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Explain this to me....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they just arent interested and dont have time to reply to each individual message they receive?

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?"

Simple they viewed your profile and thought ... not for me ...sorted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or they know you in the real world

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some couple choose to have single guys blocked which means that all your mails will be sent back. Otherwise it could be that they knew you, didn't like an aspect of your profile etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Im totally fine with the rejection....just wondered why they felt the need to block......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To stop you messaging them. Just because someone views a profile it doesn't mean they like the person. A lot of people also know that they're likely to receive a message from the person they've viewed so if they don't want a message they block, simple. Don't take it personal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?"
they maybe looked at your profile already and wernt attracted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've just looked at your profile but it doesn't mean anything. I like looking

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If a person doesn't interest me and is never likely to interest me, blocking may save everyone's time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?"

If I looked at your profile and didn’t message you then received a message from you I’d do the same, by looking and not making any contact I’m showing I’m not interested, when you’ve sent a message with pictures too you’re basically asking why, this opens a conversation I don’t want, it’s happened a few times and is why I now use stealth mode to look, by blocking I’m simply saving myself from more conversations that don’t hold any interest, that may sound harsh but when you’re getting pelted with new conversations all day you have to do what you can to wade through unfortunately

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

pretty much this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?"

They looked and weren't interested so didn't mail you. You then mailed them and they still wasn't interested so to prevent you mailing them again they blocked you. Its that simple!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?

They looked and weren't interested so didn't mail you. You then mailed them and they still wasn't interested so to prevent you mailing them again they blocked you. Its that simple!"

This ^^

If I REALLY fancied someone who’d viewed me I’d wink. If they are shy, that’s an encouragement, if, more likely, they had a look and though ‘Ooh no, she sounds like hard work/looks too fat/met too many people’, it’ll be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe she was looking for wank fodder he didnt like it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you walked through town and said hello to everyone but some didn’t reply, would you be offended?

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By *anilla no kinkWoman over a year ago

plymouth

"Im totally fine with the rejection....just wondered why they felt the need to block......"

So that you don’t message them again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?"

Maybe they are playing hard to get?

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman over a year ago

in the shadows

I look at loads of profiles just because I can and I'm nosey. I can't tell if I'm interested unless I look at a profile

If I am I message and if I'm not I don't look again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?

Simple they viewed your profile and thought ... not for me ...sorted "

Yep

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By *othrockercplCouple over a year ago

Halloween Town

The joy of stealth mode..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im totally fine with the rejection....just wondered why they felt the need to block......"

I think it says a lot more about them then you. I don't like having sex with rude people personally so id look at it like they have done you a favour.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?"

Can’t answer as I don’t know, only they know. It will now remain as one of life’s greatest mysteries OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never understand why people mail you because you looked at them. Logic says if they were interested they'd have mailed you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im totally fine with the rejection....just wondered why they felt the need to block......"

I think being called a block function makes it sound harsher than its meant to. It can merely be a no thanks sometimes.

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By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

Think of it more like the telephone preference service or declining and not a restraining order/injunction.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Think of it more like the telephone preference service or declining and not a restraining order/injunction."

Yeah, unfortunately it does serve both functions in some instances, and I can see why someone in category A might not be best pleased being alongside those in category B.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get a lot of repeat messages so I can understand the need to block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....an attractive couple view my profile....

I email them, complimenting them on how nice I think their profile is....attaching a face poic....

They then block me

No words, nothing.

What's that about then?"
they dont like what they see

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago