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How to tell your partner you are bisexual
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Many men on here really struggle with telling thier partner they are bisexual.
We discovered the male bisexuality later on in our relationship. It took some getting used to but good thing is we both love cock  |
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By *hlasherMan
over a year ago
Gloucester |
My ex wife and I used to be very open about this. We were 21 and 20 when we met and decided to experiment. She discovered that she was only attracted to men and I was too shy to try.
As a 30th birthday present, she hired a guy to come to our house to "massage" me. That was when I realised I was definitely bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the years I've found it's cool to say you're bi only if both of you really have an honest view of sex. I've met very very few bi guys who would rather be with a man 100% of the time, it's the sex with another cock(s) that make it fun!...Honesty is always a better policy, but only if you both have a good understanding of each other and talk!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes defo not into having a relationship with a guy but most certainly do like it in the mix.
"Over the years I've found it's cool to say you're bi only if both of you really have an honest view of sex. I've met very very few bi guys who would rather be with a man 100% of the time, it's the sex with another cock(s) that make it fun!...Honesty is always a better policy, but only if you both have a good understanding of each other and talk! "
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
Good to hear some positive stories about this. Unfortunately not all of us are so lucky. Despite my ex encouraging me to explore my bisexuality when we started swinging it was also this she blamed for needing to seperate and eventually divorcing. |
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I've told my friends and my sisters. Planning on telling my parents at Christmas then I'll just come out fully as bi. I will put it on any dating sites I'm on, saves an awkward conversation further on down the road |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is an odd one really .Women who are bisexual are welcomed with open arms but say you are a bisexual man and many people shut the door.
If men could suck thier own cock they would.
Lucy discovered her bisexuality as a young adult where as Jay found his during the relationship and in his 40s
It has not been easy however luckily Lucy understands and accepted Jays sexuality.
One thing that has been learned is to be honest ,be yourself, be safe.
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
Honestly can’t remember how it came up between us but it was very early on in the relationship when there was a fair bit of experimenting and discovery going on between us
How to broach the subject? Possibilities: Wanking in front of her, and tasting your own cum could open up a conversation, or saying that you wouldn’t mind being able to suck your own cock. Making comments between you about attractive men you see. “Asking” her about how it feels to suck a cock. If she is already up for MMF then talking around that when in the heat of passion might open a channel.
Just opening up a dialogue between you somehow has to be the way - if she likes the idea of seeing two men together she will pick up the thread and run with it.
Good luck !
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes agree. Playing with toys with your other half can open the conversation.
Dildos are a good start.
Moving into starpons.
Discussing the male g post/milking etc.
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"Yes agree. Playing with toys with your other half can open the conversation.
Dildos are a good start.
Moving into starpons.
Discussing the male g post/milking etc."
All great ideas and tried with her. Never got past the first one as she didn’t really like it. Sometimes you have to accept that it’s not to everyone’s taste and deal with it the best way you can. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes true and it is great to see she allows you to explore. Relationships are about allowing people to explore and develop and accepting ..as long as no harm is being caused..
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Interesting post. My ex was aware that I was open to cock-play. We discussed all sorts of ideas after a few drinks and horny, unfortunately it didn't do anything for her and nothing happened.
Hoping my next partner will have a different view  |
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