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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look for socials in your area! People seem to manage to get verified that way. Maybe change your approach with messaging if your current approach isn’t working. |
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Cam verification is probably easiest, although it is regarded as less than. It's better than nothing.
Organised socials although they do cap single guys usually.
Some women do meet unverified men for coffee (presumably couples do too) if you catch their eye with your messages and profile.
Clubs, although can be daunting as a newbie and often expensive as a single male.
Probably sometimes just luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go to a social event to get virility by someone because that the only way to do it as cam or any other way does not work"
Plus don't take any notice of this forum member because according to him nothing works  |
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"Go to a social event to get virility by someone because that the only way to do it as cam or any other way does not work
Plus don't take any notice of this forum member because according to him nothing works "
I'd agree. Just because he apparently hasn't had any luck, doesn't mean men don't meet here. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Go to a social event to get virility by someone because that the only way to do it as cam or any other way does not work
Plus don't take any notice of this forum member because according to him nothing works "
Not necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to a social event to get virility by someone because that the only way to do it as cam or any other way does not work
Plus don't take any notice of this forum member because according to him nothing works
Not necessary."
Go on? .... |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Go to a social event to get virility by someone because that the only way to do it as cam or any other way does not work
Plus don't take any notice of this forum member because according to him nothing works
Not necessary.
Go on? ...."
Pardon? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to 
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to... "
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary? "
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask a woman out for a social. Always works for me. A social can be a quick Costa at lunchtime. You don't need to prolong a social. Mine barely last an hour. I'm there to see if the other person looks like their photos and whether I feel comfortable alone with him.
I find day time socials are best in case the meet is dodgy for one reason or another or many I don't fancy them. 30-60 mins on a daytime social is good because if they're not your cup of tea or whatever, you've merely wasted up to an hour and the price of a coffee! I'd rather that then potentially waste my evening and time dressing up for a prolonged evening meet. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Ask a woman out for a social. Always works for me. A social can be a quick Costa at lunchtime. You don't need to prolong a social. Mine barely last an hour. I'm there to see if the other person looks like their photos and whether I feel comfortable alone with him.
I find day time socials are best in case the meet is dodgy for one reason or another or many I don't fancy them. 30-60 mins on a daytime social is good because if they're not your cup of tea or whatever, you've merely wasted up to an hour and the price of a coffee! I'd rather that then potentially waste my evening and time dressing up for a prolonged evening meet."
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"Can anyone give me any advice on getting verified?"
I really can't remember how i got my first one on here. I think I just applied for anything I fancied and could make, turned up at them, and didn't just watch then leave. When I was running lots of GBs I took note of the no shows, got called innto work last minute on a Saturday night, watched and then pissed off. They didn't get invited back. Those that turned up and played got verified, and invited again. i would usually invite a few guys who weren't verified who I felt were genuine going by their profiles and responses to my ad. It seemed to work most of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him "
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well "
That is why all the advice is to get to a social meet or a club, your options are very limited otherwise, but good luck. |
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"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well
That is why all the advice is to get to a social meet or a club, your options are very limited otherwise, but good luck."
I never got into the club scene really, (it's taken me years to find one I really like and that only recently). Socials I only got into after meeting people for GBs and other fun stuff. In my earlier days it included other sites where people mentioned FAB when I met them at sexual meets. As I said earlier go for everything you fancy, can attend and take an active part. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well
That is why all the advice is to get to a social meet or a club, your options are very limited otherwise, but good luck."
To be honest I'm nervous to go to a Club meet and to arrange a social meet without being verified is hard work ?? thanks anyway |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well
That is why all the advice is to get to a social meet or a club, your options are very limited otherwise, but good luck.
To be honest I'm nervous to go to a Club meet and to arrange a social meet without being verified is hard work ?? thanks anyway "
What were your expectations on joining the site OP? Were you expecting women to fall at your feet? Effort in = rewards out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well
That is why all the advice is to get to a social meet or a club, your options are very limited otherwise, but good luck.
I never got into the club scene really, (it's taken me years to find one I really like and that only recently). Socials I only got into after meeting people for GBs and other fun stuff. In my earlier days it included other sites where people mentioned FAB when I met them at sexual meets. As I said earlier go for everything you fancy, can attend and take an active part."
I'd go to a club night but to be honest I'm abit nervous an to arrange a social meet most people won't even look at you unless your verified.an I would even no were to start trying to find GBs haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well
That is why all the advice is to get to a social meet or a club, your options are very limited otherwise, but good luck.
To be honest I'm nervous to go to a Club meet and to arrange a social meet without being verified is hard work ?? thanks anyway
What were your expectations on joining the site OP? Were you expecting women to fall at your feet? Effort in = rewards out. "
Without sounding like an asshole My expectations are to meet genuine people for some good times correct me if I'm wrong but this is fab an not tinder? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well
That is why all the advice is to get to a social meet or a club, your options are very limited otherwise, but good luck.
To be honest I'm nervous to go to a Club meet and to arrange a social meet without being verified is hard work ?? thanks anyway
What were your expectations on joining the site OP? Were you expecting women to fall at your feet? Effort in = rewards out.
Without sounding like an asshole My expectations are to meet genuine people for some good times correct me if I'm wrong but this is fab an not tinder?"
If you are too nervous to even meet socially, then you have no chance of meeting for sex if your that nervous, do you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whys that?
Hello op, if you press 'quote', we will know who you are responding to
Haha sorry thought I did ??
No you just said 'why's that' so not sure who you are talking to...
Thought I'd replied to you,so whys it no not necessary?
Ok..the comment the poster made about another fab member, was not necessary and unkind to him
It's harder for men to meet women so I see what he means an to be honest there is also a lot of time wasters as well
That is why all the advice is to get to a social meet or a club, your options are very limited otherwise, but good luck.
To be honest I'm nervous to go to a Club meet and to arrange a social meet without being verified is hard work ?? thanks anyway
What were your expectations on joining the site OP? Were you expecting women to fall at your feet? Effort in = rewards out.
Without sounding like an asshole My expectations are to meet genuine people for some good times correct me if I'm wrong but this is fab an not tinder?
If you are too nervous to even meet socially, then you have no chance of meeting for sex if your that nervous, do you? "
I'm nervous about attending a club meet Not a meet sociable meet for a coffee or something first.but if your not verified then it's hard to arrange a meet |
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Hi there Mr Naughty,
I've just seen your thread and thought I should drop you a line.
In the north there's are so many great clubs.
You really should just put your emotions to one side and take the plunge and go along to a club. Your principle objective should be to chat to as many folks in the social areas .... Don't even bother to try to find folks in the play rooms as that won't help.you in the medium to long term.
If you socialise in the bar areas, you should be more than capable to gain two or three verifications just from the one outing.
I've never met folks who wanted to play without having a decent natter before hand.
In summary, identify a club, go on a mixed night and just go for the chat at first.
Hope this helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to a social event to get virility by someone because that the only way to do it as cam or any other way does not work
Plus don't take any notice of this forum member because according to him nothing works
Not necessary."
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