Agreed with above - must be a strong relationship or marriage. We have no jealously in our marriage and our love for each other is so huge - this has enhanced our marriage and allows us new experiences...  |
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"seems like the relationship needs to be very strong to start thinking about swapping very interesting"
Well you would expect that wouldn't you? If a relationship is fragile in the first place swinging only emphasises the insecurity. |
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"are marriages stronger when swingers or can jealousy step in and then it falls apart just a thought honest replys please "
If its a, strong marriage it can improve it. If it's a weak marriage it will probably break it.
However, even a strong marriage could be broken if things aren't handled carefully. |
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It depends on the marriage.
I've seen marriages that are being made better for one person and worse for the other by swinging but they stay together. Nothing to do with jealousy and everything to do with one person going along with it to keep the other one happy. |
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Minor jealousy’s, amongst other emotions, can be very much part and parcel of a swinging couple.
But a marriage does have to be very strong to survive and has to have bundles of trust. |
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It works for Us, We both know We can trust each other & know We both have to be having an enjoyable time with everyone being comfortable then as long as We and the Person/People We are with are having Fun then All is good. We arent jealous but do like to see each other have Fun so that helps spice up a long term secure Marriage.
Sure there could be Marriages that suffer but that may be down to any number of things external to Swinging? The scene may just be the straw to break the Camels back so to speak?
It can't be Fun One half of a Couple continuously "Taking One For The Team" this can only lead to problems. So knowing Your Boundaries & what each other like/don't like helps smoother situations over & avoids mixups. |
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Any relationship can be tested at any point be it a swinging one or not. The main components in any good relationship is trust, honesty and communication. If any of these are lost then the relationship will divide, which is why communicating your needs boundaries etc are so important in swinging relationships as these needs change often. Keep talking and being honest and it's more likely to be ok.  |
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"Any relationship can be tested at any point be it a swinging one or not. The main components in any good relationship is trust, honesty and communication. If any of these are lost then the relationship will divide, which is why communicating your needs boundaries etc are so important in swinging relationships as these needs change often. Keep talking and being honest and it's more likely to be ok. "
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"It works for Us, We both know We can trust each other & know We both have to be having an enjoyable time with everyone being comfortable then as long as We and the Person/People We are with are having Fun then All is good. We arent jealous but do like to see each other have Fun so that helps spice up a long term secure Marriage.
Sure there could be Marriages that suffer but that may be down to any number of things external to Swinging? The scene may just be the straw to break the Camels back so to speak?
It can't be Fun One half of a Couple continuously "Taking One For The Team" this can only lead to problems. So knowing Your Boundaries & what each other like/don't like helps smoother situations over & avoids mixups."
Totally agree with you, very well explained. |
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We started swinging 2 months into our relationship ,so it’s always been part of our relationship. We made mistakes along the way but learned by them. It definitely makes our relationship more solid, I trust Kim 100% and her me, we have no secrets from each other. |
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"It works for Us, We both know We can trust each other & know We both have to be having an enjoyable time with everyone being comfortable then as long as We and the Person/People We are with are having Fun then All is good. We arent jealous but do like to see each other have Fun so that helps spice up a long term secure Marriage.
Sure there could be Marriages that suffer but that may be down to any number of things external to Swinging? The scene may just be the straw to break the Camels back so to speak?
It can't be Fun One half of a Couple continuously "Taking One For The Team" this can only lead to problems. So knowing Your Boundaries & what each other like/don't like helps smoother situations over & avoids mixups.
Totally agree with you, very well explained."
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