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over a year ago
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Re light that fire with her, make the effort, be spontaneous... if it doesnt work with her find a new partner... lifes too short to stay with someone for the sake of it.
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol
You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins."
Nothing re-ignites a woman's loins like the realisation that other woman want her man |
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol
You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins.
Nothing re-ignites a woman's loins like the realisation that other woman want her man "
True to a certain degree,but the wife already knows what a shit shag he is. Swings and roundabouts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to make yourself irresistible to women.
Or, have you tried talking to your wife about swinging with you.
It works with other couples where they don't fancy each other sexually.
Make a couples profile and go to clubs or search on here to put that spark back in your sex life.
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over a year ago
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When my husband- who had been having a long affair with a friend- told me to fuck off you fat doughnut-eating cunt and find someone else, I did.
He wasn't too happy when he realised that some very sexy men wanted this fat doughnut-eating cunt and threw a strop;then cried and threatened to kill himself.
You don't know what you have until you've lost it. |
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol
You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins.
Nothing re-ignites a woman's loins like the realisation that other woman want her man
True to a certain degree,but the wife already knows what a shit shag he is. Swings and roundabouts. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol
You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins.
Nothing re-ignites a woman's loins like the realisation that other woman want her man "
Or seeing a married man on the forums. You can almost hear the pussy salivating. |
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"When my husband- who had been having a long affair with a friend- told me to fuck off you fat doughnut-eating cunt and find someone else, I did.
He wasn't too happy when he realised that some very sexy men wanted this fat doughnut-eating cunt and threw a strop;then cried and threatened to kill himself.
You don't know what you have until you've lost it."
Aint that the bloody truth!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suggest a nice wank OP
And I doubt very very much wifey wants to watch or she’d be on fab with you  "
Sounds familiar! Sometimes wifeys are fast asleep and not interested  |
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Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex.
There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission.
Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site.
Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong.
Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex.
There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission.
Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site.
Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong.
Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? "
Well said..not everyones reason for on here is black and white..lots of reasons..everyone entitled to judge, but everyones situation is different  |
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I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex.
There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission.
Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site.
Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong.
Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? "
Loads are quick to judge on here. Unless they are a couple and doing it together many will jump. Same with kinks, loads jump on you if you say you have a fetish |
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’"
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, |
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, "
I don’t believe that I said it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex.
There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission.
Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site.
Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong.
Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it?
Loads are quick to judge on here. Unless they are a couple and doing it together many will jump. Same with kinks, loads jump on you if you say you have a fetish "
I think it’s more the married men that come on the forums moaning that people are complaining about....
If you’re married and not getting sex... keep your mouth shut and go get some sex...
It’s like they’re looking for a sympathy shag because their wife won’t sleep with them...
It’s just not a good look |
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
I don’t believe that I said it was"
I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here,
And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people. |
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex.
There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission.
Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site.
Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong.
Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? "
Very true and from looking and reading your profile I get your comment and WOW great profile  |
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
I don’t believe that I said it was
I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here,
And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people."
Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually.
Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life.
Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex.
There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission.
Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site.
Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong.
Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it?
Loads are quick to judge on here. Unless they are a couple and doing it together many will jump. Same with kinks, loads jump on you if you say you have a fetish
I think it’s more the married men that come on the forums moaning that people are complaining about....
If you’re married and not getting sex... keep your mouth shut and go get some sex...
It’s like they’re looking for a sympathy shag because their wife won’t sleep with them...
It’s just not a good look"
I agree on this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
I don’t believe that I said it was
I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here,
And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people.
Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually.
Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life.
Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages.
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Thank you. Nice to know he are appreciated by someone. |
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting."
I’m married. And I’m here.
And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships.
Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting.
I’m married. And I’m here.
And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships.
Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, "
You don't have to encourage it or abuse people doing it. |
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
You don't have to encourage it or abuse people doing it."
Where's the abuse ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Re light that fire with her, make the effort, be spontaneous... if it doesnt work with her find a new partner... lifes too short to stay with someone for the sake of it.
One life.. live it"
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting.
I’m married. And I’m here.
And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships.
Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. "
I don't need to it's not my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, "
Lots of people on here don't class themselves as swingers or don't use the site for swinging.
I know I don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
Lots of people on here don't class themselves as swingers or don't use the site for swinging.
I know I don't. "
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting.
I’m married. And I’m here.
And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships.
Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting.
I’m married. And I’m here.
And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships.
Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
I don’t believe that I said it was
I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here,
And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people.
Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually.
Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life.
Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages.
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I’ve had plenty of “want to fuck tonight the wife’s out” messages from married men believe it or not.
I’d rather not meet someone who is lying to one of the most important people on their life.
Of course people have their reasons and they are entitled to do as they please as adults, but it doesn’t mean anyone has to agree with it or like it. |
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting.
I’m married. And I’m here.
And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships.
Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective.
I don't need to it's not my life."
Then stop commenting on other people’s lives. It’s not right. You don’t know their situation. |
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
I don’t believe that I said it was
I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here,
And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people.
Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually.
Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life.
Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages.
I’ve had plenty of “want to fuck tonight the wife’s out” messages from married men believe it or not.
I’d rather not meet someone who is lying to one of the most important people on their life.
Of course people have their reasons and they are entitled to do as they please as adults, but it doesn’t mean anyone has to agree with it or like it. "
Exactly. If you can lie to someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with, then I question your morals |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
I don’t believe that I said it was
I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here,
And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people.
Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually.
Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life.
Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages.
I’ve had plenty of “want to fuck tonight the wife’s out” messages from married men believe it or not.
I’d rather not meet someone who is lying to one of the most important people on their life.
Of course people have their reasons and they are entitled to do as they please as adults, but it doesn’t mean anyone has to agree with it or like it.
Exactly. If you can lie to someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with, then I question your morals "
Me too.
Also, I find those who do cheat on their partners feel the need to constantly justify their reasons or blame it on a sexless married or similar.
If what you’re doing isn’t wrong, why do you feel the need to justify it to a bunch of people? It’s far more “honest” if you can call it that, to state you’re married and you cheat and leave it at that.
Everyone is entitled to being on here and getting the meets they want. Some prefer married, some don’t. Each to their own. |
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting.
I’m married. And I’m here.
And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships.
Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. "
Yours is an open marriage but alot on here are cheaters and don't even say it on their profile.
I met a guy years ago who said he was single. Suprise i had his wife on the phone slagging me off. |
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’
Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating,
I don’t believe that I said it was
I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here,
And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people.
Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually.
Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life.
Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages.
I’ve had plenty of “want to fuck tonight the wife’s out” messages from married men believe it or not.
I’d rather not meet someone who is lying to one of the most important people on their life.
Of course people have their reasons and they are entitled to do as they please as adults, but it doesn’t mean anyone has to agree with it or like it.
Exactly. If you can lie to someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with, then I question your morals
Me too.
Also, I find those who do cheat on their partners feel the need to constantly justify their reasons or blame it on a sexless married or similar.
If what you’re doing isn’t wrong, why do you feel the need to justify it to a bunch of people? It’s far more “honest” if you can call it that, to state you’re married and you cheat and leave it at that.
Everyone is entitled to being on here and getting the meets they want. Some prefer married, some don’t. Each to their own. "
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting.
I’m married. And I’m here.
And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships.
Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective.
I don't need to it's not my life.
Then stop commenting on other people’s lives. It’s not right. You don’t know their situation. "
Yes Miss. Although I wasn't really commenting on other people's lives,I was just thinking out loud.
No that's nonsense,it's just a shame the respect isn't fully shown to the spouse. Will that person feel respected if they found out,I certainly didn't feel respected one tiny little ounce when I was told.
Anyway it's not my concern. |
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Worst is the guys saying they are single..i admit straight up that im not..yes it doesnt suit everyone..no im not looking for peeps to say its ok..but there is always someone out there for everyone |
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"Worst is the guys saying they are single..i admit straight up that im not..yes it doesnt suit everyone..no im not looking for peeps to say its ok..but there is always someone out there for everyone"
Very true |
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"Worst is the guys saying they are single..i admit straight up that im not..yes it doesnt suit everyone..no im not looking for peeps to say its ok..but there is always someone out there for everyone
Very true"
And patience is required |
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