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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I find it so funny what people think will work when sending a message. You get the funny ones and the short to the point ones then there's the long winded life history ones.....all of which I spend time reading and responding to even if it's a polite no thanks. But sometimes you get a message which makes me wonder if it's a joke or do people actually think in there head that it's gonna work. Three messages in the space of 5 mins having never had any contact before..... "Do you want to pop over mine ?" ....."fancy meeting for a drink ?"......and my favourite " can you accept my friend invite so I can wank over your pics ?" now let me think you are a single male among many you can't be bothered to write a half decent message and you have no pics of your own .........think I might give myself some thinking time don't wAnt to make a snap decision and miss out on the meet of out lives.....

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

just in case anyone was wondering - the third one was from me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well ya didn't ask me!

pffft!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

How's your back today ?

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By *obbytupperMan  over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Well ya didn't ask me!

pffft! "

Well I've tried several times

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"How's your back today ? "

much better since I gave up attempting to suck my own cock thanks

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"How's your back today ?

much better since I gave up attempting to suck my own cock thanks "

wow youre fast becoming Paddy Mk 2 lol

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"How's your back today ?

much better since I gave up attempting to suck my own cock thanks

wow youre fast becoming Paddy Mk 2 lol"

who?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"How's your back today ?

much better since I gave up attempting to suck my own cock thanks

wow youre fast becoming Paddy Mk 2 lol

who?"

Raisealaff mk 2

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"How's your back today ?

much better since I gave up attempting to suck my own cock thanks

wow youre fast becoming Paddy Mk 2 lol

who?

Raisealaff mk 2"

FFS - I've been posting in here for nigh on 3 years and you say I'm like him ..... 'tother way round surely

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"How's your back today ?

much better since I gave up attempting to suck my own cock thanks

wow youre fast becoming Paddy Mk 2 lol

who?

Raisealaff mk 2

FFS - I've been posting in here for nigh on 3 years and you say I'm like him ..... 'tother way round surely"

haha. well just havent noticed your nature being the same as his til recently. I havent been posting as long as either of you. Ill shut up now...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How's your back today ?

much better since I gave up attempting to suck my own cock thanks

wow youre fast becoming Paddy Mk 2 lol

who?

Raisealaff mk 2

FFS - I've been posting in here for nigh on 3 years and you say I'm like him ..... 'tother way round surely

haha. well just havent noticed your nature being the same as his til recently. I havent been posting as long as either of you. Ill shut up now... "

No don't. It made ME laugh and you are right!

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"How's your back today ?

much better since I gave up attempting to suck my own cock thanks

wow youre fast becoming Paddy Mk 2 lol

who?

Raisealaff mk 2

FFS - I've been posting in here for nigh on 3 years and you say I'm like him ..... 'tother way round surely

haha. well just havent noticed your nature being the same as his til recently. I havent been posting as long as either of you. Ill shut up now... "

I can think of a way to make you shut up ..... and I can get cured at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

While I'm sorry that you're getting approached by idiots but you need to chill out.

For some single guys, writing messages is a learning curve. It's a hit and miss situation where on type of approach will work with one and not the other.

Single males do most of the legwork on this site. I only say that because no one really complains about couples, females or any other group, even though they can be just as rude and arrogant and let's be honest, why search when everyone comes to you?

So...How would you approach someone you'd like to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i wrote a nice message got a reply and started to chat and because im stuck home i got a very rude message in reply why do ppl send rude reply be polite women wont accept rude ness why should i as a male accept rude ness

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We defiantly would not say can u accept my invite so I can wank over your pics. I understand it's s learning curve but we are talking about full grown adults here not kids by the age of 3 we should have developed manners and common decentcy so it's a load of crap to use that as an excuse. Why should it be any different on a site that in real life ? Would you walk up to someone in a bar you never met and your first words be " coming to mine ?" or can I wip out me phone and take a few pics so I can go home and wank over them ?" I think not maybe as a walking adolescent hardon but not as a adult . And if you did do you think it would work ?

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By *oournsMan  over a year ago

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"While I'm sorry that you're getting approached by idiots but you need to chill out.

For some single guys, writing messages is a learning curve. It's a hit and miss situation where on type of approach will work with one and not the other.

Single males do most of the legwork on this site. I only say that because no one really complains about couples, females or any other group, even though they can be just as rude and arrogant and let's be honest, why search when everyone comes to you?

So...How would you approach someone you'd like to meet? "

indeed. Im not moaning but we do the donkey work here, we put our heads above the parapet to get knocked off 90 percent of the time, regardless of message.

If we dont like it we can leave, im not complaining about it, but is it really necessary to mock those who msg you, on a public forum. Im not one of those who sent the aforementioned msgs, and never send msgs like that, but i think its lousy behavior to reproduce private msgs.

Maybe those guys had tried the long msgs and got the same response and thought fuck it, try a new tack. Why dont you climb down from the moral high ground, we are all looking up your skirt, and block those who you find disagreeable and move on.

These threads arent news, we all know couples and single women get want to fuck msgs, its beginning to feel like the recipients are creating threads just so they can let people know they get them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

There is no moral high ground here and to be honest it's not to let people know I have them because I think all couples, single fems, and even single males must get them. But there is allways someone moaning about sending loads of messages and getting no replies or doing all the legwork and getting nowhere even the other day there was a thread from a male moaning about how he had sent loads of messages and got nowhere and it was all timewaster etc etc . But low and behold the same peson sent us a " fancy a good shag ?" message after we looked at his profile. How many meets do you expect to get with messages like that. And I know for every 10 lazy males or couples there are 20 or more who do put in the effort but dont

Moan if you don't get anywhere after putting in little effort. Also I would rather you didnt look up my skirt a havnt got any knickers on and havnt shaved this week .....:

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By *oournsMan  over a year ago

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"There is no moral high ground here and to be honest it's not to let people know I have them because I think all couples, single fems, and even single males must get them. But there is allways someone moaning about sending loads of messages and getting no replies or doing all the legwork and getting nowhere even the other day there was a thread from a male moaning about how he had sent loads of messages and got nowhere and it was all timewaster etc etc . But low and behold the same peson sent us a " fancy a good shag ?" message after we looked at his profile. How many meets do you expect to get with messages like that. And I know for every 10 lazy males or couples there are 20 or more who do put in the effort but dont

Moan if you don't get anywhere after putting in little effort. Also I would rather you didnt look up my skirt a havnt got any knickers on and havnt shaved this week .....:"

whats the reason in telling people so ......

Not shaven, for that reason im ouuuuut

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


" Also I would rather you didnt look up my skirt a havnt got any knickers on and havnt shaved this week .....:"

I knew there was something I liked about you

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