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How committed are you to meeting?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either."
Not even if it's cold? 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either."
Awww, I rather like the dick flopped over the knickers look.
It has a certain charm |
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either."
100% committed to meeting. I like to think my pics says this... |
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As much as i like to see a naked woman, theres a lot to be said for not seeing 'the goods' until you get to unwrap them in person- A well posed, considered shot in nice undies is just as good as naked...just make sure you remove the socks drying on the radiator or the kids toys from the background of the shot please  |
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I'm not sure how a naked picture of oneself is related to my commitment of whether I meet or not really ... I just don't do naked ... but I do meet,
To me a flower is only as attractive as it petals, pull the petals off and what are you left with ? ..my clothes are my petals .....if it make me un-meetable that's ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a start, I ain't meeting you naked. I prefer to keep my clothes on in public.
If I only had naked pics in my profile for all you know the only clothes in my wardrobe could be piss stained trousers and sweat stained shirts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You wouldn’t want to see naked profile pictures of us!! The underwear hides our cake belly’s.  "
You have great pics. And I totally empathise about cake bellies, but I mean the ‘lifted up my t shirt to show a nipple, that’ll do brigade.’
You went to some effort for yours. That the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Not even if it's cold?
C"
Nope. I have this running technique to create heat. Wanna try? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Today only 4/10 committed if honest and after being kicked about on the football pitch last night I would be a truly shit shag today if I am totally honest. "
You took all your clothes off! That’s pretty committed.. |
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Our commitment can wax and wane.
Waning at present after yet another guy cancelled fairly late on Saturday for an evening meet/social (asking to reschedule) then never replied when we did offer another evening.
Sometimes you just think 'it really ain't worth the effort' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good point about pictures, and some on here are amazing like magazine shoots. Problem is who do I get to come round and take a nice set of pictures?"
A nice mate you have a laugh with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Awww, I rather like the dick flopped over the knickers look.
It has a certain charm "
Lol. I must be missing it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The last thing you wanna see is a naked trannie ..believe me..  "
I should have clarified. It was the lack of effort that grates, rather than not being naked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
100% committed to meeting. I like to think my pics says this..."
Totally. Fabbed a few and I’ve got shoe envy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As much as i like to see a naked woman, theres a lot to be said for not seeing 'the goods' until you get to unwrap them in person- A well posed, considered shot in nice undies is just as good as naked...just make sure you remove the socks drying on the radiator or the kids toys from the background of the shot please "
Totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not sure how a naked picture of oneself is related to my commitment of whether I meet or not really ... I just don't do naked ... but I do meet,
To me a flower is only as attractive as it petals, pull the petals off and what are you left with ? ..my clothes are my petals .....if it make me un-meetable that's ok"
See earlier clarification. It’s not about naked, it’s about effort. |
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"You wouldn’t want to see naked profile pictures of us!! The underwear hides our cake belly’s.
You have great pics. And I totally empathise about cake bellies, but I mean the ‘lifted up my t shirt to show a nipple, that’ll do brigade.’
You went to some effort for yours. That the difference."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For a start, I ain't meeting you naked. I prefer to keep my clothes on in public.
If I only had naked pics in my profile for all you know the only clothes in my wardrobe could be piss stained trousers and sweat stained shirts."
Interesting point. I’d never considered using fab pics to screen for those who couldn’t wash their clothes.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bugger that! If my tootsies are chilly then the socks are staying on! 
But then I can’t suck them and put them somewhere warm.."
Oh good lord!... My feet are the least erogenous part of me! And I wouldn't dream of inflicting them on anyone 
Alright! You win... The socks come off, but no getting intimate with the toes! Deal?  |
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Posting up some kind of personal pic, clothed or anywhere leading up to full nudity on your profile, rather than stealing someone else's pics, or worse, having none at all, has got to show some kind of intention to meet surely? At the very least, it proves the person is real  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Posting up some kind of personal pic, clothed or anywhere leading up to full nudity on your profile, rather than stealing someone else's pics, or worse, having none at all, has got to show some kind of intention to meet surely? At the very least, it proves the person is real "
There's a real person behind every profile.
I find that no pics puts all the fuck n go/ wank types off.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bugger that! If my tootsies are chilly then the socks are staying on!
But then I can’t suck them and put them somewhere warm..
Oh good lord!... My feet are the least erogenous part of me! And I wouldn't dream of inflicting them on anyone
Alright! You win... The socks come off, but no getting intimate with the toes! Deal? "
Haha! Deal!
Yippee!  |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either."
Ours are mostly just underwear or topless. You know we aren't shy Miss Tigerlily |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Ours are mostly just underwear or topless. You know we aren't shy Miss Tigerlily "
I know how much effort you guys will go to as well, particularly to travel. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It's not just the pics, it's the profile, forum posts, messages etc - all of these combined are an indication of effort and commitment and I tend to look at the overall package rather than individual elements of it.
For example someone with just two or three pics that were snapshots (or in one case them in a brown bra ) wouldn't be enough to make me say no - especially if they were eloquent and engaging in messages, came across well on the forums etc.
Sometimes less is more intriguing.
That said a gallery of pics of a cock over a toilet bowl would be an instant indication of lack of effort, or understanding of the site and would get a no from me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very committed, but I still have to work around normal life."
I think a TV/TS person getting ready for a meet must require a fair amount of commitment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not just the pics, it's the profile, forum posts, messages etc - all of these combined are an indication of effort and commitment and I tend to look at the overall package rather than individual elements of it.
For example someone with just two or three pics that were snapshots (or in one case them in a brown bra ) wouldn't be enough to make me say no - especially if they were eloquent and engaging in messages, came across well on the forums etc.
Sometimes less is more intriguing.
That said a gallery of pics of a cock over a toilet bowl would be an instant indication of lack of effort, or understanding of the site and would get a no from me."
Chocolate can be a very sexy colour!
I think it’s rare for three snapshots of a jumper lifted up or trousers pulled to knee level with a soft cock lobbed over the top, match to an eloquent and engaging profile though.. |
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I think a TV/TS person getting ready for a meet must require a fair amount of commitment."
Although I live this 24/7 and have done so since the age of 14 it does still take a while for a special meet from here .. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Ours are mostly just underwear or topless. You know we aren't shy Miss Tigerlily
I know how much effort you guys will go to as well, particularly to travel."
Don't start that one again, someone will get upset |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a start, I ain't meeting you naked. I prefer to keep my clothes on in public.
If I only had naked pics in my profile for all you know the only clothes in my wardrobe could be piss stained trousers and sweat stained shirts.
Interesting point. I’d never considered using fab pics to screen for those who couldn’t wash their clothes. "
To clarify, I have neither  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It's not just the pics, it's the profile, forum posts, messages etc - all of these combined are an indication of effort and commitment and I tend to look at the overall package rather than individual elements of it.
For example someone with just two or three pics that were snapshots (or in one case them in a brown bra ) wouldn't be enough to make me say no - especially if they were eloquent and engaging in messages, came across well on the forums etc.
Sometimes less is more intriguing.
That said a gallery of pics of a cock over a toilet bowl would be an instant indication of lack of effort, or understanding of the site and would get a no from me.
Chocolate can be a very sexy colour!
I think it’s rare for three snapshots of a jumper lifted up or trousers pulled to knee level with a soft cock lobbed over the top, match to an eloquent and engaging profile though.."
It can indeed
And yes I agree but was coming at it more from the male perspective of the female equivalent - which would be a bra pic or hastily taken selfie in the office bathroom mirror |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either."
I don't think it indicates anything personally. Mr is never naked in his profile pics and nobody in using me has ever mentioned his lack of effort in the boidiour lol. Lexi |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm a lazy, spur of the moment fucker?
I'm not. I just don't really "do" photos. If I want to meet someone I do, the effort in my photos doesn't indicate the effort I'd put in with their genitalia. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Ours are mostly just underwear or topless. You know we aren't shy Miss Tigerlily
I know how much effort you guys will go to as well, particularly to travel.
Don't start that one again, someone will get upset "
Oh sorry! I missed that debate clearly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
I don't think it indicates anything personally. Mr is never naked in his profile pics and nobody in using me has ever mentioned his lack of effort in the boidiour lol. Lexi"
I tried to clarify. It’s not the nakedness or lack of it, more the half-arsed, I can only be bothered to pull my keks down to my knees pics. Your pics required substantially more effort than that. They are hot! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm a lazy, spur of the moment fucker?
I'm not. I just don't really "do" photos. If I want to meet someone I do, the effort in my photos doesn't indicate the effort I'd put in with their genitalia."
Haha! Fair enough. I think your contribution to the forums gives a broader context to your pics tho.. |
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I’m not a photographer and definitely don’t have great pics, but I think they cover the basics. They possibly affect the type of people interested but aren’t an indication of my level of commitment to a meet. They’re just not very good pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've always worn stockings and suspender outfits with heels, for meets I've had off fab.
I feel that's what is expected and I'm more than happy to fulfil that role. |
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I find it slightly bizarre that people would arrange to meet and then not bother...
I mean sure - I get extenuating circumstances, kids are ill or whatever - that can't be helped, but by the sounds of it it's so common that it can't all be down to that.
Is it some people just like the thrill of the chase and then lose interest?
Weird imo |
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"I've always worn stockings and suspender outfits with heels, for meets I've had off fab.
I feel that's what is expected and I'm more than happy to fulfil that role. "
And going by your pics, you wear them well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it slightly bizarre that people would arrange to meet and then not bother...
I mean sure - I get extenuating circumstances, kids are ill or whatever - that can't be helped, but by the sounds of it it's so common that it can't all be down to that.
Is it some people just like the thrill of the chase and then lose interest?
Weird imo "
I think it's nerves too. I used to get so nervous. Then again I am a genuine single woman going to meet a fellow fab perv alone . I've almost had my nerves get the better of me. Still turned up though. Good job I do daytime socials first. I value my safety. |
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"I'm not sure how a naked picture of oneself is related to my commitment of whether I meet or not really ... I just don't do naked ... but I do meet,
See earlier clarification. It’s not about naked, it’s about effort."
okies gotcha... crossed wires and all that |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either."
If you want full naked cock pics just ask I can fill your inbox then we can discuss what happens in the bedroom and you'll block me...but personally I've tried to stay away from cock pics as much as, unless someone asks then I'll oblige. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either."
You know the answer to that is that they have microseconds to whip their cock out and take a picture before their partner comes looking for them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't see why we have to parade our naked (or semi-naked) bodies on here, to be serious about meeting. I barely show anything but I meet for sex, and put a lot of effort into sex.
I also don't mind if men leave their socks on, as I don't really like feet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Awww, I rather like the dick flopped over the knickers look.
It has a certain charm "
done whilst boiling the kettle for a pot noodle tea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
You know the answer to that is that they have microseconds to whip their cock out and take a picture before their partner comes looking for them..."
I don't have a cock, or a partner. |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not a photographer and definitely don’t have great pics, but I think they cover the basics. They possibly affect the type of people interested but aren’t an indication of my level of commitment to a meet. They’re just not very good pictures "
Exactly, if my pics entice someone to meet I'm showing up, it's difficult enough for men on here without then getting a rep for not showing. |
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"I find it slightly bizarre that people would arrange to meet and then not bother...
I mean sure - I get extenuating circumstances, kids are ill or whatever - that can't be helped, but by the sounds of it it's so common that it can't all be down to that.
Is it some people just like the thrill of the chase and then lose interest?
Weird imo
I think it's nerves too. I used to get so nervous. Then again I am a genuine single woman going to meet a fellow fab perv alone . I've almost had my nerves get the better of me. Still turned up though. Good job I do daytime socials first. I value my safety."
That I get...can't be too careful and all that.
I guess I'm thinking of it from my own (blokish) perspective |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
You know the answer to that is that they have microseconds to whip their cock out and take a picture before their partner comes looking for them...
I don't have a cock, or a partner."
you also don't have pictures of you laid back on a bed with your jeans halfway down and your socks on...unless they're in your friends only... |
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Awww, I rather like the dick flopped over the knickers look.
It has a certain charm "
My personal fave is the dick hovering above the toilet pan with just the remnants of a brown trout visible to the more observant eye. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not sure how a naked picture of oneself is related to my commitment of whether I meet or not really ... I just don't do naked ... but I do meet,
See earlier clarification. It’s not about naked, it’s about effort.
okies gotcha... crossed wires and all that "
And your wardrobe is stupendous. Sorry should have said that before. |
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Awww, I rather like the dick flopped over the knickers look.
It has a certain charm
done whilst boiling the kettle for a pot noodle tea. "
Dinner and fab profile done all in 5 minutes. Text reads ‘Will fill in later’.
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort
you’ll put into sex?
I do naked, love it, when asked you get a full frontal with face, I'm not hiding like most
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either."
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"So my question is this, and it’s not only aimed at men.
If you can’t actually be bothered to fully take your clothes off for profile pics, preferring the hobbled round the kness/strangled at the neck look, what does that indicate about the effort you’ll put into sex?
P.S. I don’t have sex with people who wear socks in bed either.
Awww, I rather like the dick flopped over the knickers look.
It has a certain charm
My personal fave is the dick hovering above the toilet pan with just the remnants of a brown trout visible to the more observant eye."
Each to their own I guess, and enjoy the rush of pics to your inbox |
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