So I meet a beautiful lady who’s escaped a violent narcissistic past ..
Over quite a few months we’ve become best friends and simply amazing lovers ..
Not meaningless sex but loving sex which gets kinky at times ..
Do I say nothing of my swinging past or tell her everything??
At the risk of loosing the best thing that has happened to me in years .?
I don’t meet on here anymore I just nosey around x |
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Lots of testing the ground first. If the response is not horror, then yes. If she is horrified at the sounding out questions/debate, then no.
If that makes sense. |
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If it’s honestly all in your past, then it shouldn’t affect your future with her. I would hope she’d be understanding of that. We’re all different people than we used to be |
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Depends if u want swing in the future or not , I met an amazing guy and was honest from the offset bout being bi and swinging, it took us a few m but I took him to my local club , chams last week and it went better than expected and now it’s wonderful he fully excepted me and we are having lots of fun, swinging is totally new to him . X wish u all the best mr xx I didn’t want to give up swinging so I took a chance x |
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I think it depends on what kind of a person u feel she is (:. U technically aren't obliged to speak on it if she hasn't asked but if u have a convo and she seems open enough to it maybe u can decide if it would be suitable to mention?(: |
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