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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is before I met clift kissing was a big part of a meet as a single woman. If that didn’t work then I wouldn’t go any further. But now I really don’t need to kiss others as I LOVE kissing Clift and that’s enough
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its a good kiss then I like it. If it's someone trying to get to your toes through your mouth then no. And if someone tries doing that tongue in and out dead quick movement then that's a turn off too. |
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"Would rather not meet if they was no kissing .would feel cold and a total turn off for me "
Completely agree. If all you want is recreational shagging, fair enough. But that’s a bit like masturbating using someone else’s hand/hole.
If you want to establish any kind of connection and have a shared experience, surely a quality kiss is an absolute must from which passion and intimacy flows.
Maybe I’m just and old romantic and should be on a dating site ... |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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"Would rather not meet if they was no kissing .would feel cold and a total turn off for me
This ^ I need to kiss  "
Can I come and play around that cleavage for an hour or so, all the kisses you want  |
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"I couldn't do anything sexually without kissing. Kissing is usually the starting point for me and turns me on."
Same here. Surely on kissing , men and women are the same. As I said in a similar thread yesterday, with the right person it’s like a drug. An instant rush. |
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"Would rather not meet if they was no kissing .would feel cold and a total turn off for me
Completely agree. If all you want is recreational shagging, fair enough. But that’s a bit like masturbating using someone else’s hand/hole.
If you want to establish any kind of connection and have a shared experience, surely a quality kiss is an absolute must from which passion and intimacy flows.
Maybe I’m just and old romantic and should be on a dating site ..."
A lot of people feel the same way you do.
Why do you think people like me are recreational shaggers who just masturbate with someone else's hand or hole? Why do you think I can't establish a connection with the people I meet?
Trust me doing what we do demands connection. |
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"If its a good kiss then I like it. If it's someone trying to get to your toes through your mouth then no. And if someone tries doing that tongue in and out dead quick movement then that's a turn off too. "
Do you know, my encounters on fab have taught me that kissing really is an artform that not everyone has mastered  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my life I've only met two men who never kissed me.
One of them I've known for 8 years and had sex with many times; the other I would meet tomorrow if I could.
It's very rare, but sometimes a kiss isn't appropriate , as the sex (and everything else) is intense without it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If its a good kiss then I like it. If it's someone trying to get to your toes through your mouth then no. And if someone tries doing that tongue in and out dead quick movement then that's a turn off too.
Do you know, my encounters on fab have taught me that kissing really is an artform that not everyone has mastered "
I had a couple of great meets with someone who was the best kisser I had ever experienced, by some margin. We met again months later and he was one of the worst kissers I have ever met. No precision, no finesse, just smushing lips and trying to thrust a tongue down my throat. How does that happen? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like kissing..only with people I have feelings for..if it was a nsa situation kissing would make it more than just sex..for me kissing is the most intimate part of sex... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If its a good kiss then I like it. If it's someone trying to get to your toes through your mouth then no. And if someone tries doing that tongue in and out dead quick movement then that's a turn off too.
Do you know, my encounters on fab have taught me that kissing really is an artform that not everyone has mastered "
This is so true.
Some of the kissers I’ve experienced from meeting elsewhere are shocking. |
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My opinion is that kissing and intimacy are not the same thing. Kissing can be extremely intimate if it's with someone you have a strong emotional connection otherwise it's the same as any other physical interaction, only pleasurable if it's something you really enjoy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't do anything sexually without kissing. Kissing is usually the starting point for me and turns me on."
Exactly if a kiss doesnt fire me up with passion its unlikly much else will plus im bloody good at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The kissing can be just as good as the sex. An intense kiss can really make the sex awesome.
I've found when meeting a couple sometimes the woman doesn't want to kiss, think alot depends on what they have decided, the sex doesn't seem to be as good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" No precision, no finesse, just smushing lips and trying to thrust a tongue down my throat. How does that happen?
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This ^^^ ...gross... I can' do that green sick emoji thing or I would "
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"If its a good kiss then I like it. If it's someone trying to get to your toes through your mouth then no. And if someone tries doing that tongue in and out dead quick movement then that's a turn off too.
Do you know, my encounters on fab have taught me that kissing really is an artform that not everyone has mastered "
Haha, I agree - I can count the meets I consider good kissers on one hand. But every now and then you find a real gem and you want to snog for hours!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don’t like to be kissed, is that a really turn off?"
I've known women who liked to be kissed on their body but not on their lips. I had a brief relationship with a girl who didn't like tongues. Can't say it bothered me, just get used to it.... Or not! |
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"Would rather not meet if they was no kissing .would feel cold and a total turn off for me
Completely agree. If all you want is recreational shagging, fair enough. But that’s a bit like masturbating using someone else’s hand/hole.
If you want to establish any kind of connection and have a shared experience, surely a quality kiss is an absolute must from which passion and intimacy flows.
Maybe I’m just and old romantic and should be on a dating site ..."
And maybe we are the same , as you’ve just said exactly what we think too .  |
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"If you don’t like to be kissed, is that a really turn off?
I had a brief relationship with a girl who didn't like tongues. Can't say it bothered me, just get used to it.... Or not! "
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.. I hate 'em as well ... ewwww yukk ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If its a good kiss then I like it. If it's someone trying to get to your toes through your mouth then no. And if someone tries doing that tongue in and out dead quick movement then that's a turn off too.
Do you know, my encounters on fab have taught me that kissing really is an artform that not everyone has mastered
I had a couple of great meets with someone who was the best kisser I had ever experienced, by some margin. We met again months later and he was one of the worst kissers I have ever met. No precision, no finesse, just smushing lips and trying to thrust a tongue down my throat. How does that happen?"
Not sure how it goes so wrong lol but hate teeth clashing in a kiss as it seems so wrong and tooth on tooth feels awful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is a big part of foreplay for me.. I wouldn’t meet/go any further with someone who didn’t
Wanna understand why Fab has Leeds as the North East  "
Why not they have got Essex in the "West Midlands" |
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Whatever the origins of my interests in kissing, I'm always disappointed when a potential partner says that they don't kiss - my interest falls quite massively.
They don't like it but I do. So it's often a reason that I'll opt to spend time getting to know and meet someone else. Kissing isn't a peripheral interest for me, it's a core one. And I always discuss it before deciding who to meet with - I assume that I'm not a minority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is the most essential element of a meet for me. The kiss set's the tone of things to come. A great kiss will draw you in and set your very soul on fire as the kiss builds from a slow sensual start to the hight of passion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet with a couple and it was only when the meet started to hot up that I was told kissing and doggy was only for them. Tbh honest it spoiled the meet for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d turn down the meet rather than have a no kissing one "
Same here. Have done a couple of times. Kissing is probably the thing that arouses me more than anything. |
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