I'm scowling at them...
I don't get swinging? |
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"Can see how it would be fun and might be something we would try but it would have to be with a couple we knew well and trusted, wouldn't want to do it on a first meet.
Also worry that it might spoil the magic, people we meet think I am lovely they haven't had to sleep next to me with my snoring etc
We agree with that it's definitely not a first meet scenario. In our eyes tho it would strengthen our relationship afterward give a refreshed feeling. Even being more more grateful to what you have eg a partner that doesn't snore haha
That only works if you swap with somebody who is worse than your other half. What happens if you get somebody better? It’s a dangerous game I reckon."
24 or 48 hours isn't enough time to discover if someone is better than your partner. It's only dangerous if you're dissatisfied with your partner already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wanted to do something like this with my ex  Very kinky. I hope you find an attractive couple up for doing it with you. I have no doubt it would be the most amazingly erotic experience, even if it's only for one night  |
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"I wanted to do something like this with my ex Very kinky. I hope you find an attractive couple up for doing it with you. I have no doubt it would be the most amazingly erotic experience, even if it's only for one night "
You were singing the praises of monogamy a few threads ago  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wonder if any couples have ever thought about doing something like this with a single man i.e we all rent a 2 bedroom cottage together but the single man sleeps with the wife whilst her hubby sleeps in the extra room adjacent to it, listening to the sounds of delight through the wall over and over again all night long.
I can imagine that'd appeal to cuckolding couples. Especially if the hubby was treated as a friend in places like restaurants etc, and the single man and the wife pretended they were the married couple |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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"Feeling the water about this subject.
We've both been talking and we both like the idea of a wife swap either at a hotel or each others house, where your with the other person's partner for 24hrs to a weekend, all boundaries would be discussed beforehand.
What are everyone's thoughts? "
It’s an interesting concept but not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did an overnight swop which was great fun the only thing was waking up in the morning and for a few seconds thinking who the hell are you then realising and thinking wow hope mr misty had a great night too. |
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"We've done overnights with a special couple. Not 24 hours as neither of us are morning people, fuck off and don't wake me up when you leave.
Exactly our thoughts! "
Nothing really happens before lunchtime in our house anyway. |
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