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How chastity and anal orgasms work (detailed long post regarding sissy and pussyboy orgasms)

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

OK so this started out as a simple explanation to someone but it turned into a whole essay on chastity and anal orgasms. It's OK if you can't be bothered to read it but if you do you will really understand how sissies and pussyboys work when it comes to chastity.

What is chastity first of all? It's a little cage that gets locked around the cock and prevents the cock being able to have an erection or be touched or wanked.

An explanation of how sissy anal orgasms happen:

Chastity greatly increases the strength of my anal orgasms and helps them happen easier and more often but it doesnt happen every time we fuck.

Think of it this way.

For a sissy or pussyboy to orgasm like a girl from being fucked in the arse they have to have a high level of horniness pressure built up inside their cunt. If you could measure the pressure of horniness out of 10, with 10 at maximum horniness, then she can orgasm like a girl when the pressure of horniness inside her cunt has built up to over 8 out of 10. That horniness pressure is trapped inside their cunt until a Man comes along and fucks them to release that pressure as an orgasm deep inside their cunt - the man's fucking and stimulation causes the horniness pressure to explode into an orgasm deep inside her cunt and be released in waves throughout her body (the release in waves is why her cunt contracts and relaxes and grips your cock as she orgasms on your dick).

However, if a sissy or pussyboy is allowed to wank their dick and cum their horniness level goes down to zero as all the pressure is released with their male dick orgasm. The horniness level gradually increases with time if the sissy hasn't cum, but every time they wank their dick and cum their horniness drops to zero. This means that if a sissy is allowed to wank every day then her level of horniness will be between a 0 and 3 and she will never build up the level of horniness pressure inside her cunt to the 8,9 or 10 needed for her to release the pressure as an anal internal orgasm. When the pressure is only at low levels like that no matter how much a man fucks she will not orgasm anally.

Also, the bigger and thicker the man's cock and the harder and rougher he fucks the more he will be able to release that pressure as an anal orgasm, especially if he is very skillful about banging on the prostate very hard. I call the prostate the sissy g-spot because that's how it functions so if you want to make a sissy orgasm try and slam fuck her gspot as hard as you can.

To imagine where this is, if your sissy is laying on her back and you slide your middle finger inside her and make a "come here" motion with your finger then you will feel a little soft mound on the roof of her cunt. That's her gspot. When you finger her, press on it to make her moan and turn her on and when fucking if you want her to cum aim your cock in that direction and smash the fuck out of it. The size and powerful thrusts are important as that pent up horniness needs enough stimulation to release that energy as an explosion of orgasm. The bigger the cock and harder the fuck the more stimulation the faster the orgasm is achieved if the horniness level is an 8 or over. A man with a smaller cock can make a sissy orgasm even if he is fucking slowly but he needs to fuck for longer to achieve the stimulation needed to achieve the orgasm. Bearing in mind that most men cum in less than ten minutes, this is where the cock size and roughness of fuck comes into play. For example: If both a hung man and smaller cocked man cum in 10 minutes, and both fuck her with the same average strength, then it might take 5 minutes of fucking for the hung man to stimulate her cunt enough to make the sissy orgasm, so she has an orgasm, then he keeps on fucking her until he cums. (sissy cums before the man) With the smaller cocked guy, he might need 15 minutes of fucking to stimulate her cunt enough to make her orgasm, but because he cums at ten minutes he finishes before she can orgasm. (man cums before sissy so she doesnt cum) So what can the smaller cocked guy do to stimulate her faster and make her cum? He can fuck her much harder (remember harder fuck, more stimulation) and angle his dick to smash her prostate. Even the smallest cocks can make a sissy cum if they follow this technique. One of the most skilled men I dated had a 4 inch dick but was rock hard and fucked me right and made me orgasm regularly. If you follow this advice then it might reduce her time needed to cum to 8 minutes so then he can get her to orgasm and then cum himself. The other alternative is to remember that maybe in the next day or two she will reach a 10 horny and even a small cock man will make her cum faster. This is explained in further detail below.

What about the really big dicked guy who makes sissies orgasm within just a minute or two of fucking? Most guys don't see premature sissy orgasm as a problem, they see it as a compliment, but if they wanted her to last longer then fuck her more gently and angle the cock away from the prostate. I once dated a man with a cock like a Gillette shaving foam can which got even thicker towards the middle and I used to have a little sissy bitch orgasm just by sitting down on his cock all the way to the balls. With a cock that big and thick there wasn't much we could do to prevent that so if the guy is huge it may just be unavoidable. Luckily he felt it was sexy and made me look more submissive and cock hungry to him as he used to tell me it was clear to him that I was born to be fucked if simply sitting on a cock made me orgasm.

These are general rules about how to control the sissy orgasm but more hung men who fuck harder will give the sissy more orgasms at the same horniness level. That's why sissies often love very macho hung men with thick cocks and aggressive fucking styles. That doesn't mean a man with a small cock can't satisfy a sissy, it just means that she will cum less often, unless the man with the small cock has great stamina and can fuck her for much longer to achieve the same number of orgasms as with a hung man. However, if a man is very hung, fucks very hard and aggressively AND lasts a long time then this is the most satisfying for a sissy. You will often find sissies dating bodybuilders, Fighters, gangsters, rugby players or other Alpha Males, or she will date a cuck and be a total whore and be fucked by loads of hung men to get her sexual satisfaction while having an emotional relationship with her cuck.

Remember also that the anal orgasm is involuntary. The sissy or pussyboy can't force themselves to orgasm or stop themselves from having an orgasm. It's up to you to give her an orgasm with your cock or deny her the pleasure. If the level of horniness built up inside the sissy's cunt is high enough to orgasm and the man fucks a sissy right then he can release all that pent up horniness pressure as an internal female sissy orgasm. She feels it deep inside her cunt and doesn't get any pleasure from her dick as this orgasm is internal from the horniness pressure build up inside her ass pussy. As she orgasms her pussy contracts and causes her prostate to leak juices from her clitty (I call her useless dick a clitty). These juices can be used to lube your dick so you are fucking her with her own juices. Normally during anal orgasm her clitty is limp as its not a dick orgasm and she gets no pleasure feeling there the same way a man would when he cums. Remember, her orgasm is deep inside her cunt like a bitch. This means that whether a sissy wants to or not, if her horniness is high enough and a man fucks her right then he can FORCE her to orgasm whether she wants to or not. This is why it's very common for chastity sissies to orgasm when they are being forced to take cock. Forced sex is usually a very rough fuck so lots of stimulation is produced to release the orgasm and often because forced is so rough sissies may often tell you their strongest orgasms happened when they were being roughly forced by a big cock. This has happened to me personally.

So where does chastity fit into all this?

If you keep me locked in chastity I can't get hard and I can't wank or orgasm with my dick. This means I can't release my horniness and it eventually builds up day by day deep inside my pussy. The horniness pressure gradually builds up over days from zero, upwards and I have no choice but to get more and more horny. As the horniness builds up more the sissy or pussyboy craves cock more and enjoys being fucked more. But even if she is a five or six horny she still can't orgasm when fucked but it feels so much better than when her horniness is a zero or one. Above a five horny her pussy starts to twitch and get moist as it craves cock and can feel the horniness deep inside her cunt. Sometimes if you fuck a sissy and she tells you she is very close but not quite there yet then she is probably a 7 horny and just needs a bit of extra time for the horniness to build up over an 8 so she can orgasm. She isn't "ripe" yet so needs some extra time in chastity. This may be a few hours or a day or two but she will get there.

When she does get over an 8 horny that's when she will start orgasms from being fucked, and the higher the level, say a 9 or 10 horny the easier it is to make her cum as less stimulation is needed.

So what happens when a sissy has an orgasm anally? Does her horniness go back to zero? No, it doesn't. Only a male orgasm with her dick can bring her back to a zero, and if you keep her locked in chastity that will never happen. Having a sissy anal orgasm will reduce the horniness level by a few points, but never bring it down to zero. At most it will bring it down to a six so that she is really horny and wants to be fucked but can't achieve an orgasm and needs to wait a day or two for her orgasm level to build up again to over an 8 for her to cum. Sometimes she might be a 10 horny and when you make her orgasm it brings it down just a bit to a 9 which means that she can still orgasm again and then the level goes down to an 8 horny so she can orgasm again. This is what happens when a sissy is multiorgasmic and can orgasm multiple times in one session or day.

So does this mean that a sissy is never fully satisfied? Yes. Sissies in chastity are NEVER fully satisfied which is why they are INSATIABLE WHORES who CONSTANTLY CRAVE COCK AND WANT TO BE FUCKED 24/7. The sissy orgasm is very pleasurable and decreases her horniness level but it is never as strong or as fully satisfying as a Man's cock orgasm. This means that the sissy stays horny 24/7 and constantly wants cock and to be fucked. She can physically feel that itch inside her pussy around her gspot area that needs to be prodded by cock. This is why chastity sissies are such big whores and crave being fucked hard constantly. They are literally never fully satisfied no matter how much they are fucked and shortly after the orgasm she may drop from a 9 to a 7 but then the horniness level starts to build up again. This is a very powerful tool for controlling a sissy and why I believe all sissies should be kept in STRICT long term chastity and why they make great girlfriends, mistresses and fuck buddies. It's like having your own personal filthy prostitute for free. After about three weeks in chastity her horniness level never drops lower than a 6 or 7 and is usually above an 8 so she is usually fully orgasmic every day. There is also no real reason why a sissy can't live her life in PERMANENT, LIFE LONG CHASTITY and be an anally orgasmic whore for the rest of her days. There is no physical reason for her to be allowed to have erections or have a 'male' orgasm. I personally believe that a strict chastity should be enforced for at least two years on every sissy thinking of having any kind of permanent surgery which will affect her penis, such as castration to become a ladyboy or full SRS to give her a vagina. This way she will have learned to live her life without a cock and function sexually as a female in a relationship where she is fucked on a regular basis. This way she should know for sure if she needs to have a cock or not.

What happens if a sissy is kept locked but isn't fucked? This is rare as a sissy who is a nine or ten horny will normally find someone to fuck her. If she doesn't then she is constantly at a high pressure 10 and eventually as her horniness increases during her sleep (sex hormones are produced during sleep) then her horniness pressure eventually explodes and she wakes up in the middle of the night moaning and gasping and has an involuntary orgasm and gushes juices. If this happens and you are there then kiss her, suck and squeeze her tits and grope her and finger her to increase the strength of her orgasm and make her moan. If you finger her during this orgasm you will find that her pussy is soft and horny and wet and twitching from the orgasm and warm and moist. This is an ideal time to fuck her if you like her cunt juicy and soft and wet.

Another thing happens after orgasm too. It may initially be tighter and more uncomfortable for her to be fucked after she orgasms but if you keep going her pussy will not just open up but become super soft and cuntified and even more pleasurable for her to be fucked and she can be fucked indefinitely once this point is reached. This is why chastity sissies who are kept locked for long periods and have a high horniness pressure can be fucked by loads of men one after another in groups and gang bangs and they love it. They need a lot of dick.

Finally if a man feels that a sissy is getting close but doesn't want her to cum, all he needs to do is pause for a few seconds to stop the build up and change position to angle the cock away from the prostate and fuck slower. Often simply stopping for a few seconds will do the trick and stop the build up. If you want to make the sissy suffer a bit then bring her to the point of orgasm so she is on the brink, stop fucking and pulse your cock. This should make her start to leak juice and release a bit of horniness but without the pleasure of an orgasm. This is known as a 'ruined orgasm'.

What about toys? She can have an orgasm with toys but this is normally much more difficult as she will never be able to fuck herself with a dildo the same way a man can fuck. Remember that stimulation needs to be built up for the orgasm and pressure to be released and a lot of sissies simply can't orgasm from toys, or if they can they need a LONG time to do it. If you lock a vibrating butt plug up a sissy and leave it there it may eventually make her cum as the stimulation slowly builds up but this might take a few hours. The only exception to this is electro butt plugs which force her pussy muscles to contract and forces the pussy to pull the plug into her pussy with each contraction fuck itself involuntarily until she orgasms (this is known as ghost fucking). Bottom line is no toy is a substitute for a Man, and most sissies are totally dependent on a man and his cock fucking her for any pleasure. This means that yes, sissies are desperate for cock all the time.

Ultimately though a sissy doesn't need to orgasm to get pleasure. It feels good but she gets more pleasure out of being fucked and particularly being bred deep. While her horniness level is high the man's orgasm is amplified inside her pussy as his cock pulses and pumps her full of seed. This is why she prefers to be fucked hard and bareback bred deep and pumped full of sperm by a hung rough geezer than she does to have her own orgasm. Regular rough fucks and deep powerful breeding is what she loves the most. Her orgasms are just a bonus. The man's cock and fucking and orgasms are the main thing for her and she finds breeding much more satisfying than using condoms because the hormones in the sperm are absorbed by her juicy pussy and give her an actual high and satisfaction. If you breed her regular especially if you plug her to force her to absorb all your sperm then she will literally become addicted to your sperm giving her a 'high'. She actually gets depressed and craves your sperm when you don't fuck her, similar to a withdrawal. Your sperm is like an antidepressant that lifts her mood but will make her addicted to it and unhappy if you stop so she craves to be bred deep and pumped full of sperm constantly. She's a desperate cock sucking cum loving whore who needs constant breeding and with strict long term chastity her bum hole is totally cuntified and orgasmic and the only way she can orgasm is when a Man fucks her.

Personally I think this is a beautiful state of perpetual sexual arousal to be in.

I hope this has been useful for you.

Remember this is based on my own personal experience having been in a relationship as a chastity sissy. Other people may experience different things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Zzzzzzz zzzzzzzzz zzzzzzzzz zzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Longer than Lord of the Rings.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Got to ‘smash the fuck out of it’ and thought this isn’t for me...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And in the year 5002 the story was finally complete... Sorry OP I just couldn't read to the end. Glad your Gillette cock man was good though

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Zzzzzzz zzzzzzzzz zzzzzzzzz zzzzzzzz"

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London

Zoned out completely and this is my area of interest

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

If this is your dissertation you need a bibliography..

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes it’s a bit hard going reading wise, excuse the pun, but a very interesting well presented read, from me x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

I liked it.

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4

Remember boys flies spread disease... so keep yours closed

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

Leeds

Basically a prostate orgasm available to all on the nhs

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By *iliciousCouple  over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Well quite long and a bit repetitive but thank you for making the time and effort to put that out there.

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By *eepsouthCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth

Could you please run this past us one more time ... missed the first bit

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By *rsSBWoman  over a year ago

toy town


"I liked it. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

War & Peace was more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll have to get a cock cage lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Question!

Does anyone know if one of these would stop Jack humping the cushions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Swap the dick for a woman wearing a strap on and I’m interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Swap the dick for a woman wearing a strap on and I’m interested "

Yes this is definitely an option and is actually used by many sub straight men and cucks. I used to know a cuck couple where the husband was kept locked up long enough that he caved in and let the Bull start fucking him too and making him orgasm so the Bull became the lover for both the wife and the husband and fucked them both and made them orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes it’s a bit hard going reading wise, excuse the pun, but a very interesting well presented read, from me x"

And from me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Swap the dick for a woman wearing a strap on and I’m interested "

I've always found them too hard. I prefer the forgiving nature of the real thing.

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By *ydesubMan  over a year ago

glossop

a fantastic read. its long but goes into great detail and i found myslef reading it saying "yeah that happens" please write more.

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By *winkleFairyCouple  over a year ago

UK

If you could measure the pressure of horniness out of 10, with 10 at maximum horniness, then she can orgasm like a girl when the pressure of horniness inside her cunt has built up to over 8 out of 10. That horniness pressure is trapped inside their cunt until a Man comes along and fucks them to release that pressure as an orgasm deep inside their cunt - the man's fucking and stimulation causes the horniness pressure to explode into an orgasm deep inside her cunt and be released in waves throughout her body (the release in waves is why her cunt contracts and relaxes and grips your cock as she orgasms on your dick).

Erm... you know this is complete rubbish right?! It doesn’t work like that at all for biological females!!! “Horniness pressure trapped inside my cunt” - hillarious!!!

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By *ydesubMan  over a year ago

glossop

why so negative? its a story, her thoughts. if you dont agree just pass it by.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/10/18 16:27:11]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And then darth Vader died and the Death Star blew up

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS  over a year ago

Cliss

Love being in chastity x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Love being in chastity x"

Me too. Makes me feel happier and constantly aroused and sex is so much more pleasurable

Than you for the positive comments

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By *istressZoeTV/TS  over a year ago

cheshire

I think there are some relevant points made x although not at all biological cotton think the op does recognise that the sissy will remain horny when caged until release x

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By *harliebbwWoman  over a year ago

Birmingham

I enjoyed it

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS  over a year ago

somewhere

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By *ylonLexiTV/TS  over a year ago

Blackpool

Great post really interesting for those in the know

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS  over a year ago

Cliss

Xx

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