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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls? "
I leave them...if you delete and don’t block they can send again.
Just leaving them as they are means they can’t resend (so I believe)
MrsK x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we haven't met we delete,and make a note in the private notes section
(We make it clear on our profile we won't accept unless we have met,no exceptions)
Send 3 invites,we block.simple as that,don't care who it is. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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We don't want our friends news feed clogged up with randoms.
So we don't accept requests and state we don't accept them.
Then folk get uppity that you haven't added  Dunno why it's so important to 'em. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends really. If it’s a hot couple we will not accept until they are offline, then we accept just to have a cheeky look at they’re friend only pics before deleting!
Other than that we don’t accept  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wait until they are offline and if we think we might like what we see accept if we don’t like we remove them again we tend not to send them to people we haven’t chatted to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.
If they are hot, you let them off?
#fickle
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Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.
If they are hot, you let them off?
#fickle
Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for "
If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.
But if it is unsolicited, and
you like their profile, they get away with it?
I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.
If they are hot, you let them off?
#fickle
Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for
If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.
But if it is unsolicited, and
you like their profile, they get away with it?
I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?"
Not at all we have a couple of males on our friends list a few single females but mainly couples we don’t block anyone unless we feel we have to
We don’t meet single men but have been known to chat to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.
If they are hot, you let them off?
#fickle
Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for
If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.
But if it is unsolicited, and
you like their profile, they get away with it?
I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?
Not at all we have a couple of males on our friends list a few single females but mainly couples we don’t block anyone unless we feel we have to
We don’t meet single men but have been known to chat to them "
And you are happy they friend request:
a. Without asking.
b. Without even sending an opening message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.
If they are hot, you let them off?
#fickle
Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for
If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.
But if it is unsolicited, and
you like their profile, they get away with it?
I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?
Not at all we have a couple of males on our friends list a few single females but mainly couples we don’t block anyone unless we feel we have to
We don’t meet single men but have been known to chat to them
And you are happy they friend request:
a. Without asking.
b. Without even sending an opening message?"
Not always no I see your point and you have every right to have an opinion I guess everyone has different views |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.
If they are hot, you let them off?
#fickle
Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for
If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.
But if it is unsolicited, and
you like their profile, they get away with it?
I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?
Not at all we have a couple of males on our friends list a few single females but mainly couples we don’t block anyone unless we feel we have to
We don’t meet single men but have been known to chat to them
And you are happy they friend request:
a. Without asking.
b. Without even sending an opening message?
Not always no I see your point and you have every right to have an opinion I guess everyone has different views "
Thank you. I respect your choice to use fab how you see fit.
Shhh. Don't tell anyone though. I don't want people to know I can be reasonable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get hundreds each day. In fact 10 in the last hour and only 1 had messaged first. Regardless unless either of us intend to discuss meeting with them we won't except. Even if they are hot. Photos are so often faked on here it's very rare the photo is of them anyway. I think if people take the time to get to know you then you get a feeling to whether you want to take that further or not. Friend requests on here are just a pain! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore them, don't delete then they can't resend. "
This
Sometimes though if really bored we check they are offline then accept have a look then unfriend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regardless who they are from, they get deleted. We clearly state in our profile not to friend request us unles we have exchanged messages or met before. "
Same here and block the profile. They are just wanting to perve your pics. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls?
I leave them...if you delete and don’t block they can send again.
Just leaving them as they are means they can’t resend (so I believe)
MrsK x"
It does.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regardless who they are from, they get deleted. We clearly state in our profile not to friend request us unles we have exchanged messages or met before.
Same here and block the profile. They are just wanting to perve your pics."
That is only one of the reasons people send them. We don't have any private pictures and get plenty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls?
I leave them...if you delete and don’t block they can send again.
Just leaving them as they are means they can’t resend (so I believe)
MrsK x
It does. "
I think they can resend them but the target doesn't receive them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls? "
Makes no difference from whom. Unsolicited is unsolicited. We leave them there as they can't resend them.
If we're curious we might accept it when they're not online, look at friends only pics and unfriend again. It's an invitation to do so after all, right?
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Not really something we get worked up about to be honest. It's hugely unimportant to us when compared to the other far more irritating things on here such as timewasters, single men with couples profiles and people who won't take a polite no as an answer. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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Generally leave for a bit in case followed up with a message then delete if not, or occasionally message back if it’s a profile that piques our interest. But very rarely just accept, we’ve got face pics in ours so are selective with who sees them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our profile seems to send friend invites of its own accord! It shows in the updates as “So & so accepted your friend request” when we’ve not even sent one!!
Anyone else come across this?? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls? "
I delete any unsolicited friend invites. I also then block them. I do the same for one line messages. I do the same for guys who send me cock photographs. |
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