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Are you a dark horse?
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over a year ago
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I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.
What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way?  |
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I love it. Been an alter ego of mine for years. Some of the filthy shit I have done has amazed myself at times. I remember telling the guys at work I was just popping to the bank. Headed along the road to a hotel to have my time with a sexy young girl whos master had tied her to bed and given us all fifteen minute slots with her! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love it. Been an alter ego of mine for years. Some of the filthy shit I have done has amazed myself at times. I remember telling the guys at work I was just popping to the bank. Headed along the road to a hotel to have my time with a sexy young girl whos master had tied her to bed and given us all fifteen minute slots with her! "
Haha you filthy fucker I like your style  |
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"I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.
What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way? "
You flatter yourself. It's common knowledge that lefty tree hugger types are kinky as fuck. It's probably how they recruit. |
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Every one knows I'm here, why not?? Got nothing to hide and some who dare not to tread are in fact somewhat envious.so many dare not admit to being here yet we all like sex, so talk about it and get liberated, does this make me a white horse |
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I'm pretty open with my friends about what I get up to so no, not really a dark horse. The lilly side of me was a big shock to them as I'm sort of the manliest one in the group but the fact im bi didn't really shock them, one of them just went 'well you would be wouldn't you' lol |
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Not at all!
I’m very very boring in everyday life and most would just walk past me in the street without a second look!
Put the makeup on, latex and heels and I’m a different person.
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"Do those of you who are gentlemen/ladies in vanilla life get off on the fact that you've got this naughty side no one knows about?
An alter ego "
Yes I get a big buzz out of wearing my at work and saying I didn't get up to much on my days off...when fact I'd had a Fab group meet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few men say that no one would think I was so dirty by looking at me.
Now, I don't think they meant dirty per se, I think they meant sexually adventurous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funny sitting in meetings at work, speaking out and being listened to and everyone respecting my ideas etc while inside chuckling to myself x"
Those suckers have no idea ! |
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"Do those of you who are gentlemen/ladies in vanilla life get off on the fact that you've got this naughty side no one knows about?
An alter ego "
Yes. My colleagues and acquaintances have no idea about this side of my life and would be shocked/amazed if they found out |
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Definitely don’t think friends would think we were into swinging they know we’re both very sexual people but would be considered by them to be too shy or jealous to ever entertain this idea.
If only they knew xx |
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I'm very much a dark horse and people are surprised when they find out I'm on fab and visit swinging clubs - I just don't seem the type according to what they say.
I come across as very proper to most people. It's the quiet ones you have to watch out for  |
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That’s the beauty of this I think. Respectable professional and PTA mum by day, naughty little monkey by night ... (actually I’m also naughty in the day but you get the idea)  |
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Yep. I'm am the sweetest nicest lady, with manners and looks like a bushbaby apparently! I don't think anyone would guess the gangbangs, cuckquean and Cuckholding, the greedy girl parties, sex clubs, dogging etc! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.
What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way? "
Nobody would ever guess im a nice decent and told innocent looking lady
Little do they know he he x |
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"That’s the beauty of this I think. Respectable professional and PTA mum by day, naughty little monkey by night ... (actually I’m also naughty in the day but you get the idea) "
I'm the guy who goes to the PTA meetings just to fill my wank bank up with ideas about women like the above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That’s the beauty of this I think. Respectable professional and PTA mum by day, naughty little monkey by night ... (actually I’m also naughty in the day but you get the idea)
I'm the guy who goes to the PTA meetings just to fill my wank bank up with ideas about women like the above. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do those of you who are gentlemen/ladies in vanilla life get off on the fact that you've got this naughty side no one knows about?
An alter ego "
Yes, I most definitely do. I love my 2 sides to my life.
I think a few people who know me well wouldn't be fully surprised if they knew I was on here, one of my friends introduced me to her friends as 'the kinky one' so don't think she would be too surprised, but most others would be extremely shocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do not think my circle of friends would think i use a sex site. Im very polite and well mannered and quite quiet. I went on a date recently and the lady said my manner reminded her of the film Meet Joe Black.
Although obviously i am much better looking than that Pitt fellow.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.
What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way? "
I'm just generally mentally insane my life experiences have been shady at best.
I'm the spaceman cowboy
Psychedelic psychic
Paranoid schizoid
Counting all my vices
I'm fighting all my blessings
I'm caught up in a crisis
Although my sleep's deathless
My days seem lifeless
I scream at existence, it answers with silence
I silenced the questions with outbursts of violence
I'm lost in the maze where I find my reality
I triumph on self defeat and beat myself gradually
I drove myself mad, searching for sanity
I lost my way home while exploring the galaxies
I'm fueling these fires that burn my mentality
My muse is abuse and a long road of tragedies
I drown in the depths of my bitter self knowledge
I used all my bravery trying to have courage
I seek for forgiveness, but beg to be punished
I fight for my freedom while chained to these gutters
I find all my comforts in deep insecurities
Spoil what's beautiful looking for impurities
I'm buried in the lies trying to live my life truthfully
I sail my ship alone and I'm still having mutinies
I'm wearing a disguise hiding from the phonies
I'm hiding from myself, but I'm scared of being lonely
My world's like a cell God created just to hold me
My life's like a game where my death is the trophy
Although I keep aging, memories are timeless
I drink to forget, an empty bottle's my reminder
I live for the wisdom and die trying to hide from it
My theories are terminal, my lifestyle's survivalist
I'm weary of science, but slave to the scientist
I dig my own grave and I will fucking lie in it
Straight from the snake pit into the lion's den
Fighting the beast 'cos it won't let the violence end
Searching for peace in a war-torn environment
Holding the torch that no-one's igniting yet
Walking into darkness, scared 'cos I'm fearless
Fighting with the demons even though they ain't appeared yet
Wisdom's invisible, I'm still trying to see sense
Trapped in procedures we take to gain freedom
Fighting for strength yet way beyond healing
Searching for love even though I can't receive it
Preaching the truth unsure if I believe it.
Is pretty much how I feel right not not in my own words |
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This is the thing I find hard to understand when people say, "are you the last person people would expect to be on a site like fab",I don't get the thought process behind the statement because in my opinion there is nothing wrong with being on a site like fab.
I guess people are too immersed in culture to analyse their behavioural patterns, so the ladies have to meet a guy in a particular way, it has to be on a night out , in a club where they are tipsy then they are permitted to take the guy home.
I got tired of this pattern so fab for me was a better option. |
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"This is the thing I find hard to understand when people say, "are you the last person people would expect to be on a site like fab",I don't get the thought process behind the statement because in my opinion there is nothing wrong with being on a site like fab.
I guess people are too immersed in culture to analyse their behavioural patterns, so the ladies have to meet a guy in a particular way, it has to be on a night out , in a club where they are tipsy then they are permitted to take the guy home.
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Those people who need alcohol to act the way they want to, really make me cringe. As if alcohol itself turns you into a slut. Alcohol turns a wannabe slut into a slut, if she is poorly educated in psychology. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is the thing I find hard to understand when people say, "are you the last person people would expect to be on a site like fab",I don't get the thought process behind the statement because in my opinion there is nothing wrong with being on a site like fab.
I guess people are too immersed in culture to analyse their behavioural patterns, so the ladies have to meet a guy in a particular way, it has to be on a night out , in a club where they are tipsy then they are permitted to take the guy home.
I got tired of this pattern so fab for me was a better option."
In a lot of people's eyes in the vanilla world women are still classed as 'slags' if they are sexually liberated and have numerous partners. It's unfortunate but true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.
What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way? "
Yeah I think I'm part of the dark horse brigade lol  |
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"Not at all!
I’m very very boring in everyday life and most would just walk past me in the street without a second look!
Put the makeup on, latex and heels and I’m a different person.
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Witch craft  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm actually a really shy person, you know the kind quiet ( until I'm comfortable ) blush a lot.
But put me in a swinging situation I dont stop talking, it's like a completely different persona takes over.
To be honest I feel most comfortable in other swingers company xx Mrs |
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I'm told I look innocent...but I'm also really tactless, have no filter and my mouth outpaces my brain with ease...so friends all know what I'm like and even at work where I've been trying really hard to tone it down and be 'professional' I'm known as "the inappropriate one"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok.. so im very very chatty with anyone and everyone, i have been told that i have a flirtatious aura about me... and my eyes undress in certain situations.
I think i come across in person exactly as on here. |
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