FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > How soon is too soon
How soon is too soon
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have had a couple of meets in one day sometimes. If opportunties arise close together then who is judging? There is only you judging what is acceptable to you and what isn't xxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"
What you do with your life is up to you. Do whatever you think is right. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"just worry it would be considered not good even though this is fab lol"
Hold your own standards, be true to them and don’t worry too much about it. As long as you are happy and you’re not hurting anyone, all is good. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"
This is what I wanna know.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?
This is what I wanna know.... "
The answer is simple. Its entirely up to you, and how comfortable you feel around it.
You can go as often as you like, play with as many as you like.
Or go and relax without play. Or only go once in a blue moon |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rReyMan
over a year ago
Fleet |
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"
Who is to say that your next meet hasn't just come from another meet. My only thing would be hygiene  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"
As long as there's enough time to get rid of your first meet and have a quick shower... then all is good.
Cal |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"just worry it would be considered not good even though this is fab lol"
As long as you are up front and dont leave people hanging it is acceptable. But a polite have a good night Im off to mingle and play is the grown up way to do it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *haunMan
over a year ago
Halton |
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"
--
No that it's any of our business, but you didn't indicate if they are social meets or otherwise.
As mentioned above, it's about what you feel comfortable with.
Sadly you may get the occasional person looking down on you being judgemental. 
As meeting / playing several times in an evening in a club with verifications is okay.
But meeting every single day makes you 'easy'
**Not that I think that of anyone.
Ultimately it's your life and rules on what makes you happy.
If someone doesn't want to meet you because you meet too much?
Socially or otherwise, then that's their choice.
What works for you doesn't work for someone else.
Just go out and enjoy yourself.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"
As soon as you can get it up again. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Whenever someone you like asks to meet and you want to.I've had months in between new people, and a couple of days back when I was younger and fitter.
It's your life, live it how you want to |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As long as you shower in between then it doesn't matter  "
I did that once. I'd arranged to meet someone new from here and then a buddy asked to see me in the same evening. I showered before I left new man and dropped in on my way home.
I wish I had that kind of energy still. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I find it hard to believe this is even a question.
This is a swingers site (clue is in the name).
Meet whoever you want,whenever you want,whenever you can.
It's your life,not anyone elses,someone else don't like that,well that's their problem.
You are here for you.
Anyone else gets rot join you that's their good fortune,anyone have a negative opinion on how you lead your personal life,well those people aren't worth knowing. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Whatever works for you OP, whatever works. Lots of positive advice here and your profile is open and honest.
Do what makes you happy and that’s all you need worry about.
Personally, I’ve gone from a meet to another and I make sure the people I’m seeing know that beforehand so they can say fine or no thanks. This Friday being a case in point 
From my Fab studies, 60% of the time, it works every time |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As long as you shower in between then it doesn't matter
I did that once. I'd arranged to meet someone new from here and then a buddy asked to see me in the same evening. I showered before I left new man and dropped in on my way home.
I wish I had that kind of energy still."
Same here |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"
What club is that?. We don't do that  . Whenever you like to. Do as one pleases. Lexi |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"
No one else needs to know what you do or who you meet, it is entirely up to you who you meet and when |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc
but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?
What club is that?. We don't do that . Whenever you like to. Do as one pleases. Lexi"
She didn't say Uig was a rule just that it was accepted that you could of you wanted to  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
